hey i am a 13 year old oriental chick named emily anne. i come in a full package, a crazy personality, totally lovable, fun, perky, and last of all gorgeous. ;D I know more than the average 13 year old girl should know and for sure i kno how to have some fun. i'm 100% Philippino. i can be a bit blonde sometimes but thats what makes meh so lovable :D i love giving advice nad helping people with there problems. so i can't wait to help you guyz out!
E-mail: asiazFLYangel@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: manila,philippines
Occupation: student
AIM: asaizFLYangel
Member Since: December 22, 2004
Answers: 111
Last Update: March 31, 2005
Visitors: 4673
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I really like this boy. (lets call him Popcorn) But...the thing is I met him online. Not in a chatroom. Actually, I met him on advicenators...and...I started talking to Popcorn and we never made a connection really until during this past summer. We started talking a lot on AIM and I really like him. I told him...and he said he likes me too (this happened in the summer) He told me we shouldnt get into anything serious though because we live across the country from each other.
It's hurting.
I mean I thought it was all okay because my friend Brian asked me out...and we started going out and I thought that was better and stuff because Brian was someone whose actually here (not across the country and not someone I just talk to online)...and I really really liked Brian (we started going out in November)
Ever since September my computer has had a virus so I wasnt able to go online and talk to Popcorn for months...the only time I talked to him since my computer crashed was when I was over my friends house and we were online. So then Popcorn came online and I told him that I've been going out with someone named Brian for about a week, and he's like "really?!? I was just gonna tell you that I had a girlfriend."
And the freaky thing is...me and Popcorn both started going out with someone in the same week...and so we notified each other that we were going out with someone else...and we were both fine with each other going out with someone else I guess...
Then on Dec. 3 I broke up with Brian, (not because of Music) but just because it wasn't working between me and Brian and Brian said he still loves me (but I never loved him...I just liked him)...and we are still really really good friends...and since I broke up with Brian I cant stop thinking about Popcorn...and I really dont know if Popcorn still has a girlfriend.
And this may sound terrible, but I hope he doesn't...cuz I really like him again. I feel so selfish. I don't know why. Last night I was thinking about him and it just scares me that I really like him this much and I've never met him, although I love his personaility and his voice when he talked to me on mic before.
I just don't know what to do. My internet at home should be fixed soon...and I'll start talking to Popcorn again hopefully...but what if he still has a girlfriend?...and even if he doesn't, what can I do? I like him and I was thinking about him last night and you know how when you like someone you think about being with them and holding hands or kissing or something?...well...lets just say that's how it is with Popcorn. It was all of a sudden too. LIke I thought I stopped liking him and I still liked Brian after I broke up with him (I broke up with him because of a certain reason thats too hard to explain)...and yeah its just all confusing now...
But all I know is I still really like Popcorn, and I dont know what to do because obviously if he has a girlfriend he doesnt like me anymore...and even if he doesnt whose to say he likes me then?
Im sorry for it being so long of a question...please just help me with anything you can do...
I'm also a cutter, and I'm afraid to think about this too much because if I get upset I'm afraid I may cut myself more...and I cant because my family knows that I do it and every once in a while they check my arms.
okay sorry Im done now. Please help asap I have to get off this computer in about 30 minutes.
Thank you if you help.
-Me (link)
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well ok from mty experience long distance relationships don't work like 7 out of 10 times so you want to try adn avoid that. and well maybe he doesn't have a girlfriend. maybe he's just saying that so that you both would and it wouldn't seem so awkward. so he prolly likes you like alot. but long distance relationship is the only thing keeping you guyz apart.
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My ex always wanted me to go to his house. And he was tlakin about his new gf and he was like "oh, ____is coming over today." she never did, and i dont know if hes trying to make me jealous, or mad, or is hes trying to get over me. any suggestions? (link)
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i say he likes you and wants to get you to come over so he's trying to make you feel guilty. or maybe he does have a girlfriend that had something come up.
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okay i've been in this fight with my guy friend and well i brought him soup because he was sick and so i could say sorry and i did! well he hasn't talked to me and my friend i tried to invite him 2 dinner with us 2morrow nite! he said he can't he's busy with his so called "friends" who smoke and drink and so does he ever since he started hangingout with them! he's hanging out with the wrong crowd! what should i do? (link)
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talk to him and tell him what you think about his new friends. but he may get mad. good luck
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I'm 15/f in highschool and I know this girl who is pregnant. This isn't about wether its right or wrong, but, she's 15 also, and in my grade. I've known her since 4th grade(just about). She just found out she was pregnant, and I'm on good terms with her and everything, but were not best friends. Y'know? I was thinking I should go up to her and tell her that if she needs anything, I'd be there for her. Should I? Would it be inappropiate? -Sarah (link)
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if you guyz aren't close then i don't see why you should have to help her. i mean i could see why you wanta help her if she's not your closest friends then i say don't. itmight make you ahve alot more pressure.
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I'm 16/female.
There is this boy who likes me. We've been friends for 3 years and he's liked me for a good chunk of that time. There were times I liked him but it was never a good time to start dating. Recently, I rediscovered my feelings for him and we discussed it and agreed to give a relationship, dating, a try. He's a wonderful person but he's kind of clingy. He's already talking about being together "forever" and he says "don't leave me!" and we aren't even officially dating yet. I've had relationship issues before, being scared of them, and he knows this...and now I'm getting scared again. I'm afraid I'm going to hurt him. He's so much more solid in his feelings for me than I am in my feelings for him. I need some help, an outside oppinion. What do I do now? I've kind of talked to him about this but he thinks we should still give it a shot, that I should take the risk. But I just dont know anymore... (link)
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well if he wants you to take a risk then i say go for it. but make sure you tell him that if anything goes wrong or something that you guys stay as close as you are now. and if he loves you enough he'll respect that. good luck
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i really really want to get my tounge periced and im not sure if it will hurt real bad.. or if i should bc my mom doesnt want me to but my friends mom said she would take me.. if anyone can help me with this and is willing to talk to me about it my sn is x0xi3abiGirlx0x
Thankz a bunch xOx (link)
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tonge peircings are hard to take care of. and it can get annoying. like everytime you eat something hott you have to take it off. maybe get you belly button peirced or something instead.
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ok, well as of now...me and my frined are trying to pull an all nighter. Does anyone have some tips on how to stay awake all night long? thanks a bunch!!! : )
xoxox rox (link)
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have as much caffiene as you can... drink coffee or red bull or soda or something. good luck nad have fun!
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Me and this guy are really close. And he did stupid crap in the past but says he doesn't do them anymore. He's at a party tonight and i can't help but fear he's gonna go back on all that he promised me. We are just friends so should I be this worried? And if he does stuff, should I care? He's only my friend. Not like he's cheating on me. But yet i sit hear trembling he's doing exactly what he said he wouldnt... (link)
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well if you guyz are just friends like not best friends or boyfriend girlfriend i don't see why you should be feeling this way. i mean you may care about him but i mean it's his choice. and if you guyz are close friends then he should keep the promises. good luck -xoemilyanne
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ok i cant handle being told "I love you" by anyone or like people that just say luv ya chick bye bye because i know theyre lying i mean i always think theyre lying or if someone tells me im beautiful i automatically think theyre lying and i dont know why and everytime guys ask me out i say no because i dont want them to like me or love me or w/e and i dont know why whats wrong with me btw im 14/f if that does anything helpful but im so confused why cant i handle it (link)
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well just becuase they say luv ya or i love you doesn't mean they like you know love you like wanta marry you or something they just love you as a friend orl ike a sister. and if a guy asks you out it means hey like you. like they have a little crush. but maybe your just the kind ofperson that wants to wait for that right guy that you wanta spend the rest of your life with.
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Ok..So i am 16 years old and i have never had a serious relationship...I have been sexually active with guys but i am still a virgin....I tend to get attached to guys very easily and when i get them i get scared and i break away letting go a guy that cood possibly be someone who i cood date for awhile....am i scared or and i just doing this whole dating thing wrong? Ne advice? (link)
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it sounds like your just not ready. if your not ready don't think you have to be just becuase all your friends have had serious relationships and what not. don't pressure yourself. go at your own pace not everyone elses. just you kno play the field but don't take everything serious.
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Ok there is this girl at school..ill call her Kristen and we were like best friends in 5th and 6th grade and the beginning of 7th grade..we are now in 8th grade and i think Kristen hates my guts but im not really sure..but i still sorta wanna be Kristen's friend. My other friend ill call her Brittany..who is still my friend..is like best friends with Kristen. And whenever its just me and Kristen together..shes so mean to me and doesn't talk to me or anything. and whenever Brittany is around me and kristen..like we are all together..Kristen is super nice to me.. i think its because ive told brittany about kristen being like this and kristen doesn't want brittany to yell at her.I want us all to be friends..but i don't know how to because kristen is sorta 1 of the popular girls and im more in the middle and i don't know how to talk to the popular ppl. Sorry it was long..but does anyone have any ideas of how i could become friends with kristen? Or why she does is mean to me usually..but when brittany is there she isn't? Thanks in advance! (link)
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do you even know why kristen hates your guts? ask her and maybe you can get it all straightened out w/ her. good luck -xoemilyanne
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So my mom and my dad fight constantly and they are kind of alcholics...I always find myself crying myself to sleep and wishing that i had different parents...But neway..one night my dad locked me and my mom out of the house and it was so bad that my mom had to call the police on him....I have never done nething to my dad to make him treat me this way....This may sound horribe but im actually terrified of him...What should i do...please i need advice really bad bcuz this is something that has been bothering me for awhile and i never really had the guts to talk to ppl about it......HELP! (link)
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stay away from all the drama for a while like stay with a relative for a few days or weeks if you have to. maybe by doing this your parents will realize how stressful their making your life and maybe they'll try to help themselves if they love you.
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Im addicted to the computer. When ever i get home from wherever i am..i dart to the computer and if i don't get my reading done for school..ill lose computer for like 2 1/2 months! and i know im not gonna get my reading done. So im gonna like die with out computer! Can someone help me get over this? Thanx! (link)
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unhook the computer and give it to your parents until your done w/ your reading or whatever. thats what my parents did to meh :P
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My brother recently kissed a lesbian, and disgusting thoughts came up in my mind, so I thought I'd just ask this question...
IF A REGULAR GUY KISSES A LESBIAN, WHAT DOES THAT MAKE THE GUY?
Please answer, don't leave me in suspense! (link)
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ust becuase he kissed a`lesbian doesn't make him lesbian too lol he's straight. strangely guyz are turns on my lesbians...
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a boy told me something i wont disclose but it was almost a threat. i told my mom who told the principal and he got expelled. that was in october and i still feel bad and guilty. people say i did the right thing but i feel bad!
plus he has my adress and he scares me. i m probably overreacting but o well. i feel guilty and scared. (link)
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wel you shouldn't feel that way. he was threatening you nad he got it coming. and i mean come on hes already out of school and yet your still scared becuase he knows your address. common sense you shouldn't feel bad nad guilty you were just trying to protect yourself.
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I was going out with this guy that i like a lot. He's perfect in my eyes, and i am in his. we were perfect for each other and things were great until my cousin got involved. she's a little more "advanced" and he likes that. he doesnt like her like her at all, but he wouldnt mind getting some. i felt like a bad gf because i wouldnt do that stuff but he understood. anyways, things eventually didnt work out, and i broke up with him. now, hes going out with someone that i used to be friends with. all of my other guy friends talk to him and say that he still loves me, but he has a gf so i dont see how thats possible. i really wish he did because i still love him a lot. so anyway, we flirt a LOT, and lately ive been more in love with him than ever. i dont know what to do because i dont know if he still loves me, or if hes just leading me on. it seems as though he still has feelings for me but i dont know how to tell. what do i do? i really want them to break up, but i dont want them to until he really does still love me. any advice? i'd rly appreciate it. i dont care how incoherant your reponse is, i'll rate you a 5. (link)
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no i wouldn't say your a boyfriend stealer becuase i mean you were with him first. but if you think he likes you alot then he probably does. but you should talk to him yourself becuase i mnea who knwos maybe your friends might be making things up just to make you happy. good luck
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Ok, well there is this guy that I like and he absolutely adores me. He asked me out but I said no, maybe sometime soon. I like him, I really do. But see, I don't know if we went out that it would work out. He likes to play video games and talks about them a lot. I could care less half of the time but I listen and try to be interested in what he is saying because I care if that makes sense. And well, I'm the kind of girl who really likes to cuddle and kiss and sometimes other things. I don't have sex or oral sex.. just other things if you catch my drift. I mean I can live without those things if I have to. So my question is, should I go out with this guy? What are your blunt opinions on if you think it'd work out for us or not? Thanks (link)
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well i guess if you guyz really wanta have it work out it could. just talk to him and tell him how you feel or just go straight to the point and say SHUT UP ABOUT VIDEO GAMES but hey thats jus meh. but if you only like him for his physical features then i wouldn't.
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For as long as I can remember, my aunt has always been an alcoholic. My family has stopped being in contact with her because she has caused many problems with my family in the past. There are days she will drink so much she'll pass out and other days she'll become extreamly violent. I never see her anymore and yet I'm worried about her. I'm more so worried about my 10 year old cousin (her daughter). My aunt has been on and off with drinking. Before I was born it was really bad. My mother told me that it was because she was in love with this guy but he was Chinese and his parent's didn't want him to marry a woman of another race so they had to end their relationship. That was nearly 30 years ago. I fear for my aunt. Although I do not have a close relationship with her, let alone any relationship with her at all, regardless she is family and I'm scared she is going to take things too far and hurt herself or someone else. I need to find her help. My mother and my other aunt have been trying to find places to take her but every place said that they needed more information about her problems. We really don't know at all why she is the way that she is. Her husband isn't any help at all. He just sits his fat ass on the couch with a beer in one hand and the TV remote in the other. Their house is a terrible mess and a person living on the streets would be too disgusted to even live there. They have a 10 almost 11 year old daughter and they do take care of her, and as a matter of fact, she's a spoiled brat. I'm still worried because the environment she is living in is in no way healthy for her. I don't know what to do. My family doesn't know what to do. I need to find her help but we can't find any place for her. Please, please, help. I apologize for the length of this question. (link)
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okay in the past you have tried to send her to places to have help and they say they need more information about her problem. thats really their job is to find out whats wrong and fix it. but maybe you should ahve you mother and aunts think about some thing that may have happened in the past or maybe something tragic happening that may have caused her drinking problem and violent behavior. maybe it was that relationship 30 years ago. you should try and talk to your aunt when she's not drunk. maybe she could at least tell you some sort of information that can help you to help her. good luck. and i hoped i helped a little.
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I'm a girl, I have 2 good guy friends. I have a promise with one of them that i can't tell anyone.. well the other day me and the other guy friend got into a fight b/c i wouldn't tell him the promise i had. he said true friends have honesty. i figure that promises are deeper than honesty towards another friend. if i tell the secret, i lose the friend i have the promise with. if i don't tell, i lose the other friend. how can i just keep both guys my friends? (link)
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try to make the friend that you don' thave the promise with feel guilty. like if he had to keep a secret and you wanted to kno would he tell you? and its great you can keep a secret for someone you care about. well good luck!
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where is the best place to buy a fancy dress not formal or semi formal casual-fancy (link)
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DEBS that place ish cute and affordable!
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