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i like my stepbrother A LOT 13/f he is 14 but what do i do"??? (link)
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the girl under me asked you more questions then you asked her ...eww hes your brother thats weird get over him ....do not like him this will not go well soonnner or later youll be in jerry spinger ok ...noone wants that only dumb people do that ...go likesomeone else this will not work out..i dont go on this site to tell you want you want to hear im telling you the truth DO NOT TELL HIM!!! listen to me its for you and your new familys own good just dont go for him look for someone else there are plenty out there
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Heyy. Before I start i'm 15/f.
Okay well my best friend is really pretty and alotta guys like her. I don't know why but I feel really jealous when guys like her. She can get any guy she wants and what really sucks is the one person I like, likes her and she doesn't even care. It's annoying though because all these guys will talk to me, but not about me, it's always about my best friend because they like her. This gets me extremely mad because I feel like some people use me to get to her. Like it's really crazy how many guys like her. Theres an "in" crowd at my school and we're not exactly in that, but were not geeks, we're just normal like we're friends with everyone but more guys like my best friend then they like the girls in the "in" crowd... what should I do to help me ignore this? I'm a little jealous but I could never admitt that. Thanks ! (link)
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awwww...i know exactly how you feel!!!...im more of a tomboy ok i love to play sports run around and i barely ever like a dude...i have a sister which is real girlie and really pretty alot of guys like her...so when i finally liked someone they liked her and i never do like anyone so it was hard for me to cope..im always hearing how perfect she is by friends and other people worst of all my mother bragging about how beautiful and perfect she is....but i relized she had the looks but i had the personality i turned out to have more friends to be the most like the funniest and the coolest to hang around witth and the funest...your friend might be pretty but you probably have a better personality...i dont know how it feels to get jelous because i never do ...but i think it might hurt ...never look at the people above you but the people under you..if this guy you like likes her i suggest you get him and pull up some charm...spend time with him show him your a great person
to attract a guy u have to be
1:funny 2:never talk about yourself way to much
3:dont always be on his case or in his face 4:let him have space 5:talk about things hes intrested in ...most importantly!!! 6:BE YOURSELF!! guys hate people who act like someone else belive me i know alot about guys i have more guy friends then girls...i have 11 guy BEST FRIENDS and other guy friend and a brother whos also my best friend i know how they think....i know i might be 14 but belive me i know alot...your friend might be pretty but i know u are too....just be all that you could be..in this world nothings enough...good luck tell me if i helped
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15, almost 16, female.
Little brother is 12 almost13.
we fight all the time. I try so hard to be nice. and most of the time I am nice. I am always sharing, and even if I getsomething new, I always share it, and I am tollerent of our different taste in music. He likes heavy rap and metal, and those are the two I despise. Although I enjoy love songs, they are not my favorite, he despises them tho.
I want to be a good big sister. I want him to come to me when he has a girlfriend, or when he has girl trouble, or something good to tell me. I want him to be able to come to me. Now when he needs to be driven to a friends house or somewhere with a friend, he despises when I drive, ( I have my permit) but, I know I need the practice so I can get my liscense, and My parents, of course, are with me, and they are okay with me driving my brother and his friends. But I will be getting my liscence in 5months, and I want him to want me to drive him. I want him to look up to me, and like it when I drive him or pick him up from places. I do try to set a good example too!!
Any tips? Is he just going through a stage? How can I be more tollerent when he is bad??
thank you so much in advance!!
-Kelsey-
k2204 (link)
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well that i the diffrence between my brother and me and im 14 hes 16 same age difrence..thing is were the best friends in the family...we dont treat eachother like brother and sister we act like friend and friend..except sometimes haha...anyways if you him to treat you like a friend treat him like a friend...to come to you with problems..go to him with problems..ill grantee itll work..tell me if it works ok? bye
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Okay theres these two girls at school that I was BEST friends with until this year, they decided to believe that I lie and spread rumors about them. Ill admit theres some things that I regret but Ive apologized 10 times.. its like all they wanna do is fight.but now theyre hanging out with this girl and shes just really mean and theyve turned into her.. thats why I dont like them anymore.But its hard cuz theyre really immature about it (throwing volleyballs at me in gym, looking at me while they talk to people about me, obviously, dirty looks) and i have to deal with it every day. I only have 1 friend at school because they turned everybody against me. What do I do?? (link)
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one word IMMATURE!! ok they hit one volleyball ball at you you throw back three...id never let anyone treat me that way.... really never in that postion im friends with most of the school so id know how to handle this situation....but you have to stick up for yourself ok you cant let people treat you badly ...you say you only have one friend big deal ...its great to have a little amount of firends too much can drive you insane!!!
Just try to find people better then her yell at her back but to annoy them laugh in their faces if they ever give you a bad look(that annoys people) you and your friend have to act like your better than all of them like your increadiably luckty to have eachother ...dont look like you give in at what the hell they think your better and you should know that ..they seem to just dont wanna be freinds with you but if you try to convince people that their liers and your not what they say...youll have loads of friends be center of attention and theyll be on their backs once more..if this girl that they made freinds with is mean...just ask me what to do im the expert of mean thats how i got respected in my school ..i never let anyone talk about me wrongly...just make like five bestfriends or four and youll be happy belive me....hope this works...laterz!
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I fell in love with my bestfriend (typical). but he used to and still says that he loves me more than he has ever loved a girl in his life. and the other day he told me that he had a girlfriend so obviously i was heart broken. SO appearently he "loves" me only as a friend. yea its confising i kno, geeze. So i just want some advice on how to get over him...like what should I do and places I could go to get him out of my mind, because i really dont want to ruin this friendship. It was just my fault on falling for him.oh yeah i just turned 17 and ima girl and hes 19. (link)
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listen i was in tht guys position ok....he was my best friend and he liked me alot...but when i told him that i also cared for him he took it that i liked him more then just a friend ...do not be mean to him or ignore him its not his fault you cant control your emotions...i dont know what you shoulld do just go out have fun and dont think of him....try liking someone else ...later
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i have a friend who moved here last february & we have become really good friends. i mean really close...we can talk to each other about things that i don't think i could even tell most people. i just feel like i am missing something, because i don't know about her past. i know she has a dad, stepmom & stepsister (her stepmom has been married to her dad for only a little over a year but they are luckily very close). however, i have no idea what happened to her real mom. she has never mentioned her ever...i don't know if she's dead, if her parents are divorced, or what. it never use to bother me, but now that we are so close i just feel like i should know something. i know that she proabably has never mentioned her for a reason (she might be sad or angry perhaps?) but as her close friend i feel like i should be able to know somehting. do you think i should bring it up? if so how would you go about doing that (and if something bad happened with her mom i really don't want her to get upset or angry). do you think it is appropriate for me to say/ask anything at all? if you were in this situation would you ask?thanks! (link)
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listen i think somethhing bad must have happened to her mom that she might not want to remeber or feel ashmed and wouldnt want you too know...dont bring it up until she does...and if you both get closer...ask her when you feel you can help but put them in the right words...not randomly but friendishly like you wana help..ok ..later
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ok well i met him before and now on aim and myspace he doesnt talk to me but he told me he liked me and along time ago we should hang out AGAIN but now he doesnt talk to me?? he asked me that a month ago and i like him alot but he likes other girls how do i get him to like me again? should i talk to him? or should i not give in. i have been waiting pathedicly for him to write me something. but he never does. but he does to other girls. yeah im kinda really obsessed with him.
so.
should i talk to him?
should i wait?
how do i make him want me?
WHAT SHOULD I DO!! (link)
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haha ok listen ...he likes OTHER girls ok OTHER that means hes a player...he uses girls ...look down inside you and try to think how far it will get you if you both did go out ..hell probably end up cheating on you...you seem to majorly obbessed with him...find someone else because i dont find him for you even though i dont know you but know how to handle situations like this seriously listen to me give up on him until he shows you seriously that he like you ok
later good luck
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i dont know whats wrong with me. lately i have been thinking of killing myself. i dont know why. i have a bf and a wonderful family and friends but it doest seem worth it. i just keep thinking why not? i cant help it. i also draw the pictures of death. im a very good artist so the pictures are really good. i will sit with a pen in my hand and its like they just jump on the papper one mminute i will bethinking of what to draw and then im done and looking at this picture of death.i just think somethings wrong with me. i just want to die you know nothing can help i try leaving my house adn going fro a wlak. i just quit using and am trying to quit cuting but i only have one good friend i can depend on. do you think i have a serious problem? shoudl i tell me mom? shouold i try to get help? do u have any ideas that could help me? im just afraid that one day i m,ight end up trying to kill my self. please help i will rate really high. love the invisable girl xoxo (link)
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ok ok stop!!! you have to think about other people for a second ok your mom your dad your boyfriend people who are innocent ...they will see u dead and look back at every mean thing they ever said to you and think"this is my fault" some people might even kill themselves after you...you will reuin their lives on the way ...you seem thatt you have a great life why throw it away when people who have horriable lives are being strong to keep themselves alive...you said that u drew nice well what you have to do know is...draw instead of pictures of death pictures of your true talent you never know you can be the next leonardo di vinci(im not calling you a dude dont worry) ..just stay strong because people like me who have worse then you will ever get it are surviving by their own selves be independent...you have only one true friend doent take tht for granted and be a true friend back...hope i helped..
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I'm a 27 year old female.For the first time in a long while I'm actually happy to be single. I have my own appartment and a part time job, and was thinking that if I was dating someone I probably couldnt affort to have all the nice things like movies, cd's, and nice furniture, because I would be spending it on my bf. I was also thinking how nice it is not to have the responsiblility of looking after children. A lot of the ladies I work with at the store have kids and they are always so stressed out. I have it made- I only answer to myself and can come and go as I please. The money I make is spent on myself and doesnt go to pay for anyone else.
I am selfish for feeling like this? And is it just I phase? I want to have a family SOMEDAY, just not now. I'm having too much fun!! (link)
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you are not selfish ok your having fun....girl power...buy as much as you want and if anyone say anything just flick them your money your rules when someday comes youll know you didnt miss out on anything ...espaciallly having fun!!
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How is the best way to get rid of hair below the abdomenal region or the region around the testicles? (link)
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ok one thing....please for peoples sake...keep things private!
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13/m. I'm sorry if this is kind of long. you see, I have this sort-of friend: she's in all of my classes except for one, so we talk a lot. She makes fun of me sometimes, but I really don't think she means it, because things are regular again by next period. I kind of like her, but not really. And the acts as though she likes me sometimes. But, I really don't want anything to happen between us, since I've already made my New Year's resolution to get this one particular girl to like me.
So anyway, that girl, let's call her Jane, her mom died two weeks ago. I've never had to sit through a death before---I'm lucky enough that nobody in my family has ever died. And the only time anyone's parent has died other than Jane's is in 2nd grade, when I couldn't really grasp the meaning of death.
In all our classes two weeks ago, we were just talking about death and stuff. It was really depressing. In one class, things got so deep that half the class was crying. I myself was in tears, as I nearly am recalling this. But not because I knew and missed Jane's mother. Not because it reminded me of a dead relative that I had. Because I could finally grasp the meaning of death.
So, everyone's really depressed now, and she got to miss school two weeks ago the whole week---I would want to, if my parents had died. She's coming back on Tuesday, when vacation ends. One Thursday and Friday, all her teachers---which meant all my teachers except for one---received e-mails from her dad saying that we shouldn't talk about this "event" unless Jane brings it up first. But me, I'm a really shy person, and not having experience with anything like this, I'm probably gonna feel really awkward talking to her. I won't know what to say. I'm sure of it, it happens to me all the time. Whenever something goes wrong with anybody, I never know what to say. I don't really want to say anything like "we're right behind you" or "we got your back", because however true it may be, it may or may not give the impression that I like her.
So, I guess the whole point I'm trying to make here is that I'd feel awkward talking to her. I could've just said "i have a sort of frend whos mom died what to i do" but I feel that I can get a more personal answer if you have some background information. I will probably rate you. Smartasses get reported. Thank you, school starts again on Tuesday!!! (link)
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ok first and formost ok....what kind of problem is that.."i have a friend her mom died i like her but i dont"ok your friends mom died...forget you'r shyness forget the world ok all tht matters now is her ..when i had dead relatives i had my friends behind me they didnt have to say it they showed it by being with me all the time makin me laugh.....the last thing she needs is pity of by the way i hope she doesnt know bout this site...for ur sake...and if this girl does like you try not to hurt her worse then she already does feel...just dont lead her the wrong way ....laughter is mainly the cure for this situation because shell just get depressed if she desnt find some friends behind her that are funny and not boring...yeah tht bout it ..you shouldve figured this out by urself u shouldnt need advice on how to be a friend
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Hello there,
I'd like to thank whoever is gonna give me advice in advance.
Anyway, I've always had this problem:
I'm the president of the Student Council, and honestly I expected people, including my friends, to be happy for me.
However, two of my friends ( a boy and a girl), who are also on the Student council, started rumors about me being a show off and reminding the teachers about the homework, eventhough it's not true.
The boy's girlfriend is on the Student Council too, and I wanted to ask for her opinion about something. And as soon as I even opened my mouth, he cut me off! And stupid me didn't say anything! Not "Please man, I'm talking to her", nothing!
And on the same day, we had a "crazy dress up" competition and the Student Council members had to judge.
I was dressed as a gypsy, and was wearing a red shirt, red bandana, and red sandals. So from the beginning of the day, he keeps trying to provoke me: "Is it Valentine's day today or what?"
All I said was "What do you have against me?" and I walked away from him.
And in front of everyone, EVERYONE, he practically yells at me saying: "This crazy dress up must've been your idea!"
I just stared at him and walked away again.
And guess what? The crazy dress up day wasn't my idea! It was the other girl's idea and he would've known if he was even paying attention in the meetings! And guess what else? I didn't say that to him!
So my question is: How can I show this guy, whom I've known for almost 5 years, that he's being immature and is disrespecting me and hurting my feelings? :(
And how can I tell the other girl that I know what she's been saying about me? (link)
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i have only one advice i can give to you ok "revenge is a plate served with a smile" that is a beautiful saying you can learn alot from...either tell your friend the way you feel(chicken)....or beat them up(my way)...well just talk to them first and if the person decides to go on i would take revenge
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