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ok .. my dad has changed an hes really ill.. an hes sp mean now an i hate to be around him im only 14 .. an like i really dont want to go with him when its time .. an plus hes a lawyer an i cant talk to him about anything hes not a dad to me anymore ... an my parents our divorced an i dont know what to do im just so upset he hits me an i dont know ... i just dont want to go with him cant i make a choice if i can how ?? please help me??? (link)
sorry i do not know any othere way toget this to u. but yes even at your age you can make that choice. i already said that but u asked me that in your feed back and sorry again i do not know how else to get it to you.


My friend is throwing a party and invited my crush. The thing is my friend said that I have to tell my crush by the end of the party that I like him or she will. I know I have to tell him I just don't want to deal with the potential heartbreak right now. Should I talk to my friend and hopefully convince her not to do it or just tell my crush? Oh and if I tell him his ex is probably gonna be close by since she's invited too... I rate high for good advice! Thanks! (link)
hi. you hould tell him befor the party. and act like you did not tell him then during the party do not tell him. so when she goes to tell him she looks like an ass. also if she is really doing this then she is not a good friend . please wright back and rate me.


What is something that you would have at ur house so get rid of a pimple FAST? (link)
hi. tooth paste put it on the night befor and then the next day wash it off. please wrigth back and rate me.


ok this might be long but i really need advice
ok this summer i went to an over night camp for about 5 weeks and i hooked up with a guy that is 3 years older then me. we kissed and held hands and sometimes he would touch my breasts and my ass and put his hand down my pants But one night it went a little to far and we had sex then the next day he broke up with me then he left to go back to his home and i was still @ camp Then all the guys at camp were asking me outa nd stuff and it made me feel special but then this one guy asked me out lets call him bob. I really like bob alot so i went out with him and stuff then one thing led to another and stuff and we had sex and it was so good but that was my last week at camp so i went home me and all my friends always hung out @ this ark down the street from me and stuff And then ppl started asking me if i wanted to come over to their house for the night and this kid that hangs out with us letrs call him dan started to grab my but and my breasts then they all come over to my hosue and everyone left exept dan and he came one to me and started to un zip my pants and shit and i ened up giving a blowjob...then 2 nights ago i slept over my friends house because my parents were gone for a night and they didn't trust me so i was in the guestroom and i guess it was about 2am and her older brother came into my room only in his boxers and i was just in my see thru thong with no shirt on and he started dto kiss me and touch me and said take off my thong and i did *because her brother is hott) and then we had sex it was the best! and then the next morning he came into the shower with me and we had sex agian and then he told everyone and now im called a Slut but im not really Am I? and boys touch my ass and breast and try to put there hands down my pants but i don't know...if i am a slut pllz give me ways that i can not become a slut. Thanx (link)
hi. yes you are a slut. but thats ok all you have to do is first date the guy befor you have sex. also do not do it with 10 diffrent guys in 5 weeks. please wright back and rate me. also what is your age?


im only 15 and i feel like i might be like bisexual.....but im scared everyone might find out and everything ... but i dont know why i feel like this?!!?! (link)
hi. if your a girl that is not that rare. and you should just tell people. and if they laught at you and they are your friend then leave them there not your friend.


im with my boyfriend right now and i want him to kiss me but i dont want him to know i want him to kiss me. help ASAP!! (link)
hi. just kiss him,. when your sitting next to him. im sure he will like it. if not he must be gay. im do not mean that in a bad way neither im just saying. please wright back telling me if you did it.


im with my boyfriend right now and i want him to kiss me but i dont want him to know i want him to kiss me. help ASAP!! (link)
hi. just kiss him,. when your sitting next to him. im sure he will like it. if not he must be gay. im do not mean that in a bad way neither im just saying. please wright back telling me if you did it.


im with my boyfriend right now and i want him to kiss me but i dont want him to know i want him to kiss me. help ASAP!! (link)
hi. just kiss him,. when your sitting next to him. im sure he will like it. if not he must be gay. im do not mean that in a bad way neither im just saying. please wright back telling me if you did it.


well i have a problem... every one at school makes fun of me cuz i have like absoulutely no!!! boobs. i cant do anything about it but everyone makes fun of me like its my fault. i have no clue what to do. and the main reason why i have no boobs is because i havent had my period and its not like i can control that either! HELP ME PLEASE!!!!! (link)
hi. all that maters is that your ok with your self. i know girls in my grade that have no boobs. and im in 9th grade. people will get over it. they will learn to know you for who you are not what your boobs look like. please wright back and rate me please and hope i helped.


ok, well my parents are divoreced and i live with my mom. i see my dad like every other weekend. well lately hes been pressuring me more then usual to move in with him. he even plays guilt trips on me like if i lived with him then he wouldn't have to pay child support(niether would my mom, my sis would stay there), anyway i dont want to live with him cause i know like 2 people there and i'd leave all of my friends(the best in the world, great listeners, mostly). i dont want to hurt my dads feelings but i dont want to live there with him, is there any way i could kind of let him off easy? i'll rate high for good answers.

sorry this is so long. (link)
hi. my dad was the same way. but all i did was talk about my mom like she was every thing to me. and he finaly found out i did not want to move. so try that.



p.s. my dad was so in to me moving in with him he was going to take it to court.


my best friend is moving to new zeland today she is 16 and really does not want to go. Her dad says she is not allowed to come back home to england till she is 18. What rights does she really have and could she come back before she # is 18.

Thanx nicki xxx (link)
are her parent broken up? if they are then she has the right to live with whjo she wants. so she could live with who ever is not moving. but other then that she has none she has to move.


Ok, I've been going to private school for 9 years, and for the first time I will be going to public. I'm really freaked out. Is public school really as bad as everyone says? I mean do people like actually get beaten up and raped? and how do I protect myself? How do I know who to hang out with? Please help me. (link)
hi. people in public school are not as bad as your making them sound. at is alot of fun you will love it. and also you will just know who to hang with . and last is if your really that scared take karate.


Im 13 and im 200 pounds basicly and everyone hates me even my mom..Because im so overweight..my dad left my mom to go have sex wit another woman cuz theey wanted a "fit" daughter!!!!SO.....then like my mom had sex with another guy she waaas dating..and she took the pregnency test and shes havin triplets!!!!and she said shes givin me up..Cause im overweight..so im at my Grandmas house 4 now on.......so 2 make me happy my mom gave me 2 babys so..i was there NEW MOM!!! I feel like noone cares about me!!!Can you give me some things to say 2 my mom..about just dumping her children on me!!! (link)
hi. if you do not like your mom you can call diface on her . or the police what ever you have around there. becuase she laft her children. and if you want to lose weight so you can laught at her you can jump rope. start at 5 reps of one minutes for one week then ad on more minute aweak. do five reps of one minuets every day. bye if you and to talk im me at wilsonharley75 . please rate me.


Well, my boyfriend and I are (I think) going to go to second base quite soon. The problem is, I am really self consious about my breasts. The nipples are really flat and small. Do you think this would bother my boyfriend? (link)
hi. on ethat is not second base thats alittle farther . bu tim a guy and no they should not. ok hope i helped bye.


Ok well, im skinny. But my arms have like a flab where my muscle should be. You know the part under your shoulder. Well I was just wondering how I could get that to go away? Cause it really bothers me like when i move it jiggles (gross I know!). Also when I put my arms down to my side it like flattens out and makes my arm look big and fat. So i was just wondering how I could get that to go away!! Thanks to the people who arn't jerks about it. I'll rate.

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hi. i am a kick boxer i tell every one that with a question about working out. but i am and i think you will beleive some one that works out for aliving. and you should jump rope. that will make you lose that quick. do five sets of one minute for one week then every week ad on more minute.


My boyfriend's birthday is September 14th, and I dont know we're so alike and things like that but I still am so lost on what to get him for his birthday.

It's his 16th so I dont want to just be like "OH HERE" and hand him something stupid. Plus, Im gonna try saving up but i just hope im not limited on money and all that stuff. But yeah.. any ideas? HE LOVES MUSIC. Stuff like slipknot, system of a down, korn.. and all that. You never see him without his mp3 =)

ill definitely rate high for great helpers.
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hi. you should take him to a live show. of slipknot or somthing. good luck and hope he likes it if you do it.


My boyfriend's birthday is September 14th, and I dont know we're so alike and things like that but I still am so lost on what to get him for his birthday.

It's his 16th so I dont want to just be like "OH HERE" and hand him something stupid. Plus, Im gonna try saving up but i just hope im not limited on money and all that stuff. But yeah.. any ideas? HE LOVES MUSIC. Stuff like slipknot, system of a down, korn.. and all that. You never see him without his mp3 =)

ill definitely rate high for great helpers.
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hi. you should take him to a live show. of slipknot or somthing. good luck and hope he likes it if you do it.


Hello!
I have two questions.
1) I recently got two warts burned off the top of my hand. It left these two circles with a dark rim and a pinkish inside. My docotor gave me a bleaching product called Epiquin? I believe. Will these be scars for life? Anything else I can do?

2) Also, I got two more warts taken off my index finger but this time by using the agent that makes you blister. I believe it is called catharidim??? I got a little antsy and popped both blisters with a needle which I had burned with a lighter right before I used it (to sanitize). Now the blisters are gone but there is a raised pinkish sort of "harder" skin where the blisters where. Will these go away? I thought this treatment was not supposed to leave scars but will it scar because I used a needle and could have infected it? What to do???
THANKS SO MUCH! Im sick of having these ugly warts, then scars on my hands :-(
THANKS AGAIN (link)
hi. ok this is for the second one . sorry but i do not think they will . i have gotten blisters and when they pop they leave that and mine have not gone away.and for the first i think they will to becuase my mom had that done and her scares are there but so not worey use neosporen and it will go away. and i did not spell ther right sorry but it is close.


About three weeks ago i started taking diet pills without my parents knowing. After i took them i started feeling really nervous. My heart feels like it's beating really hard and fast. I'm breathing really weird and it takes me forever to go to sleep cuz i'm soo wired. I stopped the pills shortly after taking them but i'm still messed up. Does anybody know what's wrong and how i could fix it??? (link)
hi. it might just be that ur nerves. but just in case you got to tell your parents. please wright back and rate me please.


I have a couple questions about getting your eyebrow pierced.

1) How long of periods can the ring be out for?
(say for example a work day)
-My bellybutton ring can be out for 24 hrs...

2) Does anyone know any websites which sell cute "straight rings" ?
-I am a very preppy (lol) person, I love pink, flowers, hearts, etc.
-I do not want spikes, or barbells; so far that's all I can find.

Thanks guys for all your help!
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hi. you can leave it out for one day but it has to stay in for at lease two months befor it can be taken out. and plz wright back .why would a prep want the eye peirced?




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