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Im 14 and i havent had sex or anything but i have these dark bumps and little black dots on the insides of my thighs but not on my vagina and i have had this since i can remember. what could it be? and also i went to the gynocologyst and she did say anything! So could that mean it is not a big deal or none sex related or should i ask her? Please help! (link)
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Well it might be a rash where there are creams fr that but if not i would ask.I had a rash on my thighs but i treated it with powder.I hope i helped.
claire
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My Friend has a problem but shes to embaressed to aske it on here.. she gets dirreah ALOT like 3 times a day. and she doesnt know whats rong with her and sometimes she hardly eats and still its shootin out of her like theres no tomorrow... i dont know how to help her i have even googled it... but if you could help that would be great thanks (link)
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Well your friend should have went to a doctor by now. There are medicines doctors prescribe for this. I hope i helped!!
claire
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I'm thinking about using Veet (the hair removing stuff). Is it bad for your skin? (link)
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well i have tried it once and for some reason it didn't really work for me and plus it smelled really bad!!! My advice is buy a bottle and if your not satisfied with the product then stop using it.
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my soon to be boyfriend goes too far sometimes. he comes over to hang out a lot and we cuddle and everything but sometimes his hands wander and i want him to stop. it's really uncomfortable for me and i want him to stop but i don't wanna seem like a prude. i've tried moving around to get him to move his hands but i don't know, there's just something weird about it. my past two boyfriends have been really verbally abusive and my last boyfriend hit me a lot right before we broke up and after we broke up and i still don't trust guys and i don't know if i should continue hanging out with this new guy. i know he really cares about me and has for a while. he took a lot of crap from me before we started hanging out. i lead him on and broke his heart when i hooked up with a different guy. HELP. i'm a girl btw. (link)
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Well, I think you should talk to your boyfriend and tell him your not ready for what hes doing. If he doesn't listen then you shouldn't be with him. You should learn to trust the right kind of guys. Some where out there is a guy for you. I hope i helped!
claire
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To start out, I'll tell you this. I'm only 15, but regardless of my age I think I could be in love. I've liked this guy for almost three years and he's pretty much all I think about. Every song I hear relates, in some way, to him. But that isn't the problem. He recently told me he liked me. And a few days later said he thought we would eventually go out. well, I don't think that's going to happen. I heard from a friend that he hasn't liked anyone since this one girl he liked a few months ago. Which would mean, he didn't like me. I asked him and he said I'm great and all, but he didn't like me any more than a friend. That kind of made me give up, you know? I felt like I failed or something? I don't know. I'm not really the jealous type, until it comes to him. So recently I've been talking to this other guy, he really likes me and I really like him. But the way I like him doesn't compare to how much I like the other guy. so, this guy is supposed to ask me out when we hang out this weekend, so I've heard. If he does, I'm scared to ruin the chance with the other guy i REALLY like. Although, I can't wait forever. But I need help soon. I have to decide. I'm really thinking to go for this guy that really likes me. What do you think? (link)
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I think you should go for the guy who actually has feelings for you. I was in this same situation. Sooner or later you'll forget about the first guy because you'll have someone wonderful in your life! I hope i helped.
claire
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Okay, so friendship questions are rare for me. This is gonna be long. If you have a problem with that, stop reading right now.
I'm really kind of scared. My best friend, short of sister, I think, is addicted to this guy.
Problem is, they never dated. She liked him, but he didn't like her. Then she got over him, and he liked her.
Then she decided to unget over him.
He's a possessive asshole. He's basically "claimed" her and talks about their married future, and she goes with it, considering him hers as he considers her his.
The worst thing is, though, all her life, her family has considered her the "screwup", so all she's known is displacement and pain. She's longed for real love her whole life, even the "parent" kind of love. Not just the husband/wife love.
I don't even know how to explain this. She thinks he unconditionally loves her.
I have unconditional love. My boyfriend and I have discussed marriage, and he loves everything about me, even my flaws, and wouldn't change me.
This guy, however, he's used her, emotionally abused her, hurt her more than anything, and he's even like, haunting her dreams. He tried to change her. Get her to dye her hair blonde, change her clothing style, criticized everything...
I'm just afraid she's going to end up with him and cause herself more pain.
She's created an idea of him for herself. Things he does, she's given examples...I can see that he's only doing these things because he gets something out of it. He gets a person to possess. Someone to own. I hate him for what he's doing to her, but she won't let me talk sense into her.
I can't talk to him because he doesn't like me anyway.
I don't know what to do about this. This girl is seriously like my little sister. I want to protect her from him. Not from all guys, just from him because I know he's bad news.
He tried to convince me to cheat on my boyfriend with him, and to tell me that if he "really" wanted me, I could be his in a heartbeat, because he's just that good with women, which sickened me from the start. I don't understand what she sees in him. Fine. Whatever, I can deal with that.
I can't deal with him hurting her and making her think he's the last person out there for her (she's had bad luck in relationships).
On top of it all, she's afraid her parents are going to make her move, and they're not sending her to college next year, which is where she should be.
What do you think I should do? I mean, I can't really DO anything. What can I say?
-Siren =( (link)
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Well first off if you can't change the fact that he is part of your friends life then don't.But you can help your friend out by talking to each other and going to see movies and help her out by showing her you care. Its horrible that her parenst think shes a screw up but you can give your friend the love and support she never got from her parents. For now stay clear of her so called "boyfriend" so you won't get tangled up with his bad ways! I really never experienced this so i don't know first hand how to handle this though.I hope i helped a little bit.
claire
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My friend && I like the same guy. He just happens to have feelings for me. I really want to get together with him but wouldn't that be betraying my best friend? What should I do? (link)
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You should go for it! If your friend gets mad then shes not a true friend!! I would totally go for it but i wouldn't rub it in my friends face though.
I hope i helped
claire
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ok, i want to get into really good shape for the upcoming school year because i plan on working out hard over the course of the year. im trying to get my stomach to get really flat and its not working. i do sit ups every single day and i do a total of at least 4500 in a week. i stretch everyday too and i go on walks as often as possible, probably a few times a week. i swim twice or three times a week too but nothing seems to have any affect on my body. any advice? plz help! i rate high for any reasonable answer (link)
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Well if you excersize like u have thats good,but you also have to eat well go on a diet. Just not a crash diet because that never works.
I hope i've helped!!
claire
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well this girl used to be one of my best friends but then she got all pissy to my boyfriend so i got mad at her then i became her friend after a couple of months but i was talkin to this kid and he all of the sudden said dont talk to me n i looked at his profile and my page said that this girl made up a little thing call the Hayley Haters thing and all they do is talk about me! and there are people in it! what should i do because its pissing me off! PLEASE HELP! i rate high!!! (link)
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Well it sucks to be hated believe me,but maybe you should try to ignore it and maybe the reason they have that group is to make them feel better about themselves
i hope i helped
claire
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Im 15/f
I have 3 best friends. Well, all these guys like my one best friend and their always around her and soo many people follow her and try to be her friend! It's so annoying because sometimes she ignores me, and my crush is one of the guys that likes her, and shes always hanging out with him. My first question is do you think I should be mad at her becuase shes always ignoring me for boys and shes ALWAYS hanging out with my crush??? She also hangs out with this girl that hates me and she tells me she doesn't like her. I think thats a lie because shes always hanging out with her too and the girl thinks shes her best friend. It's werid because no boys liked her last year and she was alot different last year, she was a lot nicer and payed more attention to me. I'm not jealous but it just bothers me alot. My other best friend gets annoyed by this too. What should I do??? Please don't say talk to her because I already have and she didn't listen and I get in alot of fights with her and I don't want it to cause another one. Thanx (link)
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First of all if your friend is ignoring you for boys than she isn't really a good friend. I had this happen to me once. I let it go and I made new friends. You should try that too.You never know maybe she will become nicer again,but until then let it go and make new friends.
I hoped i helped
claire
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im 14/f and i have never had a boifriend. i am really outgoing around my friends but whenever i'm around guys i get shy especially around guys i like. and it seems like all the guys at my school only like the sluts and nobody else.. what are some ways to get to be better friends with more guys and how to not be shy around them? thanks. (link)
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well my advice is to find a guy you have a lot in common with or make small talk with him, and not all guys are like that. If that doesn't work, if he doesn't lke u then hes not the right one for you.
i hope i helped
~claire~
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okay if someone has a std could you get it by just making out?? or what if they have one on there mouth can you that way? or what if they just have one below can you still?? ill rate fives with acuarte answers...thanks! (link)
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no you can't get std from making out. The only way you can get it is if you have sexual intercourse!
I hope i helped
~claire~
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