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Okay so my best friend (of 10 years) was going out with 2 guys (wesley and rafi) and rafi had a feeling my friend liked someone else..so i told rafi that my friend was cheating on him with wesley...am i wrong for doing that? i dont think i am because it's not like she was going to marry wesley or rafi so i dont know why she is getting all worked up over it...but what do yall think? did i do the wrong thing? (link)
that probably wasn't the best idea. i would appolagize to your friend if i were you. say something like 'i really didn't want him to get hurt because he kind of thought thought that you liked someone else... i'm really sorry. i shouldn't have done that.'

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Hey, I'm 13/f and I'm concerned about my breasts. When they developed two years ago, they develpoed with lumps. Just one big lump in each, and they hurt badly if anyone hit it by accident. I also have a white discharge coming from my nipple. When I look closely, it looks like skin. Can a 13 year old have breast cancer? Since only moderators can rate, I can't. Atleast not yet. (link)
the lumps are normal. your breasts are developing, you should be fine. as for the discharge, i would have someone look at that.

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I was suppossed to get my period around the end of last week and the beging of this week but i havnt gotten it......whats wrong??

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your period can be irregular for 1-3 years after your first period. unless you have had sex, you are fine.

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whats a really good makeup remover that can remove water proof mascara and lots of eyeliner? and i dont want the expensive ones and thanks!! (link)
i use clinique. it is amazing. try that.


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i'm getting braces soon. i don't know what color to get. i like the colors baby blue, light green, and baby pink, although i'm afraid those colors will bring too much attention to my mouth. will they? what colors are good so the braces arn't as noticeable. nothing vibrant like hot pink right? (link)
when i first got my braces i was thinking just like you. i didn't want anyone to notice them. so i got clear. DON'T get clear. they make your teeth look yellow. i know it sounds wierd... but black is the least noticable. if you get pink, it will stand out.. black looks the best, believe me, i tried like every color when i had braces.


What are some brands of mascara that make eyelashes REALLY long? I have an okay mascara by Clinique, but it gets kind of gloppy. So could you write if you have any preferable types that fit the description? (link)
just use like 3 different brands of mascarra one after another when the other one dries. it will make your lashes longer and it will make your eyes more drastic.

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Hello,
I have the stuff called "Sun In" that lightens your hair by the sun and my friend told me that was really REALLY bad for your hair..Is that true. Does it damamge my hair? Should I stop using it?

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sun in does not hurt your hair. i used sun in last summer and it turned my hair orange... for about 3 months after i used the sun in, my hair was turning different colors. it won't hurt your hair, but i wouldn't suggest it. ask a hair stylist for any other options to lighten up your hair.


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I want to do my room over. I want it to be kinda funky/retro. People I need ideas of how to decorate my room! I'm 14 and female by the way. I will rate soo high if you give me items AND store names and even websites!!!! (link)
pick out your favorite colors and make your walls plaid! make your bedspread one of those colors, and all of the other things in your room the other plaid colors! it will look awesome!

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I was picking at a pimple and now its a cut. I need to know how to get rid of it quick because I am going out tonight and I don't want to look like that. Does anyone know any home remedies for making a cut go away? (link)
there really isn't anything you can do to make it go away. cuts heal themselves. try putting some neosporin on it or a healing cream like that. it might look a little better.

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ok soo i see alot of people with hxc what does that mean?
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hxc means hard core.


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okay well i know that when guys get their cartalige pierced, that one side means they're gay and another side means their straight. well i have 2 questions::
1. which is which?
and 2. does it matter for girls and what side is the 'right" side because i just got my cartalige pierced adn the lady made me pick my own side because she said that it didnt matter..soo yeah 5's for anything that helps. thanks. (link)
if a guy gets his ear pierced on his right side, it means they are gay. it doesn't matter for girls!


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im having revival at my church all this week. i forgot to ask off from work, and im the type of person that hates to inconvenience people. i got someone to work for me monday. my only two days are today and friday. today, im supost to be training a new girl(about the 5th one theyve had me train),so, their definetely gonig to be inconvenienced. plus, tomorrow,i have a family graduation party to go to. i just feel bad asking for the whole week off, and inconveniencing them. any ideas on what i can say?
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just say something before you ask like
' i'm really sorry if i am inconveniencing you at all, but do you think....' and if you have someone working for you, they shouldn't care!


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i've always wondered this: can you lose weight (in a healthy way) by sweating? for example, being outside in 100 degree weather all day (and staying hydrated and all that good stuff). (link)
it will help you lose the weight, but this is unhealthy. and you will just get the weight back anyways.


When I ask my mom if a friend can come over or something, she won't answer me. She'll act like she never heard me, then if I ask again, she yells at me and grounds me for begging and annoying her. This is so aggrivating, how can I get her to either say yes or no, and respect me more! (link)
write a note to your mom telling her how you feel. if she doesn't want to talk, approaching her in a different way will help.

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my name is Rachel and iam a 17 year old girl and my dad died when I was 12 and sometimes I still find myself upset about it and it makes my grades go down when iam really upset how can I get over my dad's death? (link)
it is hard to get over any kind of death. tell someone close to you about your problem and have them find you a counselor. a counselor could cheer you up and help you a lot.

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Ok, So I am 13 years old and since May 2005, I have found myself madly in love with no other than a 20 year old McDonalds worker. He has started to open up a little more in the past couple of months, and he gives me lots of hugs, flirts, and shows all the "signs" of love back. Yet he has never told me. This week we are supposed to go to the movies. My question is, Should I open up and tell him I love him or should I just wait until he does? (link)
that's illegal! do not tell him that you love him. chances are that he just wants a younger girl. you could get in some trouble doing this. tell someone close to you about this person.

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I'm running out of Proactive so I bought Almay.
Is Almay a good product? I might use it if it has good reviews and it's a lot cheaper so it would help.
Does it actually work as good as proactive? (link)
almay is good. just not as good as proactive. almay won't be bad for you. just when you get a chance, go get some more proactive.

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Ok so im only 13 but im in love i've been with this guy he's 15 i've known him since i was 3 he asked me to marry him because he said he loves me what should i do (link)
you are way too young. if you are in love, he will wait.

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now be honest when you see a person with acne or just some pimples maybe just a break out ... what do you think of them? do they seem ugly to you? would you talk to them even? become their friend? or are you grossed out and do you judge them right away, even if they are really pretty but have acne? (link)
i don't care at all. i get a pimple once and a while. i will treat them for them, not their face.

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im going to six flags friday and i need a nice bathing suit that ties on both sides of the bottom piece and ties on the back and at the top of the neck on the top piece. ive looked at hollister and jcpennys ... and i found nothing. it cant be over 50$. i kinda need one with alittle bit of padding too. not just the material. and i was wondering how i could lose weight. like what exercises can i do to lose alittle bit of weight by friday. i mostly need exercises that work the thighs and stomach area. because my thighs are big and the stick out and my stomach is kinda big and my belly button i just dont like . any suggestions?

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try kaufmans, or pac sun, or deb, rue21, forever21, stores like that. and for the losing weight thing, i don't think you'll be able to get the results you want by friday. but try doing crunches but when you lift your head, lift your legs also. that will help your thighs and stomach.

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