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i am 15 years old and i have a boyfriend and i dont take other peoples boyfriends away (like lostgrl616 thinks i do) man what a great friend she is?but i have a newphew and he is 2 years old and i have one brother and he is getting married in augest which his soon to be wife also has a child and he is also 2years old i like to play softball and hang out with friends and ride my four wheeler look at cars go to the movces shop and i have 9 piercings all im my ears and i want my nose pierced and also my belly button but i hope you can understand a little bit more about me and people call me desirae or desi or des

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ok well my bf and i we hang out all the time! and hes the sweetest guy ever and i love him to death but neways when we go out to places or we watch movies he makes fun of gay people! and it kinda pisses me off but i don't say anything i just laugh cuz i don't wanna lose him! but the reason why it makes me mad is cuz my step brother is gay! and i don't know how to tell him that he is and that it bothers me! HELP

well just tell him that he is and if he cant respect that your step brother is gay then maybe you to should break up because you need someone that resects you and your family but tell him not to make fun of them when you guys are togther like hanging out wise
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ok this has been really hard for the last couple weeks with boys well there was this one boy ive liekd all summer did everythign with and then jus dumped me one day and been wit a a new grl since.. and then one kid i liked i mean really leiked well he leikes sum other grl but jus keep leading me on and now he has a gf and then recently i got wit a boy and i really leiked him also but now he has a gf who is one of my bff'z and it seems its a pattern.. im left empty everytime .. WHATS RONG! plz help

well maybe you arent being your self and thats what they want i think when they come around they will relize hohw nice you are and that you are acting as your self they will be like man i messd up then they will try to get with you also maybe try to get with someone older then you
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well my boyfriend is really sick! and he is in the hospitol and i am worried about him! and i want to go and see him and he hasn't told me that he is there cause he doesn't want me to see him like that and hes afraid that i won't like him cause hes sick! but his mom called and told me and in 3 days we would be going out for 3 months, so i was wondering if i should go see him then? and to tell him that i do care about him and i don't care if hes sick or not because i love him? soo just let me now wat u think and if its the right idea?

wow thats weird cause me and my boyfriend will be going out for 3 months in 3 days to i think that you should go and tell him how you feel about him and you dont care because everyone gets sick and he is in the hospital and i am sure that you are all he thinks about so go to the hospital and tell him how you feel maybe by him a gift like a stuffed animal or something i am sure that you and that little stuffed animal will help him feel better
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me and my boyfriend broke up but we still love each other and hopefully might get back together. but im having second thoughts what does that mean?

it means that you probbley want to take a break and just think about every thing you guys did and to see if you really love him and then maybe you guys will get back toether or there is something that you dont know about
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ok well my bf and i have been dating for about 3 months and valentines day is around the cornor and i don't know wat to get him! i don't want to get him something really stupid that hes not gonna like but i want to get him something that shows i really love him! so if u have any ideas! let me know! thanks a bunch

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maybe go to build a bear and build him a little teddy bear and get a voice recorder in it and say that you love him on it i got my boyfriend a build a bear and he liked it alot so it will be like a joke but that you really love him
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ok yea hi there ok well im worried about my older sister shes 14! and shes in highschool and shes ALWAYS hanging out with seniors and she ALWAYS has guys over at the house and she has a bf and hes like one of my best friends ever! and they have been dating for a couple months now and im just worried about her cuz when she goes out she goes with seniors and they go get drunk and im afraid that sumtime she mite have sex with one of them! and if they do her bf will be really uppset and i don't know who to side with my sister or my best friend! HELP

well if your sister loves you she will listen to you i am also 14 and i mean there isnt really anything wrong with hanging out with seniors but some off them there is a problem and i think that you should side with both of them because she is your own blood but then your best friend you talk to about every thing i think you should talk to your best friend and they will talk to your sister well i hope i helped rate me
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Hey, so here is the thing. My BF and I were really happy, we loved eachother (and still do.) but what happened was he was supposed to move to virginia last month. So we broke up b\c we didnt want a long distance relationship. But then he ended up not movin. He told me this recently and now the girl who ALSO wants him is makin moves b\c we are not officially together again! So now the girl, Amber asked him to the dance and he said YES!!! But then he kissed me and said he wud go with me!!! I feel bad for him cuz hes hot and ever1 want him but i feel bad for ME b\c my bf MIGHT me a playa! What in the world should i do?!?!?!?!
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he is a playa you need to break up with him if you to arent already broken up well there are alot of guys who are like that so the can get some becasuse they are desprate sooner or later noone will like him cuz he is like that so i think that you need to break up with him
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i know this girl, and i care about her more than anything in the world, but i can tell shes going down the wrong road, i can notice changes in her that i've made, in a good way, but its not enough, shes getting into alchohol now, and that could lead to anything, i've tried talking to her about it but i just cant let out how i feel, PLZ HELP!!! SOS

well i thinnk that you just have to come out and tell her how you feel she could be doing this so you save her and so just tell her how you feel and that you will do anything for her well i hoped that i helped
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my mom keeps getting mad at me for wearing make up....all i wear is eyeshadow and eyeliner... once i wore mascara and she blew up... so i stop wearing mascara, and she was fine, she didnt care about me wearing make up anymore... as long as i just dont wear mascara... after a week my aunt came in and said i looked like a witch becuz of my make up... my mom got so mad that she yelled at me and threatened to kick me out of the house, and slapped me... what should i do? i need help, she can't even live up to her pride and stick up for me.... she thinks that if people think you look bad than you better do what ever you can to make them happy about your looks... i told her not to care what people think because its just plain stupid to be liked by some one that doesn't like your looks... people should care about your character and smartness but not looks... i mean i even get good grades at school and i think thats enough.

your right it doesnt matter about your looks i mean my mom says stuff about my make up to but then every one else thinks it looks good i mean come on your a teenager your supposed to wear makeup i am sure that when they were younger they wore make up to and they think that what ever there mom yelled at them for they have to yell at you for and they dont know whats going on in or lifes and before they didnt like it when there mom yelled at them and they no its not a big deal so just keep wearing your make up thats all i have to say if you like it thats all that matters
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well i went out with a guy for about 7 months. then we broke up. i really love him and he always tells me that he still loves me and misses me. he was acting like he wanted to go back out w/ me. so i tryed to get him back but last night i found out that he wouldnt go back out w/ me. now there are two really hot guys that want to go out w/ me. but i still love my ex-boyfriend. i like the two other guys a lot but i dont want a boyfriend because im still not over my ex. now i dont know wut to do!! what do u think? what guy should i go w/ or none at all?

i dont think you should go out with anyone yet because once you start to love them when you still have feelings for you ex its not fair to those other guys because you still care for your ex and if those other guys really like you then they will wait to go out with you since your not over your ex so just dont go with anyone yet hope i helped rate me
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I have a friend that ive known for several years. She lives a very long distance away from me and theres nothing i can do physcially for her. Her father makes her have sex with him on a nightly basis. Is there any way i can help her get help. Shes afraid of going against him, because he is paying for her college and everything. I love her to death. What can i do?

i think that maybe you can get money to like fly down there and if he still does it then when you are there then you should go to the cops and she can get scolarships from school she has to study hard and all that good boring stuff or maybe if you tell your mom then she can also do something about it i really think you need to go down there i know that it is alot of money but it is worth it your friend will be safe and you will be happy that is wrong or if you have friends down there tell them so you dont have to fly down there and also have them do something well i hope i helped
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What would be some good screen name ideas for an 18 year old female?

maybe think about what you like about your self that would get you like a cool sn and maybe something that means alot to you idont hve any ideas in my hea because i dont know you well hoipe i helped rate me please
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how much are the jeans and shirts at deb and old navy? do they have any cute jeans?

THEY HAVE VERY CUTE CLOTHES THATS LIKE THE ONLY PLACE I GET MY JEANS!!!well latly they had a really big sale and all so i would say that there pants are like $19.00-$30.00. but it is worth the money. i dont really like old navy but there prices are probley like around the same price and all and there shirts are about 12.00$ well i hope that i helped rate me please
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hey guys. before i begin i must say that all you guys are really great at giving advice. mucho props. okay now my problem. i have this friend chris and i think i did a really bad thing. i flirted with him wayy to much today. it was really bad. good for me but i dunno. it seemed like he was haveing problems. i dont know what my dealio is but i really didnt mean to do it. so my question is what should i do to like i dunno go back to the way things were before i was freaking him out. thanks you all!!!

well just be yourself and try not to flirt with him and its not bad to flirt with a guy its natural if you are a girl but if you are a guy then that is a ifferent story and what not so just be yourself act like you always do just keep saying to your self what you did wasnt wrong over and over again
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i want my hair to not poof during the day because it usualy does so i would have to go to the bathroom and put a little water on my hair so it wont poof. i am planning to go out and buy hairspray that will keep my hair stay unpoofy and stay straight for the whole day, anyideas?

hey ok well they have this frizz stuff at stores maybe go to sally buety supply and by a straitner that keeps you hair straight not curly or anything and also not puffy so maybe go check that store out and go fing frizz stuff fo your hair hope i helped
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I starting going out with this one guy from my school at a ski lodge. He called me at midnight and kept saying how much he loved me, and he only knew me for 12 hours? I dumped him the next morning becuase i found out he was going out with TWO other girls that i didn't know about, at the same time We were going out. he also told those two girls that he "never went out with me" and "NEVER would" I completly freaked out on him at lunch and even slapped him. He denyed everythingg! I also heard of all these gurls he apparently screwed. What can i say tomorrow to him at lunch to make him spit out the truth??
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well maybe you can be like yeah do you really think that anyother girl is gunna go out with oyu now because they all no how big a jack@$$ you are and this maybe your only time to have the girls right now for a little bit but later in a few months you arent gunna have ne girls cuz you scrwed them all over and say things like that and be like so tell me the truth and i hope i helped he is just a playa playin his own game in the future
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ok.. well.. heres my little situation! im about 5'6 and i weigh 106. yeah i don't like my thighs very much.. i mean they're small.. but big. yeah that makes sense right? haha i know it doesn't. anywaysss well im going to california in march and i want to maybe loose 2 or 3 pounds to weigh 104 or 103. i don't want to be anorexic about it or anything even though i act kind of anorexic sometimes. yeah i don't know if i should try lose a couple pounds or not.. i mean i know im skinny.. i guess but w/e. do you think i need too? and i dont eat that much already so what would a healthy (atleast somewhat) way to do this?
thanks.. srry its long-ish

hey ok well i m 5 4 and i way 105.5 so i really dont think that you need to lose ne weight maybe you can gain like a pound or two more instead of losing because people tell me that i am anerxic so maybe gain pounds maybe you can eat like a apple or an orange or healthy food like that
hope i helped and that you have funn in cali
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where can i find some sites about different sex positions and ways to excite a girl?

i rate high for every good answer!!

http://www.sweetecstacy.com/tutorial/sexposition1.htm
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I've just started gym class, & she said we're NOT allowed piercings what so ever, even ear. & your not allowed to cover it up or anything. i have 2 of my piercings in my cartilidge, i can take my other ones in my lobe out but not my cartilidge because it'll close and i won't be able to get it back in anyways. I start it tomorrow. and i really duno what to do. I dont want to take them out because I don't want to have to get them repierced. My mom said thats really stupid & she said I won't have to take them out. What should I do?

well they have theses clear earings and i have 9 pirercings myself and so then go get like either a really tiny stub wear your hair down or go buy some clear earing well i hope that i helped rate me
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A few days ago i spent the night @ my friends house and she has a bro so he always has friends over too! and my friends mom said that my friend (13/f) is not aloud to have friends over when her bro does cuz were getting older and everything, and my parents feel the same way! the thing is that i like going over there when her bro has friends over cuz it's fun and stuff! HELP! i rate high!

well just maybe talk to her parents saying that you dont like that kinda stuff and since she is such a good friend you wouldnt do nething because you guys r to good of friends and so r u and her brother and you dont want to ruin things with that so say that you would like it if you can come over when ever you want
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