ask sleepiesheep



read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators



im a girl, im 18 and in a commited relationship. Im online frequently, on my home computer. Go ahead and ask me questions if you need advice im here for you. im always here to help.
E-mail: gummibear1993@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Canada
Occupation: student
Age: 18
Yahoo: x0xkissinloverx0x
MSN: gummibear1993@hotmail.com
Member Since: November 7, 2005
Answers: 82
Last Update: February 20, 2010
Visitors: 6126

Main Categories:
Friendship
Work/School Relationships
Families
View All

Favorite Columnists
xcassielynnx
angelfire2708
I need some tips on kissing .. like things to srpuce it up, the whole lip biting/sucking thing is getting played out now. Anything else that would be more exciting?! (link)
well when me and my bf kiss we are always very close together and he puts his arms around my back or on my butt and i put my arms around his neck we have been doing this for months and we arent even close to stopping. hope this helped.
**sleepiesheep**


my boyfriends birthday is coming up on the 25th..he's turning 18! I need some good ideas of what to get him! (link)
well you could cook a home made meal and watch a movie at your house or get him his favourite c-d (if he doesnt have it) or even just a special picnic would make a great gift! hope this helped.
**sleepiesheep**


My sister is really depressed lately, and I'm really scared for her. She is pretty okay around me, but everyone else, (even our own mother and best friend) she won't crack a smile!!! I think it might be a 12 year old thing, but I'm a happy person who never really gets like that. I usually understand things, but I don't understand her! Tell me what to do.
Aunt M. (link)
well ask her how shes feeling while you are alone i know that im 13 and when i was 12 i didnt smile or laugh til i was 13 so this is usual just try talking to her it will halp to talk about it it could just school boys or something serious. hope this help.
**sleepiesheep**


I am MADLY in love with this guy that could, well, basically care less about me. I told him i liked him and we have talked since then but he hasnt taken any moves forward. He is EVERYTHING i am NOT...he cusses ALL the TIME, is loud, rude and is a BIT too physical...(he plays football so i give him a bit of a break)...but when we are together in front of my friends or his friends he puts his arm around me and talks like nothin is wrong...I REALLY like this guy....I would DO almost ANYTHING for him....what im wonderin is..Is he worth it......or should I move on? Ive cried myslef to sleep over this guy...so he means a lot to me....I RATE HIGH FOR GOOD ADVICE!!
~*~maddie~*~ (link)
hey maddie if a guy puts his arm around you it usually means he likes you and i think you should think about a different guy if this guy swears, is loud, rude and a bit too physical then maybe this is showing you that hes not right for you and its normal to cry over a guy i know iv cried over my bf a lot and even before we were together so if you think he is for you talk to him and ask him how he feels about you it will help you decide if hes for you. hope this help.
**sleepiesheep**


Is it ok for christans to masterbate? I want to know befor I start. Thanks. (link)
i think/believe it is ok for christans to masterbate so go ahead. hope this helped.
**sleepiesheep**


okay this is kinda stupid but o well,
i BEHOND like this guy a LOT o-m-g u do not even know! Well... the thing is that i kinda of met him over the internet. But technically i did not because one of my friends has been firends with him for forever! and my best frend went to a camp with him,
well I do not know what to do? he asked for my number and he said he put it on his hand, but i am really scared that I am going to get hurt if he doesnt like me. Well i have not really met him in person ( you mite think that is crazy) but its not, I might have seen him before though. He always wants to call me but I am soo confused soo PLEASE i am begging you!! H-E-L-P!!

p.s. I kind of told him I like him because we have been talking for about 4 months now but is it creepy that i do???????? (link)
its ok for you to like him. its nothing to be worried about if he doesnt like you all you can do is try once you know you tried you will feel better about it. hope this helped.
**sleepiesheep**


Today at school, during lunch, i got bored.
we guys were sitting on the bench outside and they dared me to walk up to a guy and slap him for no reason at all. Being bored, i did it and kinda slapped him harder than I intended. I am not usually a violent or mean person but that was pretty mean. It turns out he is one of those sensitive guys. ( not sensitve as in gay, more like as in easy to fell upset and has plenty of emotions.)Most guys just laugh when you do crap like that, but he almost started crying. I felt bad, and went to appologize to him but he didn't quite accept my appologies. He was saying "forget it" but he still looked all emotional.
I feel really guilty about it now and i want to know how i can apologize to him. (link)
maybe talk to him and tell him why you did it and that you didnt mean to hurt him of get him upset thats all i can think of sry. hope this helped.
**sleepiesheep**


ok so im going to be going to the nintendo fusion tour in a week and i need to know some things. what are some good types of clothes to wear? how dangerous is crowd surfing? whats the best way to get to the front? and how dangerous are raves? (link)
wear just your normal clothes. is can be dangerous. pushing your way to the front from the side then across to the center. raves can be very dangerous if they get out of hand.


okay well i like this guy and i have liked him since last year.. well He came up to me ,because i made hima picture last year and he came up to me today and he was like " I still have that picture you gave me and then he showed me and then we just talked about stuff... do you think he likes me and if i asked him out if he would say yes???? please answer this question nicley and i will give you a 5 Because i need the help!!! with this

love Brittany (link)
hey ummm...i think he likes you and you should try flirting then you will be able to be positive that he likes you if he starts flirting back he likes you! if you wanna take a chance then go for it. remember even tho you dont know every girl in the world doesnt mean we dont have a bond we all go through this and deal with it diffrently we have Girl Power! hope this helped.
**sleepiesheep**


Okay heres the deal I have a Motorola V262 and the service (such as cingular appalachian wireless nokia) is appalachian wireless and I cant find any ringtones for my cellphone is there another way to write appalachian wireless such as allel, attel, at&t, please help me srry so long!!!!!!!!! FAST! (link)
you should proberly call the service and ask where to get them. hope this helped.
**sleepiesheep**


Where would I find a mounting kit for a PS2 slim for my car in the US??? All the sites I go to that have mounting kits will not ship to the US! Please somebody help me! (link)
there is no site that will. hope this helped.
**sleepiesheep**


I'm 17 years old and I weigh under 100 pounds. I don't have an eating disorder or anything like that. In fact I eat a lot, and I'm pretty healthy. I don't like feeling so skinny though and I want to know if anyone has the same problem and if you have any suggestions for me to gain some weight? I've always been so small and weighed so little and seriously, if I got to even just 100 pounds I would be so happy. Smallness is kind of genetic in my family but I want to gain! Help please. (link)
hey umm...im 13 and i weigh like 55 im really healthy and i eat as much as i can too. how i gain weight is i eat the most fattening food i can and i sit on my computer as much as i can only to get up to get more food, go to the washroom or other things. i hope this helped you.
**sleepiesheep**


Ever since i met my friend Sean* he has always been suicidal. At least twice a month he would say he wanted to kill himself, yet it would never happen. We'd always see him the next day. He was over emotional, the most over emotional guy I'd ever met.
We'd get in a fight once a week about something stupid, he'd insult his friends all the time but if you were to insult him he'd get this look on his face like he was going to hit you really hard.
We got in a big fight and i turned him into the guidance office at my school for planing to commit suicide to get him back for the fight and what he did to me. He knew it was me who told and went off on me for being a bad person. I didn't know what to say to him anymore, every reason i could think of why he shouldn't kill himself he had something to contradict it, he was hard headed and wouldnt listen to me easy. I dont know if you have ever had anyone tell you that they are going to commit suicide over and over again and put the stress on you to talk them out of it, but it is more stressful than anything i've ever experienced. And going through that once a month wasn't helping my already stressful life, now that you have the story, i'd like to ask you if you have any advice as to what to say to him to make him change his mind and want to live his life. I mean there are so many kids who have cancer, or they are disabled who would do anything to be a normal kid like him, yet he just wants to throw it all away. Guidance has no advice on what to say and either does my therapist. What can be done to prevent this?
Thanks if you can help!


*names have been changed (link)
well first of all you are not a bad person to tell the office on him it was a good thing cuz one time he could have actually committed suicide. and for the fight give it some time he will talk to the guidance person and he will calm down and relize you did it for him, for his safty and well being. please think about what iv suggested because suicidal is a very serious problem and i just about lost my life from it. hope this helped.
**sleepiesheep**


so i lke this kid and a lot of people told me he liked me too cause it just seemed it ..but oh boy not the way hes been acting..last time we hung out was a week ago and im almost 99.9% postive he likes my friend..erg it makes me so mad..and its so aggrating cause he knows i like him and contintues to flirt with her like we were all sitting down and well say hes M and his friend his j and my friends c

it went : me c j m
but than j got up and he moved over to sit next to her and i dont know it just seems like he likes her and i dont know i cant explain it but it does!!

now so to the point am i being paranoid or is this true ? and what do i do..il se him tomorrow

and sorry if its long i type a lot when im angry but ill rate high for good answers!!! (link)
hye umm...try talking to him and your friend. i know that i found out the guy i like liked my best friend then i talked to her and she told me to tell him that she doesnt like him (it was on the phone and she was leaving for vacation so i would see him the next day and she wouldnt) so i told him she didnt like him then he said he didnt want to waste his time on someone who didnt like him and the next day he asked me out! so try to talk to them it could happen like this to you too. hope this helped.
**sleepiesheep**


ok I have a problem its not a major problem but still...I have this friend shes like a sister to me i love her to death i mean we grew up together she comes over my house all the time and everything...well she came over all this past weekend and today at school me and her and all of our friends went to eat lunch and when i got through eating my taco she was done eating everything but some grapes so i asked her for one and she gave me a smooshed one but i still ate it and i asked nicely for one more because everytime i have something she wantz i give it to her but she put another smooshed up one on her fork and dropped it in my left over food which was sick so i didnt eat it and i said well that was your fault so please give me one more and she was like NO i dont have anymore and she has like 10 on her plate and then i asked for this other LITTLE one that she had and she didnt answer me or anything and then turned around and ate it and with an attitude was like oh you wanted that didnt you and i was like yea i kinda did and she was like 2 bad so i got up and walked out because i could tell she was mad at me so me and my other friend walked out and she started talkin about me to our other friend and we havent talked or anything i kno shes mad at me but why over a grape thats stupid!! What should i do?
thanx (link)
well she could have heard a rumor that you didnt like her or called her something bad. rumors are rumors most arent true. try to talk to her it might help ask her if shes mad or upset about something is she is ask her why try to get to the bottom of this. if she walks away then let her dont follow her or chase her down just do it in little doses if it would be easier on you and her. hope this helped.
**sleepiesheep**


What does "finally g1" mean?? (link)
it meand "good one"
**sleepiesheep**


well my ex boyfriend is always sitting next to this girl Kaitlin at lunch... and it really makes me mad! im so jealous that hes like basically in "love" with her when i cant get him to go back out with me! i guess im trying to say... how do i get him to like me again..? DONT say, talk to him or that kinda crap! im trying to win him over! ((will rate 5's)) (link)
well it depends what kind of school your in and if it has a dress code but you could try wearing a really nice pair of jeans and a t-shirt with a sweeter than do your hair up in a new style. im not quite sure have you tried asking him out again? but talking to him would help the matter thats what i did and hes my bf again! hope i helped.
**sleepiesheep**


I need some help on picking something out for my boyfriend for christmas... We havent been going out long but i really like him. I want to show him so I want to buy him something that he'll really like. If guys have ideas for me for my boyfriend... please let me know! THANKS :) (link)
hey i asked my bf and he said maybe a home cooked meal and a movie or his favourite c-d or even just pack a home lunch and go for a pinic somewhere (depends if you have snow). i hope i helped you.
**sleepiesheep**


alright wellll theres this guyy who ive kind of liked for a while and its been a while alright well it isnt like im in like 5th grade and have a crush on him but since like the end of august ive had a thing for thing i guess and throughout the year its been like maybe he'll like kind of fade away for a while, but like whenever im with another guy or like getting on another guy or whatever all i can think about is him and like its weird because its like i always want the one thing i cant havee sort ahhaa but idk what to do like im just sorta trying to find another guy or whatever but idk if i should just move onnn or i dont know what to do and like ya:-( i jsut nnnnnnneeeeeeed help please! and hes older than me and i cant stop thinking about him whenever i hear a song i think aboutt himm (link)
well age doesnt matter because im 13 and my bf is 15 so thats so. i think maybe you should talk to him. if you become friends you will find more about him and if it turns out you dont like him or hes not the best you know no hurt feelings cuz you will know that you tried and werent meant for eachother. its usual for me to think about my bf like that we also went out a year ago but it ended after about 2 months and now we are back together! so go ahead girl. you can do it we have Girl Power! hope i helped
**sleepiesheep**


Hey I just had a smoke for the first time and like I smoked the entire thing (inhaling it) and I was fine but with the last two puffs, I felt it go down and then I was like light-headed for a bit.
I'm never going to do it again but is the light-headedness normal and how come it only happened at the last two hits? (link)
ummm.. i actually have smoked before and i did not enjoy it and i also lost my friends and bf over it til i quit. i believe the only reason it happend on the last two puffs was because those were the two that got furthest into your lungs and it was the ones that are most likely to make you smoke again. and yes the light headness is normal i got it everytime i had a smoke. but please never smoke it ruined my life and i refuse to let it again. hope this helped.




read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
humorist-workshop

eXTReMe Tracker