Question Posted Thursday September 2 2004, 7:30 pm
PLEASE ANSWER!! I'LL RATE YOU GOOD!! ok well this weekend I'm going to hang out with my best friend, the guy she likes, and the guy Ive liked since 6th grade (i'm a sophmore now). Me and him have had a relationship thats been off and on, but never official or anything like that. I dont want to like him anymore but when ever i see him all the same feelings I had for him rush back. I think he just thinks of me as someone he can use tho... which isnt good! I try to be myself to make him like ME for ME but I'm never sure. He went out with this one girl for a long time (like a year or so) but he always cheated on her... but she had no idea. I wish he would change!! He's popular... and I'm not really except for with the guys... im just more comfortable around them I guess. anyways I want him to fall in love with me but I dont want him to know that I am like wanting that so much. I dont know what to do. We're all going to a movie sat and then I think we're just going to hang out or something. I know he thinks I'm attractive (he's told me) but is he just saying that to "get some"?? But also I dont know if he's just trying to use me... cuz everyone knows that I'm not easy... I mean I havent even made out yet.. (ive gone a little past that with up the shirt.. but never made out). I dont know what to do! WHATS HAPPENING?!?!?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? XoAlexandra answered Friday September 3 2004, 1:02 am: hmmm... you are in a tricky stituation. heres my advice... if you like him, and is worried about him not liking you for you then talk 2 him and tell him wat your feeling. if you two have a good relationship as you say you do he most likely wont get weirded out. but hun, we're to young to be in love, its either lust, or 'puppy love'. also you dont want to get involved with a player, cuz he'll play you, and that will only reslut in heartbreak. my best advice to you is, follow your heart but if it says try thing out with him, make sure your ready to get hurt. and if you decide 2 forget about him... move on 2 sumone else, someone not as 'advanced' as him. so you wont have 2 worry about getting played, or making-out and etc. i really hop i helped you. and good luck [ XoAlexandra's advice column | Ask XoAlexandra A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.