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worst situation
im 15/f usa
i just want to thank ou first of all for even reading all this
okay so i want to make sure that you know that i love this guy more then anyone in the entire world and he means everything to me and if he asked me to marry him tommorow i would deff. say yes
okay so we went out a year ago for like a month and a half and we fell in love. and we broke up because he was 18 and i was 14 and he couldve got in a lot of trouble. after the break up we completely stopped talking.
he didnt talk to me until 7 months later he messaged me on myspace to say... hey i heard from jillian your birthday was soon so i wanted to say happy birthday. and we got talking and started taling everynight and we became best friends and bascially i fell in love with him all over again and he liked me again too and we started hooking up and did basically eeverything but sex and were planning to and then we talked about getting back together but he said he didnt want the drama of a girlfriend so i dealt with it
then we got into a fight [myfault] and he decided were better as friends and now were not close at all anymore we talk maybe once every month and he has a girlfriend but cheated on her with another girl but im not sure if he still has his gf i think they might of brok up but idk and
i still love him soooooooo much and im just wondering what i should do? i really wanna be with him forever for life and i just dont know should i like talk to him and tell him how i feel or just wait until we see eachother again and try flirting and maybe get to hookup with him again?
whats should i do ?? i love him so much hes my everything and im dying here without him.
thanks so much in advance!<3
-ash
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Ash-
Okay, I'm going to be 100% honest with you here, I'm not going to tell you what I think you want to hear. I'm sorry if it sounds mean, but I'm honestly not trying to be mean, just truthful. I get that you love this guy so much, and it's a great feeling being in love, but I'm just going to start off by saying that your first love isn't going to be your only love.
This guy sounds like a generally sweet guy. But cheating on his girlfriend? Do you really think that's the type of guy you want to be with for the rest of your life? Once a cheater, always a cheater, no matter how hard they try to convience you, the odds are they will cheat again.
Also, from the picture you painted me, it sounds like he's moved on. He's dating other girls, and dating other girls while he's dating that girl.. never a good thing. I think you should move on too. Start dating around.. one person at a time of course :)
I know at this point your probably saying "You don't get it" or "I can't do that, I love him." But not matter how hard it gets at first, it gets easier believe me. Do you know the odds of people ending up together with their first true love? It's very, very, very slim. So chances are, even if you two got back together, you wouldn't end up married anyway.
I'm sorry for having to say all of this to you, and I appreciate you asking me for advice. I hope you heed my warnings and take my advice, it'll end up better for everything.
I wish you the BEST of luck with this! And feel free to write me another question anytime!
-Katie
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