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ok, my friend has a problem with...being really abusive. Not like beats me up, but hits me when i dont do something she wants me to do. Like i was at her house and i make this really funny noise and she was like do it! and i was like im really tired and she punches me in my arm and it really hurt, its not just that time. Ive asked her to stop and tell her that guys arent attracted to that and she got a bf from it. what do i do?? should i become violent like her or just keep trying to get her to stop?? please i need ur help! (link)
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Personally I would feel like bustin her in the mouth, but thats not really me so, If I were in your position, then I would tell her to stop or else you guys couldn't be friends anymore. You don't deserve it if she doesn't quit, no one does. Hope it helps.
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how can i hide a hickey? (link)
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Put some make-up on it or wear a turtleneck shirt. My sister said that she used to take a silver spoon, and putting it on the hickey and twisting. That way it takes the blood and pushes it down, but i'm not sure if it works you could try it though. Hope it helps.
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Hi. im shelly. i found out that one of my best friends likes me (brian*), not just like me, but like is in love with me. ne ways he is also best friends with the guy that i like (adam*). the other night i found out that adam* likes me and wants to be more that friends with me. i do too, but i dont want to break brian's* heart and then all of us not be friends anymore. adam* and brian* are the best friends anyone could ask for and i really dont want to mess up our relationship. but then i also dont want to just sit there and not be nothing with adam*. what do you think i should do? email me at : richardvmf@stic.net your answers will be greatly apreciated. thanx
shelly (link)
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Tell both the boy's how you feel about them. Remember, if they really are best friends, then they are forever. I hope you get your guy!
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ok, well i'm 16 ,i have a really bad depression problem i have been addicted to cutting and still have urges frequently , i have suicidel thoughts very frequently and the real problem is my parents refuse to admit there is a problem, it seems like theres nothing i can do to make them understand, the wont even get my prescribtion (link)
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I understand what your going through, recently I had the same thoughts and addictions, however, my friends mother talked with me and my mother and we both went to theropy. I am now diagnosed as manic depressive, and the medication helps alot. I know it's hard for you at the moment, it seems everything is stuck if fast forward mode, and everything is worth nothing in the end, but there is a reward in the end, you just have to decide what it is going to be. Try talking to a friend, or a friends mother. I hope I have helped you some.
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yo okay there is this girl leslie and she is hot and beautiful but im a 150 pounds and im a 14 year old male. and i cant stop tinking about her. but i dont have the nerve to talk to her my confidence level is really low (link)
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150 is not bad at all for a 14 year old male. As far as talking to her, try to get one of your friends to shadow you while you talk to her. (have your friend stand next to you just in case you don't have anything to say). Hope it helps.
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Hi, I'm 3 months pregnant and sometimes I get these really bad headaches. I know its okay to take Tylenol, but are there any other ways I can relieve my headaches without taking any medication? (link)
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Try taking a nice hot bath, if that doesn't work you should try talking to your doctor.
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Ok well I'm in high school and like ALL the girls have bigger boobs than me! And I mean i dont want to go to school wearing a padded bra one day and having everyone notice me like a sore thumb! But I've heard if you messeged your boobs or whatever that they will grow. Is there anyway that I can make them get bigger without wearing a padded bra or anything :-/ I'm really self concious and I dont want to be anymore!
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Unfortunatly nothing really works. If you can't accept who you are, then you'll have to wear a padded bra or something to enhance them. If you don't want to stick out, then just wait until next school year to start. Whatever you do, trust me, you will hit a sertain stage in life and you may be bigger than all the other girls, it happend to me. In the mean time try to work on apprtiating what you do have - hair, eyes, whatever you really appritiate having. hope it all helped.
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Ok, I personally think this is total bull shit but, there's this girl I went out with for 6 months and shit and shes a twin. She broke up with me a little bit ago, maybe about 4 weeks. Anyway, we broke up and shit, and then I had feelings for her sister. I mean like deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep serious feelings. I don't know if I should tell her or not say anything so their relationship won't be worried. What the hell should I do? (link)
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You should tell both girls how you feel (about the sister). If you don't, you could let this girl, whom you have such feelings for, get away. Hope it helped.
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Ok, I have this friend who isn't really nice. Whenever I invite her over she makes my room messy like she is Godzilla or something. Well whenever she invites me to come over she may invite one other person and then I am invisible the rest of the time that other friend of hers is over and she yells at me for nothing blames me on stuff to my parents even though she did whatever and everything is all about her. She is so selfish. What should I do? (link)
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I know exactly how you feel! Next time she comes over, tell her a list of rules. If you can't do that or she still doesn't follow them, then try not to invite her over to your house anymore. Hope it helps.
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Well, me and this guy blaine have been best friends since the seventh grade. I mean best friends, i know everything about him, and he knows everything about me. I also have this best friend named Tanisha and she was the first person i told when i started having feelings for blaine. I never said anything to blaine, but in the eighth grade Tanisha told me she liked blaine. Blaine said that he only likes her for her body, and now they're together. I still like him, but i feel like neither of them cares about me any more. Everyone keeps saying just find sum1 else but its not that easy. What should i do? (link)
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You can't help who you like/love and even though it seems like your best friend shouldn't have done that, what would you have done in her shoes. If this guy is really worth it, trust me you'll get your chance to be together with him.
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There*z this kid who ive gotten really close to when my best friend broke up with..but im afraid to ask him out because if i do and he says yes my friend will be mad at me but if he says no then i will be upset..but i cant just let him go becuase i really love him and i cant keep my mind off him..HELP!
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Try telling your friend all about the feelings for him. If she gets mad, then just remember - friends are forever!! Don't let this guy get away, you have the right to be happy :) Hope it helps.
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well like i said before about the guy...well his ex dumped her girlfriend n all n has been around him a lot....n like i duno he looks at me like he wants to talk to me but he doesnt n i wanna talk to him but i feel used. n now i like see him everywhere i go in school...aaahh i want him! ggrr HELP!!! IM me bac thanks ALOT! crazy lil mege! (link)
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You should tell him how you feel, or at least call him. You seem to have a lot of feelings for him so you shouldn't let him get away.
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Okay this guy is 17 and im 13 going to be 14..well hes soo afraid of what his friends will think if we go out but hes up for the friends with benfits behind closed door thing and i dont know if i like that but friday night i went to this show with my friend and the 17 yr old showed up the night b4 this he had told me just to move on because he would hurt me and i need to find a guy that cares about me an such well i have this really good friend named Josh and i was sittin on him at the show because there were no other chairs and my other friend was sittin on her boyfriend well gabe (17yr old) walked in and he looked at me and he got really upset and walked outside i ran after him and as soon as i got outside he walked back in later that night we got into a big fight infront of everyone and now hes tellin me how he likes me and all this but doesnt know what to think ne more.. im really confused and dont kno if i should just be friends with benfits or just be done with him im soo lost sk8tergurl294 please help me b4 i go insane over this boi (link)
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Whatever you decide, you shouldn't be friends with benfits because he will hurt you that way if you have feelings for him. I suggest that you give it a try, but tell him that he can't just be your girlfriend when no one is around. If you have strong feelings for this boy, then don't just be done with him. Hope it all helps.
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I have a friend who is kinda in movies and t.v. shows, what gift should I send her. (link)
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Try sending her a basket of stuff, make movie's the theme. Put in a blockbuster's card or moviegallery or whatever is around, a bag of popcorn, a box of her fav. candy, and whatever else. Be creative!
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Are the showers in Middle school sanitary?? (link)
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Most of them aren't and some haven't been used for years! You never know, maybe your schools' are clean.
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i am 15 and over wieght i wiegh like 187 and i lost like 20 lbs before and wieghed 180 but i gained some back and i am really good with what i eat when i dont say i am going to loose wieghtand i do but when i do say i am going to i eat more and gain weight can sombody help? (link)
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If the problem is that you gain wieght when you tell yourself that your going to loose weight, then do the oposite. Try not to think about it. At the end of the day you should write everthing down that you've ate, that way your contions will know that your on record. Hope it helps.
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I like this guy (we'll call him X). I met him on a Friday a few weeks ago, hung out with him for about 6 hours straight a few days later, and he tells me that he really likes me. I started talking on the phone and developing strong feelings for him. We hung out again and he talks about how much he likes me + also about trying to make a relationship work with the two of us. This friday, he cancells plans with me and says he's intimidated by relationships/commitment, even after everything he had previously said. Now, on Friday he says he's going to think it through and we're going to hang out on Sunday instead, so he asks me to clear my schedule. I do, and now he's not home, nor has he bothered to call me or sign online all day. How am I supposed to be reacting to this? Should I give him any more chances or is it not worth it? (link)
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If you really like this guy, give him another chance. If your kinda skeptical, put some limmits on him. He may just be doing all this because he is a little scared of relationships, whatever the case is, don't let it get in the way.
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Stupid question I know.. i am 5'3 and weigh 133 is that overweight though? Well its like during the summer i weigh 120 during the winter i gain more cuz im not out as much and ect. Summer i am more active and stuff. So is that overweight? (link)
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Definately not. Especially if you are taller or have heavy bones.
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my friends sis is 11 and she weighs 102lbs she want to know if she should loose weight or if she is good for her age. (link)
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Some people are taller than others, some have heaver bones. If shes comfortable with the way she looks, then a scale shouldn't matter.
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female/15 ok this guy that i have been going out with for almost a year really wants to have sex, so do i though. I just am not quite sure if i should be having sex yet...what do you think? i really want to and i love him SOOOOO much! yes or no (link)
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If you feel you are ready then yes, and you've already said you love he so much, so it's just a matter of wheather your ready.
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