Question Posted Tuesday September 20 2005, 9:14 pm
i really like this guy but im preddy shure he has a gf. i have a very good feeling hes like in love with me, and ive got a really good feeling that im like in love with him. everytime i see him i cant help grinning because when he sees me or talks to me i just forget all my problums... annyway, i think he knows hes not supposed to like me so hes starring at me the hole entire time im not stareing at im but when i look at him he pretends he hadnt been looking at me for 5 min streight. im fine with him starring at me. but, im starting to kindof get obset(?) and confused about it, and i was wondering if you guys could help me find out what to do about it. and please do not say "move on" im tired of moving on pleaze help i rate well
ChOcOLoLo answered Tuesday September 20 2005, 11:28 pm: Hey there! The best thing is to not assume things. Assuming will leave you feeling confused in the end. Confirm if he has a girlfriend, and if he has, I truly advise you to move on. Because if he is really taken, then it is wrong for him to look at you in a certain way, or for you to entertain those feelings for him. Try to place yourself in "the girlfriend's position". How would you feel if this boy, who you really liked, had feelings for someone else?????
But if he does not have a girlfriend, then the best thing is to tell him how you feel. Because you guys talk and hang out with each other, that's a really great start, and you guys can already be yourselves around each other. Just hang out more, and when the time comes, I know he will or you will have the courage to say how you feel.
And I really do ask you to be the responsible one here. If he knows that he's not supposed to like you and he has a gf, then you should clearly show him that. I wish you the best of luck, and if you need anything else, hit me up in the inbox...
hearts, normie [ ChOcOLoLo's advice column | Ask ChOcOLoLo A Question ]
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