This is my sophomore year in highschool and i hate it. I dont lyk alotta my classes and i dread getting up every morning to go there. I'v been alot more depressed this school year and im usually crushin on people all the time, but now i juss think people r cute or hott or w/e and i wont lyk them cuz then there's no way you can get hurt. I kno i'd never commite suicide or nething and i dont really start seeing a counsler about being depressed and stuff but i always go into things with such a negative attitude because everything always turns out negative. Thats a reason y im not going to homecoming and winterball this school year because i kno im gunna feel unconfortable and its gunna suck. I juss dont kno what to do anymore. I'm pretty sure theres nothing i can do tomake me wanna go to school but does anyone have any advice on my selfesteem issues...make overs and stuff lyk that isnt gunna help me feel better abiut myself cuz im not very much a girly girl...but is there sumthin else that can help?Thanks
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? XoAlexandra answered Monday September 20 2004, 6:03 pm: well im half way stuck in your stituation to. i hate my classes, i have none of my friends in them, and im such a negative person, its mostly because im a scorpio. but the way im trying 2 look at it is i can make new friends or at least now more people are going to know me, which is a great thing... but ever since 7th grade (im also a sophomore now) i've been very depressed, and i never thought it would get to the point where i wud cut myself or hurt myself in anyway, but it did, last year in february. and i know you said that you wouldn't do that. but its sumthing that just happens sometime. i suggest to get out of this depressed state of mind, you get out more, make new friends, actually leave the house and go places... thats what my doctor told me last june, and ever since then i've been extremely, b.c i listen to him, i went out more, i was out 5 out of the 7 days in a week. and if you find good people, you'll feel great about yourself, you should anyway. cause the only ugly people are people who make themselves ugly, meaning attitude and crap like that.
JesusFreak2006 answered Sunday September 19 2004, 6:58 pm: hey hey its pretty normal what ur going through everyone pretty much goes through your stage once in your lifes...how i got through is i became a Christan and became focused on something rather then just focusing on life...however what also helps is hanging out with friends you know outside of school so you have good friends to stick by you...feel free to im me to chat more if you need any more help i got your back...
WTF answered Sunday September 19 2004, 6:36 pm: well i feel the same way at my school, so dont feel bad. try and find people like you and talk to them so you can have friends to cheer you up, that always works if you find the right crowd. or, you could be dramatic and harsh and take anti-depresant pills if it gets really bad. [ WTF's advice column | Ask WTF A Question ]
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