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helllloooooooooo!! i got bored one day and my friend had told me about this site so i thought i should sign up!! so here i am full to bursting with advice for stuff!

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i like this guy, i dont want to but i do. i say im over him to my friends and i act like i dont care, but underneath it all, i still have feelings for him. we have a history, i guess you can say we liked eachother, but then things got screwed up and he kissed some random girl when he was drunk. that really hurt me but of course i forgived him and i guess we were just friends since that point.. but now he met another girl, a really pretty nice girl, and of course im jealus i want him to stil like me again but i know that will never happen. recently we havent been talking as much, over this stupid hurricane it sorta put a damper in our friendship, i already lost him as a romantic figure, now i guess i just want him as a friend if thats all i can have, but i want to get over him. i dont know what i should do.

I know exactly how you feel. Except evacuating from hurricane Rita helped me. The guy that I like is my bro's gf's younger bro. We went out for a few days(I liked him for a couple months before he asked) but he broke up cause he found out my mom didn't want me going out with him yet. Since then he hasn't talked to me as much. The way he talks to my best friend though makes me real jealous too. I just want him as a friend too. What I suggest you do is do your best not to think about him and try to find someone else. It might take awhile but things'll get better. If you wanna talk, just email or instant message me, I'm willing to support if you need it.

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I am asthmatic and today at the doctors had to take a peak flow meter (lung capacity) test. It came out really low every time I tried, at around 270, whereas for my height and weight it should be 530 (and not much less being asthmatic). Does anyone know why this would be so low? I do have a viral infection a bit like a very bad cold at the moment but the doctor didn't think it would have much sway over the results, and besides, I can never run very far without my lungs hurting or getting wheezy. Is there any way I can improve my lung capacity?
I have an appointment in the asthma clinic soon but I'm just checking on here incase there is something I forget to ask there :)

I'm not asthmatic, but I'm in band and choir so I had to increase my lung capacity too. What you could try is swimming or singing. Oh, I learned this in choir, take 3 short breaths and then one big breath, blow out slowly and see how long you before you run out of breath.

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I am asthmatic (not excessively so but I can't run for a long, long time) but I want to excersize. I already walk to school. Do you know of any other low-impact (and hopefully fun!) excersizes I can do?

You should really try yoga, it's good excersize and it increases flexability. I would also recomend horseback riding, it's really fun. Hmmmm anything else...yes, swimming. Don't forget to bring your inhaler.

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Ok this could be long! I am in 8th grade and last year there was a kid in my class. EvEryone made fun of him and he was bipolar and had some mental problems. Well, yesterday 11/3. He attempted suicude for the second time. He jumped from the bak of a moving school bus and he is now in acoma. He broke his arm and probably his bak and neck too. He isn't dead though. ThEre was BLooD everywhere. The first time he tried to stab himself with scissors. I feel really bad because I was one to make fun of him. How can i make myself not feel so bad? ALl my freinds say im different since but im really scared for the kid. He seems like he could be nice. Plese help will rate. _-HeArtbreaker-__

Wow, that's so sad, at my school for the past two days we've had a heater that broke, a bomb threat, and another threat, but never an attempted suicide. If you feel really bad about making fun of him, then you should go to the hospital(if you can) and maybe just talk to his parents. It might make them feel better to know that someone cares about thier son, I know that would make me feel better if I was in his parents' situation.

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ok ive been having a major problem for the past month or so over these two guys. i have been with one of them for 2 years and we broke up the week school started. i just recently met the other guy like 2 months ago. i still love the guy i dated for 2 years but i also like the one i just recently met. they both found out that i like them. it has caused some problems. i really dont know what to do. i dont want to lose either one of them and i definately dont want to make a decision now. i really dont know what to do.

That's exactly what my friend's going through. What I would do is if you're looking for a boyfriend, to go with the one who spends the most time with you and really cares about you. But if you don't want to decide so soon, which I don't blame you if you don't I totally understand, then if one of them asks you out you should tell him that you dont want to decide now or you're not looking for a bf right now.

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do you have any ideas for cheap board games for my little brothers and sisters? and where to get them? we like playing board games...but we dont have that many. we would like to get some of the classics like Monopoly or checkers, or some of the Scene it or Cranium games. do you know where we could go to get those games cheap? thanx for your advice! i will rate 5! -Coco

I love playing Life, mostly cause I always win.;P You should try Wal-Mart or a dollar store. Toys R Us also has a lot of games and stuff. That's all that I can think of right now. Good luck finding something.

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my sister and mom wont stop fighting. and my mom is saying my sister is going to bootcamp. should i fell happy? cuz i am, b/c i get her room. it is so much bigger. help plz.

You shouldn't feel happy unless your sis is really mean to you! But if she's nice to you and you're only happy that she's leaving because you get her room, then you should not feel happy. But, since I don't know you or your sister, I can't really say.

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Ok..i think im realy bad w/ guys. It just seems like i never get a guy nemore...or no guys like me this year. Im not ugly, i think im pretty attractive..wat do i need to do to get guys to notice me more? (dont give me that BE YOURSELF crap)

Okay, if you want some guys to notice you, then start flirting to whom ever you like. What I did was become friends with the guys that I liked so we were pretty close. Then you can keep the friendship and start a friendship with another guy. Trust me, this'll get a lot of guys to notice you.

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i've tried many products and used the coldest of water but my hair is ALWAYS FRIZZY. it's very thick and curly and i don't want to cut it..how can i make it look healhty and smooth but GET RID OF THE FRIZZ! will rate high!!

My hair is frizzy and it's so annoying. What I tried was washing regularly and letting it air dry. Then I tried straightening it, and it was smooth and fizz free.

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I have a column on advicenators and I was wondering if I should put a picture of myself on my column. Its a really pretty picture, but I have also heard of stalkers like looking at your picture and finding out your info and kidnapping you. should I put my pic on or not? will rate 5 for good advice! thanx!

I think you should put a pic of you on your column. As long as you dont put any personal info that could help people find you and kidnap you. Besides if they were going to hold you for ransom how are they to know that you're not poor?
Your pic is pretty, put it on your column. It would be better than my funny llama pic. lol.

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i really wanna lose some weight cuz i dunno i want 2 hehe but i dont really have alot of time please help me....maybe some diet type tips or some kind of workout please im desparate

luv fatso lmao

What I'm doing is that I do 60 crunches and 20 pushups 5 nights a week. Within about a week, my stomach was already looking flatter and my arms were stronger.

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a person that i know "layla" used to pick on me a lot, then we made up and became friends...all my other friends are saying that i shouldn't be friends with layla because she might hurt me again. should i give layla a second chance or go with what my friends say?
will rate good if you can help,
-dianne

I can see both sides as being true. Your friends are worried about you and they don't want you to get hurt again. I think you should give her another chance since she did apologized to you. But if she hurts you again, you shouldn't keep it to yourself tell someone that you can trust with anything. If she still picks on you then you shouldn't be friends with her anymore because odds are that things will just get worse.

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hi,
i already have a dog, and two cats...but I would like to get a frog...i already have a tank but i dont know what kind of frog i should get and all the things i need to buy...i will rate good if u can help!!!!-@nisha

When I was little, I would catch tadpoles and raise them until they were completley grown. I think they were tree frogs. You should go to your local pet store and ask what they think is the best type.

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I want to decorate my room in a jungal theme, but I'm not sure what to do. What kind of things should I use and where would I be able to get them?

Well, you could get a lamp or two and have animal print shade or do the same with some curtaians. Another thing that you could do is get some pics or posters of a jungal or jungal animals. But if you wanted to go all out, you could paint your room to look like a jungal with the trees and some tall grass or if you're able to paint like a tiger looking out of the grass.

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My rabbit is shedding his fur and it looks horrible. Is there something that I can do to help with it?

That happened to my rabbit. You just need to keep brushing it everyday. Also giving them a bath helps too.

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