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Q: Im 19 and since i started growing my boobs i always said i would get a boob job...Im a size 32a!!!. So i live in Virgina. Well I want to get a good doctor. not just anybody. I have money saved, and my parents are helping me...where can i find a good doctor in my area or do i need to go out of state...
oh and im not getting them done till im 21....my mom says i might grow in a couple year...
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Today is your lucky day. I usually don't answer these types of questions for obvious reasons but about 1 year ago my wife was considering the same. We went to the doctor and after his evaluation it looked like every thing was set. However one day while surfing I decided to find other doctors and compare there results with this doctors. I saw this ad for alternative breast surgery and decided to see what they were offering. The product was Breastgain Plus. After talking it over with my wife, considering the cost of the two, we decided it would be money well spent. I swear after 3 months her boobs were getting fuller and firmer. After 6 she had grown from about a 32b to a 34c and a little extra. And by the way my wife is 50! I still can't believe the difference. She still looks great in a bikini. I would highly recommend this product!
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Q: can i make a homemade hair and body spray out of conditioner and water?
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You should be careful of what you spray on your skin. I know there are many products out there home made or otherwise that are not good for you in the long run. Every thing you spray on your skin gets absorbed which allows it to get into your blood supply. While conditioner may be harmless on your hair, long term exposure to your skin may have a different reaction. If you are interested in how to keep your skin young and healthy looking, I have published a free website full of some excellent suggestions. I even have a page on chemical free skin care. Check it out for yourself! www.healthfix4life.com
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Q: Do you think i have to worry about eating a fattening food if it has twice as much protein then it does fat?
For example, I ate a Smokehouse Turkey sandwich at Panera Bread. It has 28g fats, 54g protein, and 790 calories. I know your body burns off more calories while digesting protein, and I also burn about 555 calories during exercise every night.
Would the fat and the protein all balance out?
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Fat is fat. You need good fats but meat fat is not that good. Some is good and necessary. A good protein source is also important. Anemia can be caused from not eating enough red meat. The turkey you ate is good. Don't know why the fat content is that high. I supply a very good health website with tons of free info. Try it out. www.healthfix4life.com
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Q: What are good, low calorie foods?
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Low calorie foods are just that. I really believe what you are looking for are foods that don't put pounds on you by eating them. I know for a fact you can eat all the celery you want and die of starvation. I also know if you eat a lot of low fat pork you will poison your body. Not all foods are equal. What you need is a healthy eating cookbook. go to www.healthfix4life and scroll down. There is a list of healthy eating cookbooks that covers alot of foods. Check it out and let me know what you think!
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Q: 17/f
I've been on a diet for three days now and I'm finding it really hard. I have a huge sweet tooth and I just love cakes and chocolate and lollies.
I eat enough and I'm not hungry after I eat but I really really have huge cravings for something sweet all the time and I can't stop it. It's really bad. What can I do to stop myself eating bad things? All I want is the taste of something sweet in my mouth.
Exercise doesn't stop my cravings coz I've tried :S
Can anyone help me?
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Absolutely eat fruit. Tomatoes, bananas, and kiwi fruit are high in potassium and will increase your metabolism which makes you more active which in turn helps you lose weight. Don't starve yourself. This will depleat your energy and make you want to eat more. The calories in fruit are easily used up so eat healthy and be full too. I have a website to help people live healthier. Loads of free info.
www.healthfix4life.com
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Q: This is school related.
Sorry if it's the wrong category :P
Which one is right?
I learnt how to speak Spanish.
I learned how to speak Spanish.
I am so fucking confused.
Both seem right!?
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There is no such word as learnt.
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Q: I want to be able to give my fiance a good time. i thought that if i give him oral then it would be nice. The only other time i have done this is with someone who had thin liquid come out. But my fiances cum is thick and comes out in spirts. I think that i will get sick if i try and swallow it. Is there any way for it to be come thinner like the first?
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Actually changing your diet will make your crap smell different, here's why. The longer food stays in your digestive tract the more it decays. Hence the worse it stinks. Babies who are breast fed CRAP doesn't smell like soy fed babies. So yes you can change the smell, density, and consistency by changing your diet but it won't happen in a day. Once a person gets their digestive system working properly odors and toxins absorbed from the intestines will decrease and "sweeten the body." This subject is easily verified with a little "googling"
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Q: How important is eating. I see so many commercials on TV and only a few look like they are concerned with what happens when you eat their brand. Is the public being fooled into poor eating habits.? Are we literally killing ourself "one bite at a time"?
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You will become what you eat. To most companies money is money. Most people are really killing themselves one bite at a time.
Yes you can dramatically increase your life span by changing the way you eat. I have devoted many years to researching this very topic and have developed a free website to help anyone get their life back.
www.healthfix4life.com
The steps to live the optimum lifestyle are so simple. Simply eat what your body needs to keep your immune system at peak operating potential. Thats it!
In with the good, stop the bad, have a great life. I have found some great online cookbooks that are so cheap it is embarrassing not more people are using them.
A simple healthy eating plan can actually prevent you from ever getting sick again. If you are really concerned with your health and that of others log on and check it out. Tons of really free information!
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Q: I am 30 years old, female, and I have been married for 10 years. We have two children, ages 7 and 8. I love my husband and I would describe our relationship as a good one.
My problem is I think about my ex boyfriend. A lot. As in every day a lot. Where this starts to become strangely pathetic is the fact that I haven't seen him or had contact with him in 13 years. He was my boyfriend my junior year of high school. We were only together a few months. Our relationship ended when he dumped me, and I (being 17 and completely emotional) was heartbroken. I got married when I was 20, and I dated a few guys between this ex and my husband. I never give any of the others a second thought.
It really bothers me that I still think about him so much, especially after SO MUCH time has gone by. I know they say you never forget your first love, but this has become beyond ridiculous. I'm far too humiliated to admit this to any of my friends and family. This may sound trivial, but it's become a minor form of torture and is interfering with my life and peace. Please tell me, what can I do to stop this stupidity?
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Sounds like me. 36 years ago I had this girlfriend that I thought I would marry. After 4 1/2 years she dumped me. My only real true love except my present wife of 27 very good years. Why is it she keeps getting stuck in my mind I don't know. But I know one thing for sure seeing her again would serve no purpose except to show her how bad she messed up by dumping me. Many high achievers have this sense of wanting to do well and be appreciated. I don't need a pat on the back. Just knowing my life means something makes me strive to keep going. The fact that she will never know how wrong she was about me makes me want to see her all the more so I can prove I really was worth sticking around for. A sort of in your face reality check. The problem arises when I think about the damage it might cause with my wife. That would not be worth it.
And the good part, she was a such slob as I found out later. I'm so glad it worked out the way it did. I know in my mind I really just want her to regret her poor decision.
Try and remember how really fortunate you are to be with your present husband. Vengence is a poor motivator and rarely works in our favor.
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Q: Hey, I read your answer to this question:
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=538067
and the way you've worded it, it seems like you're saying that ALL guys are bad and must be avoided. I'm wondering why you said that (if that IS in fact what you meant). It's unfortunate that your daughters got involved with bad guys, but they could have just as easily been involved with a really nice one too!
I'm sixteen and have a seventeen-year-old boyfriend, and he's one of the most amazing guys I've ever met. He respects women- I can tell because he has a good relationship with his mom and older sister, and doesn't ever force me to do anything. He doesn't hang with the "wrong" crowd and has really good friends, drives responsibly, etc. All-around he's a good person and my parents LOVE him.
But going with your answer to the above-linked question, I shouldn't be with him just because I'm sixteen and he's male, right?
I'm not trying to insult or offend you in any way, I'm just curious as to your opinion on this. :]
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OK let me try. I got from her question that she was upset that her parents were being over protective. Because her parents know how many, "not all" boys are they want to make sure she isn't being careless. Young girls are easily influenced which is why older men prey on them. They can be tricked easier. As for the " I'm female, he's male part" if you will spend some time studying your friends and how many relationships they go through in a years time I THINK you would agree that it may be better to stay away from guys until you can determine their intentions. I would bet a large amount of money your boyfriend is a rare find. Tell me if I'm wrong. Now if there aren't many guys like him then somehow my advice would be right for the majority. Friendships are important, not relationships. Many of the guys my girls were friends with pretended to be one thing while really their intentions were less than honorable. They even fooled me. But my advice to them that for the biggest part boys were trouble just didn't get through. I'm not trying to be right, just warning her that her parents are really looking out for her best interests. She is just having a hard time understanding them.
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Q: Whenever a guy calls me pretty, or hot, or even cute I feel really insecure about myself. It annoys me more than anything and I would just rather them notice that I'm funny, or that I'm nice or something. Almost like..I have nothing else thats attractive to you? Anyone else get what I'm talking about? I'm 16 and I've asked my friends and they say NO THAT'S A COMPLIMENT! HE THINKS YOU'RE CUTE!
I'd rather they just not say anything. I feel insecure being around guys that tell me I'm good looking because I feel like if I'm not looking so great at that moment, I have nothing to offer. Do all guys think that girls want to hear "You're hot" because quite frankly, I get distant from guys who say things like that to me.
Thanks for letting me vent.
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Sounds like you are doing the right thing. Guy's hitting on you makes them feel tough. Every guy wanting to score the big prize. I would offer a suggestion. Look at how you dress. Be careful. I'm not saying how you dress is bad. But what if the guys think that you are giving them a clue you want to be noticed. Some females wear a B.O.A.S.M. shirt. (Bend over and show me!) cleavage is a turn on for guys. we are wired that way. Instead give this message "nothing to look at here!" Let every body wonder what you "really" look like. Once the clunkers stop noticing you the one you would really like to meet will get his chance.
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Q: I kno the title sounds bad already.. but i met this guy he's the sweetest guy ever like he's perfect in every way and i think i fell in love with him. we had to stop seeing eachother because his ex girlfriend of 2 years came back to him so they tried again n it ended as soon as fast as it started and we recently started talking.. on the phone texting (he lives about an hour away) well now that his ex girlfriend's out of the picture and she's moving so she'll be farther away i think we were gonna try something again but now im worried he's got another girl behind my back.. i figured out they've been talkin on the phone.. hangin out.. he threw her a party.. and everything flirting obviously and idk what to do.. i dont want to confront him because then i seem "stalkerish" and "obsessed" which in reality im def. not like that. but i dont want to get hurt again. its been one of those we'll talk all day one day n he wont talk to me at all for the next 2.. and when he's not talkin to me im pretty sure he's talkin to her =/ please help i need advice!
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Chances are he isn't interested in having one relationship. He won't change for you. You on the other hand seem to know what you want. Think of this, all the fish in the sea are fish but not all are good to eat. If you were to go fishing and you were to catch a fish that stunk would you keep it because you caught it? Of course not. You throw it back, bait your hook and cast back out. The best anglers spend years fishing for that one special prize fish not taking second best and quiting. Let that looser go and cast back! You have way too many good years ahead of you to waste them on a fish you don't want mount on the wall. Change your bait, go to a different lake, change your casting techniques. Just do something different!!!
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Q: okay so I've been with my boyfriend for two years and we've been messing around for about 2 months or so. The only thing he does is eat me out and finger me and its good, but he won't let me do anything to him. I ask him why and he says because I have to want it & I don't even know what he means by that. I'm pretty sure we'll mess aroung this weekend. Any suggestions to what I should do to tease him and to get him to want me to do things to him??
18/f
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You need to put the brakes on. Tell him you have decided to wait until you find the right guy before giving to him what you will only have one time. No more messing around! Sex is special. It bonds two people together in a way that can't be described. I am 55 and I live with many regrets. There are times when I am with my wife other memories come into my mind and I wish they weren't there. Don't let that happen to you. Remember you can be like the others anytime you want to but they can never be like you!
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Q: OK SO.
here's the story. (im 15)
My parents think im like a little kid still.... but im totally different in school.
I wouldnt be surprised if they still think I think boys are yucky.
I definitely DONT. but its like im a kid here, and different at school.
at school i swear sometimes (try not to)
i see hott guys and like them
when i get home....
im daddy's little girl, and they dont think ill get a boyfriend for a while, and i think they think i dont even like guys yet.
AND I TOTALLY DOOOO.
i feel that it i change my home life.... everything will change
and i would feel REALLY AWKWARD telling them guy stories and stuff like that.
i dont know what to do.
It's like the other day i had to lie to them that i was hanging around with a guy and my friends because i didnt want them to flip out and not let me go.
for instance..... they found a guys number in my phone (my friend joe) ya he's my friend and in my class.
My sister found him in my phone and told my parents and now all they say is.... ohhhhh she likes joe ohhh. all that stuff. which i dont like him like that. So ya they make a big deal out of everything. saying stuff like oooo are you inviting joe to your party..... and i dont even like him.... they are just being annoying,
im afraid to tell them any guy stuff because they will over react about it
another example is....
i slept over my friends house for the first time...
and my dad called to check if there was gonna be any boys there!!!!!!
ya. i know
help?
thx babes
sorry its so long
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Hi, I have 4 girls and I did my girls the same way. They never understood either. My oldest listened to my advice eventually and married her first love, has 2 boys and are doing well. My second oldest did almost as well. She is 25 and still single and in college getting her teaching degree. She is somewhat loose in her living and has influenced her 2 younger sisters and they did some very stupid things. They both have records. The next one down, 23, sounds like you and she got pregnant " at age 17 just fooling around with guys." She eventually married him and it ended in a pending divorce. She had one other child and because she knew more than us continued behaving badly and had her child prematurely. 4- 1/2 years later the baby died. She left her husband about 8 months ago but not before getting pregnant one more time. Funny thing is now she says she needs help. The youngest,21 in April, was arrested several times because the guy she hung with loved her and stealing for him, at the time, was what he wanted her to do. He got off the hook for squealing her out! She eventually got married to a great guy and has a baby boy about 5 months old. All this could have been avoided if they would have stayed away from boys. For me I learned from my oldest brother why to wait. He's been married 5 times. I got married when I was 28. I am the only one of 5 children only married one time. I listened to the advice of older wise people who had my best interests in heart. It may seem like they don't trust you but it is the guys whom they don't trust. They are right. If you would talk to my girls NOW they would agree. And to tell you the truth, the longer you wait to date the greater the chance you will find Mr right. If you get hooked up with the wrong crowd "he" may not be interested in knowing you any better. The worst that can happen is you will miss getting your heart broke!
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Q: what religion is Obama, Clinton, and McCain?? thank you very much :)
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Clinton is as close to a socialist as you can get. Her view of government solving all the problems is evident. Obama is iffy. Both Clinton and Obama support a party platform that is contrary to the values they claim to believe in. Abortion and the homosexuality issue conflict with their religion. I'm surprised that Obama would support a party platform that is eliminating his race. If you look at which race receives the most abortions his race is being eradicated one baby at a time. I would think he was smarter than that! McCain supports the party who's moral values are in line with his religion but I don't see any real evidence in his life that would support a serious commitment to what he says he believes.
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Q: why do a lot guys deal with their problems by partying, sleeping with lots of girls and doing drugs?
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Young men want to be thought of as a somebody so whatever type of friends they have they want to prove to the others that they measure up. This is from poor self esteem. The ones that don't do that have a better understanding of the real world and there are far less of those. Think of guys like going to the store. Don't buy everything you see. Pick up each piece of fruit and examine it. Check for bruises and defects. The better produce is almost always at the better stores. Don't get tricked by fancy labeling. Read the nutrition label on the side. Make sure the ingredients are wholesome and nutritious. And last of all, don't buy what you don't need. A poorly chosen relationship will end up souring in your stomach. Stick to friends that share your values. Relationships can be started at any time but it's hard to end a bad one quickly.
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Q: i dont really know how to explain this, but you know when you raise your eye brows and you get these rolls on your forehead? i have those prefermently, not bad, but they could get worse. does anyone know how to get rid of them?
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I knew this teacher who would put tape on the area while at school. Seems like a good idea. You could also use a wrinkle remover cream. The face lift cream is another idea. As your face tightens the wrinkles will soften. Your face could also be dry. I have been using a deodorant soap on my face for years. At age 55 I noticed some lines and wrinkles . My face was getting these rough spots. NOT MY WIFE. Checked into what she was doing and started using the same stuff. IT REALLY WORKS!!! I use a exfoliating agent and an all night moisturizer that has that face tightener stuff. After 2 weeks I am really impressed. What can hurt?
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Q: 18 years old, female.
my dad works with a younger guy about 25 or 26. i'll call him brent. so brent some how got my number and started texting me. i thought he was just trying to get on good terms with me so my dad wouldn't dislike him or anything. well now it's got to the point where he is saying i turn him on and how sexy he thinks i am. it's freaking me out a little bit. i usually just write back haha thanks or something like that. but here's the thing, he's engaged! and i have a boyfriend! should i stop all contact with him? i don't want to be disrespectful to his fiance or to my boyfriend. is this wrong being that my dad is his boss??
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Yes it is wrong. Stop all contact! However the right thing to do may be difficult. On the one hand you could simply tell him you would rather he didn't contact you any more. If he continues, tell him you would rather not have to get your dad involved but it is an option. The bigger deal would be that he is probably doing the same with other girls. I am having a hard time with that. Would I want someone to tell me if my fiancee was doing this? You bet! How would you feel after 2 years of marriage you found out he was doing this all along and your best friend knew it all along? You would freak out! So here you go. I would find a friend of a friend that Brent surely doesn't know and give them the lowdown. Have that friend contact her and that should solve the problem. Remember, if it gets ugly get your dad involved.By all means don't lie but you should avoid letting your dad know about your plan. Most likely he will confront Brent and then he will know who did it. That way he won't try and get back at you.
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Q: i always get these random red things on my vagina.
i know they arent pimples, because it doesnt look like one.
it looks like a semi large blood bubble or something. and its super hard to pop, when i finally get it to pop it get keeps bleeding.
what is it?
i know it cant be any kind of disease because im not sexually active, and its not a cut because i dont shave down there yet
thanks
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Peeps advice is excellent! See a doctor!!!!! NOW!!!
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Q: 13/F
so I like this guy named Tyler.
He is in my homeroom and in my last period.
He does not know that I like him.
I don't really talk to him much, but every once in a while i do.
Me and one of my best friend Blake hang out a lot.
And not as flirting or anything like that.
Well, Tyler's and Blake's lockers are really close.
And Tyler asks Blake if me and him were going out.
Does that mean that he is interested or curious?
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Both!! Get Blake to tell Tyler how you feel about him. That will do the trick!!!
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Real advice is not always good, good advice is not always fair, but taking it will get you somewhere!
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Website: E-mail: Gender: Male Location: Pineville LA Occupation: Sign Fabricator Age: 55 Member Since: April 21, 2008 Answers: 97 Last Update: June 11, 2009 Visitors: 12008
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