Hi, my name is Katie and I'm 15 years old. In those fifteen years I've literally been through more than most people go through in their entire life. I absolutely love helping people, and I've been told by many people that I'm good at it. I'll definitely love to give you advice, but I'm telling you right now I will say what I think, I'm not going to sugar coat everything or tell you what you want to hear just so you'll give me good ratings. So if you have any questions, about anything at all, just ask away, I'd be more than happy to help =]
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im always having the same song as other people.
and i wanna have a good song that makes you wanna dance.
please name a lot of bands and songs.
PLEASE. (link)
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Well, it would have helped if you said what type of music that you listen to.. but I'll just go with what's considered popular lately.
1. Glamorous - Fergie
2. Anything from Justin Timberleake
3. Anything from Fergie =]
4. Cute is what we aim for (band)
5. Situations - by Escape the Fate (great song.. kind of harder than Fergie and Justin though)
I hope some of this helped.
-Katie
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im 14/f and ive had my period for like 3 years and i can never find out where to put the tampon in? like what hole? if its the hole closest to my stomach it will NEVER fit in that hole its so small (i think its where the comes out? idont know though) ugh im just so confused and i feel like a freak! someone please help! i also play softball and soccer so i really need to start wearing tampons cause pads are so uncomfortable! thanks soo much for helping (link)
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The tampon box comes with insturctions. Diagram and everything. It'll tell you how to insert the tampons.
-Katie
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I am incredibly bored!!!!!!What should I do???
any suggestions are appreciated.
Thanks!!! (link)
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i-am-bored.com will solve all of your problems.
-Katie
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You know when you go to drug stores and there's always a cosmetic lady? Can you ask her for advice on what to buy for anything or just the face? I'm thinking hair too and stuff..sunblock for your face? (link)
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You may ask her whatever you like. That's what she's there for.
-Katie
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ok i am 15/f have a serious question me and my boyfriend make out and he starts reaching up my shirt and grabbing my butt and it just tickles me cause i want him to do that but im just so like ticklish how do i let him do those things without me pulling away and have you had someone grab your boobs when your boobs arent big and i have another question if you have ever gotten fingered, are you supposed to shave down there or keep some hair do guys even like hairy vaginia (link)
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Whoa, whoa, whoa, lots of questions!
Okay, let's start with your first question.
1) Obviously he knows by now that you are very ticklish. Let him hold/stroke/touch other parts of your body where you aren't ticklish. Such as your neck, sides, stomach, thigh.. etc. It's still intimate without you squirming and laughing.. although some guys think that's cute, others annoying, depends on the guy.
2) Yes.
3) No.
4) Different guys like different things. Most guys lately are lazy and like girls to shave. but you don't have to shave all the way if you do not want to. Just keep things clean and well groomed and you'll be fire, you don't have to take everything away down there as long as what you have looks well groomed and not like a big mess.
-Katie
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i loved my ex-bf when we were dating. but now i love my current bf even more. i've been talking to my ex and trying to find out who he likes and i just realized how upset/jealous i'd be if i saw him with another girl. but then i wondered who he felt everytime he saw me with my bf or everytime i spent hours talking to him about problems i had with my bf. i feel so guilty and like im not being totally loyal to my bf who has never cheated on me in any way. wat should i do? (link)
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It's natural to still have some feelings left over for a boy that you once dated. It's natural to feel jealous and upset for another girl going after him. But you're happy now right? You're moving on already because you have a new boyfriend who you love alot. So it's all a natural process of getting over someone. You're already on the right path, just let things continue on the way they are going and everything will be fine.
Good luck!
-Katie
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hi i haven't really had any male role models in my life and its awkward showing my boyfriend affection..
how do i get more comfortable? (link)
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I always have problems getting close to guys too when I'm dating them. Even though I do have a male role model in my life, my dad.
If you're like me then you probably watn to be close with him, but every time it comes down to the alone time together things get akward?
Just express your concerns to your boyfriend, and I'm certain he'll understand. Tell him why you feel uncomfortable with him, and take things slow.
-Katie
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I feel like everyone else is always socializing and everyone else can have a good conversation except for me. wWhen im around people who are having conversation i feel like they are talking over me and withot me it seems like anything i say isnt important or pointless becasue no one would rather have a conversation with me why is this? How do i come up with interesting conversation? (link)
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I feel the same way alot of times! Just try to be more social.. talk about things you have in common.. that's a good idea!! Tv shows, classes you share, teachers being lame, etc.
Make inside jokes, that's always a special thing to share with someone.
Good luck.
-Katie
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Ok so i got my period like..10 days ago and it lasted its usual 5 days..and i still had a little bit of bleeding for the last few days..and now it seems i am getting my period again for some reason..i am on the pill and during this round i had forgotten to take a few of the pills so i think things were thrown off a bit..could i be bleeding becuase of like a hormone imbalance? or is it possible that i am pregnant..even tho my bf never cums in me..[plz help thmx. (link)
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If your boyfriend and you did not have sex, then unless a miracle happened you are not pregnant. Periods are very random.. sometimes they last longer than others. Sometimes they stop short, sometimes they come early, late etc. It does not mean that you are pregnant.
-Katie
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does anyone know where to get the acoustic version of mr. jones by counting crows? i can't find it on itunes but maybe i overlooked it..if anyone can tell me where to download it in an ipod compatible format that would be great :) thank you! (link)
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If you go to Limewire.com and download their free version it's in there.
-Katie
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hi, i am 13 years old and i have a bad reputation at school. everyone calls me a slut...in fact ive been given the title \'the unofficial class slut\'. a slut is a girl who sleeps around with people and im a virgin, so why am i being branded like this. i used to hv a lot of guys who were friends, but since the grls gve me this name theyve cold shouldered me. it really hurts. ive made sum bad decisions but i really dont deserve it. plus, ive got a big bust, so people make snide comments abt them, which are really nasty. plz give me sum advice on how to cope. all advice is appreciated!! (link)
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Unfortunately this type of thing happens all the time. And it usually happens to the most undeserving people. Just because they have big breasts, or a larger butt, or just because they hang out with alot of guys girls will get called a slut.
Try not to let it bother you. Because you, and everyone calling you a slut, knows you really are not. They are probably just jealous of you because of your larger chest and ability to have alot of boy friends!! And if all else fails you can throw a nasty name at them the next time someone calls you a rude name ;)
Good luck, I know it's hard to hear stuff like that day after day. I hope my advice helped out and I hope everything goes well for you!
-Katie
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what does play hard to get means? is it like leading someone on? (link)
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Not exactly. Leading someone on means that you are making them believe you have feelings for them when you actually do not. That's a pretty mean thing to do to someone and could really end horribly. I don't reccomend leading anyone on.
Now playing hard to get is a whole new ballgame! It means that you want the person.. they like you and you like them back. You could act like your interested.. but that it doesn't bother you if they don't like you. Flirt with him/her, but also sort of make it seem like they can't get you. Play hard to get. The name says it all. But don't play hard to get for too long, guys (and girls) like a challenege but if it takes them too long to get you, then they'll just give up.
-Katie
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Hey can you give me on your opinion if it's ok to wear a white dress like this for a grad or prom? aand why or why not, pros and cons? I not many people don't wear white dresses to a grad but the colour gives off an innocent look..
http://i143.photobucket.com/albums/r155/wind_miko/kr_myname_album.gif (link)
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Personally, I wouldn't wear a white gown to prom.. looks too much like a wedding dress. But for graduation I think it'd be really nice looking.
-Katie
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im 15/f usa
i just want to thank ou first of all for even reading all this
okay so i want to make sure that you know that i love this guy more then anyone in the entire world and he means everything to me and if he asked me to marry him tommorow i would deff. say yes
okay so we went out a year ago for like a month and a half and we fell in love. and we broke up because he was 18 and i was 14 and he couldve got in a lot of trouble. after the break up we completely stopped talking.
he didnt talk to me until 7 months later he messaged me on myspace to say... hey i heard from jillian your birthday was soon so i wanted to say happy birthday. and we got talking and started taling everynight and we became best friends and bascially i fell in love with him all over again and he liked me again too and we started hooking up and did basically eeverything but sex and were planning to and then we talked about getting back together but he said he didnt want the drama of a girlfriend so i dealt with it
then we got into a fight [myfault] and he decided were better as friends and now were not close at all anymore we talk maybe once every month and he has a girlfriend but cheated on her with another girl but im not sure if he still has his gf i think they might of brok up but idk and
i still love him soooooooo much and im just wondering what i should do? i really wanna be with him forever for life and i just dont know should i like talk to him and tell him how i feel or just wait until we see eachother again and try flirting and maybe get to hookup with him again?
whats should i do ?? i love him so much hes my everything and im dying here without him.
thanks so much in advance! (link)
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Ash-
Okay, I'm going to be 100% honest with you here, I'm not going to tell you what I think you want to hear. I'm sorry if it sounds mean, but I'm honestly not trying to be mean, just truthful. I get that you love this guy so much, and it's a great feeling being in love, but I'm just going to start off by saying that your first love isn't going to be your only love.
This guy sounds like a generally sweet guy. But cheating on his girlfriend? Do you really think that's the type of guy you want to be with for the rest of your life? Once a cheater, always a cheater, no matter how hard they try to convience you, the odds are they will cheat again.
Also, from the picture you painted me, it sounds like he's moved on. He's dating other girls, and dating other girls while he's dating that girl.. never a good thing. I think you should move on too. Start dating around.. one person at a time of course :)
I know at this point your probably saying "You don't get it" or "I can't do that, I love him." But not matter how hard it gets at first, it gets easier believe me. Do you know the odds of people ending up together with their first true love? It's very, very, very slim. So chances are, even if you two got back together, you wouldn't end up married anyway.
I'm sorry for having to say all of this to you, and I appreciate you asking me for advice. I hope you heed my warnings and take my advice, it'll end up better for everything.
I wish you the BEST of luck with this! And feel free to write me another question anytime!
-Katie
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how do you make out??? like do your use ur tonge or whatr? (link)
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It's different for every person. Making out usually involves using your tongue at least a little. It doesn't have to be forceful at all. Experiment.. find out what you like to do, or be done by your kissing partner.
-Katie
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If you stop eating meat in general, it can help weight loss? (link)
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Technically yes, but meat has protien in it which your body needs! If you are going to stop eating meat just to lose weight I'd suggest excersing more (bleh, I know) and also eating more fruits and veggies, with at least a little bit of meat. That'll help tremendously! If you want to stop eating meat because you want to become a vegitarian then go for it, but drink protien shakes to keep it in your body.
-Katie
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what kinda of girls to guys tend to like?? (link)
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Unfortunately it varies from boy to boy. They like different things in girls, just as girls like different types of boys.
Just be yourself that way when you do find a good guy, you won't have to be something your not. Much easier that way!!
-Katie
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ok so there is this guy i really like, and he really likes me. we spend hours on the phone every night and i can tell we both really like each other. today he found out i was friends w/ this girl and was like OMG YOU KNOW HER? YOU TALK TO HER? SHE IS SO HOT! AHH OMG! and so on. it really hurt my feelings and i don't understand why a guy would say that to a girl he likes/is interested in. can someone explain this to me? i wouldn't want to talk about a hot guy to him. i just dont get why he did that (link)
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Honey, there are so many things boys do that are soo stupid. Boys are just stupid in general. It's their nature. But I know how you feel. I'm pretty, but in the average way, and my sister is just gorgeous. All the guys always come telling me how they want to.. do sexual things to her ;)
It really bothers me, but I just ignore it. Or say bad stuff about her so that they will think she's gross ;)
But obviously you don't want to do that to your friend, right? Just tell the guy to shut up. Guys are sensitive like we girls are, so he'll shut up without getting all wierd about it.
-Katie
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i want to do a make over. im grounded and when i come back on monday i want the boys to be like "helloo!" haha. yeah so any good ideas.. like hair, nails, make up, ummm yeah basically all of that stuff & ANYTHING else you can think of.
please i actually want people to notice a diff. in me.
the makeup i currently go with- lip gloss, black eyeliner, a little cover up around my eyes and neutragonas mineral sheers (like powdery stuff). pretty much its just a natural look and its really quick and easy.
hair- i either keep it wavy or straighten it.
yeah. so any advice.
im blonde and blue eyed... and im yeah. THANKSSS (link)
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Play around with your blue eyeshadows. Mix them together to create a darkish blue to put right on your lid, then as you get closer to your eyebrow go lighter and lighter blue.
It'll really make your eyes pop.
Or if you can't seem to quite get that, then just sweep terquoise/blue eyeshadow right across the top of your lash line.
It does wonders!!
-Katie
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female
I sweat a lot
I went to the doctor and they gave me the strongest prescription deodorant, but I still sweat.
I don't sweat unless I'm really nervous or around guys or when I feel claustrophobic.
I pretty much only sweat around people
I just start to feel really hot and then I start sweating. I need some tips how to stay cool.
I've tried wearing t-shirts, but I still sweat a lot. I need some solutions, please (link)
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I'm the exact same way, and I get so embarassed about it! So I know how you feel!
Certain Dri deoterant works well! It's liquid deoterant that is made just for us gals who sweat!! =]
You can get it anywhere, I get mine from Publix, but Wal-Mart, Target.. anywhere.
-Katie
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