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i need song feel-good, sing-to-in-the-car, fun songs for a summer playlist. they don't have to be recent songs, nor do they have to be any certain genre (although i don't think many hardcore or metal songs can be classified as "feel good" or "fun", haha). i'll provide some examples that already made the list:

- "all i wanna do (is have some fun)" by sheryl crow
- "big yellow taxi" by counting crows
- "pocketful of sunshine" by natasha bedingfield
- "four minutes" by madonna ft. justin timberlake
- "boys of summer" version by the ataris

so yeah, you catch my drift. help me out (: (link)
superman, don't wait by dashboard confesional, shake it by metro station(this is the best everrrr), everything is alright &the future freaks me out by motion city soundtrack, anything jack johnson.


i'm really sickk of all the same music i keep listening to. like i like the style of it but i'm sick of the songs. does anyone know any other bands that sound like:

boys like girls
jack's mannequin
cute is what we aim for
jonas brothers
etc.

please not well known ones because i probably already know them =)
thanks! (link)
panic at the disco, motion city soundtrack, the fray, dashboard confessional, linkin park, taking back sunday, paramore, metro station, the rocket summer,cartel


lil wayne song that goes kinda like

i got my hand on the trigger when will these mother fuckers learn

thats about all I know the beginning starts out kinda like they are whispering (link)
it could be sky is the limit. he goes imma ride for my motherfuckin niggas, most likely imma die with my finger on the trigger? is that what you meant?


Pretty much all of my friends exept for two, are treating my like crap. I am a good friend to all of my friends, even friends that aren't that close to me. Like, I'll give them money, advice, take them places and other kind stuff but I feel like I'm being walked all over now. Most of my friends and treatingme so bad I cry everyday just because of that. I can't even stand being around who I used to call my best friend, I see her in school and at work and she makes me want to scream. And another friend or not even a friend, I have 2 classes with her and thats the only times I talk to her, she really made me mad yesterday, I was talking to her about me shaving my toes and she yelled to the whole class "EWW YOU SHAVE YOUR TOES?!" and everyone heard and I was so embarassed and I didn't talk to her for the rest of the class and the next class I had with her. She is really b*tchy and I am so sick of her right now and everyone is getting on my nerves and I get mad when they make me mad and I just ignore and stop talking to them when I'm mad and then they make me more mad by saying stuff like, "stop being a b*tch" and "ohh, someones PMSing" and it just fuels the flame underneath me. I don't like confrentation and don't say anything to them because of it. I think what I'm going to do is just not talk to those people until I am more calm. Is that good? What else should I do? (link)
you say you don't like confrontation, and that's why they are walking all over you. in high schoool it's every girl for herself and you have to stick up for yourself. your goinog to have to have many many confrontations if you don't want people to do this to you anymore. if someone says something that pisses you off, then say something bitchy back. even if you have a yelling fight thats good, and it's not erally a big deal between friends. at first htey will still make fun of you for trying to stand up for yourself but once they get used to you being bitchy back if they piss you off then they will know that they can't walk all over you. also act like you don't give a shit and have better people in your life anyway and they are not important to you at all,even if they are.


okayy I have a BESTFRIEND. She was the second person I met when I moved and Ive been here for two years. I love her to death she is my EVERYTHING and she keeps me outta trouble ALOT. No one could really understand unless you met her. She's the closest thing to a sister as you can get. BUT. for like a month now she hangs out with this girl named Kaitlyn and I honestly hate her. Maybe because she stole my best frin but its more than tht and i dont know and I really dont care. But now my "sister" is acting really fake she acts like Im ivisible and doesnt tell me stuff like she used to. I did tell anyone anything. I am bestfriends with alot of people but I always put her first. I wrote her a page of EVERYTHING I felt about her [[all good]] and she never replied or anything, Im losing her. I hate it I just wanna cry. I might be moving again soon and I could see her but I just cant see it i dont know HELP ME!!!
sorry its so long but you survived it!! (link)
you could possibly be too needy towards her, i have that problem a lot. and i always thought that if you are very very close with someone like a sister they wouldn't start ignoring you if you start being needy. but honestly being needy turns EVERYONE off. she is only human and no matter how close you are she could be getting annoyed. just try to hang out with your other best friends and act like you don't even need her. like you can still act like best friends but if she is ignoring you and with her friend kaitlin, act like you don't give a shit and have better things to do anyway.


okay so ive been thinking that maybe my "best friend" isnt really such a good one
it was hard enough when i didnt really have any reason to not like her(but i did always get really angry an jealous cause every guy we were ever hanging out with that ide show intrest in she would flirt with like no other and end up hooking up with them)

but now im seeing a new but really not new two-faced side of her

it was always there and i just didnt see it

so she lies to me about everything then gets offended that i dont "trust" her even though i have reason too

we both did e but then quit and she lies about it and i eventually find out shes doing it again

she lies about really pretty much everything i just wanted to use an example

she lies and lies till she is caught then she makes up some lame excuse and lies some more

then she cheated on her boyfriend and lost her virginty to a guy she knew for 1 day(btw shes 13)

and told him about it then he freaked out and she told him he was being over dramatic

even though that wasnt to me i realized how fucked up it was

then she gave me her drink(and she was sober) and i was way drunk and got really sick and started vomiting and almost choked on it and had a bunch of people i didnt even know help me and she didnt

then they called to have me picked up and she knew and didnt come with me even though she was supposed to and we came to the party together and these we my friends as it was

soo now i dont know what to do cause she just seems like a worst and worst person by the day never the less a best friend

it really hard to just leave her especially with how messed up she is
i wanna help her but i dont know what to do cause she is just too big of a lier..


pleasee help!

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alright, i know how you feel. these kinds of friends (ones that are chronological liars) are really hard to deal with. you obviously know she's a horrible friend and a bad person too, and a liar, because anyone who didn't realize that would be completely stupid. so here's what you do : talk to her about everything you feel and give her ONE CHANCE to change and say you will help her. just tell her how you feel about everything, about her lieing non stop, even if she denies it the time (she probably will because she will be embarassed) she will think about it in her head and know that what your saying is the truth. also tell her about how she is a horrible friend leaving you at a party and stuff and about the guy situation.this girl seems really pathetic and obviously has very low self-esteem that's why she degrades herself (having sex with a guy she just met)and lies to try to seem better. her main problem is hating herself so she does other things to try to cover it up and make herself seem better/cooler. if she isn't stubborn you can help her change. just tell her everything you feel and the way seh acts and then tell her that you will help her through it and help her change as much as you can . if she doesn't listen to you and gets mad, you definitely need to leave her. all she does is add stress to your life. i know it feels good to have a best friend, but once you start becoming closer with other better people and have another best friend you will realize how friendship is NOT supposed to be like that and you will be like omg what the hell was i thinking trying to deal with that. try to find people that seem trustworthy and act like good friends to you and don't lie, no matter who they are even if they aren't the coolest person or wahtever and start talking to them and hanging out with them. you will become closer and have a lot of new, better people to hang out with. maybe you can even have a new best friend soon and you will realize what a real best friend is supposed to be like. oh and also i forgot when you have the talk with her tell her you will help her with the guy situtation(like you will help her not be a slut and tell her how you feel about her cheating on her boyfriend) . when you have the talk with her MAKE SURE it's face to face and NO ONE else is there. not having it face to face and having other people there will make it impossible and she will be way less likely to open up to you and admit that she lies.


well i have this friend that i like but i dont want to tell her that i like her we just have such good chemistry together we've made out a few times before but i dont know what to do anymore. (link)
all you have to do is do something REALLY cute to show her you like her. like something brave and outrageous like in movies. girls always dream about that and if you have made out a few times it means she's like okay with liking you but not seroiusly yet. just ask her to hang out with a group of friends so it doesn't seem weird, if you ever see her when your with a lot of people or your a party or something hang out with her. start texting her and she'll get the hint that you like her. like if you have really long texting convos all day and night.do something really cute like in that one movie the boy holds up the radio playing there song and she hears it through the window..thats just an example of like what i'm trying to say. then tell her EXACTLY how you feel like everything you just said in this question. she will be like in love with you.


okay so the boarding school I go to wont let me go onto myspace or facebook and it's really stupid. And the proxies I've been using aren't working.
I've you like badmarble headfrost and yobama.org works but as soon as I go to type in my screenname it automatically goes to another page trying to get me to buy a new house or something.
Could you just give me a list of proxies that work??? thanks. (link)
www.hsmcafe.com/abc


what is anything a teenagers could make and sell? i really want a hobby and i love making and seeling things. i love trying/learning new things and im really looking for something new to learn and try. so anything really and if you could supply some websites about how to make whatever you suggest that would be soo much more helpful! my mom always says im such an entrepreneur and the garage sale on my street is coming up so its perfect!! thanks :) and i already know how to make choker neclaces and bracelets so not something like that. and no knitting please. and i already know how to crochet but not very well (at all lol) (link)
HEMP BRACELETS AND STRING BRACELETS! omg everyone in my school is obsessed with them and so many people just like walk around with clipboards to make them on, different colored hemp, different colored beads, and different colored strings. seriously EVERYONE loves them and they are sooo cute.! i am like obsessed with them like everyone that makes them says its the funnest thing to do and they all have like 2938423423 bracelets/anklets/necklaces now. they really are like the cutest thing ever.


what are some rap songs that are great to dance to? like walk it out or low (link)
dangerous by kardinal offishial is my favorite favorite favoriteee song to dance too. also gimme more by britney spears, i mean just listen to the words for it it's like perfect. also roll & elevator by flo rida. another one is break the ice by britney spears, drop by ying yang twins, and move shake drop remix by dj laz.


i've gained a lot of weight since i got my period in like 8th grade.. (i'm a sophmore now) and i'm getting really frusterated because i used to be one of the skinniest girls in my grade and now i'm just average. any tips on how to lose weight? like specific diets? or other exercise tips?

i'm planning on running almost every day as soon as water polo is over.
i know i need to eat healthier-- it's just really hard.
i have a really flat stomach (i have like an outline of a six pack). but i also have really big arms. most of it is muscle (because i do gymnastics) but i want to get them skinnier and more toned instead of just looking big. i also need to lose weight in my thighs and hips and butt. so any good exercises for that?

THANKS SO MUCH! (link)
running is an amazing thing, because if you run a lot , seriously EVERY SINGLE THING on your body turns perfect. try this:run 2 miles at a not that hard pace every morning and in only 2 weeks you will see results. don't like kill yourself running, just do as best as you can so you can keep it going for as long as you want. the trick to losing weight is running in the morning, because EVERYTHING you eat after you ran just burns right off. meaning everything you eat that day burns off.

to answer your question: because running before you eat anything gets your metabolism going and working hard, so then it burns off everything you eat.


16/female =)

okay so basically theres this guy. and i don't like him now but i see him like once a month or once every 2 months. we've been friends for a few years. anyways, i feel like everytime we hang out or i see him (he's in my youth group so that's usually when i see him now.. but we were friends before youth group) i start liking him. i feel like there's like something between us. my friends tell me that he looks at me differently than he looks at other girls. i feel like he's like embarrassed to like me because a lot of people from his school (including his friends) don't like me. (LONG STORY). but anyways we hooked up at like the beginning of december (he made the first move) and well i'm seeing him again in 2 weeks and i don't know what to do. it's always awkward when i see him and we don't talk that much but i want to change that. how can i get the guts to just like go up to him and give him a hug and say hi like all the other girls do? i just feel like it's awkward because we hooked up. and everyone in our youth group knows we did so it's like embarrassing because i feel like they're all watching us when we talk. i don't really want to like him again because it never gets anywhere. so tips on not liking him again? or should i let myself like him again? the problem is it always drives me crazy when i do. and even if he likes me back he's just really difficult. i know he doesn't want a relationship.. (he's never had one either). he's basically just a really big flirt but when it comes to me he's different. usually he just like leads girls on. i was the first (and only) girl he ever actually made out with.
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aw, i actually think this story is really cute haha. you should try to think of how he feels when you wonder why he isn't coming up to you and hanging out with you at youth group after you guys hooked up. think of how you feel, and think of why you aren't going up to him, because your embarassed because everyone knows? thats probably how he feels too! if your friends say he looks at you differently, he made the first move,and your the only girl he's kissed, he obviously likes you! i think you should definitely like him becaues it seems like it would be a good relationship, who cares what his friends think! like seriously they don't matter AT ALL, and maybe if this works and things get serious you can try to resolve and patch up your problems with them. but only if you want because that isn't the point. next time you have youth group, even if everyone is watching you and it might feel awkward be brave and walk across the room, go up to him and talk to him with as much confidence as you can. or if you are hanging out with one of your friends and you both go up to him then it won't be as much pressure on you. if you do go up to him alone (which i think you should) he will be surprised by your bold move and prob. be happy, just try to be chill and don't act weird or anything and have a casual talk. and if you have his phone number DEFINITELY text him. it might be harder to text him like out of the blue, so go up to him at your youth group and act like nothing is wrong and just be confident which is the most important thing. then if you talk to him you should definitely text him when you get home. this way you guys can talk and flirt without eeryone watching you, his friends knowing, or either of you guys feeling pressured. and if he doesn't act interested at youth group it's probably because he is just nervous in front of everyone, and some people get awkward after they've had their first kiss and want the other person to make the move, so you should do that! so you say he is a big flirt and leads girls on, but notice how your the only one he's every actually pursued and cared about :) not just ohh let me flirt with her and lead her on, then whatever i'll just forget about her. he actually likes you still. and most importantly,remember: usually the guys that are the most difficult to have relationships with are the most worth it in the end.


im not on my period or anything. and i dont believe im about to be. but i have been feeling sick for the past two days, due to anxiety. its not like something really bad is going on in my life, but i just feel really stupid.

i have major trust issues. i dont trust anyone. not even my own parents. i used to trust my boyfriend, but now i dont. i got drunk the other night and told him a lotta stuff that i never wanted to tell him. now he knows too much and i dont want him to know anything! well karma is being fair because last night, HE got drunk and told me a lotta stuff. but not as personal as what i told him. and he doesnt even feel stupid for it. i have reason to believe he was faking being drunk just to make me feel better.

how do i know for sure if he really was? and how do i know he's telling the truth when he says hes sorry? and also how do i know if he's even telling the truth when he says he loves me and will never hurt me again???

i have watched plenty of movies where guys say that, and then flush it down the drain with one stupid mistake.

please help me. i really love him and i dont wanna drive him away like i have with everyone else!

im 15/f btw... (link)
first of all, just remember: a drunken mind speaks a sober heart :) so i think it's good that you told your boyfriend personal stuff. it's normal to have trust issues a lot of people do. don't beat yourself up about it. and to be honest, i believe to that you can't really ever trust ANYONE except like your family maybe? but the whole figuring out who you can trust thing is a trial and error process. just always remember that you will learn from your mistakes. so i would take the chance on people that seem trustworthy and haven't told any of your personal secrest in the past. but if you've already learned that you can't trust someone, then you know you can't and you won't. its very simple, but you have to try to figure it out. but only try on people that seem like you can trust them. and i feel the same way about boys, i always think taht they are all horrible liars who just want to get in your pants, but some acutally aren't surprisingly. the way you can find out if your boyfriend really means what he was saying when he was drunk and if you can trust him is if you take a chance like you just did. so now if he tells anyone you will know he doesn't mean any of the things he said and you won't be able to trust him. but if he doesn't tell anyone you know he's actually a good guy who means what he says.


Okay so i was on the computer with my boyfriend and his friend and they were on some girls profile on facebook... i know the girl really likes my boyfriend and has since she met him. last september i was really jealous of her because they saw each other a lot more then me and my boyfriend do. But i got over it. Anyways they were looking at her profile and my boyfriend says to his friend yeah if she adds you im sure you could get pictures out of her i mean she sent me ones of her in her bra. So I didnt want to jump to conclusions i didnt want to accuse him of asking for them so i tried to keep myself from getting angry at him so i asked him if i could talk to her about it ( ive always been nice to her even though after we met in person she told all her friends i was an ugly slut... i told her i understood what it was like to really like someone that is taken and that i didnt hate her for saying that) anyways when i asked him he said no because im not supposed to know .SO, my question is do you think he asked for them or she just sent them cause they were flirting or whatver (ive caught him flirtig with her this december) do you think that they both agreed not to tell me about it and it slipped when he was there talking to his friend. he really seemed to shrug it off like it was nothing i dotn know what to do. do i bring it up with him even though he has a really bad temper and we have been fighting alot lately i really love him and i dont want to start a fight i just want to know whats happening, i know a picture in your bra isnt the end of the world but she still sent it to him and he still looked at it. hes like dont worry i dont have it anymore. BUT still im kind of confused. anywyas i was just wondering if anyone understood maybe whats going on in his head im not really sure what to make of this or how big of a deal it is. Thanks(:

16 f

ps: weve been dating almost a year (link)
WOW..dump him. i know it seems at the moment that you love him a lot and even thoguh you have been together for almost a year, he is still a sleezbag. who the hell would ever get pictures sent to them from a girl they know likes them and then say it in front of their girlfriend? like seriously..if my boyfriend ever did that i would break up with him right away because i think that looking at pictures of someone else or asking for them and not telling you is unfaithful. and then he says it in front of you like he doesn't care about your feelings at all. and also, if a girl called another girl an ugly slut i would think that her boyfriend would defend her and not like that girl, not FLIRT with her! that is horrible of him. and don't worry what that girl says because she obviously just doesn't have enough confidence and self-esteem, that is why she called you that because she is jealous of your boyfriend, and also she is a pathetic person for sending pictures of herself in her bra just to try to get a guy to like her..hmm desperate much? seriously dump that asshole and let him be with that whore. sorry if this offends you. i just can't believe he would do that he should be defendign you if she said that to you.


alrighty so i'm 15/f and i'm still a virgin, never had a bf and never fooled around before. so basicly i'm totally unexperienced. but it's not cause i'm ugly or something, in fact a couple of guys liked me but i'm probably the shyest person ever: i cant even look boys i like in the eye :/. so yeah nothing ever happened.
so all my friends and classmates already did stuff like fingering, blowjobs handjobs sex etc.
theyre also around 15 years old. i'm like a total outsider and i cant even imagin a guy seeing me without a top or anything. i'm just extremely shy as i said before. and i'm NEVER gonna make a move. the only guys i can talk to are ugly guys cause around them i dont feel nervous obviously. (sorry if this is a bit offencinve)
and also, is it normal that everyone is already doing this stuff at this age??? i feel so weird. i mean yeah i like imagining me doing that stuff as well, but i CANT in person. and yeahyeah i know its not all about physical stuff but i cant even TALK to a hot guy or a guy i really like.
is the behaviour of my friends normal at this age?
and is there something wrong with me?
and as i said it'S NOT my looks because i've been told i'm one of the prettiest girls in school. and i SERIOUSLY dont wanna brag or anything, i just want to give you the facts so i can get good answers :P
well thanks for reading. :) xxx (link)
omg i totally know how you feel! but don't worry its okay because i am 14 almost 15 and i've never even kissed a boy, and i'm not ugly either. and it's weird because all of my friends are either not virgins or have done everything except sex andi feel so left out when they talk about it, like i'm sooo embarassed because they all know and i'm worried they will tell people. but what i've learned is just i know it will happen when the time is right it will just happen and it's not about what you've done, its about if you enjoyed it and who you did it with. and yes it is very normal,people start doing that stuff younger these days.


how do you grind with guys at dances? how do you make out with them at dances while grinding? what do they do, and what should you do? and do you grind AND make out at the same time? thankz (link)
he will be behind you against your butt, his hands will be on your hips. you turn your head around as much as you can to the side, he will put his head down so it's next to your head, and then you makeout. you can even put your hand on his cheek or something if you want.


how do you grind? like how do you grind in a way that guys won't think you're a bad dancer. also, how can you practice? other than against a wall.
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yeah i agree with the other person. its kind of like kissing, you can't really figure out how to do it beforehand or practice, it just happens and comes to you in the moment. and yeah it does depend on the song.


my prom is coming up and its probably impolite if i smile with my mouth closed.. but my teeth are crookedish and yellow! the crookedness is fine i guess but the yellow is unacceptable.

is there some way to get them whiter without whitening treatments? like white-out my teeth for one day or something? (link)
i personally don't think that white strips work, and if you don't have the time or money to get them profesionally whitened then here is an at home thing you can do. this is what i started doing like 2 months ago everytime i brush my teeth and they are noticeably whiter. everytime you brush your teeth, put hydrogen peroxide on a q-tiop and spread it over your teeth. i just do my top front teeth because that's all you can see. i know it sounds gross and dangerous but on the bottle of hydrogen peroxide it says okay to gargle with so it is okay to spread it on your teeth. if you don't know what hydrogen peroxide is it is in a brown bottle and it's what you put on cuts and it burns on cuts. but you don't even taste it or feel it in your mouth it just makes them feel slimy. i've never tried gargling it but i just know don't swallow it. then right after you do that you wet your toothbrush and dip it baking soda (i put a lot of baking soda in a plastic bag and dip it in that ) so the toothbrush is coated with it. when it gets wet it is pasty like toothpaste. it tastes really salty and gross but just try not to taste it and brush your front teeth with that. then rinse your mouth out and your toothbrush and brush your teeth iwth normal toothpaste to get the taste out of your mouth. i used to do the hydrogen peroxide and baking soda everytime i brush my teeth, which is after everytime i eat (because i have braces) ,but then i just changed to brushing my teeth with normal toothpaste many times throughout the day and then at morning and night doing the hydrogen peroxide and baking soda too. and sometimes if i just felt like it was working i would do it more throughout the day also. and just brush your teeth a lot, it really works, like after everytime you eat and you probably won't even need the peroxide and baking soda, but i think that works also.


I mean sometimes in certain moods I am.. but I hate how some people at school think im shy or quiet.. cause I'm usually not like that at home or with my friends. like sometimes i find it hard to be outgoing.. especially since its the third semester of 8th grade so its hard to just be like "hey whats up" to someone that you've seen everyday but never reallly talked to them. thats like what ya do on the first day of school. thats how i was then, i wanted to get more good friends and fell pretty good about myself a lot. but then soon as cliques developed and stuff.. i mean a lot of my friends are from diff cliques and i never really found one i could really be with forever.. im not even sure if ive found my best friends yet.. even with some people i've known since like 1st grade.. sometimes idk i dont like "love them to death" like a BFF should. i dunno if other people worry about those kinds of things too since most people already have their close knit circle of friends and stuff.. so it makes me feel like.. maybe i just dont have good friends? cause i mean some of them i like but some traits get on my nerves so i wouldnt call them my bests, and i wanna get to know more people. i was even looking forward to moving, for a new start, but it turns out my fam may not even move next year but i guess its better we're going to high school with even more new people. like with some friends too like i cant be all crazy and stuff.. i dont know why. and i see other people can be like that but idk whats stopping me from just doing it like i act at home. i hate when people get that wrong perception of me. so how could i guess fix these problem? :( 14/f and thanks (link)
omg i had the EXACT same problem last year and i am the same age as you too. here's how i feel better about it: friendships aren't always perfect. i used to think i had the worst friends in the world becaus they left me out of their clique in 8th grade. so what i did was hung out with other people that i knew from other things that i really liked and started hanging out with their friends for awhile. once i started ignoring my old friends being mean to me and had fun with a few other friends, i realized that i could actually have fun with other people. and then my old friends started to miss me. all im saying is even though it seems like you have bad friends, they are probably gunna turn out to be okay, because everyone is immature and mean in middles chool and there is a lot of drama just because that is the age group. but once you get to highschool you will meet so many more people , girls and guys, and you wll have so much more fun. once your friends realize that you are confident in yourself and can hang out with anyone then they wiil want to be good friends with you again. but seriously don't worry about it becuase 8th grade doesn't really matter because once you get to high school everything changes anyone. i bet none of your friends in the clique now are gunna be good friends once high school starts, or they will get in a fight or something . all you have to do is find people that accept you for who you are and you can trust and wouldn't talk about you, even if htey're not the coolest person in the school, and have fun with tthem and hang out with them. once peopel see that you are confident in hanging out with whoever you want, they will want to be your friend too. about the outgoing thing, i hve the same problem but only because i am incofident becuase i have braces. so if nothing was wrong iwth me like that i would just be outgoing and be myself. all you have to do is when you are in a big group of people just TALK. even if your not being funny or crazy and just talking about anything or involving yourself in the convo it will be fine, and from theri you can get to being more funny. just pretend you are talking to your mom or sister or close friend alone and if there is something that you would say to them that you tinhk is funny or just good to say, then say it to the person that you are having a convo with. and another thing to do is always act really excited to see everyone. like if one of your friends comes up even if your not close with them, give them a big hug andbe liek HEYYYY. you will seem happy and excited andpeople wil want to hang out iwth you. chances are you actually will get happy and excited and ditzy then and you will start being more outgoing without even realizing it. so thats all my advice . basiclaly just involve yourself in the convo and talk whenever you can even if you weren't really involved in the convo at first. oh yeah and another thing is laugh a lot it will make you seem more funny even if you aren't the one being funny.


Hey, my pic on my advice column is small....i make it able to at least show up my imageshack....but, how do i make it bigger? i tried enlarging it...but that doesnt work.

thanks.

XSugarpieX77 (link)
try using tinypic.com, it doesn't make the pics as small as imageshack does.




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