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I wanna leave
I really don't know what to do anymore. This year started out a little bad at school, but I started pulling up my grades and doing better and I'm almost done making up the classes I failed last year and I'm doing this mostly because my mom wants me to. (No, I'm not doing this for myself, otherwise, I wouldn't be doing it at all.)
My mom only nods and says 'good job'. Nothing much else. If she's not off on her own, she's screaming at me, which doesn't help.
And (Yes, I posted something a while ago about a doctor's appointment) now my arms are going numb, from the wrist to the elbow. I know writing all day every day for the past 5 years has something to do with it, but I think the stress is adding to it. My school friends aren't helping at all either and in fact making it worse.
I really don't know what to do and I've been thinking some things that I really don't want to think about. I really need help, please!
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My love, you may be depressed, though, I have no real way of knowing seeing as my only criteria for this diagnosis is your question and cry for help. And it seems your home life certainly isn't helping. Having gone through severe depression myself, and still struggling with the illness, I understand how difficult it might be to live day to day, even just wake up in the morning. You may want to consider seeing a therapist and being evaluated by a psychologist. As scary as it may seem, it's nothing but helpful. These are people who can do nothing but help you deal with your problems. As for the pain in your arms it may be carpal tunnel? Though, again, I have no real way of knowing if this is the case. I realize on countless occasions leaving (in whichever way you mean) would seem to be the easiest and simplest solution, but it is only a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Realize that leaving is permanent, and you can never change what you've done after you leave. You seem like a wonderful person, with a good heart, and you're doing the right thing by seeking help. But, I don't think an advice column is going to cut it, talk to your mother or, if you feel uncomfortable talking to her about it, a close relative, or your doctor about seeing a therapist. My best wishes dear, and everyone here is always ready and willing to help you at anytime. Remember you are never alone, and always have friends to help you somewhere. <3
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You can make it through this. At least you are doing this for your mom but you should also do this for yourself. I'm pretty sure you know this, but in the long run it will be soo much better because you tried. Your mom could just be looking out for you because she knows it is just gonna get harder the older you get. Hang in there and focus on your future. Just because your mom says good job doesn't mean she doesn't care. My parents don't say anything to me when I do good, but if I do bad, I'm in soo much trouble. You'll be ok. I really don't know what to say about your arms but maybe try and find some way to relieve that stress. Find some ways to relax. Good luck!
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Think of this. You have to do your school work for your self before you do it for someone else. It is impossible now a days to find a job. Its even hard with just a high school diploma. School sucks yes I know but you have to give it a shot. I was 15 when I had a baby. I wanted to give up on high school so bad. But I stuck with it I even graduated early. Its hard but you can do it. I know I dont know you but i believe in you and I believe you can do it.
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Well , I am sorry to hear that , but hey whatever bad happens , something good will happen , and you will get your fair share of good things that will happen , since you have been dealing with a lot of bad things in your life as I can see , and I am so sorry to hear that. All this is happening because you have to get stronger , and you are by going back to school and going to school even though your failecd , and your mom , well I know that would suck , what about your dad? I think your mom is just busy and well you should give her some more space and she will come to you , and I am sorry about your situation with your arms , well I hope your arms get better , you just need to pray to God , and trust me he will listen to your needs and you will recieve. And your friends? well if your friends are not helping , you sure they are your friends? Friends make things better , and are there to support you , so I think you should go out and find some new ones , and you can either do councelling or you could always go and think about positive stuff , but I know that would really not work with the situation you are going through. I think you should focus on , getting your life ready to go and be able to set yourself up for the good things to come. You need to let yourself accept the facts and as you accept it , it will get better.
Good luck girl : )
- You are blessed
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That's a very tough situation to be in; you must be a very strong and caring person to do that for your mom. I think the hardest time I ever had with my mom (and we've had some HUGE yelling matches) was during school. It's a very trying time, isn't it? But you know, troubles like that don't leave when you leave school - I can say from personal experience that they often grow. The best advice I can offer is, give yourself the greatest opportunity possible to RISE ABOVE those problems. Finishing your education really CAN set you up for greater success, and you know better than anyone how much you deserve that!
As for those "things" you're thinking about, all I can say is that you seem like an incredible individual, capable of great amounts of patience and compassion - the world needs more people like that to lead and stand up as an example to others. I absolutely wish you the best! I know you'll find a way to overcome these things! You will certainly be in my thoughts
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