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my name is chassidy. but please call me chassie. i'm really outgoing and i love to have a good time. i like to party and get down with my girlies and we always have fun, no matter what. we're all pretty different. i cheered in high school, and i played volleyball. now i'm in college, living it up! i love most kinds of music and i love my car. my stang is my baby. i am with the love of my life, bobby. he is 24 and i'm 18! my parents and lots of people don't like us being together, but i just say fuck the haterz! i love my best friend, brandi. she completes me and i would die without her, she's my roomie along with candis and caroline. i like chanel. i love horses and riding fourwheelers. i'm a sexual person. i don't care what people think about me, and that's perfectly fine. i like to help people. i'm a secretary now at a bank. i love my family and my favorite color is pink. i love my hometown of new york city more than anything. i'm from manhattan, but i'm currently in texas. i love my boyfriend, friends, my job, family, animals, alcohol, sex, music, and my life.
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I need revenge. what kind of revenge can i do if my boyfriend is talking to another girl? whats something to make him jealous? whats the best way to make him jealous? answer all those questions please!
don't do anything too too mean. but revenge is always sweet ;]. start flirting/talking/hanging around with other guys. his friends would be better, because then he may get jealous that you're spending more time with his friends than him. talk about other guys in front of them, or ask another guy to the movies or something. hope that helps! oh and if he is really a good boyfriend, then he wouldn't be talkin' to other girls in the first place! so best of luck to ya!!
ok so i do stuff with my boyfriend and everything so i have to shave down there and it will be all fine for like the first day like right after i shave but i usually dont take a shower the day i chill with him bc i usually go to his house right after school but by then i have really bad red bumps and it burns i think its razer burn but i use a new razor and shaving cream.and i dont only wanna do this for him it for me to bc i hate how it kills but i dont like being beastly and nair dont work to well eather and i get it on my bikini line to and summers basicly here and all so what can i do
sometimes it can just get irriated. make sure your hairs are trimmed, and the more you do it the better it will be. just shave in the direction of the hair, don't go against it.
Is it true that most girls like sex and thinking about it as much as guys do, like they love doing sexual things as much as guys do so if you just ask them they will most likely say yes??
guys are just more blunt about it because to them it makes you higher in social status. to girls it just makes you seem slutty, but they like it and think about it just as much.
my firend has never had sex but she took 3 tests then 2 were positive is she pregnant??? Im 15/f
well she could be lying to you. or she could have gotten fingered and he had sperm on his hand, which is kind of unlikely but very possible. or the tests could be wrong, because they are never 100% true. i've gotten a positive before, but it was wrong. so it could be that, other than that i'm not sure how they could be saying she's pregnant.
okay i really need advice. i'm desperate.
i have this friend since i've known for almost 4 years, and we were extremely close last year and people said we were unseperable. this year were still friends but were just not as close and i miss it because last year she was always there for me when i was really sad and she always made me feel better.
this year i'll see her in school (i usually hang out with her in a group) and A. she'll completely ignore me. or B. she'll be like "i really not interested in what you have to say" but when it's just me and her with no one around she'll talk to me really nice and stuff. but im really getting sick of her acting like this but i just don't know what to do because last year she was always there for me and she made me feel soo good and she made me feel like i was loved she was like the sister i never had and i dont want to just ditch her but ughh i just don't know what should i do? thank you soo much
don't let people take advantage of you or tell you they're your friend when they are really not. if you don't wanna be friends with her anymore, then don't. don't hold onto something that's not worth as much as it once was. it's hard i know, but it may feel refreshing to find a new best friend who treats you better.
Each year, I am usually backstabbed my someone I trusted and was really close with. In 7th grade, my two best friends were after my bf who I was dating for more than 6 months. They made a plan to become friends to make me jealous, and steal my boyfriend and turn everyone against me. Last year was horrible. I moved on, and made new friends. In 8th grade, my good friend who helped me through last year ditches me all the time for my ex-boyfriend, treats me horrible, and talks crap about me for no reason. Well, I basically ended the friendship with her too and she had the nerve to give me back all the gifts Ive given her throughout our whole friendship, I know, extremely childish.. Well, I threw the bag of gifts away and gave it to people I'm trying my hardest to ignore her but it's just so hard since she's basically purposely in my face to make it hard for me. I dont talk to my ex boyfriend from this year because now they are best friends and he hates me. I still talk to my other ex and I'm really good friends with him(for now...) Ok, so now that you know everything, I just dont know how I can basically trust people or even make more friends (which I have already).. If I always end up getting hurt in the end. What should I do? I dont want to end up not having friends because the ones ive dealt with have backstabbed me in the end. But i dont know how I can stay optimitic if I keep getting hurt.
I'm so sorry for it being so long!
it's hard to figure out who you can and can't trust. yesterday i found out that 3 of my best friends were talking about me behind my back, so i understand completely what you're going through. it's hard to find good friends these days. but never let your guard down when making new friends, or even talking to current/old ones. because when people see a vulnerability in you, they will think they have something to talk about. and that's when the backstabbing starts. just be polite, and find a nice group of friends to hang out with. there has to be some good people out there. just be confident in yourself, and optimistic. i hope all goes well!
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if they're really your friends they will understand where you are coming from and why you think it's annoying. just say it's ruining yours and their reputations, and it's getting pretty annoying. hopefully they'll understand. they may just be doing it for attention.
Okay so i am having trouble right now...(obviously)lol okay so the thing is. Well all my friends are saying so many mean things about me and its not evento my face. I hear about it from pther people. One of my bff said that i wasnt really that pretty and i wore makeup to cover everything. I mean i think i am anaverage looking person ya kno? im not UGLY but im not BERAUTIFUL either. what am i supposed to do? They are saying really hurtful things
i am going through the same problem right now. 3 of my best friends talked mess behind my back, and my other friend told me. i confronted each of them and asked them to tell me the truth. the truth hurts sometimes. cuz i had to hear it behind my back, and to my face. and it made me rethink my friendships. i told them that i wasn't going to jump back into friendships with them because 1. friends don't lie 2. friends don't backstab and 3. friends don't say mean things about each other. if they are really your friends they will love you and want to be your friend no matter what.
is it absolutely necessary to give my boyfriend head before we can have sex? i just hate the whole idea of it and really would rather skip it.. we've done everything else, but does anyone have any experience with just skipping that? or do i just have to suck it up? (i feel like once i do it, then im required to do it again)
any opinions would be nice
don't do anything that you don't want to do. it's not necessary, it's more like a part of foreplay before having actual intercourse. if you don't want to, don't. it's not like he can force you to do something like that. and if he tries to, just tell him why you don't want to and that it would make you feel uncomfortable. and he will probably want you to do it again if you do it once. so don't get yourself into something you don't want to be involved in ;).
my friend is a virgin and she told me last night that she thought she was pregnant. i really dont see how this is possible but this is how she explained it: She told me she was fingered and then im guessing she gave him a blowjob and she got stuff on her hands.. she washed her hands and then put a tampon in cause she was on her period i guess. She thinks some cum got on the tampon.
i really dont understand!! is this even possible?
no. she didn't have intercourse.
Hi i was wondering,for 14 year olds...what would be better?..oral sex or regular sex?...also for oral would it be better for the girl to do the guy first or the guy to do the girl first..or would it be better for both to do it at the sametime because i know that someone might not feel like doing something after orgasming..also is it better for a guy to wear a condom for oral or not?
thanks =)
i like to be given oral sex rather than giving and i am a fan of 69. but i like actual intercourse way better. just make sure you're ready. and use a condom at all times for protection.
Where were you when you had your first time. My boyfriend of almost a year and I are thinking about doing it for the first time, but we aren't sure where the best places would be, or places that would be fun. and we don't want to be uncomfortable. So if you could list a couple it'd be apriciated. Thanks!
my first time was with my very ex boyfriend and we did it in a friends shower at a party and we pretty much had an unwanted audience the whole time. so i suggest you be very alone!
if you have dry sex, are you still considered a virgin?
yes because you didn't actually have intercourse.
I heard sex makes your breasts grow if you do it enough (not by getting pregnant). Is this true?
i've had sex many times and my boobs haven't grown. so the answer is no, your boobs don't grow.
i wanna get my nose piersed
like this:
http://www.bmezine.com/pierce/03-nose/A70321/high/bmepb484367.jpg
this is meee!!! i just want a personal opion if it will look good on me i know a nose stud isnt for everyone. any suggestions??
http://i52.photobucket.com/albums/g2/peta2piggy/DSCF1674.jpg
i think a small stud would look super cute! i'm getting a small stud in november for my 18th birthday, so i say go for it!
Okay for our yearly band trip we are going to dallas. and we are staying in an embassy suite. Is that a good nice hotel? I come from a weathly family and we usually stay in Waldorfs, Hiltons, Marco Polo, Etc, and i didnt kno what to expect. should i make reservations for myself at anpther hotel or will i be able to deal with it? Thanks and it may seem like i am being snobby but i really am not.
Cody*
all of the embassy suites i've stayed at have been very nice and cozy. i really like them!
I am 14 and a girl. I just shaved off all my pubes for the first time. Its all itchy. Thats probably because I didnt get the hairs close to the actual vagina. How do i get those without hurting myself?
your skin may just be irriated since it's your first time shaving it down there. after a few times it gets used to it and it stops getting so irritated.
Can you get pregnant from dry humping?
no, because you didn't actually have intercourse.
what is drill team? like is it jazz or hiphop or tap or ballet or what? and at a private school, are the tryouts for drill team hard? like what do you do at the tryouts, and if there's someone that's never done jazz or hiphop or tap before, do you think they could get in?
my school's drill team involves a lot of kick routines. they also do jazz, hip hop, lyrical, and modern dancing along with their kick dances. my schools drill team tryouts seem like they'd be easy to do if you had the skill to do them.
If you have tried out for the cheer squad can you tell me what you had to do, I am trying to get ready for it!
i've been a cheerleader for 4 years now. you have to work on your voice projection. when you cheer, say your cheer nice and slow because then that makes your moves sharper. if you go too fast it looks sloppy. work on your jumps & flexibility. definately have confidence, at my school we have an "appearance" catagory, where they judge our confidence & how we present ourselves. if you mess up, keep going. it'll be okay. and make sure your moves are realllllly tight. that's always a huge plus. it should be okay, just practice, practice, practice! good luck =].