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hi i haven't really had any male role models in my life and its awkward showing my boyfriend affection..
how do i get more comfortable?
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Well I didn't have a male role model either and my mom wasn't very affectionate except when she wanted to be. She got phobias with touching. But I wanted that affection so badly, yeah it is awkward at first but just take it slow. Talk to the dude about it and just do what feels nice to you. Know the difference between uncomfortable and unexperienced. Hugging and wraping arm in arm is a lot more comfortable than holding hands so try that too. Holding hands is so awkward for anyone hahaha. Peace
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I always have problems getting close to guys too when I'm dating them. Even though I do have a male role model in my life, my dad.
If you're like me then you probably watn to be close with him, but every time it comes down to the alone time together things get akward?
Just express your concerns to your boyfriend, and I'm certain he'll understand. Tell him why you feel uncomfortable with him, and take things slow.
-Katie
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