hello i am a 25 year old mom, i am married to a wonderful man for 7 years. i have been there and done that, so i can answer alot of questions from experence.
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i really like this guy but im preddy shure he has a gf. i have a very good feeling hes like in love with me, and ive got a really good feeling that im like in love with him. everytime i see him i cant help grinning because when he sees me or talks to me i just forget all my problums... annyway, i think he knows hes not supposed to like me so hes starring at me the hole entire time im not stareing at im but when i look at him he pretends he hadnt been looking at me for 5 min streight. im fine with him starring at me. but, im starting to kindof get obset(?) and confused about it, and i was wondering if you guys could help me find out what to do about it. and please do not say "move on" im tired of moving on pleaze help i rate well (link)
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you should tell him exactly how you feel, and tell him how you think he feels. if he isnt feeling how you think he is, then at least you will know, you are getting no answers just wondering. plus i know guys love when a girl actually shows interest in them enough to not just beat around the bush and just ask.
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Well, I'm a 16 year old female and my boyfriend and i have been together for about a year now. We are so much alike and everything has been absolutely perfect. But no, really.
We waited a while (about 9 months) before we lost our virginity to each other.
My parents absoluetly love him and he spends the night all the time.
There is never any awkwardness between us.
When we tell each other that we love each other, there is no doubt in either of our minds that it isn't the truth.
And he proves it through the smallest gestures.
I don't know, it really IS unexplainable.
How do you know if you're truly in love? (link)
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sounds like you already know. it is an unexplained happiness, i belive everyone has diffrent feelings when they are in love. what you have described definatly sounds like you are already there sweetie, congrats. isnt it great, i wish you both the best.
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Im getting a new room and the dimensions are 12x15.5..kinda biggish. I Was thinking about the colors and im not sure. Im kinda of a wild-crazyish person but.. i dont want the colors to be too out of control. I dont want them to be boring, but somewhat subtle. Maybe i can add some bright colored stripes?? I can do whatever colors i want but im kind of choosy. Im getting this bedspread ((well i want it))--> http://wakeupfrankie.com/ensemble.asp?ensemble_id=64#viewer
So..yes any color suggestions would be accepted!
Except i dont like wallpaper, or the color brown or blue.THANKS! (link)
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a really neat wat to spice up a room is pick the base color in the room like the main color in the bed spread and work off that, even having diffrent shades of the same color throught the room so it dosent look boring. i saw on the show trading spaces where one wall was the main room color then the other walls were diffrent colors that accented the main wall, it looked really cute. i have gotten alot of really great ideas off that show for my own house, maybe you should check it out it is on tlc channel. good luck
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Thank you for your advice. No unfortunately Im not one for group activities. I tend to go to work each day - drive home and take my little dog for a walk. Then I pretty much play with her in the evenings or watch a film or read or go on my computer. I dont really have any ideas about where to go. I did once go to a Salsa evening but the trainer was coming on to me in front of his girlfriend and he was so obviously so much younger than I was that it was all an act to get me to subscribe (not very flattering). So I didnt go again. Im not really religious, dont like sports or going to the pub. (link)
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hmmm... well you might have something there with the dog walking try walking in diffrnt areas than u ushally do, i know that would be a great way to meet another anomal lover.
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I'm a sophomore, and I'm strictly against the whole freshman-dating-upperclassmen-thing. But there's this kid in my class that I'm kinda into, and he's a freshman. I really want to hook up with him but I'm hesitant, ideas? (link)
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i think that the grade dosent make the person. if you are really into this guy dont let how old or what grade he is in interfere with how you feel about him. who knows you could be missing out on a really great guy.
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okay i have a friend who liked me since he met me which was elementary and i liked him to but i never knew he liked me so i never told him so years later i found out he liked me and he still likes me so i was so happy it was like a dream come true but then he had a girl friend and he just blew me off after telling me he was in love with me this whole time so i moved on and met this other guy and fell in love with him and so my friend dumped his girl friend and started calling me and told me he sees him getting married with me when he gets older and that he will never for get me and boom he asked me out sayin he loves me but i said no i mean i like him but i already moved on and now i told him lets just be friends but some part of me really wants him but hes the type of guy where he will like you and then he will like someone else so yea well he calls me and tells me that still but then he tells me he like is in love with 3 or more other girls i mean what is with that i told him hes a player and he said no but now he just calls me talking about another girl and i still like him i need some help badly.... (link)
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sounds like he is trying to make you jealous talking about other girls after he has told you he is in love with you, he also sounds very confused. it sounds like a very complicated situation. love is not supposed to be so complicated. either he wants to be with you or not it should be just that simple, and if he pouring his heart out to you telling you how much he loves you and at the same time talking about other girls it sounds like he is just in a way to keep from being embarassed trying to see if you will drop everything for him. kinda sounds just like some head games to me. i think you are wise to just try and keep him for a friend, and maybe when he matures more and realises what he really wants, and has your best interest in mind, you may some day have a future with this man.
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I'm getting braces in the beginning of October and want to know about teeth whitening. Should I do it now? During Braces or when I get my braces off? (link)
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i think you should do it before and then after. i have known people with braces and they said that after they get them off they could tell where they were because of discolorization. so if you start off pearly white then follow up afterward that should take care of that problem.
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Im a single woman (no kids - one dog) recently moved to the area, dont know anyone here. How do I go about meeting Mr Right? How can I actually meet someone who is Genuine, honest, kind, honerable, intelligent with a sense of humour?
Ive tried online dating sites but nothing has come of that. I dont like to go out on my own.
Ive been told that Im attractive, funny, kind, caring, intelligent but if anything that seems to put guys off.
Im not desperate to find a partner - infact Id rather be on my own than go out with someone just for the sake of it. Its just that it would be nice to settle down at some point in time.
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do you go to church, or participate in any group activitys where eligable men with the same intersets you have are at. if not you might consider doing just that. i have always been told and have found it to be very true is just when you arnt looking for mr right is when he will come. some men are turned off by a self sufficent independent woman, and that is definatly not the man you need in your life, so when you are doing what you like to do and not appearing desperate or vonerable is when a man will take notice in you and may decide to approach you.
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i really think im in love with this guy, how do i tell him i love him, and let him know im giving him all my trust, all my heart, all my everything?? (link)
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i would suggest saying what you have typed on here. the best thing you can do in a relationship is be honest. if you are to the point that you have trust built up for this man then all you can do is tell him how you feel and continue to be honest with him.
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ok ppl this is kinda sick. my mom got me this new razor thats really weird and i pressed down harder than usual. the next day i got tiny red bumps on one of my legs and the day after that i got em on both legs and the red bumps are a little bigger. Is this razor burn or like ingrown hairs? if not what are they and how do i get rid of them FAST??
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it could be both, the way to tell is if they are small and might be kinda itchy and sting a little that is razor burn, now if they look like a big pimple have a head on them and are very sore to the touch then that is an ingrown hair.the best way to keep from getting razorburn is first thing is let your legs get good and wet before you shave them, also try to avoid using soap to shave with it can irritate your pores when shaving, wait at least an hour before going out in the sun after shaving, cuz after you shave your skin is very sensitive, also avoid putting lotion on immediatly afterward. and when shaving bikini line never wear anything tight after you shave cotton is best and always shave the way your hair grows to avoid those horrible ingrown hairs. i know at walmart to shave the bikini line and keep it bump free you can get this stuff called bikini zone, it works great. otherwise it just pretty much goes away on its own. the worst thing you can do now that you do already have it though is shave over it while you do have bumps because it will do nothing but irritate them more. i hope i have helped.
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okay, i started my period last month in august on the 23. and yesterday on the 18th of september, i thought i was starting my period but it was like 5 days early. its like brownish and sticky. kinda gross to read i know but i wanna know. so i wore a pad to school today and its just like a normal period but just a wierd color and early. whats going on? is this supposed to happen? (link)
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unfortunatly a womans period is about as unpredictable as the weather forcast. some months it might be five days, others only three. it could also vary in color and how heavy it is. i have even been told that stress can cause you to miss your period, or even being sick can. if you think that they are just getting crazy out of controll, then you can be put on birth controll, the pill, and it will regulate you to start and end on the same day every month.
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Does anyone know where to get those demin minis that have those stingy things at the end that looks like it had been cut off? Also, if you could give me the websites and the prices I would really appreciate it. Thanks! (link)
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i saw some really cute ones on jcpennys.com
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I was very younge 13 and never really under stood much or maybe i was 15 i can't remember but my grandad who is dead now tried to touch me on my private parts. and he did touch me on my vagina, and it hurt me I remember that i kicked him with my foot to get him away hard and it hurt him made a scare. I know he loved me and i loved him. I am so guilty i wish i never did it now i keep thinking about it and everything. please i know i was wrong but i don't know how to make me forget about it please help me. im using my friends account so hurry with answers. Thanx. (link)
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i have ehard this situation many times and alot of young woman say the same thing that they was their fault what has happened to them.it was not your fault wether it was your grandfather, friend boyfriend or whoever did such things to you. when someone touches a child they need help a grown man knows the diffrence between right and wrong. a child can not make a man want them, or provoke anything of that nature. i understand that you love your grandfather, and i have no doubt in my mind that he loved you as well. but that still not change the fact that what he did was wrong. the hard reality of it is you may not be the only one that he did that to. i work in the business when i deal with petafiles on a daily basis, and 9 out of 19 times they are repeat offenders. i think it would be wise to talk to a counselor about this, you are oviously in denial that anything wrong on your grandfathers part was wrong, and to blame yourself, is putting the blame in the wrong place. i know it is hard when someone you love hurts you, you would like to pretend it never happened. unfortunatly it dosent work that way which you are now finding out. if you do not fully deal with this soon it could possibly haunt and cause you to have bad relationships with men for the rest of your life. good luck to you.
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hey i like this guy but hes like 7 years older he goes to my church and well im not sure if he likes me i mean he acts like he does sometimes but see he has a girlfriend hes been with for 4 years and well sometimes he doesnt want to be with her and then he goes back with her but when its just me and him hes really nice to me and then when its not and i call him hes a jerk but i really like him and im not sure what to do cause like he messes with me alot and this one girl asked me when i get older if we would get married and he said maybe i mean what does that mean????? (link)
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well im sure he makes you feel really good when it is just the two of you, but there is one thing you need to think about. now you say he has been with one girl for four years, thats a long time and you say when you guys are alone he pays alot of attention to you. now would you really want a guy who is with you to be paying alot of special attention to another woman or women. if he does it to her, he will do it to you. plus if he is acting diffrent around you when people are around he has no intention on making anything official with you, he just wants to have his cake and eat it to. as long as you keep letting him do it , he will continue, what a great life for a guy, he can have a girlfriend, and a girl on the side. you deserve to be nobodys second best, so my advice to you is stsrt looking for a man who can give you his undevided attention when ever you want it, not when it is conveinent for him. good luck.
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I'm 27 married 3 months ago. I'm not prepared to get pregnant. How to do sex without get pregnant but i dont want to use condoms. (link)
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well there are several forms of birth controll, you can take the pill, get a shot every three months, use a diaphram, use spermacide although i have heard you need to use another forn of birth controll with it. i applaud you for being so smart and taking the precautions to have a child when you are ready. kids are wonderful, but belive me it they are nothing to jump right into especially when you first get married, you and your husband are still learning about each other, good luck and if i can help you in any other way let me know.
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See my Grannie died and thats my mom's mom. My mom has been taking it pretty hard latley and she sometimes crys and gets mad and I just feel so bad for her cause its her mom and she loved her alot. Everytime I see her cry I want to confort her but I don't really know what to do or say. She has lost 7lbs in the last 2 weeks and she hasn't been eating right and she is all depressed and empty. She is really scering me and I don't know what to do.
Please Help Me. Thanks in Advance and No stupid answers. (link)
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my grandmother just passed away as well and it was also my moms mom. she has been very torn up about it, they were very close. i at first didnt know what to either, i wanted to hug her and tell her everything is going to be ok, but that kind of stuff just dosent work for her, so a good friend gave me some really great advice, it worked wonders for me and i hope it helpes you to. i was told to talk to my mom like take her out for coffie or what ever it is your mom likes to do, and make sure it is just the two of you. and tell her you know she is going through a rough time, and you couldnt even begin to imagine what you would feel like if you were in the same situation. let her know you are completely there for her no matter what time, or what you are doing. then tell her that you thing the two of you should do something in your grandmothers honor, maybe something she loved to do as a child, or make a memorial for her what ever is fitting to her and your budget, and make it a regular thing to do with your mother to pay tribute to your grandmother in your own special little way. i hope this helps.
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my friend says that when you finger someone, the person being fingered can being wearing pants but i dont think that is true ...is it true or no ..if its not true how can i tell her? (link)
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well in order to be fingered a finger has to actually enter your vaginia, it could be done with pants on but i think that could be quit uncomfortable. i would just tell her it could be done but if two people are trying to please each other, that would not be an ideal way to do it, you would be wresteling with your pants more than you would be enjojing anything.
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ok, a wile ago i asked a question about headache's and tried the advice that people gave me but it didint work, and now im like getting headaches more often, can this be somthing serious?
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i have horrible headaches as well and here are a few things that worked for me, i actually put ice on my head where it hurts the most, and occationally massage it really hard in the same place. the only medicine that has ever seemed to work for me is excedrin migrane. i have had to go to the hospital many times and got pain medicine shots. i was told the first time i went to get a catscan tomake sure everything is ok, and they told me alot of times people dont drink enough water and get headaches from mild dehydration. you might need to make an appt. with your family doc. hope i helped.
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Ok last night was my cousin's 14th birthday party.I had no idea ta ll that my cousin invited my ex boyfriend. It was weird at first, but then we started hanging out and he started hitting on me. Then after awhile this kid Brandon started hitting on me too! Well I have a boyfriend, and what happens when you think you like your ex again and you know he may like yoy, and all your friends want you to hook up and even your cousin!(Doesn't happen very often for me)
Will rate high for good answers (link)
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well in the first place do you really like your current boyfriend. if you are still having feelings for an ex than i would definatly think about that, and try and avoid hurting his feelings. now i definatly wouldnt get back with someone just because everyone else wants you to, its not there relationship. i learned the hard way when i was younger, i would let my friends influence me on things like that, and 9 times out of 10 it would be a mistake. when it comes to relationships you need to follow your heart not you friends, because when things go bad with this guy just because you listened to everyone else you might of missed out on something really great with your boyfriend now, good luck.
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okay so this has been really bothering me *hence, the subject*.. does anyone think it's weird that i'm going to be sixteen and i've never kissed a guy? (link)
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i dont think it is weird at all, maybe you just havent meet that guy worth kissing yet. i didnt have my first real kiss untill i was in 8th grade i was 15, i had a encounter in kindergarden where i kissed a guys arm,lol, but i really dont think that counts. so dont worry everyone does things at diffrent times, and plus theres a whole lifetime to kiss guys, youve only started.
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