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my friends tell me i give good advice,i hope i can help somebody.
i've been more than you think for a 14 year old.
"never judge a book by its cover,inside on those pages could be the best love story in the world"- lea ellen
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Okay so, my friend wants me to ask y'all this..
She said that she used to smoke and then she stopped and before, she used to inhale the smoke and now she started smoking again (she's an idiot because she started again to impress a guy) she can't inhale without choking.
She asked me what she should do but I don't smoke so I wouldn't know .. LOL.
So yeah, what should she do?
Apart from stop smoking, which is what I said :P
rehab? or dont breathe as deep. or breathe deeper... depending on wether or not she wants to get lung cancer and die at a young age..
i would definitly recommend rehab or stop smoking all together.
My back hurts really bad. I mean when I sit at my desk it hurts right in the spine of it! What can i do to make it stop hurting?? Thanks!
either get a new chair.. or get someone to the chiropractor.
you would be TOTALLY amazed how mcuh they can make you feel better.
i am 13/f and i want sex is that wrong
no alot of girls start thinking about sex that young...and thats ok but just.. dont have sex... cause you should wait.. a while... like till your married.
Does anyone know any good books for teens that are kinda like the princess diaries or the sisterhood of the traveling pants series. i have run out of good books to read. help!!!!
theres one that my friend read.... i believe its called something like... a tall one.. she said it was really really good and i read one chapter out of it, and it was like.. chapter four or something and it was soo adorable.the chapter was called "quite possibly a virgin" and has this really adorable.. almost sex scene..
sorry i dont know the author..
Well i have this friend lets call him albert.. well okay (SORRY IF THIS IS LONG ILL RATE 5s FOR SERIOUS ANSWERS) so i have known albert since 2nd grade.. and well i need opinions on this.. okay so
1.) Albert is always flirty, touchy, smiley, etc. around me
2.) I asked his friend how he was around people he liked and he said that list above (but thats how he always is around me so im not sure)
3.) Me albert and melinda (other friend not really important) were playing in the snow.. and he always kept tackling me and throwing me in the snow and jumping one me and not letting me get up.
4.) Once i was saying about how no one liked me and stuff and he said thaat i was wrong and i told him he couldnt argue and he said he could etc.
5.) One day albert was preforming in some kind of club and he came over and was talking to me for most of the time and poking me etc. and then hugged me later on.
6.) One morning before school he came up to me and he put his arm around me (lower back not shoulder) and just stood there.
7.) Once when i was mad at him he asked all of my friends why and my one friend told me that he "flipped" out and was asking why he was mad and stuff like that
8.) He complimented me on my earings at my friends party
9.) He kind of kept moving towards me at my friends party and kept poking me and when he was sitting down he kept telling me to sit next to him.
10.) He told me that i should go to my friends party (more than once)
11.) I told him that some kid said to me i hate you you suck and he was like his life and face suck and that he hated him..
12.) He once told me if anything was seriously wrong i would be one of the first to know
13.) Once i asked him who he liked and he told me he couldnt tell me and he said his friend would tell me the next morning and his friend was like can i tell her can i tell her and he was like no.. and then he said something to him and he was like okay.. and he said some girl and then i found out he liked someone else too.. but he wouldnt tell me who that was.
WHAT IN YOUR OPINION DO YOU THINK? DO YOU THINK HE LIKES ME AS MORE THAN FRIENDS OR JUST AS FRIENDS?
thnx 4 your help
it definitly sounds like he lieks you more than a friend. you should probly ask him,because he either does or he doesnt.. if he does.. yay for you.. if he doesnt, oh well you will still be good friends..
ok so i went to a My Chemical Romance concert yesterday and got this hoodie that says "REVENGE" on the front and on the back has an army helmet on top of a rifle then it says My Chemical Romance... you can't really make out that it's a rifle... but still, so for an 8th grader do you think i could wear it to school? we have a new principal and theres been girls wearing spagetti straps and shirts with guns on them and those shirts that say I've go snow man or w/e...
it kinda depends on the dress code... but it sounds perfectly ok. but i would take it and ask a teacher that likes me and ask if it was ok.
it also depends on the school..
how do you know when your in love or what is love?
love- like a brother or sister, or best friend or a parent.
being in love- over the moon happy, thinking about the girl/boy every second of everyday. wanting to be with them for the rest of your life, only happy when you are with them or thinking about them.
if you need it in more detail, just im me!it should be on my column
whats that new song thats like "la dah dah didee dah dah didee dah de day"?
whats the name of it and who sings it?
its definitly blue by eifeel 65
I have wrote previous storys on here and this is a new one. I am so used to being by myself. Like I haven't dated in 5 years!!!! Im not a looser. I just don't like guys all around me. I like being alone. I have a boyfriend and I feel soo weird around him. Like ' Omg I can't stand him now, i just want to be friends'. I have always been like that. Its like the older I get the worser it gets. Its it just me or is it who i like. I have No idea. And if this helps. I have been very depressed latley.
theres nothing wrong with being alone, and it sounds like its a little of who you like and you. if that makes since...
maybe you should just start hanging out with a different group of people, maybe then you'll find someone that you arent weird around.
and if you haven't already, break up with your boyfriend. if you are so weird around him, there isnt really a point in keeping him as a boyfriend.
is not having a boyfriend depressing you? because thats what it sounds like,
i hope i helped at least a little...it probly doesnt, but i hope it does..
rate on my advice please, not on anything else... someone gave me a three because of my age....
hi i am 17 and i have been taking birth control for three months. um i need help, okay i am getting off the pills and i just got off my period last week and now back on and i know it is because of the birth control, but the first day i did not take it i had sex with my boyfreind and he you know in me and we both asgreed on having a baby well o you think i could get prgnant please help me
you probly arent pregnant. or so says my cousin.... who is a great many years older than me...
im lookin for sites that have dolls and other graphics. i mean like uniques, preps and glitter images. if you know ne gud sites let me know please.thanx
Raex33333333
i get alllll my icons and pictures from www.iconator.com
it has soo much on there
What is the difference between being Atheist and Agnostic?
agnostic-not knowing wether their is or isnt a god,
atheist-believing their is no chance their is a god
I'm a 13-year-old girl and I always want to have sex...I just get this feeling a lot "down there" and it feels really good. I think about it a lot. I know that 13 is WAY too young to be having sex and I would never ever do it until I'm married, but I feel really guilty for getting like this. Am I way too young to be feeling like this? Am I way too young to even be thinking about this? Is there anything I can do about it without intercouse?
13 is to young for actual sex, but it just means that you are more mature than others your age. its perfectly normal and ok.
you arent to young to be thinking about it though, so you dont have to make yourself stop, just dont get carried away.
its way cool that you want to wait till marriage to have sex, and i feel the same way.
when i really really like someone im soo excited when they ask me out that my stomach hurts. but then after about an hour i dont want to go out with them anymore because i think of everything wrong with them. wuts wrong with me? its really annoying. like im SO picky..
if you like them enough to say yes when you go out with them, you odviously forget their wrongs.but you dont have to totally forget their wrongs, just barely acknowledge them just like you barely acknowledge some of the wrong things about you.
One of my best friends thinks she fat when she's really not and she says she on a diet. When I asked her though if she was on a starvation diet, she said "Next subject please." That tells me she needs help. I don't know what I should do though. I'm really worried about her. Should I tell someone even though she made me promise not to?
Thanks! I rate high! =]
Love, Brittany
watch her eating habits
if everytime she eats she goes to the bathroom or has to take some kind of pills, do tell someone.
she could be really hurting herself and in the end, she'll love you more than ever.
but make sure that you are always there for her. make sure she knows that she can talk to you no matter what.and that she is most important.
My Best Friend Likes Me... i dont know what to do i mean hes a cutie and i love his personality and everything i guess im just afrid to like him because hes like my best friend and i mean i guess we flirt like he will tickle me and carry my books some times. Im Just scared if i say no im afrid he will be upset and if i say yes and we break up our friendship will be ruined. Please Give Me Some Advice
i am going through the exact same thing. like word for word.
give it a try he likes you and from the sound of it you kinda like him too.
just make sure before you get together,you make sure to tell him that your friendship comes first, then the boy/girl friend stuff.
me and my best friend flirt with each other constantly and he loves to tickle me because he's the only one that knows exactly where i'm the most ticklish.
you and your best friend sound like you are good together.
ok the other day me and my guy friend kissed but it was open mouth ... people are asking me if i made out with him but i dont no what to say.. like did me and him make out or just french kiss?
probly just french kissing
ok....heres the deal. I started my period about hmmm....the beginning of the summer! ok im 13 just to let you no. welli use pads and i hate them so much!! i want to start useing tampons but i dont no if i should because i have only had my periiod for about 4 or 5 months! im goin 2 start soon and its my first time in school! what should i do! what is the age to start usig tampons and should i use them now??????? i want to wear skirts and things and not worry about my pad! please write bak asap! thnx yall
oxo alex oxo
any age is fine. and you can wear a skirt with a pad or with a tampon.
hey guys! please help me, i don't know what to do about my best friend. she has been really depressed and recently keeps bringing up how she wants to die. i know she won't kill herself but she DOES need help. please give me advice.... help me with what to tell her, inspirational quotes... anything! thank you so much for all of your help i appreciate it so much!
everybody has their time where they are in a really low spot in life.
put her infront of a mirror and make her tell three things about her self that she likes and three things that she doesnt, for the next week work on the things she doesnt like....
but other than that... sorry i got nothin.
hope i helpd, but most likely i didnt.
ok so i was just looking at the advicenators merch does anyone accually buy that stuff?
i sure dont