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Hi! My name is Lauren. I am 13 years young and I love to dance!! When i grow up I want to be a dancer.I have the bestest friends ever and I love them! My best friend is ask_kendall! My boyfriend is Travis! S2 I love him to death!=] I know a lot about fashion, guys, friends, sports...just about anything. So ask me any questions and I will help you out! Love Lauren/Kckstartmyheart

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Okay this is really embarassing....I went to the movies with my boyfriend last night and we decided to see Nacho Libre...well halfway through the movie I had drank a large soda and I really needed to go ut I didnt want to miss the movie. So then this really funny part happened and I laughed until I peed my pants...I was SO embarrassed and I couldnt get up because I was afraid he would notice to when we went to leave the movie I just rapped my jacket around my waist. On the car ride home he put his hand on my thigh and squeezed...I was so happy! I've never really be touched by a guy (I know I'm a weirdo) and I'm really excited and like a a crazzed fan touched by their hero I'm not sure if I want to wash the pants. I know its gross...but would it be too weird to not wash them and keep them for sentimental value? I wanted to ask my friends but I was WAY to embarrassed to ask people I know. Oh my gosh pleaase help!

wash your pants. write itdown in your journal. since he is your boyfriend he will most likeley touch you again. hope i helped!
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me and my friends always are hanging out. but were kind of getting sick of doing the same things over and over again. during the day we usually just swim at someones house and then at night we have like a bonfire and make smores and swim more. occasionally we go down to the beach and walk the pier and get ice cream. do you have any other ideas of fun things to do. its for both girls and guys around the age 15. any ideas. thanks!

go to the movies. take pictures. play soccer, fotball, baseball, volleyball, any sport really. or you could put on a play. cpuld go to the mall and look around and stuff. just about anything you can do by yourself thats fun you could do in a group. i hope i helped!
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Ok so I have stretch marks all over my stomach because I lost a TON of weight. They're all icky and black because I have darker skin and it's summer and I need to wear my new bikini.
Is there anything I can do because I worked so hard to lose all this weight and fit into my bikini and now I have stretch marks everywhere and they're really visible.
Do you also know a way to get rid of all the flab on my stomach. I have like extra skin over there and I've been doing stretches but I still have all that skin from where my fat used to be... help?

coco butter. theres even special ones that are for strech marks. and you can also look at creams for people who are pregnant because they get a lot of strech marks and so you may beable to find something. i hope i helped! good luck!
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hi ive told her to stop but she doesnt she goes crying to the moderaters sayin that we are picking on her but we are not its her starting the bitching its a vicious circle. its not just me she has a go at its other people she starts on she has lost alot of friends over being possesive and not acting her age she is 29years old but acts about 12 years old

well mabye you need to sit her down and tell her what she is doing and just how stupid she sounds and is acting. tell her thats she is 29 not 12 and need to act 29. then tell her how she is hurting you and everybody else. i hope this works out. GOOD LUCK!!
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which colour eye shadows suit green eyes?

dark greens, light greens, and browns look best! but if you want to be daring try black. as a very vibrant color. i hope i helped!
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Ok...I have this issue...I am SOOOO bored... I mean..I am basically a loner so I dont go anywhere...now I am dog sitting so if i do go somewhere I have to take hte puppy with me...I just got a new cell fone but ive already explored it to the fullest and i have nothing to do. I cleaned my house yesterday and I am dead sick of the computer...does anyone have anything on ideas of what I can do...??? Plz help!

well you can play with your puupy. take him on a walk. or to do something without your puppy you could do your hair. give your self a makeover. find a recipe and make it. do arts and crafts. play a sport. listening to music. make up a dance. take pictures. read a book. or even be daring and join a team. i hope i helped a lot! GOOD LUCK!!!
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as you guys all know.
the school year's starting soon.
and i want to be a whole new me ! :)
i want to get highlights.
& have a new found style.
i want to decorate my locker.
& i want your help. :)

any ideas:
on styles, locker decorations,
nice highlight colors for dark brown hair?
[i'm thinking a bit blonde or red].


helP. :D

well with your hair color i would get light red or blonde. but i would strongly suggest a light brown. something that will blend and go with very well. for your locker you could get magnet to decorate it and they have all sorts of magentic thing now adays such as mirors picture frames white boards to write notes on just about anything. for your style it depends on what you like and what your school allows. i personally like a cute skirt and a nice shirt but jeans are very in. shoe ...many styles are in such as ballet flats, clogs, sandles..not JUST tennis shoes! styles that are pretty in and are very cute are abercombie american eagale areopostal pac sun or if you dont like those style or dont wanna spend quiet that kind of money then target marshells wal mart have cute styles that are very affordable and dont cost to much and they usally have great sales. as for make up with your eyes i would were purples and blues. or something sipmle like brown or for dramdic affects balck. i would use some masscarra and mabye a little bit of eyeliner some foudation and blush and a bit of lip gloss. GOOD LUCK! and i hope this helped a TON!
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Omg, my mom just used this new brand of very strong hair dye (from the store), and she bought the color she usually gets! Problem is, since the product is so strong, the dye is put in twice as much, so her hair is completely black! (when she bought light brown!) We called the hotline & they apologized, but said we should have got the blonde. Wtf.

ANYWAY, not the problem. My question is, is there ANY way to make her hair lighter faster? Our next door neighbor told us washing your hair with dish detergent helps strip some color, but we didn't try it yet. Any suggestions? (DO NOT say lemon juice, k thanks)

You could try a special shampoo or try another dye. like a light one then she would usally use. this happen to my sister and her hair was orange so we got brown dye and it worked. hope i helped!
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ok so theres this guy i really really like and he really likes me too. like every time i we say bye he tells me he loves me and he says the cutest stuff. and everytime i tell him i love him he says no i love you more and adorable stuff like that. so anyways hes friends with my ex that i went out with for 3 months. me and this guy tried to go out but my ex got really pissed off (because i was the one the broke up with him). my ex also hated me then. so i had to break up with this guy that i really really liked. this was about a month ago. now i am friends with my ex again and i still really really like this guy and he really really likes me and we talk every single day on aim or texting or the phone. i was gonna go to overnight camp and i told him that i wanted to be single for that but now im not going anymore because im going to colorado so i think he might ask me out but im really good friends with my ex now and i think my ex actually likes me again because he gets mad every time i talk to the guy i like and i say to my ex.. well why do you care its not like you like me or anything and he said well.. im not sure if i do or not. my ex also calls me every night just to talk.. which i think is a little weird. well if the guy i like does ask me out what should i do because i really wanna go out with him but i dont want him to lose my ex as a friend and i dont wanna lose my ex as a friend either. thanks sorry it was so long

well its really all up to you but he probabley likes you. why else would he care. but then again some guys just dont care about who you like and all....especailly an ex. soo talk to him and see how he really feels. mabye if you dont like him tell him that and tell him you want to be just friends and really friends. also talk to the other guy and tell him how HIS friend feels. mabye they can also work something out. well i hope i helped.
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This is long so be prepared...

I'm 13/f and I'm having trouble with my body image. I used to be overweight (about 2 years ago) but then my mom helped me get into a better diet and now I'm not SO overweight and fat. Over the past few months I've been starting to eat sweets here and there but I'm still exercising a lot. The feeling of "Oh my gosh I've gotten so fat" suddenly came on in the past month. I have even gained weight and I'm really, really close to being over weight according to the weight chart. I will admit that I'm one of those girls who says "I'm fat" in front of my friends and especially my mom and expect to hear "oh no you're not." So when I said "I've gained a lot of weight!!! GOSH I'm starting to get so fat again..." to my mom she didn't say anything like "you're over reacting...you look just fine." She simply said "well, you're going to have to work on that." I was shocked =O I couldn't believe that even she had started to notice (and in a way agreed with me) and now I'm starting to wonder if other people notice. So...I got really depressed about it...and said to myself "if I could just be skinny I'd feel so much better about myself..." I hate thinking that the only way to get thin is to just not eat. I also realize I'm putting how I LOOK in front of my HEALTH and it's bothering me that I am ignoring what becoming a semi-anorexic would do to my health. I'm not exactly "huge" but I do have plenty of extra pounds I want to get rid of. At the moment I'm really upset because I don't know what to do. When I talked to my mom she just said "well, you need to get back into eating healthy" but I am and it ISN'T WORKING. She also says "You are also over reacting about becoming anorexic. you're being such a drama queen." HELLO! I'M SERIOUS HERE!! and i don't plan on becoming skin and bones. I really need some advice on what to do...I'm worrying myself by the way I'm thinking! =[

do not become anorxic. you can get seriously hurt and kill your self and have to be hospitalized. this does NOT work. try to diet and exersise healthy and/or join a program like weight watchers. just be sure to be healthy while losing weight. hope this helped!
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hi i have a problem i was friends with this woman and i told her a secret about me and a man i was seeing 20 yrs ago she promised that she would not tell anyone but she told aload of people in a chat, now she stalks me around the net and im sick of her i wish she would leave me alone she has been warned off moderaters but it just comes back and starts trouble again.

well if i were you i would first tell her to stop. then if that doesnt work then block her and ignore her. it might also help to tell someone you trust like a best friend or something so they know whats happening if anything else occuers. i hope i helped!
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