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so ive been chatting this kid that goes to my friends school and we were supposed to meet up but we couldnt. and the next time i see him i want to wow him or whatever. i think he likes me he thinks im pretty and shit. and i rly dont want to be single anymore. i am really god at giving advice to my girlfriends on how to get a guy and go out, and it alwayd works. so for me i know them but if you guys know any tips can you say them please thank you. Also just in general what are some ways guys get attracted to girls and like them. Just some tips thanks (link)
Like the person above said be yourself(: and flirt a lot. Another thing guys like is when you talk to them look them straight in their eyes and smile! trust me they will get your full attention! also dress cute! lol and don't be nervous act like you run the place(: lol I hope I helped good luck! if you need anymore advice on this or anything visit my website/advice column it is www.annatn.web.officelive.com


k, so i really like this guy, and i think he might like me too...like the closest thing we ever say is hi to each other whenever we pass by each other, but just a few days ago we had a quick chat, and i want to return that by talking to him first.
what are some things i should talk to this guy (link)
Hye(: you should talk to him about things hew likes/ his interests and how he likes school and who are his friends, fav. songs, tv shows. Stuff like that and then maybe ask for his number(: I hope I helped good luck if you need anymore help on anything visit my website/advice column at www.annatn.web.officelive.com please visit it! good luck


I really so freakin in love with him I just needa' put a kiss on him!!!! :| (link)
Hey(: Of course you can kiss him(: ! just make sure he likes you before you do this! because I don't want you to be hurt or embarrased! lol and make sure you look in his eyes (of course if he likes you too) but anyway guys like it if you look them strait in the eye and then lean in and watch how he reacts and if he doesn't look weireded out go for it! but only a peck! lol I hope I helped(: good luck! If you need anymore help visit my website/ advice column at www.annatn.web.officelive.com


is there any other sicknesses with similar symptoms to mono? my doctor is convinced i dont have it but i have experienced many of the symptoms, such as one extremely swollen gland, loss of appitite, achiness, and i had a fever for a day. the fever just broke and now i have an itchy rash. i got tested for mono but the results arent back yet. just wondering if i have a shot at it NOT being mono (link)
Yes you defintly have a chance I was in the same condition they tested me and I didn't have it, it turned out it was a severe case of allergies from my new cat:) haha so yes u have a chance!(: if u need any more help on anything visit my website/advice column its www.annatn.web.officelive.com


I have a group called "oh so official" O.S.O and we've been doing gigs fir quite a while now. Basic question is how can we audition for next season of Americas best dance crew. ??
We are all in the 14-16 range mix of male abd female. (link)
Hey I think you should look up the tv station on the computer and then click on the the tv show. Or you can look up their official website(: I hope I helped if you need anymore help visit my website its another advice column www.annatn.web.officelive.com

good luck(: (:


I am 15/f and like this guy...A LOT! Anyway, we joke , and poke fun like all the time. And in a way i think of him as my brother,but then again ilike him. So in a way a see him as a brother, but a boyfriend at the same time.Is it wierd to feel like that? Is there something wrong with that?
PS: There is absoloutly NO blood between us, no way are we related!
Thanks any advice is helpful. (link)
Hey(: I defintly think its ok! all good realationships start out with being friends(: The way ya'll seem close to each other seem like you would get together and have a good realationship(: If you need anymore help I have a website thats an advice collum it is www.annatn.web.officelive.com If u need any help go to my website(:


okay so my aunt has a boyfriend, and he has 4 kids. my aunt has 2 kids. one of them being my age. (i am 15 and so is my cousin) than my aunts boyfriend's son is 14, but he looks like he's 19. I find him super attractive, for some odd reason, and he tells me that he finds me attractive. Everytime him and i are alone we kiss. And we have hooked up one nightt (but there was no sex..only because neither of us could find a condom)but the other night he told me that he has a huge surprise for me. soo i was waiting till i saw him so he could tell me. he told me. he wants to take me to the movies just him and i. it was cute, and it deffinetly was a surprise. just ... i want to hear outsiders voices on this situation. Like, is it totally awkward that to the point that him and i shouldnt even be doing anything. Or is it kind of okay, because we're not blood related. (and btw my aunt and her boyfriend have only been dating for a few months) but my step mother said it wasnt weird, because we're not relatedd. but i just want to see what you guys think. thankyou! (link)
It's defintly ok! cuz like u said your not blod related(: I acually think its sweet! so go for it(:


My dad sometimes uses cussing for fun and in mean ways like h-ll,s--t,d--n,and a-s.What can I do to hear less cussing from him? (link)
You should defintly talk to him about it. That is innapropriate and he should realize it. If it don't work I would talk to your mom about it or another trusted adult. I hope I helped good luck(:


I don't know what category this would go into but i chose this one. I'm ten years old and I am a girl, though.So, my friend Maddie and I like the same guy. However, she doesn't know that I like him. I feel awful for, like, lying to her and I'm afraid that if I tell her, she won't be my friend anymore!She's been so loyal to me and I have been loyal to her but if she leaves my friendship list, I feel like I'll have no life! I don't want our friendship to split up but I still want to like the person I like. What do I do?! Someone, please help! (link)
I really think that you should talk this over with her and and see how she feels about it. She seems like someone you can trust thats ironic for 10 year olds to be like that. Afterall yall are only like in what 4th grade its not like your in love so I think she will understand! well hope I helped(: Good luck and follow your heart.


I keep dreaming about it with my crush but its like I really wanna do it.What age do I need to have my first kiss? :[ (link)
Like the person said above there is no age! lol you need to have your kiss when it comes, becsause it comes naturaly. I wouldn't set a time to do it either just let it happen by itself:) and make sure its with someone special and not judst anyone!! hope I helped good luck(:


So I have this friend ever since the 3rd grade and were in 8th right now and she changed so much like she hangs out with the older kids cause of her brother and she smokes pot and drinks and well over the summer me and like my bestfriend met these 2 guys in the colombian festival and we got really close their like our older brothers there always there for us and everytn and then one of the guys met my friends friend and they started tlkn so now my friend from 3rd grade is chillin with the 2 guys but they dnt want me bringing my bestfriend and I'm not going to do that I won't go without her and then I told my friend I rather not go and then she started laughing in my face telling me how I'm a bitch and all this then she got her slutty friend on me and my bestfriend saying we better back of the 2 guys like wtf I met them first ! And I don't know what to do (link)
Trust me its hard but a lot of people go through this. I suggest that you talk to her about it and tell her how you feel and if she don't acknowlage it then I would suggest making new friends. People change and this girl don't seem like a good person or influence so thats what I would do and if you have any trouble making friends then I can always help you just inbox me(: I hope I helped good luck!!(:


i was texting this guy i liked and he liked me to but yesterday night i asked if he had a girl friend and he said kinda i asked whaat he ment he said they do everything a couple do then i asked what kind of things and he said he fingers her and she gives him blow jobs and other things then i said o i didnt think u were that type of guy and he said ive changed and then he said you always have billy hes only kissed one girl (which is his best friend who likes me) then my friend took my phone and said maybe i will go with billy because i dont want some body who is contaminated then he was like i cant believe u said that delete my number and never talk to me again and i dont even like you anymore and then i said im sorry i didnt mean to say that then he was like i dont care you still said it and that was it i deleted his number but i feeel terrible now :'(
o and sorry its so long (link)
Hey ok well similiar things have happened to me but let me tell you were you messed up. you may not could've helped that your friend took your phone but if you could've controlled it then you should have never let her have it. as a matter of fact this same thing happened to me last night but it was a little different. Now second When you texted back the guy you should have never said that you were sorry that you said it because you didn't you should have told him that it was your friend! and Im almost 100 percent sure he would've forgivin you. So my advice to you is to text him and tell him it was your friend. Trust me i have expierience ive had this happen to me a couple of times. I hope I helped(: good luck!!(:


okayy so my boyfriend of 4 months is in the hospital and i'm wondering if i should go see him. he wouldn't talk to me earlier or answer my questions about how he was feeling. i haven't seen him in a month so i'm afraid that he doesn't want to see me. should i go see him anyway and let him know i care? (link)
Of course you should he is your boyfriend!! that would be wierd if he didn't so I say you should it would make you look bad if you didnt i mean hes your boyfriend your suppose to be there for him haha(: so yah I think you should(: hope I helped! good luck!


I'm a fifteen year old girl and I have recently started to develop feelings for my step-brother. He is two years older than me and we see each other ever other weekend.
We've known each other for about eight years and we've always had a sort of love/hate relationship.
We would annoy the hell out of each other and he would insult me but recently things have become different.
Before we would wrestle and I'd just be determined to win. But now I don't care about winning I just enjoy wrestling and it isn't as serious as it was before it's more playful. Also a few times whilst we've been fighting I've brushed his lower are and felt what turns out to have been an erection. We'll be fighting and one of us will straddle the other and just sit there and tease the other. Or when we get tired I'll lie on his chest and he'll wrap his arm around me and we'll just stay there for ages.
He still insults me but it's not as intense as when we were younger.
I'm pretty sure it's not normal, I've never actually met anyone whose had a crush on their step-sibling before. I came clean to my friends about it and at first they were shocked but now they think I should go for him because it's not incest because we're only related by law not blood. I'm not sure what to do because I'm doubtful that the feelings I have towards him are mutal and even if they were I'm terrified of what would happen if I told him. What should I do? (link)
Hey(: I actualy think that its sweet that you do. What I would like to say is that it its normal I have seen losts of things like this. Like there is even this movie were this guy and girl fall in love but the girls dad and the guys mom get maried and they become steps, but they still are in love and get married even tho they are still speps.nI know it is just a movie but trust me your not the only one and you r right you aren't related by blood just by law so trust me there is nothing wrong with it. There are a lot of people in the same situation as you. Follow your heart! I hope I helped!! good luck.


16/F

I've been dating my boyfriend for a month now and it's been the best month ever because he's the first of a handful of guys who've made me happy. So far, we mostly hug and kiss. I feel like I do most of the talking, but I know it's just because he's shy, which is totally cute. I was wondering, though, is there anything we can do other than this or is there a way to make it better, maybe get him talking more?
By the way, I don't mean anything sexual since he's obviously too shy and I'm terrified of the idea of it... And we're too young, haha, so yea.
Basically, is there anyway to get him talking more maybe? Or some way to cuddle with him more? (link)
heyy I just wanted to start out by saying thats great that you feel your to young for sex your totaly right and ya there are a lot of things. You said you wanted to cuddle how about going to the movies thats a good place to cuddle or invite him to your house and yall could cuddle on the couch. Some more things you can do are like go to school sports events those are good ways to be with your boyfriend. Like this would be good you could go out to eat and then go for a walk in the park and then you could sit and cuddle on the benches they havein the park. I hope I helped good luck!!(:


Hi, i jusst wanted to know if me and my 2 week old boyfriend should break up? This all started today when i sat on his knee (its ok im 16) and he said that i farted..... and i didnt!!! The second thing is thaat he touched my friends boob. The third thing is that when i was going up the stairs at school he said that i should get my "big butt" out of his face!! i was like WTF! shut the hell up! and when we were going to leave, he just said bye. not love you. just bye. we usually say i love you before we leave to go home. but he didnt today. He is always embarrising me infrount of my friends and im not liking it :( he is a sweet guy though and very romantic. but is this just a bump in the road in our relationship or should i make it a standstill thing?? so do you think i should dump him or not?? (sorry this is soo long i just had to get all the details so that i can get a honest answer) so thanx :D
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Hey(: I think you should give it a little more time you have just started your relationship, but if he keeps doing that I think you should talk with him and ask him why he is saying or doing what hes doing and if that dont work then you should break up. From what you say he says and does that sounds like a jerk in a way but I would give it a little more time and if he keeps doing it talk it over and if that don't do good you should probally break up. I hope I helped(: good luck!


So me and this guy went to a school dance together last Saturday (April 2). (we’ve both been really flirty and talking a lot the past couple weeks and I’m pretty sure he likes me too) Anyway, we both had an amazing time. We went out to dinner before and had a lot of fun, then we went to the dance and danced the entire time, he kissed me a couple times, and it was just awesome. The only problem is, we never see each other at school. We see each other sometimes, but it’s mainly just texting. I’d like to hang out with him more, since we had such a great time together at the dance. Should I suggest hanging out, or wait for him? I don’t want to lose another guy just because I was too shy/insecure to ask him if he wants to hang out. (I always wait for him to text me first, I don’t know why, I just never want to bug him..) Anyway, I just don’t know where I stand. I remember a couple weeks ago (before the dance) he had said “I could really see us being together sometime soon.” And I’d still like to believe that, but I’m nervous. I over-analyze everything, so that’s probably my problem, haha. But I don’t know, does anyone have any advice about this? Thanks!
If you want anymore details or have questions, just let me know and I’ll try to explain better.

Oh, and we've talked about hanging out a lot before and stuff, just not since the dance (even though it was only a few days ago haha), so I'd assume he still wants to, but idk.

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I defintly think he likes you(: any guy would be stupid to kiss u and take you to a dance if he doesnt like you! and ya I think you should suggest to hang out sometime don't wait on him all the time its fine to some but not all the time!(: hope this helps!


I already have my prom dress. It's an aqua blue color and is 1 shoulder. Its length runs all the way down to the floor.

I'm trying to look for good hairstyles that would match with a 1 shoulder dress. I'm not a big fan of an entire updo. I would really like to show the length of my hair and not hide it. So I was thinking about curling it and then pulling half of it up? But my mom said that's too casual for prom. What do you think? I was also thinking about a side swept French braid or fishtail braid. Would that hairstyle fit with a 1 shoulder dress? (link)
I dont think its to casual at all but I also like the idea of a side swept I think that would look good(: hope i helped


should i skip with my boyfriend and amke out with him? (link)
no i dont think u should haha you would get introuble why couldnt you just do it afterschool:) that would be ur best bet! hope i helped!


Iam going to be 22 on monday any ideas on what to do for my birthday iam a female (link)
You can do a lot of things :) I say you should go out with friends and shop all day and go eat dinner at a fancy restaraunt(: lol hope I helped Happy Birthday(: (:




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