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Location: New Hampshire
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Anybody knows any webpages that shows or teaches bout Songwriting and how to learn and play the keybord?? thanks alot
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go to www.yahoo.com or www.google.com and search "how to play the keyboard" see if that works, also ask your music teacher in school. if ya need anything else drop it in the inbox!!
*Melissa!


my best friend always says he is gonna hug me but he never does and it makes me sad and mad i wanna slap i try to get more attention from him? he always hugs my other best friend never me.... what do i do? (link)
talk to him about it!! if ya need anything else drop it in the inbox!!
*Melissa!


over spring break 2005 my family will be taking a 7-day cruise that will go to 3 or 4 different places in the southern caribean. this will be out 2nd cruise but the last one we went on was 3 or 4 years ago, and the farthest we have traveled is a 4 and a half hour trip, and this plane trip will be a little longer. any advice on stuff to do to keep me busy on the way there? (link)
bring a journal to write everything you see on! take pictures out of the airplane window (they look cool!), dont get any magezines that month and buy all the ones you read at the airport! bring a cd player! sleep! have fun! if ya need anything else let me know!


i sorta REALLY flirted with this guy n made out n blah blah with him.. but one of my best friends all of the sudden likes him.. what should i do :\ (link)
u did it when she didnt like him right? theres nothing rong with that! she shouldnt get upset!


One of my best guy friends, that Ive been friends with for about 4 months now, is the sweetest, nicest, most gernerous, giving guy i know. After all that being said and done, i plan on having only a freind-relationship with him. He has the biggest crush one me and i dont know what to do. I want to tell him how i feel about our relationship but i dontknwo how to say it without him feeling uncomfortable around me when we hang out again. pleas help. (link)
try to go out with him, he might be the one for you! if it doesnt work out say you dont want to hurt your relationship, but you want to be friends, just dont hurt him


my friend told me when you start to get abs you start to get a little 'box' or soemthing by ur belly button like a little pudge or something... can u tell me sum signs that running, sit ups, push ups, crunchies, lifting weights actually works!~ (link)
you get a box then you get some abs, keep workin out!!!


is it okay for a girl to ask a guy out? (link)
yeah! its always fine! good luck!


how do i know if i need a bra? (link)
do you have small boobs? or any boobs at all? if you do then go to the store and ask for a sports bra or a training bra, if you need help with that ask the store clerk (a girl) or your mom... hope i helped!!


okay i'm a teenager and i have arthritis..i got it when i was 8 years old..i've seen doctors and they can't stop it completely! i have it in my left knee..right knee..and in both wrists. sometimes it bothers me n sometimes it doesnt..any advice for treatments when it starts hurting? i rate realli high! (link)
my mom has arthritis... she has these long strechy bands and she streaches everyday with those, they help it become, less noticable for you, also she takes tylenol when it hurts really bad, or pain reliver.. hope i helped!!


ok im moving ... im painting my room dark purple and light purple ... but i have no clue what colors to paint my bathroom .... here are some of my fave colors

- green
- purple
- pink
- blue
- yellow
- black

p.s i dont just wanna paint it i wanna paint some cute stuff LOL

Anggie (link)
Id say paint it black, and have hot pink chalk so people can write some stuff on it, that'd be kool! or you can switch it, or have a purple bathroom too! that would look cool!


You see, whenever I fly on airplanes, I usually get airsick, and I begin to throw up. But just a few months ago, I didn't throw up, so I was pretty happy. But last week, I just found out that my bf's mom invited me to Las Vegas, so we're taking a plane. I'm really scared that I'll throw up. AND I don't wanna be ashamed. What should I do to keep me from puiking? It seems so uncool typing this on an advice column but no one knows who I am anyways. (link)
I usually get motion sickness so i take Drymamine.. try that! take 1 of them 2 hours before you fly and you shouldnt feel the plane moving, like you shouldnt get motion sickness, that might be why ur getting sick, let me know what happens!!!


i really love my hair being long but i sort of wanna cut it up to my shoulders so it looks thicker and just i think it'd look cute! but im scared that i'll hate it. should i play it safe and keep my hair long? my hair takes forever to grow. (link)
cut it half way and see how you like that! if you like that then go a little shorter, like when you go to get it cut, have them take off a little at a time and see how you like it, when u think its short enough, then have him stop... try that! hope it works! rate me!!
*Melissa


ok here is my problem. I've always loved penguins, but lately I've been feeling a sexual attraction to them. now I think that's as sick as the next person, but there's just something about penguins. what do I do? (link)
get help...


I been thinking about this one and it dont make any sense to me. Hope you can figure this out. Last year, my best friend gave me of his sn in aim.. i been talking to him for 1 year since.. of course, he's in my grade. We talked alot on aim.. then finally we meet in WLC..anyway, he always listen to me, support me, and help me when i need his help.. like he always there for me.. When first day of WLC..i meet him, he act very werid.. I wasnt intersting in him at all.. i dont know why he act like werid but then few days later, my best friend told me that he act werid because he thought i like him.. he dont wanna me like him.. he's stupid anyway then he date to my best friend.. then my family and i decieded to move to different school where he go.. but my best friend stay in my old schoool.. well its in green bay.. and his school in delavan, WI. Almost everybody in delavan knows that im moving to there.. and one guy in there, he asked me if i want to date barry. i was like do barry said anything to you? he told me no, its just him being curious if i want to.. i was totally coufusing.. because i know he dont like me more than as friend but im coufusing because he always support me, like well i date one of his best friend in the world.. and my bf move to florida and do something not proper.. and he told me that my bf do something not proper in florida and support me to prank on my bf.. im was kinda coufusing of the fact that he always support me no matter whats happen, he always choose me over his best friend.. and he always listen to me for all time.. so do that mean he like me but shy to admit it? it dont make any sense.. he's not shy person..so you have any idea that he might like me or what? thanks!!!!! (link)
i have no idea.. sorry.. i think you should ask someone else.. sorry


I really like this older guy.(im a freshman he's a senior:/)I mean ALOT! When I see him I seriously just melt. When I talk to him I don't know what to say....he just like makes me speechless. But he knows I like him and stuff. He always says that I don't talk & that I probably won't do more than kissing. (wRonG) but anyway, I just don't know what to do. I mean he jokes around all the time about hooking up and stuff and I really take all that stuff serious. I'm like obssessed w/ him! haha I need helP! (link)
ok, talk to him about your feelings! if you get speechless, just ignore it and feel more confident! tell him you take it seriously and just find out what he says, be yourself! if ya need anything else let me know! :) hope i helped!
~*!*~ Melissa ~*!*~


Ok, I know that this is a really dumb question, but I'm gonna ask anyways.

I went out with this guy for about 5 months. We broke up for a while (about 6 months), and now we are back together.

While we were broken up, I hooked up with a friend's friend from out of town. My boyfriend doesn't know him, and there is an outside chance that they will one day meet, but I'm not all that worried about that.

For some reason which I can't explain even to myself, I feel as if I should tell my boyfriend. I don't feel guilty about the hookup, because, well, we were apart. I guess I just feel that he should know. But I don't want to mess anything up in between us.

So... to tell or not to tell... that is the question? (Sorry for the cliche, I couldn't resist.) (link)
You should tell! "honesty is always the policy!" he shouldnt get mad if you to were split! let me know what happens! :) hope i helped, is ya need anything else just drop in tha inbox!
-:- Melissa -:-
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what would be a good healthy lunch for me to eat while i'm at home?? i'm trying to lose some weight and keep healthy. thanks so much!! (link)
celery and cream cheese! yummie! or celery and peanut butter, also fruit salad or regular fruit, dole fruit cups, also a sandwich, hmm, stuff with low calaries and low fat, no chips or ice cream! :) hope i helped, is ya need anything else just drop in tha inbox!
-:- Melissa -:-
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Hi im a 16 year old girl and I have been dating this girl for 3 months now but we dont really talk, and i can tell my friends think i should break up with her, but i really like her and i want to go out with her but i want us to talk more what should i do? (link)
then next time you talk to her, sit her down and talk to her about your feelings, about what you want to do to make the relationship better or you can write her a letter saying how you feel and tell her to call you. let me know if ya need anything else!
~*!*~ MeLiSsA ~*!*~
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alright me n mai boyfriend broke up about a week ago cuz he cheated on me. i really love him n im hurt soo bad. he says he still cares n he wants to be w/ me, but now hes w/ sumone else. i think hes tryin to make me jealous but i dont really kno. i cant live w/o him, he means the world to me even after what he did. i really wanna be w/ him but im scared to tell him how i feel cuz im not sure if he cares or not. should i give up on him or take him back if he feels the same? (link)
If he cheated on you, that doesnt show he cares, sorry, but you sound like your way to good for him, try to get someone better, and if there isnt any, just be independant, theres plenty of fish in the sea.. and so many guys who are good for you and dont cheat!
~*!*~ MeLiSsA ~*!*~
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see well okay at the store my mom had to run in for a few things, well my x b/f came to talk to me ,(with his new gurlfriend!) and I couldnt
talk i was speachless!, But he broke up with her right there and then , and in front of her he asked me back out and I couldn't say anything to answer!!should I or shouldn't i?? and he said i was hott in front of her.!!!!
PLZ Help!!!
AS SOON AS U CAN!!! (link)
GET BACK WITH HIM!!!




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