Ok so I'm 13 and I have a boyfriend and I had to have sex with random guys in front of him,my boyfriend took videos and stuff and now I must do it everyweek with atleast 5 guys I think I'm pregnant though(no period,nasias,tired ect...)And I'm scared that I am because my mom and dad will kill me and propbably disown me! Please help!
I'm gonna be blunt and straight forward. If you were my child I'd knock you upside the head. You are 13 years old what the heck do you think you're doing. Sex is an adult game. It isn't for children and that's what you are. You should be worried about school and getting through that. You don't want to be a drop out in middle/highschool. You do NOT have to have sex to be with someone. That's rediculous. You need to have more respect for yourself. Just because you tell a guy no, doesn't make you a prude. Your body is still growing and can't handle the sex that you're putting it through. It's very unhealthy. I had my daughter when I was 16 years old, and I've regretted not waiting ever since.
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Okay so a few weeks ago, I felt kind of wet in my panties. I thought it was my period. But when i went to the bathroom to put a pad on, there was white gooey stuff in my panties. I have it everyday now. Is this normal?
While I respect the answer below, that does sound NORMAL. But you never know what the discharge means. It depends on the texture, color, smell. You should ALWAYS talk to your doctor just in case. It could be a yeast infection for all you know. Do talk to your doctor about it.
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I met a boy in my class we are realy close and I do not know if he likes me or not> HELP
Alright...we're in the 21st century now. Girls CAN ask a guy out. It doesn't have to be old fashioned. Maybe you could ask him if he wanted to hang out and get coffee or something. But, you can't expect to get anywhere when you don't say anything at all. You say you're really close, well talk to him. SLOWLY and I mean really slowly, just lead up to you telling him you like him. Start a conversation about something you can easily put into you liking him. Maybe ask him if he likes anyone or something. It will come to you. You can't expect him to think...no offence to guys, but guys are slow. You have to spell things out for him. They' aren't girls they don't have the connection that women have with each other. They can't read our minds. Only a girl knows what a girl wants.
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i like a guy who has been in a relationship with another girl for two and half years. he says they are done but last week over fall break he went nine hours to see her, has pictures of them everywhere, constantly texting her, etc. he shows signs of liking me but i do not know how real it is because we never really hang out unless he wants me to spend the night with him (we never do anything) and seldom texting. what should i do? quit trying? give him space? keep trying?
Sounds like this guy is an idiot. Don't you watch movies? A guy will always say he's going to break up with them, but they don't. Because they're a player. Don't bother with it. It's going to hurt, it's going to be hard. But it's so much easier to have this be done and gone so you don't have to worry about it, than getting in deeper. Also, you knew that he had a girlfriend, next time, just say I won't be with you until you are DONE with her. For all you know, she could be pregnant or what not. Always be mad at HIM never the girl. You don't know this girl, she could be completely innocent, and it sounds like she is. I had a boyfriend who did that with girls all the time. We met when we were 14. And I knew he was a cheater. He would keep me as his main, but would have girls on the side really I think just to talk to and mess around with. And we had sex maybe...8 times a day at most. So it's not like I wasn't giving it up. I just remember thinking, how can a girl who knew I existed do that? I think women should stand together and never get mad at each other. Protect one another. It hurt because you'd think that as a girl herself who had gone through what I had, she might have some respect for me. We've been together for 4 years now, and we're still together. We have one daughter, and a son on the way. He's changed so much. But nothing has ever hurt me more in my life, than having him be with someone else.
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i'm 18 female and my parents and boyfriend and best friend are all talking to me about the future. At first it was ok but now i feel like its gotten way out of hand and i feel like i'm about to lose it!
my parents are talking to me about college (which is fine because i already know what college i'm going to) but then they were talking about moving and studying abroad and studying international school and living there when i'm older like 2 or 3 years from now.
my boyfriend was talking to me about our future together. at first that was fine because i thought it was cute that he wanted to stay together when i was in college. but now he's talking about marriage and where we would live and kids etc. i'm freaking just a kid still!!! i feel like i'm so overwhelmed with him talking about the future and i haven't really given it a thought but it hurts my brain to think about the future
my best friend was talking to me about college (that was fine because we were discussing which colleges we were going to) but then she started talking about how when we are older we could travel together and get an apartment together and be roommates and do everything together. at first i was fine with it because she is my best friend and we are like sisters and i can't imagine life without her.. but now its just weird how we are basically planning our future..
i dont know if i'm overreacting but i just feel so overwhelmed with everything. i do have a lot of stress in my life, so that could be a factor. but i just feel so stressed and anxiety and i wish i could scream at people! help what do i do?
Since you have a best friend, I'm sure she loves you, I'm sure your parents love you, and I'm sure your boyfriend loves you. Now, why don't you think about what YOU want. It's YOUR life. If you plan on living with your grandma in peru, it's YOUR choice. And because these people love you they want whats best for you. And what's best for you, is you being happy. Please think about that. I hope that helps.
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I am fifteen, a girl, sophomore. Here's the story. I met this guy the summer before my freshman year. People told me he was a player and just wanted to use me but no, I saw something different. And so we started talking and he was funny and sweet and nice and I started to like him and he liked me back. We started dating and it was great. He was my first boyfriend and my first kiss. I have never been happier than i was those first four months. He made me feel so special. But he is sixteen at the time, a sophomore, and I was fourteen, a freshman. And he told me how the girl he was with before, well he fingered her. This scared me. I thought, I dont wanna do that stuff, I'm not ready but he assured me that our relationship meant more to him than the physical stuff. But things started changing. We would hang out and be making out and he'd try and slip a hand down my pants but I'd always pull it out. We never talked about it but it kept happening. Finally, I let him finger me. Next he started asking for handjobs and I would say no but... I gave him one. I didn't know what was happening at the time but I started to get sooo whipped. Anything he told me to do I'd do, just in general. I was going through some rough times with my friends and parents so he basically became my life. He was the only thing I thought was going well. I couldn't lose him. He told me he loved me. And I told him we were too young but eventually I said it back. And I began to feel it to. I really did love him in all of my twistedness. But he began to grow distant and the more he pulled away the more I clung to him. Thigs were falling apart but I couldn't let go. He forced me to look him in the eye and he told me he loved me. So when he asked for a bj I did it... I trusted him. He dumped me four days later in a text message. I asked how he could say he loved me on day and then four days later not want a thing to do with me. He said we were never in love. He said we were too young. We dated all school year, broke up on the first day of summer. It was the worst summer of my life. He told people how far we went; that I put out. I told him I hated him. I said horrible things to him but I still wanted him back. He moved on quickly. It broke my heart to see him flirt with other girls and hear rumors of his hook ups. It tore me to pieces. In the middle of the summer he said he wanted to apologize for how he handled everything, that he was an ass. (all in text of course). But I wouldn't accept his apology. School starts again and I yelled at him. For such a stupid reason... He ignored me and I sent him nasty texts. I felt bad after and tried to apologize but he said he doesn't care. He doesn't wven want to be friends. And I think I still love him... It's been eight months since we broke up and not a single day goes by that I don't wish he wanted me back too. I think about him 24/7. I texted him the other night because it actually wasnt until a few weeks ago that I noticed how clingy I was in our relationship. I used to blame everything on him but I know I had a part in our relationship failure and I wanted to apologize. It was in text. He said he appreciated it and we had a nice little conversation but I texted him a few days ago and he said yup and then didn't reply... He knows I want to be friends and he kind of knows I still like him (I think) but I don't think he wants a thing to do with me. But I'm miserable without him. I don't understand. It's been so log since we broke up and Ive done the hook ups, the hanging out with your girls, the finding new hobbies, I even went a week pinching myself whenever I thought of him. I dated another guy but I broke up with him recently because I know o still want my ex. I just don't know what to do. I'm desperate right now and I want to be happy again but I feel like it's neve gonna happen. I know I'm young. Don't tell me that. That's not going to take away any of this pain and I want it gone. I just need help on getting through this. And not a lecture.
Do you know how many relationships EXACTLY like this I've been in? Here's your first clue. He DOES NOT LOVE YOU. He told you he loved you, and that he'd wait? But he didn't want to wait, and asked you to do that stuff anyway. I tell you right now, he didn't forget that you didn't want to do that stuff. Hell no. He knew. He was hoping and praying to get into your pants. He's sitting there flirting with other girls like it isn't anything, he NEVER cared. He's what I call, a date wait. He'll date you for as long as it takes...until he gets bored, until you put out. And if you don't, he moves on. He needs to grow up. Nothing was your fault. There's no clingy shit. Every girl had or has a bad boy like that. And getting your heart broken makes you stronger. It teaches you that you can get through all the heartbreaks. All this hurt, torment and pain is going to turn you into a better, stroner person. Don't take him back if HIS life depended on it. He doesn't deserve it. He deserves his eyes gouged out with forks. I know you love him, and I know it hurts now, (Like I haven't heard that before) but you really will get over it. I really hope that helps.
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So basically me and my boyfriend had made 2 years on december 4th. We was suppose to be going out that day but he clamed that his mom took his money or whatever , but I had asked him the day before we was suppose to be going out and he said he had the money. So the day of our anniversary I got my hair done and make up but come to find out that we wasn't going anymore . I felt so hurt like I got played . So he called and said sorry but I just didn't feel like talking to him. So I didn't speak to him for two days . so I been thinkin about breakin up with him . Not because we didn't go out for our anny but it was because he cheated on me a couple of times and lied about everything . So I was looking for him in school but come to find out that he hurt his knee and he was going to be getting surgery. So this is making it harder for me to do what I have to do . Instead I'm just so worried about being here for him . Do u think that after he gets better that I should just leave him or should I do it now before matters get worse. Or should I just wait and see if he is going to change and really try to make us work . Please help me I don't know what to do
Little missy. I know you don't want to hear this, but you need to dump him. The minute that that thought goes through your mind, he just be GONE. Once a cheater always a cheater. And your SECOND anniversary? What did he plan on taking you to Mcdonalds. Listen, I know it's hard, believe me. Try breaking it off with someone you've been with for 4 years that you love dearly. But that's what turns you into a better person. And as for that hurt knee incident, I don't belive for a second you should feel sorry for that evil person. Ever heard of Karma? I bet that that's what it is. I'm a strong believer in it. Do you really want to wait for that day when you MEET one of those hussies or walk in on something you don't wanna see and be hurt worse. Why are you worried about hurting him, when all he's doing is lying and hurting you? He's not going to change. I have a lot of experience. This may surprise you to hear this, but did you know, that the only species in the world, that ignores his/her insticts, are humans? Instincts are ALWAYS right. Think about that. I do hope that helps sweetie.
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Our brother's wife is overbearing and mean at every family get together. She goes on and on about how wonderful she is, how she does everything right while at the same time being mean and spiteful to everyone around her, particularly the children in the family. She takes over and acts like she's the one in charge every chance she gets. And she thinks nothing of making hurtful, spiteful comments. None of us say anything and continue to tolerate the behavior because we don't want to alienate our brother (who isn't much better than his wife). I say it's time we tell this know-it-all bully that we've had enough. If she doesn't care who's feelings she hurts then why should we? What's the worst that can happen? She stops talking to us? Big whoop I say. I just don't want it to be me who finally blows my top at the next family function while everyone sits by and acts like her behavior doesn't bother them. We've all discussed the situation and agree that she's become unbearable.
If your brother isn't going to say anything, maybe he doesn't notice, or doesn't want to say anything either. And as for saying he's as bad as his wife, then what. One comment, from a mean adult, can scar a child for life. I had a teacher who called me stupid, one time. And I've never forgotten about it. Someone needs to stand up to that "lady" and put her in her place. Nobody said you have to do it in an ugly way. The next time she decides to open her mouth, simply look at her dead in the eyes, and tell her everyone is sick of her attitude. Honesty really is a good policy. And if your brother marries a woman like that, why don't you try talking to your brother first. I really do hope that helps.
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I know I'm crazy! :P
I was thinking about chips the other day and how they're made. They're just like seasoned, salted, dehydrated potato slices, right? So, can I make those at home some way or do the factories do something special? I was thinking it would be so cool to make your own chips and I'd LOVE do to that if anybody knows how...
THANKS ADVICENATORS!
First peel however many potatos you think you'll need for enough potato chips. I'd say each potato is worth a good sized amount for 1 person. If you like skin on the potato, leave it, otherwise peel it off. Put some frying oil in a pot. Put it on medium heat. While the oil is heating up, slice the potatos. For a Lays type chip, slice very thin, for a kettle style chip, thicker. When the oil is heated to fry, place some potato slices in the oil, You can fry them to your liking. I like a light brown chip myself. When they are to your liking, season with any type of season you want. Salt, pepper, basil, etc. Enjoy. I hope that helps.
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i want to learn a song on acoustic as i sing it also. but i dont know which song would match my voice well and would be easy to play. first off im 15/f and my voice matches somewhat to amy lee from evanescence and then also to alter bridge and rise against?.. im average. but any ideas of easy guitar songs and or singing. thanks!
Any Taylor Swift song, or try Johanna Wang. Either way. Any songs that are soft enough that just have guitar or a few instruments, guitar being the loudest, should work. When you come across your song, you'll know. I would choose a country song. :) I DO hope it helps.
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now has any girl actually gotten an orgasm from straight up penetration? if so is there any way to reach it faster like certain positions or something i just feel like it would take forever and a guy couldnt last haha i just want good sex!!
When I have sex with my boyfriend, concentrate on YOUR body. And only that. Then while he is going in and out, "hump" along with him. It is great!
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This spring I was with a girl for about 4 months. Before school ended I broke up with her; I still liked her a lot, but our relationship was messing things up with me and my friends, school work, etc...I just felt that she felt more strongly for me than I did for her and that I should end things.
Well I miss her, a lot. And now I'm wishing I hadn't ended things. We're still friends, we're on good terms now but I know that I really hurt her this spring, and I know that after I broke up with her she wanted to get back together.
What should I do? Would I be a total ass hole for asking her if she wanted to try things out again... and I don't want to totally embarrass myself if I find out she doesn't even like me anymore. I'm not sure what to do. Help? Should I just IM her or call her? Or just wait till school starts up again....
I think, my opinion, that you should take some time out of your day, and figure out what's best for YOU. Screw what everyone else says. It's important for you to be happy. Don't worry about making everyone else happy. If you find that you want to be with her again, just take her aside, and say look, I'm sorry that I broke your heart last spring, I didn't mean anything by it. But I really do like you, and I want to try things out with you and I again. If she says she doesn't want to get back together with you, chances are she still cares about you either way. And at least she knows that you care. And if she does say that, tell her, that you'll be here for her and you will care about her if she ever wants to try again. I would suggest that you do it to her face. It's important to let her know that you DO care about her, and cell phone and email doesn't say much. But the emotion you can show on your face can mean A LOT. :D I hope that helps. At least think about it.
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I wanna cook a nice desert for my boyfriend. with strawberry. Can someone give me a good recipe? thanks
This is just a suggestion, but I think if you go to a food website such as...foodnetwork.com or cooks.com, or something like that. Look up strawberry deserts. Although, if you are looking for something simple, I suggest Strawberry Cobbler.
Here is a URL I found. I suggested cobbler, because it's sweet, and buttery and delicious and it's a very good comfort food. Especially if it's warm. Delicious. http://www.cooks.com/rec/view/0,1937,150163-233193,00.html
OLD FASHIONED STRAWBERRY COBBLER
1 qt. fresh strawberries
1/4 lb. butter
1 c. milk
1 c. flour
1 1/2 tsp. baking powder
1/2 tsp. salt
1 c. sugar
1/4 tsp. ground cinnamon
Whipped cream (optional)
Heat oven 400 degrees. Hull the strawberries. Melt butter in an 8x12 inch baking dish in preheated oven about 4 minutes. Remove dish from oven. Add milk, flour, baking powder, salt, sugar and cinnamon to the baking dish and stir until just mixed. Arrange strawberries, tips pointed up, on top of the batter. Bake cobbler in oven until golden brown, about 25 minutes. Serve warm or at room temperature. Makes 4 servings.
I do hope that helps. :D
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OK i know this way off topic from sex but on like a scale of 1-10 10 being the highest can someone rate the amount of pain to get
Eye brow pierced
Lip pierce
Tounge
Nipple
Belly button
Clit
I cant figure out which would have the least anmount of pain cause i hate pain!!
And how tolerbale are you to pain cause im not good with pain Thanks alot
eyebrow 34
lip23
tounge is the least painful
nipple most painful
belly button 45
clit78
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Whats a good song for when a guy has totally played you and messed with your emotions? Thankss
I could make a list that goes on and on...but I'm going to try to make it short...lol.
Irreplaceable-beyonce
How many times, how many lies? -pussycat dolls
Before he cheats- Carrie Underwood
Some songs that are more like...break up songs...so yeah
over and over-nelly
telescope eyes-eisley
emotion-destinys child
scars-papa roach
who knew-pink
f.u. right back -frankee
and then here are the songs I ALWAYS listen to when my relationships end...
pain-three days grace
through glass- stone sour
broken-seether
winner at a losing game-rascal flatts
hate me-blue october
the voice within-christina agularia
in my life-the beatles
reflection-christina agularia
angel-amanda parez
cold-crossfade
it ends tonight-all american rejects
perfect-simple plan
dont cry out-shiny toy guns
apologize-onerepublic
tim mcgraw-taylor swift
hoplessly devoted to you-olivia newton john
what hurts the most-rascal flatts
the reason-hoobastank
everything changes-stained
ok im gonna stop listing them...because I won't be able to stop...lol
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okay so im 16/f & im in this driver's ed class & there's this guy i there with me that i like alott. & i started talking to him. & he looks at me sometimes & smiles at me & sometimes he teases me. but like he's really cool. and i asked him for his number & he gave it to me. well driver's ed class ends on saturday but im leaving on friday so should i just tell him on thursday cuz thats my last day that i like him before i leave to go on vacation? im not sure if i should im scared too.
What's the worst thing that could happen. Yea he could say no, but who cares. It's his loss. But I would start flirting with him first. Just to make sure. THen if he flirts back, then you MIGHT have a chance. Body language is very special, and something you REALLY need to pay attention to. Maybe ask him if he wants to hang out sometime, like at the mall, or to go see a movie. Get to know him first, you don't know if he has a girlfriend. Make small talk with him if you go with him to the mall. Maybe, ask him short questions that lead into conversation. Such as. So... do you have a girlfriend? If he answers yes or no, just say, oh cool. If he asks why, which most ppl would, just look away and say, no reason, smile. You have to MAKE him want you or you might not get him. Long really bad answer, but just advice. Lol.
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Do you think i have a singing talent?
http://s161.photobucket.com/albums/t202/SRH6306/?action=view¤t=945c57e3.flv
You do. But some advice when you're singing. You shouldn't try so hard. You do have a good voice. It's nice to hear a fellow singer. Lol.
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i know about white strips, but i want to know about how much it is to get your teeth professionally whitened at a dentist? is it painful? or what kind of experience is it?
I've had my teeth whitened at a dentist before. It was 10$ when I had them whitened. It hurt a little. But the lady was really rude, and tryed to finish really fast. So that would probably be the reason why it hurt a little. But yea, it really cleans your teeth.
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i can't take life. i honestly can't. every morning when i wake up i'll try to think of something good that might happen today, but the truth is it's just another damn day. where i'm still my miserable and lonely self. everything in life is too disappointing. I don't have friends or a boyfriend, well i used to have a "friend" but she always tried really hard to make me feel worse about myself. Just now she even asked my "why?" when after she said that guys stare at her 24/7 and I told her they do the same to me. She's such a hurtful bitch.
Every time i have a date set up w/ someone who is interested in me, HE BREAKS THE FREAKING DATE. So all my relationships end before they really begin. See it's just my luck.
I want to commit suicide but I can't because I'm afraid of the pain.
Please don't say anything like "Oh everyone feels this way sometimes." because i feel this way ALL the time. all the god damn time.
people ignore/exclude me whenever they can. i don't even do anything bad/mean.
and also please don't say "oh honey everything's gonna be okay things will get better!"
because i've already heard that too much.
therapists/counselors don't help me. i've seen too many of them. can i be put to sleep or something? like a dog? is that possible?
what can i do to take life? i just want to die so badly. don't say anything like "oh just pray about everything and it'll be okay." I'm not a christian and i never will be again. i'm agnostic because it's the only true religion.
it's not like i've had any horrible tragedies or anything, but i still am just as miserable as anyone who has had them!
god i want to die. help.
I was like this in 5th grade. No one wanted to be around me, evertime I had a boyfriend, a couple weeks later, we would break up. I had no friends whatsoever. Then I got introduced to msn messenger. I met a bunch of people and they became friends, then Myspace, Aim, blah blah blah. This was during the summer. When I went back to school, I was in 6th grade, I was totally different. I had alot of friends. Now I'm in 8th grade, and I have ALOT of friends. I can always start you off. Here's some urls for you.
www.myspace.com/blessthebrokenroad3397
My msn messenger is brittany025@hotmail.com I can start you off.
Good luck!
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Ok, so I have been going out with a boy for a year, and we haven't had sex yet, because we are waiting until we are married. so my ex boyfriend, who I have known for 3 years, come over to my house and we hang out. We smoke pot with my sister, and blahblahblah. Then we had sex. The next day, I called my boyfriend and told him this, but then I start adding stuff like, I didn't want to, which actually, I didn't. And I told him to stop like 4 times, which I did, but he didn't. Then I quickly added, he was huge, and about as big as you, and he's freakin strong. My boyfriend is like...really tall. I'm about 5"6 and he's like 8 inches taller than me. And so my boyfriend is like, isn't that rape? And I'm like yea...ew. And so we start talking, and then I kept talking about it. I guess it was on my mind. Lol. And I'm like, I tried to call you but he grabbed the phone from me and blah blah blah.
And so I tell my friend about it and she's like, that's rape. And he's such a loser and whatever. And so then on Friday, I go to my dads band practice thing, it happens every Friday, and while I'm there, apparently John and Mia came over and smoked some pot with my sister. And Mia tells John about what I said and stuff. So I called John yesterday, and I'm like hey whats up and he's like, I'm mad at you, Mia said that you told her I raped you blah blah blah. And so I'm all like no I didn't. And I start convincing him that I didn't and that Mia is the one that is being a backstabber. So now he believes me, and I don't really care about him, because my boyfriend told me not to hang around him. ANd I really love my boyfriend, and I don't want to hurt him anymore, I already lied to him, I don't want to anymore. I just want to tell him the truth, but I don't know what to say. Which is what my question is. But I want to make sure he knows that I love him, because I really do. I need ALOT of answers. And if your going to be rude and tell me I'm a tramp. I suggest you don't.
Tell him the truth. It may be hard, but if you love him, then you will do it. Also, stupid people that are commenting below. SHE didn't say that she was raped. It says her friend and her boyfriend did. Stop being stupid. She didn't lie about it. Write down what you want to say to him, then leave a message on his phone, or mail it to him, or give it to him.
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