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Lots of friends but loney as ever
Pretty much all of my friends exept for two, are treating my like crap. I am a good friend to all of my friends, even friends that aren't that close to me. Like, I'll give them money, advice, take them places and other kind stuff but I feel like I'm being walked all over now. Most of my friends and treatingme so bad I cry everyday just because of that. I can't even stand being around who I used to call my best friend, I see her in school and at work and she makes me want to scream. And another friend or not even a friend, I have 2 classes with her and thats the only times I talk to her, she really made me mad yesterday, I was talking to her about me shaving my toes and she yelled to the whole class "EWW YOU SHAVE YOUR TOES?!" and everyone heard and I was so embarassed and I didn't talk to her for the rest of the class and the next class I had with her. She is really b*tchy and I am so sick of her right now and everyone is getting on my nerves and I get mad when they make me mad and I just ignore and stop talking to them when I'm mad and then they make me more mad by saying stuff like, "stop being a b*tch" and "ohh, someones PMSing" and it just fuels the flame underneath me. I don't like confrentation and don't say anything to them because of it. I think what I'm going to do is just not talk to those people until I am more calm. Is that good? What else should I do?
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First of All those people arn't your true friends. This is like a book a read before, "sweet 16". Your just like the girl in the book, you hang out with all these people who say they're your friend, but when it comes down to it they're just backstabing B****s and that is life for you. But The thing is your shouldn't be they're bff's, aquaintences maybey, but not bffs. Try looking at the less selfish people, they may not be 110 pounds or exactly popular, but if they're nice to you then they'll be a true friend. Because you can't change the way you current "friends" are, trust me I know.
Wish u the best of luck
-ash
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you say you don't like confrontation, and that's why they are walking all over you. in high schoool it's every girl for herself and you have to stick up for yourself. your goinog to have to have many many confrontations if you don't want people to do this to you anymore. if someone says something that pisses you off, then say something bitchy back. even if you have a yelling fight thats good, and it's not erally a big deal between friends. at first htey will still make fun of you for trying to stand up for yourself but once they get used to you being bitchy back if they piss you off then they will know that they can't walk all over you. also act like you don't give a shit and have better people in your life anyway and they are not important to you at all,even if they are.
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