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My name is alix. I'm fourteen &i live just moved to massachusets. i love all of my closer friends; theyre my life. i like cats, and my favorite food is soanish rice. i like going to the movies with all my friends; we do it every friday. it's a routine. i love giving advice about guys, but what i really love are questions from guys about girls. im really opinionated, but im usually not very harsh when i answer things. advice
i feel like im nto havign as good of a summer as i should i believe i deserve to have the best times and go out and have a lot of fun and share new experiances but this summeris boring and i feel liek its going by to fast an im not getting as much out of it as i should its not fun what can i do to have the best rest of the summer
Make a plan with a few friends to do something six days a week. Sometimes, you could just go for dinner or hang out at one of your houses. Sometimes you could do something like going to the mall or the beach. Also, decide to do things you wouldn't normally do. Go to an amusement park or just travel to a nearby town and hang out there.
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yeah.
well.
theres me.
i would love to have some blue up in there.
but.
being the controlling school.
they dont allow crazy color.
so thinking about the random blonde streaks.
chunks.
tips.
ya know.
just wondering yalls opinion.
thanks in advance.
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Blonde chunks seem like a good idea, but a lot of the time they turn out really badly. So you shuold probably see if you can get that done temporarily to make sure you like it.
Another idea if it's not great is doing red. It would complement your hair color and it's a hair color so you could probably get away with it. If not red-red, then maybe a more natural red. But still, it's better than nothing. It could look really cute.
does everyone get those letters saying they were invited to national student leadership conference or can become a pageant winner?
Not everyone, but it's not an exclusive thing. I've gotten them. They mail it to people who are on certain mailing lists, like ones who subscribe to a certain magazine.
I'm really into fashion.. but I cannot put a cute outfit together myself for well, me! I'm not into abercrombie and fitch pricey clothes or brand names across shirts. I have no idea what colors look good on me. I've been told red but I cannot wear red at school.. since I'm usually there.. I don't bother buying it. Help? I'm going to be a junior next year and I want a makeover. Makeup tips, fashion tips, hair cut [?] style?
I can do a makeover for someone else but not myself. I've changed my look so much by myself and it comes out bad. I just want opinions!
Here's me
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I'm kinda small. 5'0-5'1 85 pounds. I'm 16. I have dark brown eyes that I would love to brighten up. Makeup tips/brands? I dyed my hair black to cover up previous dyes, some dark brown [natural color] is peeking through eh. It's also naturally wavy. Any way to wear it pretty and have it out of my face?
I really like the style of Forever 21 and Wet Seal.. I just usually wore black for many years because I thought color looked bad on me. So I'm kinda lost with fashion. It's all cute things that I think won't look good on me. Help please :]
Pictures would be nice and lots of responses too. Any tip would be helpful.
You'd look really good in white(not off white but like, snow white) and bright colors. Try a vibrant blue or aqua blue. I might stay away from yellow and pale pink if i was you. Also maybe oranges, although I can't really tell. Ask a friend how it looks on you. Grey could bring out the pinks in your skin, which is good. But not dark slate-grey. Just medium grays and lighter.
Since your petite, you'd look really cute in a lot of things. Skinny jeans might make your legs look weird, so I might stay away from those(but skinny jeans should have been out in December and I don't know why anyone still wears them). Also, capris could make you look shorter. Bermuda shorts could be good though, especially if they're kinda tight. Jeans-wise, you should go for ones that are relatively tight. Not like slutty, squeezing-you-to-death tight, but not bagggy at all. Also, A medium wash would work best for you. Dark might make you look even smaller, and light could draw extra attention to your size(I'm not saying that you don't want people to notice your size or anything- It's pretty noticeable. But light washes tend to attract attention, and you don't want people thinking, "Wow, she's really really short." If they can notice your entire body, then they'll think, "Wow, she's petite," or something along those lines anyway. And that's kind of better). Denim bermudas are especially cute. As for skirts, you'd probably look cutest in a mini-skirt.
Makeup:
For eye makeup, you should probably not wear black eyeliner, because it would look too heavy on your face. Wear brown instead. You can barely tell that there's a difference, but it looks a lot lighter. For eyeshadow, lavendars, greens, and browns(bronze, beige, etc.) would look best. Browns would complement your eye color, but might not look best with your skin, so you should be minimal if you use it. You should probably not use pink because it could make you look slightly sickly. If you want to brighten your eyes, line your eyes(inside rim and on the bottom) with white eye liner. Also, put just the tiniest tiniest bit of a light, shimmery eyeshadow on the inner part of your eye that kind of touches your nose. Mascara-wise, you don't really need it. Your eyelashes are good enough. But if you want to, you could pretty much use anything. For your lips, you could use any pinks, really. One that's close to your natural color looks best. Don't use berry purples or anything because it could look wierd. If you want to look like, stunning, a firetruck red would work on you. But don't wear that too often. Use it on an occassion, like a time when you have to dress up or something. For blush, you should go to a nice makeup store like Sephora and ask someone there to help you find a color. Do this even if money is an issue and you want to get cheap makeup. You can remember the color she chooses for you and then get a similar one at, say, a drug store.
i'm taking up skateboarding just to keep me busy and i was wondering what foot goes first on the board. i'm left handed and left footed so which one goes front?
If you're left footed, then your right foot should go in the front.
Today I put on a pair of navy pants a red tee-shirt that has long sleeves and over that a blue and white stripped tee shirt. It was pretty. Any way around 10:30am my time my mother came into tell me something and that is when she asked me if I liked what I was wearing (and she already knew about a half hour what I was wearing). She said it is beautiful, but way out, but she wouldnt wear it. She kept giving me mixed messages - that it is beautiful, but she wouldnt wear it and do I really like it, and would I wear it to the restaurant that we were going to today with my sister, brother-in-law, and my 2 nephews. So my Mom said to me "Let me ask you something would you wear that to go to Peter Lugers Restaurant". I called her a b*tch and a retard among other things. She also said to me; That I know why you are wearing it, but I dont know if others would understand. But you are not a teenager any more. (I am 52) And of course we said mean things to one another.
She only criticizes my outfits once-in-awhile, but one of the things that went thru my mind is I still felt like I didnt know how to dress. Did I overreact to her original comment which was do you like what you are wearing? And how would you have handled it. (I liked my outfit and I didnt like my outfit.)
I think at first she thought it wasn't good to wear to a restaurant and wanted you to wear something more fancy. Also, when she said she wouldn't wear it, that might have just meant that she liked it but it wasn't her taste. There are lots of things that I see and like but wouldn't wear.
But anyway I think thought you should wear something fancier or nicer to the restaurant. I don't think she meant to criticize your style.
I think you might have overreacted a little, but it wasn't your fault. you just didn't understand what she was trying to say. She could have been a little more clear. If I were you, I think I would have asked her a few questions. I'd ask, "Do you think it's a pretty outfit?" and then, "Do you think I should wear it to the restaurant?" If she said no, maybe I'd ask her to help me pick an outfit that would be better.
Hello .
Right now,My mom hates me. She hits me and doesn't love me.
She wants to put me up for adoption.
Do you know what age you can be put up for adoption in California.
Thanks.
You can be put up for adoption at any age under 18. Maybe older than that, but I assume that's irrelevant because you (probably) wouldn't be living with her.
you see i just created a new myspace. btw, im 13/f. last year i made one but deleted it before the school year so i wouldnt get distracted. theres this girl, i've known her since like.. 4th grade, and we've been friends since then. this year (well it just ended for summer) i was in 7th. so yeah, like 3 years. when i wasnt in her pod for 5th and 6th grade, she was more friendlier with me. it was like we were still good friends though we didnt see each other often. she even invited me to her sleepover bday party in 5th grade though i couldnt go, cause my parents wouldnt let me. but in 7th grade it was different. in the beginning of the year it was the same like the other years but it progressed and it was like she was less interested in really being my friend, as i saw it. she'd share secrets with other friends and stuff, and wouldnt hang around me as much. i'd hang around her, but it was like.. she was half-interested in me. when i made my myspace before we were on each other's Top friends list. but this year, at the end of the year she had another sleepover party but she didnt invite me! i asked her if i was invited and she said it was for close friends only. i didnt show her how i felt, but i felt hurt cause i've been a good friend to her and i've known her longer than some of the people she considered as "close friends". and in my new myspace, i asked to be on her top and shes like "ummm.. no your not going on my top" and idk if its just me, but it sounded really snotty and that kinda ruined my mood for the rest of the day. cause i put her on my top... and yeah. and my other friend, we all knew each other in 4th grade too, shes not even in our pod but she got invited to the sleepover party and is 3rd on her top friends list. i dunno what i did wrong.. or is she just a friend i should drop? cause im not sure.. i dont like losing friends but i dont like being friends with people who dont act like friends should. or am i overreacting? also, i havent replied to her "umm no your not going on my top" comment yet.. i dunno what to reply! should i just be like "thanks, but no thanks" or "okay.." or "are you mad at me or something?" cause this is really hard to do. =(
You shouldn't really bother being friends with her.
Also, you're acting kind of clingy, which no one likes. Pretend you're her for a moment. Some girl who you're really not interested in keeps bugging you, wanting to go to your sleepovers and be in your top 8. She's not going to want to be around you and will dismiss you as a loser if you keep doing that. Act like you don't care what she says, and like you're a bigger person than her.
As for her comment, just reply, "Whatever, that's cool," like you don't really care. Also, take her out of yours right away.
Also, this is completely off topic but I kind of want you to know this. In a situation like this, a verbal fight usually end up happening. If you and her get into one in like a public place, you want to come off as the cooler, more mature person, right? So if she tries to put you down, just kind of roll your eyes, laugh a tiny tiny bit, and look at her like she's pathetic and you feel sorry for her. Then just be like, "Grow up," or something along those lines. Just kind of brush her off.
whats an orgy? or an orgy party?
An orgy is four or more people having sex and other sexual activities.
It's not an orgasm.
im a boy. im def a boy. and all my guy friends talk about how big they are.. and from what they tell me.. my penis is really small. i know its not a vagina or anything but its only like an inch. and i dont wanna tell all my guy friends.. but im afraid a girl will try to do something and im too self conciense idk what to do. :(
Your friends are probably talking about how big they are when they're hard. I'm pretty sure you mean you're only an inch when you're flaccid(not hard). So don't think it's too small. It's not. And if you're younger, it might just not have started to grow much yet. So if that's the case, don't worry. You'll get bigger.
As for not telling your guy friends... lead them to think you're bigger. If they ask you, say something like, "It's a secret for only a select few women to find out," or something like that.
As for if a girl tries to do something...
If you're making out with someone and they start to undo your pants, be like, "No no no," and start to do undo theirs. Not only will it hide you if you are self-concious, it will make you seem like a more generous person. Girls like it when the guy wants them to feel good. Of course, you're eventually going to have to let someone see, but you might save that for if you're in a really serious relationship or something. (You might want to do that anyway. But the above advice was assuming you're comfortable hooking up randomly or with a girl you've only been on a few dates with. If a girl's really into you, and you've been together for a while, she won't care too much about your size. But still, finger her or give her head first. Just to make her feel happier and more into you.)
okay well I need very good advice on this quesitons so please try to understand my situation. Okay, well my pretty good friend is going out with this guy. I use to like him when I was around 9 but now I'm 14 & he's 15.. Well, they have been going out for about 2-3 weeks now. Well, me & him started talking through aim and stuff & I ened up telling him how I crushed on him before. A day later he tells me he "thinks" he likes me. So we talked,talked,talked blah & blah. Then he called me once & we stared talking for a long time & we finally got to know each other & figured out we have A LOT in common. & we were talking like a "couple" even though they are going out. But don't think I'm a man stealer or anything. He told me wayyyy before he even liked me that he was thinking of breaking up with her but doesnt know how. He tells me how she's like freaky taking about how she did "stuff" before & we all know thats a lie.I mean she's my friend & all but she's also been known to be a fakie. Anyways he's at some thing or whatever in Kentucy or whatever. & since his "girlfriend" is my friend she's been telling me how she really really misses him & how he's not calling while all this time me & him have been talking to like 3 in the morning & texting the whole day. This has been going on for about a week now. So I Guess what I need advice on is your opinion about the situation. Also, I dont know what I'm going through becasue i never felt like this before. He's been very nice to me telling me he loves me & stuff[ I know you cant love someone that soon but its out thing if you know what I mean]. So I'm wondering what is this I'm feeling becasue I'm like checking my phone every damn second to see if he called or if i acidentally missed the call or something. Uhh i'm so confused. He's like you know we could make such a cute couple & I really want to go out with you after I slowly settle things down with "her". Bit I told him is it right to do this to her becasue It's a chick thing & she's my friend would she hate me?I really need advice & help on what you think this phase is. He calls me his babe & how he just wants me by his side & such adorible stuff. Please don't tell me how would you feel if you were her becasue first I'm not her & he feels different about me then he does with her. So please please people give me advice on what to do and what I'm feeling. & should I go out with him?
You have to talk to him about your friend. Lets call her Sarah.
She likes him, right? And you still want her to be your friend, correct? Then you have to get him to break up with her asap. She'd hate you if she found out that he was saying to you. Make him stop acting like you're a couple for now. Wait until they break up, and then tell him he can treat you how he has been. Wait like a week and a half minimum until you make anything official. She'd hate you if you didn't respect her like you aren't right now.
i dont really pay attention to ratings because i just started but i gave someone a detailed answer and he gave me a 3. its not so much his rating its his comment:
Thank you for your answer. I would give you a 4 but you didn't capitalize. Otherwise it was a good answer.
what does capitalizing have to do with anything?
I can understand someone giving a lower rating if the person spelled everything wrong or did that every-other-letter-is-capitalized thing, because those are distracting. But his reason sounds really bad. I definitely definitely disagree with him.
ive never really thought about this as anything weird until recently. im 15/f and i dont have any friends my own age. ive always liked hanging out with older people, but im scared im going to start getting a bad reputation. i hardly ever hang out with anyone thats still in high school (even though im going to be a junior) and ive never dated a guy that wasnt at least 18 (oldest being 22) im not a whore, im actually a virgin. is there anything wrong with this?? or am i just freaking out?
If they're your friends, you really shouldn't be concerned with what other people think. You might get a bad reputation, but maybe not. As long as you're good and don't do anything you shouldn't(ie sex and drugs) then you should be fine. If you really don't want to get a bad reputation, act a little different in school. Be more polite and nice to people, and maybe don't like dress in clothes that look like someone who would have a bad reputation. If you don't do some things like that, then hey, you might get a bad reputation. But hey, how important is that to you?
here are these to really great girls im trying to find out which one i should date, i cant choose!
i need help sooo bad
okayy #1 is Jessica she is very nice, very outgoing, pretty, loves to cook, loves to paint and express herself. I reallly reallly like her a lot.
here is a pic of #1
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#2 this is Haley, she is nice, kind of outgoing, patient, loves to flirt, and loves to kiss, and hug, and very demanding girl. i like her a lot too.
heres a pic of #2
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which one? i dont know, im having a SUPER hard time
thanks!!
You didn't put down any bad qualities about Jessica, but you did put one down about Haley. I really dont know this, but I think you might have done that because you like Jessica more. When you like people a lot, you're kind of blind to their bad characteristics.
Also, you said Haley loves to flirt. If you were in a relationship with her, would it bother you if she flirted with other people? If not, then it doesn't matter, but if it would, then you might want to take that into consideration.
Also, I noticed that when you put Jessica, you said that you "really really like her a lot," but with Haley, you just "like her a lot." Be reading this, it sounds like you like Jessica more. I'd go for her.
16/f
How could I get into modeling? I live in the Dallas/Ft. Worth area.
I was at one of my Mom's Avon dinners and the regional director told me that I should be the "new face" of their teen line, Mark. We tried sending a letter and e-mail into Mark, but they said they weren't looking for a "new face" and to keep waiting. I would really like to start modeling (just my face-maybe a make up model?), but I don't know what to do?
Help?
Is your mom kind of buddy-buddy with the regional director? Call her and be like, "Hey, this is Jenna. Laura's daughter. I was at the dinner last week, and you know how you said you thought I could be the new face of Mark? Do you really think I could do that?" See where it leads. Maybe you could ask her to put in a good word for you, or even see if someone from the department in charge of modeling could call you or have you come in.
While you do that, search goodle for "open casting call modeling." You'll probably find some in your area. Go out there and give it a shot. Even if you don't make it, you'll have the tiniest bit more experience and show people interested in having you model that you really want it.
are there any good sex moves anyone knows about? also, might there be any magazines with them? %% thanks %%
i cant answer that question really; advicenator rules, but i can tell you that you can read cosmo; that has them, and go to their website. also, wikipedia has a pretty thorough list
ive had this crush on a guy for a while now ,and he started to flirt with me so i thought we where gonna get together until i found out he messes with alot of other girls! i tried to end our "friendship", but i loved him too much to end it so we kept flirtin. but when he put his hands up my shirt ,and down my pants, i could not just keep quiet, so i told the cops i was sexually harrassed by him, and now i might have to go to court, but i dont know if i can cuz part of me is still in love with him.....
what should i do?
If school's not over, go to a guidance counselor or school psychologist. If it is, see a therapist. They can try and make sure you don't decide not to go. Also, if all your friends know and everything, tell them not to let you back out of it. If there are lots of people supporting you as you do this, you'll be able to do it. It's the right thing.
I like A BOY BUT DON'T KNOW HOW TO TALK OR MAKE EYE CONTACT ! WHEN WE DO MAKE EYE CONTACT I BREAK IT ! SHOULD I TELL HIM I LIKE HIM OR NOT ??????
Don't tell him you like him. If he doesn't like you, he'll be really scared and everything. Even if he does like you, he might. You want him to like you. But you're not going to get him to like you without talking to him. First, start by keeping eye contact. When you do, tell yourself that you absolutely need if you want him to like you. If you can do that, then about a week later, you should try and talk to him. Just really quickly and everything if you're shy. At some point, when there aren't many other people around and he's not with his friends, go up to him and ask if there was math homework, or ask him to borrow a pen or something. After he responds, make sure to be like, Okay, thanks, or something. Just because I've seen people go up to guys, ask a question, then walk away without responding. It's horrible. And to get the courage to do this, tell yourself the same thing you did before. Remember: He's just a boy. If you want him to like you, you have to talk to him. But if he doesn't like you, it's not the end of the world. It might be for a few days, but you'll move on. Just give it a shot and talk to him, because what's the worst that could happen?
I want to pernamentley straighten my hair, but my mom won't let me. I am planning to pay for it. My mom still won't let me because, as she says, you will look like a wet muskrat, just like everyone else with stick straight hair.
But I am getting a haircut, and it will be shoulder length. My hair is EXTREMELY poofy, no matter what kind of shampoos or serums I use. When I straighten it with a straightener, which takes about an hour and a half (which I don't have time for) it gets really nice and silky, and the poof disapears.
I think I really need this: I only wear my hair down when I straighten my hair, which is about four times a year. Otherwise I wear it in a pony tail, which makes me feel like a tomboy.
How do I convince my mom to let me? I am 16 by the way.
Tell her that you feel really uncomfortable looking how you do now, and you'd feel much more confident if you could straighten it permanently.
Show her pictures of people with straight hair who dont "look like a wet muscrat."
Tell her that you'll blow dry it a tiny bit to give it some lift so that it won't be limp or anything.
how do i look good in pics? i hate getting my pic taken bc i always look ridicouslty bad. and i dont think im ugly. people tell me im pretty all the time.
hellpp?
Never look straight into the camera. Make sure your face is looking to the side, even if just a tiny bit.
Try to not use the flash when you're in a light place.
Practice smiles in the mirror. A smaller one is often better than a big smile.
Relax. If your muscles are tense, then you'll look worse.
If you want to look happy in the picture, than let out a tiny tiny laugh a second before it's taken. You'll have a spark in your eyes, and your smile will look more genuine.