Question Posted Tuesday September 20 2005, 9:11 pm
Ok, My best friend and I like the same guy. He is my neighbor and he is everything you could ever want in a guy, humor, kindness, intelligance, and after having so many bad relationships, we both have fallen hard for this guy.
Anyways about two months ago we desided to tell him that we both liked him. He had been sending the right singnals as far as we could tell, but then he told us he likes us both and he doesn't want to ruin the friendship by picking just one of us. One day he'll like her more it seems, and then the next it will be me.
Was that just a cover up that he doens't like either of us and doesn't want to hurt our feelings, or was that the real truth.
Well now it's two months later and he's still doing the same thing. Somedays he'll act completely interested in us, and then others he's just kind of blah. He likes to talk about other girls in front of us, compliment us, and hang out all the time, so what DOES IT MEAN?! We don't have any clue on what to do because guys are just so hard to read! Please help!
mooch789 answered Thursday September 22 2005, 7:02 pm: It probably means that he likes you both, he just doesn't want to ruin the friendship. Maybe he'll send some more signals. Wait and see. Hope I helped! [ mooch789's advice column | Ask mooch789 A Question ]
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