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He cheated on me twice... should I dump him?
So basically me and my boyfriend had made 2 years on december 4th. We was suppose to be going out that day but he clamed that his mom took his money or whatever , but I had asked him the day before we was suppose to be going out and he said he had the money. So the day of our anniversary I got my hair done and make up but come to find out that we wasn't going anymore . I felt so hurt like I got played . So he called and said sorry but I just didn't feel like talking to him. So I didn't speak to him for two days . so I been thinkin about breakin up with him . Not because we didn't go out for our anny but it was because he cheated on me a couple of times and lied about everything . So I was looking for him in school but come to find out that he hurt his knee and he was going to be getting surgery. So this is making it harder for me to do what I have to do . Instead I'm just so worried about being here for him . Do u think that after he gets better that I should just leave him or should I do it now before matters get worse. Or should I just wait and see if he is going to change and really try to make us work . Please help me I don't know what to do
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What I think is best is that you talk to him, and tell all of the things he did wrong, and that you just wanna stay friends with him. If he doesnt want to than just move on. Don't struggle with a bad boyfriend. I know that out there you will find a better guy. It just all depends on you.
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Dump him
Your boyfriend lied to you, He can't show moral respect in your relationship to be truthful...His lying has killed your trust and without that there is no relationship. Your boyfriend lied so much it eventually led to blowing you off, excuse after excuse. Fact: He isn't worth your time
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Little missy. I know you don't want to hear this, but you need to dump him. The minute that that thought goes through your mind, he just be GONE. Once a cheater always a cheater. And your SECOND anniversary? What did he plan on taking you to Mcdonalds. Listen, I know it's hard, believe me. Try breaking it off with someone you've been with for 4 years that you love dearly. But that's what turns you into a better person. And as for that hurt knee incident, I don't belive for a second you should feel sorry for that evil person. Ever heard of Karma? I bet that that's what it is. I'm a strong believer in it. Do you really want to wait for that day when you MEET one of those hussies or walk in on something you don't wanna see and be hurt worse. Why are you worried about hurting him, when all he's doing is lying and hurting you? He's not going to change. I have a lot of experience. This may surprise you to hear this, but did you know, that the only species in the world, that ignores his/her insticts, are humans? Instincts are ALWAYS right. Think about that. I do hope that helps sweetie.
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