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k so im starting hs in a few weeks. when im meeting new people nd talking to them ... what r some ice breakers? like what could i ask them if there is that awkward silence. what should i say or ask? please help, i'll rate 5s (link)
They're just the same as any people. Just be random. It makes things so much spontaneous and attracts a cool crowd of people. =D


AHH i burned my head with my straightener and i need to get something that will make the scar go away or fade drasticly...its a white spot on the tip top of my forehead! quick! school starts in like 4 days! (link)
neosporin or however you spell it. lol
hope i helped.


there is a song and its like " I CANT MAKE IT ON MY OWN," repeat i cant make it on my own. and its like two guys playing guitars. so can you guys tell me what its called and who its by??

thanks in advance!! (link)

I cant make it on my own
Cause my heart is in ohio
Ao cut my wrists and black my eyes
So I can fall asleep tonight.. or die.

That one?

"Ohio is for lovers" by Hawthorne Heights


OK so my hair is wayyyyyyyy thick and frizzy, like totally thick. If i get it cut to about shoulder length, and get 2 layers taken off, will i see a big difference? Will other people? I alwayssss wear my hair up, so can yu still see the difference? and will it be easier to straighten, cus with the way my hair is now, it takes about 2 hours. Lots of questions, i know, but i'll rate high for any help (link)
OMG THATS THE SAME WITH MINE. But yeah.. what I did was go to the hair dresser, and I got my hair cut in layers.

She washed it, cut it, blow dried it and straightened it for me.
Then I bought a ceramic straightner which was the same one she used on me.(about 50 $)

And now its looking a lot better when I use it with my hair cut and all that. She also put spray in it and stuff and I asked her what it was and it was available to buy there at the salon. She also told me what shampoo and conditioner I should use for dry hair (Halo) it works really well.

It will still take a while to straighten your hair but after you get used to it and use it enough your hair will eventually start looking a bit straighter naturally. (thats if you use a ceramic)...
but yeah.. find some good shampoo for dry or frizzy hair. Because thats how i am too. I'd always wear my hair up but now I see a good change. It wont be an overnight thing but if you do this for a little while I'm sure it will help.

I hope this wasnt confusing I was babbling a lot. =D hope I helped


okay this miht be a bit wierd but like wen ever i get my period i feel all wierd like its leaking thru my pants or something at skool and i really worry that it might be leaking! idk what to do? i mean if some one saw that there were blood stains on the back of my pants and especially if it was a guy i liked wat would i do? thats like sooo embarassing!
help!
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tampon.


Hi i am Britney an im 14 i was wondering if my boyfriend fingered me and he had cum on his finger can i get pregnet from that? (link)
well you can... but its kind of hard to just from that. Um.. yeah I read the answers other people gave you but I dont know.. I heard sperm lasted 6 seconds when exposed to the air.


Ok, I've been going to private school for 9 years, and for the first time I will be going to public. I'm really freaked out. Is public school really as bad as everyone says? I mean do people like actually get beaten up and raped? and how do I protect myself? How do I know who to hang out with? Please help me. (link)
Aww, dont worry public school honestly isnt THAT bad. And this is coming from a girl who absolutely HATES school. The only reason I DO go to school is BECAUSE of my friends. So, if its the people you're worried about, dont be. The people at public schools are JUST LIKE the people at private.

Ive never heard of someone being raped at a school. Wherever you hear those things is like one of those weird abnormal experiences and it doesnt happen all the time trust me. I havent even heard of it.. but yeah, as far as getting beat up, people wont just go pick on you for no reason.. and if they do then you just report them, but its not likely to happen.

And you'll definitely know who to hang out with. The people in public schools are no different then the people in public. Dont worry.. honestly..

`jessie


is hitch-hiking illeagle?
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nope but definitely could be dangerous.


I'm drawing a comic about me and two of my friends and our daily life at our high school... with a little twist. What should I call it? (link)
Hmm I dont really know your friends but something that would be goo dto do is just name it after a random inside joke you have with your friends.. the randomer it is the more interesting it will be. =)

Hope I helped.


I have a question.. ok alot of guys always ask if im horny. Like online. If im like never.. i think its like low when they wanna cyber or have phone sex. im just looking for a friendly chat deal.. does that mean im gay?! Just cuz im not horny?! (link)
psh hell no.. that does not mean you're gay..


15/f
I've been told i have possible moderate to severe depression. I'm not allowed to see a counsler or go on meds. My family does not believe in it. lately. i've been feeling horrible. like i wish i had the gun, wish i didnt have to wake up. i've talked to the school counsler a little. my friend took my down there. but i have trouble talking about this to an adult a lot. i never really believed i could have actual depression. just always thought i was a pansy. how can i stop getting so upset? Also, i havent been able to sleep a lot and the exhaustion is adding to my sorrow. i dont know what to do. now its affecting those i love most. even my bf is starting to notice things i wish he wouldnt. how can i talk to my parents about this? or the school counsler?
ps. i use to cut and attempt sucide but i got over that. but now im finding i want to start agian. n its hard not to fall back into the same old hole that it took me so long to get out of. (link)

I understand what you mean completely.

.. I go to therapy, but I know you're parents don't believe in it.. which is why you should definitely see if you could set up dates with the school counseler to just take a period to sit down and talk about this. Maybe your parents don't have to know at first.. I mean it's better then not getting anywhere with what you're feeling ya know?

good luck
`jessie


is it weird if someone ((a guy)) rights a song for you ((he likes me ALOT)) and sings it to you on the phone? it seems weird to me
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..Not really? Does he usually write songs??
I mean he's just being sweet.. I'd be flattered..but kinda only if he were my friend.


K today this guy i like , came up to me and hugged me. He held me for atleast 5 minutes. Then when we got of the buss after school, he kept huggin me, and he asked me if he could hold my hand , and i said yes. So he did, then he asked if he could kiss me , and i didnt know what to say. So i kept quiet. Then my friends walked me home from their house, and he followed us. My friends are saying he likes me, but I dont think he does. What should i do?!?!?!?! i rate high. Please help. oo and hes 15/m and im 14/f (link)


erm.. pretty sure he likes ya. lol


I want to wear this cute t-shirt to my next informal casual school dance, but do you think it would be weird to wear a "Geeks Are Hot" t-shirt to a dance? By the way, it's a highschool dance and it's for freshmen and softmores only. Oh, and the shirt is pink and it is from wet seal. (link)

sure why not? I would. =D


Hmm, okey..
I was just wondering which one of these is best:
WinMx
Bearshare
Kazzaa
Imesh
e.t.c
I've heard some of them give you viruses?
So which one is cheap and doesnt give your computer any viruses?
I appreciate any answers =D
Sorry about the spelling mistakes, just that im in a hurry :P
Have a nice day ;) (link)

..limewire..

=D


well there is this boy that told me he likes me, but i only liked him as a friend then....and now that i saw him again, he acted totally the same but then somehow i am madly in love with him now...i am pretty sure that he still like me but i am not really sure...how can i know...and also, he doesn't go to the same skool as me so would it be bad or weird if i was his gf? (link)

Same thing happened to me. He's my really close friend. I'm so in love with him.. honestly. I don't know how to explain it, but I'm in love with him. Now he has a girlfriend...he liked me a lot..and I finally started seeing him as more than a really good friend and now.. he's taken and.. just yeah you get the point. =(

So go for it. Don't let what happened to me happen to you.


I've been thinking of becoming bulimic for awhile now... and I don't think there is nothing that can stop me, I just need to lost the weight because I feel so fat and left out all my friends are skinny and im fat and I hate it and it will stop when I become bulimic... im not going to stop (link)

Their are less painful ways to lose weight. Being bulimic is not the way. Try going on a HEALTHY diet. One where you still get the right amount of nutrition/protein and whatever you need. Please don't do that to yourself, there are other ways... and excersise. It may take some patience but please.. trust me when I say this.

Do you know what HAPPENS when you're bulimic? Your esophogus will eat away from puking all that time, and the lack of food will eventually cause your body to eat at your organs. Your brain and your heart will eat away because you won't have the FOOD. You need food.. you can`t just binge and purge. You can die that way. Get that through your head .. please I'm begging you.

Please don't do this to yourself.. it's honestly not the way to go. You obviously don't want to do this is you posted this question.. you must be reaching out in some way. So please, always know that there are other ways. I'm not lying when I say this.

I honestly hope I helped. --
`jessie


I was wondering what the day 4/20 meant?

Thanks (link)
national pot smoking day.. *rolls eyes*

yep yep yep..


okay well i really feel like shocking everybody tomrw at school..i have friends but i wanna be the girl all the guys want ya know?..and my friends are kinda lame and boring me..so next week is spring break and i wanna go out with a band..any ideas??.. (link)
ummmmmmmmm...friends arent lame if you have fun with them. *blunt* i dont like this question.


Hi! Okay i am a really thin person....i am NOT Anorexic i swear! I eat actually alot, i just dont gain the pounds as fast! But my hands in the winter they will like turn colors...like in gym they will trun purple and red and stuff. And if you squeeze them they will turn red! Is this normal...my one friend said it could be a blood clot! Help me (link)

Uh...I doubt it's a blood clot unless there's symptoms. I know some people like that.. who are really thin and the colors change on their hands kinda like that. I mean it's completely normal, it's not bad. Don't worry. If you think it's something to be worried about though, then you should tell one of your parents.

good luck --
`jessie




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