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Does he like both of us?


Question Posted Tuesday September 20 2005, 9:11 pm

Ok, My best friend and I like the same guy. He is my neighbor and he is everything you could ever want in a guy, humor, kindness, intelligance, and after having so many bad relationships, we both have fallen hard for this guy.
Anyways about two months ago we desided to tell him that we both liked him. He had been sending the right singnals as far as we could tell, but then he told us he likes us both and he doesn't want to ruin the friendship by picking just one of us. One day he'll like her more it seems, and then the next it will be me.
Was that just a cover up that he doens't like either of us and doesn't want to hurt our feelings, or was that the real truth.
Well now it's two months later and he's still doing the same thing. Somedays he'll act completely interested in us, and then others he's just kind of blah. He likes to talk about other girls in front of us, compliment us, and hang out all the time, so what DOES IT MEAN?! We don't have any clue on what to do because guys are just so hard to read! Please help!


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illLuvUbetterx3 answered Monday April 17 2006, 9:34 am:
heyy .. how much do you really lyk this guy and how much do you think he and you bestfriend would be a good. A boy should never get in the middle of a strong friendship. You should have a talk with your friend.. i personally think you both should get over him.. so that neither of you gets hurt.. theyr will be other amazing guys out there and you both can have a boy to yourself.. i think it is stupid to wait for him and chances are that you two can do so much better then him<33 hope i helped

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rosebud_01 answered Sunday September 25 2005, 12:29 am:
It could be that he like only one of you and doesn't want to hurt the other ones feelings.

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mooch789 answered Thursday September 22 2005, 7:02 pm:
It probably means that he likes you both, he just doesn't want to ruin the friendship. Maybe he'll send some more signals. Wait and see. Hope I helped!

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