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its about one of my guy friends
okay i have a friend who liked me since he met me which was elementary and i liked him to but i never knew he liked me so i never told him so years later i found out he liked me and he still likes me so i was so happy it was like a dream come true but then he had a girl friend and he just blew me off after telling me he was in love with me this whole time so i moved on and met this other guy and fell in love with him and so my friend dumped his girl friend and started calling me and told me he sees him getting married with me when he gets older and that he will never for get me and boom he asked me out sayin he loves me but i said no i mean i like him but i already moved on and now i told him lets just be friends but some part of me really wants him but hes the type of guy where he will like you and then he will like someone else so yea well he calls me and tells me that still but then he tells me he like is in love with 3 or more other girls i mean what is with that i told him hes a player and he said no but now he just calls me talking about another girl and i still like him i need some help badly....
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sounds like he is trying to make you jealous talking about other girls after he has told you he is in love with you, he also sounds very confused. it sounds like a very complicated situation. love is not supposed to be so complicated. either he wants to be with you or not it should be just that simple, and if he pouring his heart out to you telling you how much he loves you and at the same time talking about other girls it sounds like he is just in a way to keep from being embarassed trying to see if you will drop everything for him. kinda sounds just like some head games to me. i think you are wise to just try and keep him for a friend, and maybe when he matures more and realises what he really wants, and has your best interest in mind, you may some day have a future with this man.
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Well, this boy is obviously confused and has no idea what he's doing. At any chance he may think he has, he'll take. For some girls, yes, this is a good thing, however for other girls, example: your case, this isn't so good. Ask yourself truly, what is he doing? Are his actions speaking louder than words? Or are his words falling down flat as his actions say otherwise? My best advice to you, I know you like this boy, but understand in the long run, would it truly work out between him and you? He seem's like the type to get bored easily, if you ended up falling head over heels in love with him, would he push you to the side? No one can help who their attracted to, if it were that easy, "true love" would practically be extinct or be too over-rated. Chica, its gonna be hard, but you have to cut him off.
Take it step by step, when he calls, say your busy or about to go somewhere. When you see him, just say you don't have time to talk. Eventually take it to the next step to where you don't ever answer his calls and you can walk passed him without looking even once. He'll get the clue. Just please don't sacrifice your relationship and your feelings for someone who has no idea what in God's name those things even are. Good Luck, Chica! *MuaHz*
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