I am so devastated! My fiancee of 3 months is texting and calling an 18 year old girl secretly. The problem is he is 43. She works at a place he plays darts at on Wednesdays and Fridays. I looked up his cell records and there is over 100 text and picture messges sent between the 2 in the last 4 months. He said they only talk once in a while but I got suspicious when his phone is always on vibrate and his text, incoming and outgoing calls (except for mine) are deleted every day. one phone call lasted 44 minutes. She sent him a text when he was in the shower letting him know how good her bubble bath was! He denies any and everything. AM I CRAZY!? I am 30 years old and I told him I cant compete with that!Please help
Tell him that its you or her. If he continues to text her, break up with him. It is and awful thing especially since your engaged. I hope he picks you and not some 18 year old slut...
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this is how i've been lately...and im wondering if its depresson:
-im dead tired all the time even if i go to bed early.
-i have no drive to do anything anymore
-i go through periods of stuffing myself sick and then eating nothing for days.
-i cry alot, at least twice everyday.
-i snap at people and get angry really quick
-ive had thoughts of suicide
-just overall sadness and stuff
theres more...i cant remeber it at the moment. but is there any chance this is depresion?
it's sever depression and I advise you to see a counselor.
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Never in my life will I do this again.
I'm making a very long story short.
-i needed a ride home from a party
-friend said he could and wanted to hang out anyways
-got n car @ 2am. Said I had 2 b home at 230
-we didn't kno where to go... drove around to big houses n hills
-i said to turn around. He finally did.
>turned off engine.
>grabbed me ( you know when u watch movies and the girl gets raped? Well I always think, 'o why doesn't she jus play it off so he doesn't get mad?' well I did!) tried to kiss me I kissed him back after saying no.
>shoved my hand on his thing through his pants.
>shoved his hand on my private part.
[This still occured even though I kept saying NO. He kept saying ITS OK.]
>finally stopped n kept drivin
-drives a different way to this place to view the city.
-pulls over.
>grabs me across his lap, puts his tonge down my throat.
>tried to get up. He pulled me back down. And tried to kiss me again. I finally got up & said we gotta go home!
-on ride home we act like nothing happened.
-drops me off. Done.
I don't know if I should tell him how I feel? Ignore it? Act like it never happend?
I never want to see him again. But I have to because we go to the same school.
I'm not that type of girl AT all. I'm a virgin, but most people don't think so. Maybe he didn't? I can't believe he thought I would do that. I can't believe he did that to me.
Tell him that you didn't want him to rape you and that you played along. Tell him that you just want to be friends and that you appreciated his thoughtfulness to drive him home, and If you don't stop tell him that you'll get a restraining order and don't mess around or be hesitant if you have to go to that level...
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its spring break now, and we have 2 weeks off, my face is really pale, and i reealllyyy want at least a bit of a tan before i go back to school. Its not exactly the most sunniest of months right now, but how can i get at least a bit of an even tan on my face in 2 weeks??
Thanks:)
go to a tanning salon or get a spray tan...
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16/f..i have a boyfriend..we've been together for almost 3 months..and he says I'm the "only one" yet..he flirts with girls in my face..acting like nothing is wrong when he talks to me after! he changed his myspace status to "single" but he still treats me the same..(like his gf) idk what's going on. whenever i walk by with him..holding his hand..if he sees a girl that he knows..she'll obnoxiously walk over to him..(as if not noticing I'm there) and go..Jimmy(not his name lol)!!!! HEY BOO! And she'll give him a greeting kiss..I won't respond to it..I'll pretend it never happened..though I'm a bit hurt inside. He talks about how hot girls are sometimes...though limiting that subject of conversation when I'm around. Whenever we talk..he doesn't sincerely admit how he feels about me..It's all physical. He talks about watching porn. Something you wouldn't do when you're around your girlfriend. It's as if he has NO regard towards my feelings..as if I'm SUPPOSED to hear that from him and stand it. This is my first boyfriend..so I'm not entirely sure. I'm not one of those people to speak when something is bothering them, so I'll keep it in. I didn't confront him about the comments he sends to girls on myspace..or his status. Or any of that. His ex-girlfriends also give me weird stares..and glances. I just want to know..In your opinion..do you think I'm just a make-out buddy for him? 3 months seems long enough to grow up..And he's my age, so he should at least TRY to act normally. I know I'll never be able to confront him..I'm too scared. He gets mad when I do that..and he might break up with me, lowering my already lowered confidence...
What can I do?
Personally, I agree that your his make out buddy. You are young and don't need a lying, cheating gigilo of a guy. You should dump him or get revenge by flirting with guys hotter, and or uglier than him and maybe I'm wrong and he is a very horny male teenager and now days if you don't sleep with a guy he'll flirt with another girl and have intercourse with her...
I hope I helped...
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what is pms?
Excuse me if I spell this wrong...
It's and acronym that is referring to premenstrual syndrome also known as a period... for when a girl is in a bitchy mood and sometimes a smart ass well say, looks like some has pms... or something like that...
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Ok well I'm 14 and I wanna kno if it is illegal to go out w/ a 17 yr old but he will be 18 june & I will be 15 in july... is it illegal to go out w/ him even though it is a long distance thing he lives in P.A I live in Fl is it illegal to go out w/ him????
There is a guy and girl in my school name Chris and Carley and their going out she is either 14 or 15 and he is going to turn or is 18 and my moms friends with his mom and it's not totally illegal until you get caught having sex, I'm not sure if it's illegal to date.
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is it legal for a fifteen year old and an eighteen year old to have sex?
It is totally illegal and sick, my best friend whom is my, and your age does the same thing only with a 38 old man, I am a guy and she is a girl and I tried to tell her to stop and she don't listen... what she is doing is illegal and personally you both are to young to be screwing older men...
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hi, my best friends brother told me about a month ago that he wanted to do "stuff" with me because he thinks im pretty cute and he knows i want him to because my friend tells him the little comments i make such as i was gonna jump out of his birhtday cake and stuff like that. well i told him no because i was nervous because im a virgin but ive pretty much lived at her house for the past 5 days and now i do want him and i dont know how to approach him cuz he told me after i said no that it was a one time offer. hes 4 years older then me but i dont really care about that
if you're older than 18 and you like him do those things after you star dating for a while.
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OMG!!! ok i am super scared!! i have had my period twice and it always comes at the first week of the month! ow this month, its been 2 WEEKS AND IT STILL HASNT COME!!!!!! I no im not pregnant!!!!!
depends if you've had intercourse lately, or if you started birth control or a newer one or a higher dosage... Birth control can effect your period as well, but take a test if none of the above besides intercourse (sex)
sincerely,
onebirddog2000
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I just lost my virginity yesterday and I used a condom but some precum did get in my vagina because I put the condom on the wrong way the first time then I switched it to the right way and reapplied it.
I'm on the 3rd day of my period now and I'm pretty scared that I'll get pregnant.
How long do I have to wait before I can take a pregnancy test that will give accurate results?
It used to be 2 days after having sex, but now days I think you can do it right away... Buy atleast 3 different brands and use them all, and which to are the same is what you are, mean pregnat or not pregnant.
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heyy! ok so i was wondering what is the sexiest thing a girl could tell her guy she is wearing? like lingerie, a thong, a bra, nightgown, etc. just want to kno what guys think is extremely hot and sexy ;] thanx
guys thing lingerie, thongs, and bras, and of course nothing is hot.
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13/f
ok is it un normal to still be a virgin or not hooked up yet for my age?
Of course, because having sex isn't normal at your age. I am 15 and still a virgin and like my assistant principals daughter and she would never go for someone like myself. Be confident and you'll find Mr. right and if a guy says he wants to date you, go out with him. But later in the usually... I am saying this as a man, 7 out of ten men are sex hungry freaks. You just keep working hard in school and have fun.
I hope you find Mr. right.
Sincerely,
onebirddog2000
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OMG so i REALLYYY want to go to one of my top 3 schools: 1. Harvard 2. Yale 3. Stanford
i kind of know what i have to do to get in. so i need to know if i do the fallowing will it help me get in:
*karate lessons
*ice skaing lessons
*safety town--its this volunteer probram
*volunteer at the hospital
I really want to get into my schools BUT i'm not doing any honors classes,and i'm most likely not going to be valadictorian. I'm in 8th grade and am going to high school in Augest. I don't really care if I don't have a life in high school...as long as i get into my top 1-2 --i really want to go to those. 3-want to go but want to go to top 1-2 more!
please help all advice welcome!
Hi,
Well, that's what they look for is valedvictorian or a salutorian that takes (ap) advanced placement classes, get's straight A's and is involved in alot of academic curricular activities like being in certain academic clubs. Get on High Honor Roll. I hope you're a freshman or below. The colleges will look at all your high school academic records, classes you took, pass/fail any of them. They also look for a volunteering good, no criminal acts. You could get scholarships for those schools as well as grants. But in the long run if you want to get into a good school, any college could be a great college I used to want to go to and IV League school to. It's harder than it looks on tv, you can't really party, you'll spend 80% of you time studying and if you're a junior or senior your pretty much screwed. I hope you get into and IV League school, but you'll also be spending most of your time after college paying off your student loans. I personally want to go to a University, of which is far from and IV league school but it is a smaller university and the cheapest of all University wisconsin colleges and the professors no you by name and what your in school for, plus you can get one on one attention from the teacher. They also so go to the following site. Richland.uwc.com it has a great campus I toured it about a week or two ago with my classmates and loved it.
Why try to go to a college that has very expectations, you could go to a much better school. IV League Universities are very picky and personally I wouldn't want to be somewhere that don't except me for whom I am...
I hope you take my advice and good luck.
Sincerely,
onebirddog2000
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There is this girl in my English Class and I really like her, but just recently she got a boyfriend.
Now because I am also friends with her boyfriend, I feel guilty liking her. Is it still ok to talk to her, as friends?
Hi,
Of course it's ok, as long as you don't hit on her, ask her out, bug her too much, and what ever you do don't talk trash about your friend and her boyfriend.
Sincerely,
Onebirddog2000
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I need a guys opinion on this.
I met a guy, he is a sweetheart and we get along well. I want to get to know him better, maybe be able to get into a relationship with him. But he just got out of a relationship with a girl whom, cheated; Lied; and said things like "I'm not attracted to you, but I love you though"; He is hurt by it and I understand I just don't know how to approach him with the consideration of maybe getting to know each other better maybe in hopes of a relationship.
DO you think I should give him a little more time?
Should I probably just see where things go without trying to help things along?
Hi,
You Should be sympathetic for a while longer, and be there for him... then when he starts getting over her, ask him to go out on a date.
Good Luck...
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I want to go to Oxford or Princeton in a couple years, and I want to prepare a few years earlier so I am fully prepared for applying and getting accepted. What are the qualifications needed for each school? Any advice is appreciated.
straight A's, money, Honor Roll, never getting suspended, never breaking the laws, never get caught at a party drinking just never get at a party if you aren't drinking, doing drugs, or having sex. you are still an accomplice
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only a few times, can you like do something so the dentist can't tell.
and what if you have a black dot on the bottom of your jaw like underneath your tooth??
what does that mean?
most likely if he has any experience as a dentist, and adult or teacher can tell just by seeing your teeth or when you talk your breath
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so if polygamy is illegal in the U.S. how are there places like Centenial Park where it's filled with polygamists? wouldn't the police or government take over those places? how does that work...
yes polygamy is very illegal in us, they probably dont know much about it
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I would like to go to school to be a lawyer. Does anyone know any colleges with really good law programs? I know about all the well known ones such as Harvard and Yale, but does anyone know any colleges that they know to be VERY good? thanks a bunch!
Boston college of law
bradford school
berkely college
stanford
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