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Would it be like dating my brother?!
I am 15/f and like this guy...A LOT! Anyway, we joke , and poke fun like all the time. And in a way i think of him as my brother,but then again ilike him. So in a way a see him as a brother, but a boyfriend at the same time.Is it wierd to feel like that? Is there something wrong with that?
PS: There is absoloutly NO blood between us, no way are we related!
Thanks any advice is helpful.
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You feel like you feel.
The question is, then, how far do you want to take this? If you feel you can talk to each other then ask him to be your boyfriend straight out. He obviously doesn't have the balls to ask you to be his girlfriend. Nothing ventured, nothing gained!
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Hey(: I defintly think its ok! all good realationships start out with being friends(: The way ya'll seem close to each other seem like you would get together and have a good realationship(: If you need anymore help I have a website thats an advice collum it is www.annatn.web.officelive.com If u need any help go to my website(:
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I think it's fine to feel like this. If you see him as a brother, then you must trust him. And trust and friendship are essential for a relationship to work.
I guess the question you should ask yourself is: do you find him attractive?
You could always go out with him and if it feel weird remain mates? Good Luck :)
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He sounds like he's a good buddy that you enjoy hanging out with. If you don't mind risking losing him as a friend, then you can try dating him. If you start going out as bf/gf and things turn sour, you'll probably lose him as a friend. But there is nothing mentally or physically wrong with dating a "brother" figure as long as it's not really your brother. I hope this helps and good luck.
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