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~About me~
Name:: Alexandra
Gender:: 100% gurl
Age:: 15
Birthday:: November 20th
Grade:: Sophomore! (10th)
Hair color:: Dark brown
Eye Color:: Brown
Status:: Taken
Sign: Scorpio


~Additional Info~
Fav. color:: Piink
Fav. drink:: Water
Fav. Food:: anything filipino
Idol:: Adrianna Lima, Mya, Angelina Jolie
Fav Movie:: Sleepers, Murder in the first
Fav. song:: Wonderful Tonight, What you so mad at?, without you, goodies, and anything by the temptations



Yeah, so I will help anyone. i've been through alot in my life... alot having to do with: family, friends, relationship, school and alot more... i know alot about health issues. I love to help people. so if you have a question just leave one in my inbox and i will answer it as soon as i can and i will answer it the best i can.




Website: my pictures
Gender: Female
Location: New york
Occupation: student - sophomore year in high school
Age: 15
AIM: xtemptashunz
Member Since: August 19, 2004
Answers: 86
Last Update: March 1, 2005
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My girlfriend says we should see other people, but I'm schizophrenic, does that make me other people? (link)
HAHA! thats a good one... maybe you shoud ask her... lol


OMG all my friends (in my age range ~14~) say its okay and that they dont think its bad to have sex at this age and half of them like, arent virgins!! I just relaized this today but i think having sex at this age is just plain stupid!! Am i weird or crazy? IS it okay to have sex at my age?!! (link)
NO! your definatly not weird or crazy, you just have different morals then them, it is perfectly fine that your a virgin, im not gunna say your friends are stupid for having sex at that age, because they have different morals and crap. but in my opinion i dont think people should be having sex at such a young age, there are to many chances of something going wrong, that can seriously screw up our lives, I think people should wait till they are older, they will appreciate the expereince much more if they do wait

i hope i helped, drop oone in my inbox if you need anything else

Alexandra x3


14/f I wasn't sure what category to put this under. I had this dream about this guy at school that I kind of like. I dreamt that I was pregnant with his baby and we were a couple. I'm only 14, but in my dream I was entirely happy about this. What does this dream mean? (link)
hmmm let me pull out my book on intrpreting dreams ( i actually have a book on this stuff hehe)ok it says, for a virgin this dream omens scandal and adversity. and i have no idea wat that means. but maybe you do. but in my opinion is you must like him in order to have a dream about him, or maybe you just thought about him alot before you went to sleep, that can happen to. hope i helped

Alexandra x3

("dreams are the hearts true desires")


im 14 and my penis is quite small and its a bit worrying will it get bigger? Does it matter to girls? (link)
hmm... well im not positively sure if it will grow, but im guessing that it most likely will, cause your still going through puberty. well im still a virgin, so i cant really say wether i like big penis's or small penis's, but really if it dont matter to me. but im sure it does to some girls...but if they do care, then forget them! hope i helped

Alexandra x3


Just a couple questions about bikini waxes, ladies! :)

How old were you when you first got one done, like professionally? What is the process of it? And cost?

I really want to get one, but i'm scared, and embarassed.. lol! Does it hurt a lot? ..ahh. Just thinking of it makes me cringe. lol.

please help! =-)

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AHHHHHHH!! bikini waxing..... that scares me to. I haven't gotten it done yet, but im sure i will go get it done when im older. you dont need to be embarassed though, cuz if you think about it, the people who will wax you, do that for a living, they must see many vaginas, so i doubt that they will remember yours. im not really sure on how much it cost, it depends on who does it. And from what i heard it hurts alot!! haha... i think maybe you should just stick to shaving for a while

hope i helped

Alexandra x3


can someone tell me a sight to get surveys to fill in about my self besides hellzangels.com? or w/e plz help! i rate good! (link)
www.bzoink.com

thats a good one!!

hope i helped

Alexandra x3


does anyone know any home remedies to fix a dry scalp or dandruff problems? (link)
wen your washing your hair rub the conditioner into your scalp for a minute or 2, and do this every time, and stop itching your head... or over the weekend, buy sum johnsons baby oil and put that in your hair and rub it into your scalp, and leave it in for an hour then wash it out, it will be hard to wask it out tho, so make sure you use both shampoo and condition and get it all out, not only will your dandruff problem improve, your hair will be shiney and heathly with out the greasy look

hope i helped

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I have a problem! I'm obbsessed with this kiddie site neo pets and I can't get off it! (link)
haha! just dont go there, try 2 set a goal for yourself and not go on. come to this site, help people instead, or make your own webpage.. thats wat i did!! haha yosh, your such a great kid!!!!!! hahaha
hope i helped....

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Ok.. Im 14.. and I really love my boyfriend.. well.. last night.. we were talkin for a REALLY long time on the phone.. and he proposed to me. Its was really cute the way he did it. I of course said yes cause im so much in love with him.

What im wondering tho is: Do u think it can work out.. hes 16 and im 14... and also... do u think im too young to be engaged? (link)
yes you are to young to be engaged, in fact you shud'nt even be thinking of love at such a young age. if anything you might be in 'lust' with him, or puppy love, you see being so young our minds change alot, we change our taste so many times. i mean its a fun idea to think your in love, just dont take it 2 seriously.... hope i helped

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Alexandra x3


Ok, im a gurl and i have a little mustache thingy and i never really thought to much of it til now. and i feel like other ppl notice it which i know they do. what should i do? should i shave it or trim it or wax it or i dunno lol. plz help... thanx a bunch!!
and ill rate yu! (link)
i have the same problem, but the fact is, that all girls have one, its just not noticable on alot of them, but you can wax it if it bothers you so much, but whatever you do, DO NOT shave it! waxing is prolly the best thing to do, and theres also this mustache bleach stuff (if you have dark hair mustache) you can buy, but im not sure if that works. but seriously, people dont really notice it, at least they didn't on me, but i noticed it so i waxed it. i hope i helped, leave a message for my inbox next time if you want :)

Alexandra x3


wait im confused about birth control. someone said that it regulates your period so you know when it's coming. but how does that protect you from not getting pregnant? when you're on birth control, does that mean that you WON'T get pregnant if you have unprotected sex at any time? thanks. (link)
you still have a chance of getting pregnant, theres always a chance. but the guy should ALWAYS wear a condom even if your on the pill, because theres always a chance of getting STD's and you dont want that. but birth control does regulate your period and in some cases it will make your boobs grow :)) hope i helped

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Ok hi well there r these 4 guys i really like and all of them like me back i just dont know which one i shud choose. The first guy lets say his name is ray, i met over the summer and we really clicked. WE both really really like eachother but he lives 4 hours away. The second guy, well say his name is sam, lives ten minutes away and is really hot and would do nething for me and loves me so much but he sleeps around so i dunno how long it wud last. The 3rd guy i really like and he likes me back and we r really close friends but he wont make a move! The forth guy just moved here and lives three houses down from me and is now goin out w/ my friend cuz my other friends pressured him into it but he dusnt even like her he likes me and i like him back. I really wanna choose one of them but i cant decide so please help me!!!!!! (link)
I say you should pick guy #3. b.c it seems to me you two know eachother best, and if he doesn't make a move, he will, but if time passes by and he has yet to, then make a move on him! he might just be scared of your reaction.

I hope i helped
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Alexandra x3


help im really confused about math right now. i dont no what rational, real, irrational, or natural numbers are! i looked up rational number in the back of the book and it said a real number and i looked up real number and it said a number that is irrational or rational.. u can see my probelm HELP ME PLEEAASEE!! if u r in algebra 1 or u just no what they r plz lemme no
thank u soo much (link)
okey... irrational numbers are non-terminating deicimals, for example the square root of 2, i beleive natural numbers are numbers that wen your counting starts with 0, so it wud go 0, 1, 2, 3 , 4 etc. rational numbers are numbers that repeat or terminate. if you need anymore help just ask me a question....

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Alexandra x3


hey i know this is kind of a weird question, but, my friend lost 54 lbs by only eating graham crackers and hard boiled eggs for 4 months.i cant do that, so i was wondering, are graham crackers good for you? i hate eggs so i wont eat them... (link)
yes they are good for you, depending on wat kind... but i dont suggest you do this, b.c your body need different things, not just graham crackers. it needs protein and other things. so can get ill if you do the same thing she does. if you wanna lose weight, eat 3 meals a day, and work out, the meals should be well balanced, and you should work out for maybe 45 mins a day, 3-4 times a week... and you shud lose weight by doing this, maybe not almot tho, b.c you'll be getting muscle, but you'll look great!

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This is my sophomore year in highschool and i hate it. I dont lyk alotta my classes and i dread getting up every morning to go there. I'v been alot more depressed this school year and im usually crushin on people all the time, but now i juss think people r cute or hott or w/e and i wont lyk them cuz then there's no way you can get hurt. I kno i'd never commite suicide or nething and i dont really start seeing a counsler about being depressed and stuff but i always go into things with such a negative attitude because everything always turns out negative. Thats a reason y im not going to homecoming and winterball this school year because i kno im gunna feel unconfortable and its gunna suck. I juss dont kno what to do anymore. I'm pretty sure theres nothing i can do tomake me wanna go to school but does anyone have any advice on my selfesteem issues...make overs and stuff lyk that isnt gunna help me feel better abiut myself cuz im not very much a girly girl...but is there sumthin else that can help?Thanks (link)
well im half way stuck in your stituation to. i hate my classes, i have none of my friends in them, and im such a negative person, its mostly because im a scorpio. but the way im trying 2 look at it is i can make new friends or at least now more people are going to know me, which is a great thing... but ever since 7th grade (im also a sophomore now) i've been very depressed, and i never thought it would get to the point where i wud cut myself or hurt myself in anyway, but it did, last year in february. and i know you said that you wouldn't do that. but its sumthing that just happens sometime. i suggest to get out of this depressed state of mind, you get out more, make new friends, actually leave the house and go places... thats what my doctor told me last june, and ever since then i've been extremely, b.c i listen to him, i went out more, i was out 5 out of the 7 days in a week. and if you find good people, you'll feel great about yourself, you should anyway. cause the only ugly people are people who make themselves ugly, meaning attitude and crap like that.

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i like this guy nd he supposidly likesz me...but he likes other girls 2. i want him 2 invite me 2 homecoming...since im not aloud 2 go the the 1 at my school. i want him 2 invite me...but i think i need 2 tell him i like him first...how do bring it up in a conversation? help please

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hmm.... i wud just tell him i liked him, cuz it wud be bothering me, so i wud just want to get it out... like maybe when u 2 are alone and theres a pause wen neither of you are talking, thats when you should say 'i think i like you' and see wat happens from there. you will also feel relieved after you say it. so the sooner the better. hope i helped :)


PLEASE ANSWER!! I'LL RATE YOU GOOD!! ok well this weekend I'm going to hang out with my best friend, the guy she likes, and the guy Ive liked since 6th grade (i'm a sophmore now). Me and him have had a relationship thats been off and on, but never official or anything like that. I dont want to like him anymore but when ever i see him all the same feelings I had for him rush back. I think he just thinks of me as someone he can use tho... which isnt good! I try to be myself to make him like ME for ME but I'm never sure. He went out with this one girl for a long time (like a year or so) but he always cheated on her... but she had no idea. I wish he would change!! He's popular... and I'm not really except for with the guys... im just more comfortable around them I guess. anyways I want him to fall in love with me but I dont want him to know that I am like wanting that so much. I dont know what to do. We're all going to a movie sat and then I think we're just going to hang out or something. I know he thinks I'm attractive (he's told me) but is he just saying that to "get some"?? But also I dont know if he's just trying to use me... cuz everyone knows that I'm not easy... I mean I havent even made out yet.. (ive gone a little past that with up the shirt.. but never made out). I dont know what to do! WHATS HAPPENING?!?!? (link)
hmmm... you are in a tricky stituation. heres my advice... if you like him, and is worried about him not liking you for you then talk 2 him and tell him wat your feeling. if you two have a good relationship as you say you do he most likely wont get weirded out. but hun, we're to young to be in love, its either lust, or 'puppy love'. also you dont want to get involved with a player, cuz he'll play you, and that will only reslut in heartbreak. my best advice to you is, follow your heart but if it says try thing out with him, make sure your ready to get hurt. and if you decide 2 forget about him... move on 2 sumone else, someone not as 'advanced' as him. so you wont have 2 worry about getting played, or making-out and etc. i really hop i helped you. and good luck


My little sister is a freshman this year. We live about 1 1/2 miles from the homecoming football feild, and our parents are going to be out of town so our mom said she can have 5 of her friends sleep over after the game. What are some ideas for them to get home safely (without being egged to death by the seniors) without a car? (link)
arrage sumone to pick them up, like one of your friend if they can drive... or walk with them with some of your friends, if your in bigger groups of people they might not bother egging you... i hope i help :)


Ok..all my friends have either madeout or done more with there boyfriends. But i havent done nething not even madeout yet. Ive been pressured to do it by my friends but i really dont want to. Im 14..is that bad? (link)
no its not bad, if your not ready to kiss then dont worry about. do it when your ready, dont let others force you


whats the best way to scrunch thick hair? (link)
take a little bit of gel and scrunch it that way... and go out and buy sum leave in conditioner, and use a only a little bit of that... it works for me every time...hope i helped.. plz rate me




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