okayy I have a BESTFRIEND. She was the second person I met when I moved and Ive been here for two years. I love her to death she is my EVERYTHING and she keeps me outta trouble ALOT. No one could really understand unless you met her. She's the closest thing to a sister as you can get. BUT. for like a month now she hangs out with this girl named Kaitlyn and I honestly hate her. Maybe because she stole my best frin but its more than tht and i dont know and I really dont care. But now my "sister" is acting really fake she acts like Im ivisible and doesnt tell me stuff like she used to. I did tell anyone anything. I am bestfriends with alot of people but I always put her first. I wrote her a page of EVERYTHING I felt about her [[all good]] and she never replied or anything, Im losing her. I hate it I just wanna cry. I might be moving again soon and I could see her but I just cant see it i dont know HELP ME!!!
sorry its so long but you survived it!!
oxyou answered Wednesday May 7 2008, 11:16 pm: you could possibly be too needy towards her, i have that problem a lot. and i always thought that if you are very very close with someone like a sister they wouldn't start ignoring you if you start being needy. but honestly being needy turns EVERYONE off. she is only human and no matter how close you are she could be getting annoyed. just try to hang out with your other best friends and act like you don't even need her. like you can still act like best friends but if she is ignoring you and with her friend kaitlin, act like you don't give a shit and have better things to do anyway. [ oxyou's advice column | Ask oxyou A Question ]
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