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love?!?
ive had this crush on a guy for a while now ,and he started to flirt with me so i thought we where gonna get together until i found out he messes with alot of other girls! i tried to end our "friendship", but i loved him too much to end it so we kept flirtin. but when he put his hands up my shirt ,and down my pants, i could not just keep quiet, so i told the cops i was sexually harrassed by him, and now i might have to go to court, but i dont know if i can cuz part of me is still in love with him.....
what should i do?
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If school's not over, go to a guidance counselor or school psychologist. If it is, see a therapist. They can try and make sure you don't decide not to go. Also, if all your friends know and everything, tell them not to let you back out of it. If there are lots of people supporting you as you do this, you'll be able to do it. It's the right thing.
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You should face this problem, even if it is hard. A lot of other girl's would not have done anything, even if they felt completely uncomfortable. It's good you are standing up for yourself, because if you don't that just gives him permission to do it again and again. And if he will disrespect you like this, then he is not worth loving. You may feel you are in love with him now, but one day when you meet a decent guy who will disrespect you, you will realize what a jerk this guy is.
Good Luck.
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i know how you feel. i had to go to court because my dads new wife was physically abusing me and my sisters. i loved my dad so much back then when i was 11 years old(i am now almost 15) and i didnt want to hurt his feelings by telling everyone what happened. but afterwards i felt better because i got all the things that i had kept secrets about off my chest. i hope that makes sense. so i think you should go to court, heard held high, and tell the truth. dont feel bad, because he did something he knew could get him in trouble. it's his fault for this whole mess.
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