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i hope i can help a lot of people with there problems cuz i have problems 2 and most of the time i understand the way other people feel. just about all of my friends turn to me for advice so i might as well help out other people also.
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where can i get a dooney and bourke purse? thanks xoxo (link)
at the mall


why do guy hold thier crotch when ever they dance or sing/rap? sorry bout spelling thanx (link)
if they have baggy pants its just to pull up their pants so they dont trip and its so their stuff aint flopin all over the place lol. i hope i helped


I am AWESOME!!! Is there a problem with that? (link)
well probably not but if u say that to people they might think you are concedded =)


I know some people dont like this song but I really want to know what it's called. I heard it on the radio. It goes something like this :

Baby boy you stay on my mind, fufill my fantasies, I think about you all the time, I see you in my dreams

Thanks in advance ! I'll rate (link)
that song is called baby boy by beyonce'


Ok there is this guy I like and his name is Cody. Me and my friend met him at an assembly and ever since he has been talking to me. Everytime I see him in the hall me and him talk and stuff. But my friend is always there when i talk to him. Sometimes he will kinda poke me and go " ewwww " but in a joking way. And he comes and sits with us sometimes at lunch when his guys leave. There was this boy bothering me today and he goes up and tells him " You better not be bothering her! " So What? Does he like me? Please no smart ass answers. Thanks In Advance (link)
omg i like sumone named cody 2!!! but anyways maybe hes just tryin to git to know u better and he stickin up for u. maybe he doesnt always wanna hang around guys maybe he wants to hang around gurls to. guys flirt with me all the time and say ewww when they see me but we r just friends. i dont think he likes u. i hope i helped.


hi im 13 and i have had a stedy b/f for about 5 years... we have been fooling around since i was 11 and now i just started my period and i wanna kno...... should i stop... or just started beindg a little bit mor proctected?? (link)
well since your only 13 i think you should stop. 13 year old should be foolin around with anyone. you are way to young. you could have gotten an std or what if you end up pregant.


Ok so I pierced my ear last Saturday...it swelled up so I took it out on Monday of last week and they said it would be ok to re-do it on Friday...So I go in on friday and they recommended to give it another day. I go back on Saturday (yesterday), and she re-pierces it getting just my cartilage. It swelled up the first time cause they got the very edge of the nerve. So right now, its really red and it looks like its gonna swell up as bad as it did last week. I've been cleaning it as the instructions say, havent been sleeping on it, and it hurts like hell when I put the antiseptic on it. Am I doing something wrong or should I continue and ignore the swelling and pain?? This is the first time i've ever done this so I have no friggin idea what to do so help me out please (link)
you shouldnt have taken it out the first time but since you did you should have waited at least a month before gettin it repeirced because now u have a huge hole. also dont take it out this time. its probably gonna hurt for about 4-6 weeks. i should know because i peirced mine the worst possible way to peirce it. i did it my self. now it doesnt hurt that much only when someone hits it. dont take it out and just contiue to clean it and not sleep on it. i hope i helped.


Ok.. im sorry if this gets long and confusing, but i really need help & ive got a lot on my mind.. so this will get long!!

So theres this boy, and i like him so much! the thing is.. we went out before.. and he was so great! then we broke up about 2 months later because his feelings werent as strong for me as he thought. but i still like him. we talked about going out but he didnt think it was a very good idea, but he did like me. ( we go to different schools, by the way. ) we see each other every monday, wednesday, and friday. and i think thats good enough? ever since we broke up we've been best friends.. and that makes me like him even more. about 4 months after we broke up, he asked me out again. he said for sure his feelings were strong. so i said yes, because i was madly in love with him!! he had a dance at his school, he asked me to go but i couldnt because of cheerleading practice. so i came home and checked my messages on my cell fone and one of my good friends that goes to his school called me. i called her back right away. she told me so much stuff! like the boy danced with another girl.. that didnt really bother me. but then she said they made out and he went to her house afterwards. i was crying so much!! i called his cell fone and the GIRL answered. [ to make it all worse, it was the girl i hate because she did the same exact thing with my old boyfriend. ] so me and the boy talked and he denied everything. i could not believe him. this was about 2 weeks ago. but i still love him so much!! see, thats the thing. after all he did and after all the pain i went through.. i keep on loving him. i keep on begging for him! it sucks =( i cry so much about it but theres nothing i can do.

so my question is :
what should i do!? follow my heart and still crush on him.. or give up on him?!

I LOVE HIM SOOOOO MUCH (link)
well its like this since your only 13 i think you should get to know other guys and go out with them. obviously this guy doesnt really want to be with you right now. go out with other guys then if you still cant geet over him then talk to him and let him know how you feel. i hope i helped.


I broke up with this guy a week ago but we still talk when i see him at his work. and i texted him today n he didnt text me back so i called and i asked if he was mad. and he said he wasnt and it was cool but he asked to call me back in 7mins cause he was almost home from work... everytime i called him, he was always on his way home from work. he gets off work at 9. and it was at 9:45 when i called him and he lives about half n hour away. he hasnt called back yet and its been over 10 mins. is he lyin to me? (link)
maybe hes stuck in trafic some where. give him time. just because u called him back doesnt mean he had his fone with him he might have stopped by the store and left his fone in the car. or he might have gotten pulled over by a cop and well you dont just pick up your fone when your talkin to a cop. dont worry about it. if he doesnt call you back tonite then worry about it. i hope i helped.


well lets see my friend just met this great guy and well now there going out and hes like the sweetest thing ever and i think im getting jealous not of her just i wish i found a guy like that ya know cause i like kind of been waiting cuz i didnt want a boyfriend but now i think i want one but im not sure which one would be rite for me (link)
the right guy is one that you can easily talk to and you like to do a lot of the same things. one thats like your best friend. you dont want one that hits you all the time but sumone who shows emotions towards you. you dont want one that will show off when hes hangin out with you and his friends because then hes just using you. and you dont want one that flirts with a lot of guys at ones time. i hope i helped!!


i wanna make out with people so bad but i dont know i can picture my self doing mad stuff with people but how do i know like where to put my hands and what if i miss his mouth or something idk just what do i do.. (link)
where to put your hands comes naturally. you will just know automatically where to put your hands. and so you dont miss keep ur eyes open until your lips are on the other persons lips. dont worry about missin or placing your hands


okay theres this guy i like alot

i was in the lunch room sitting waiting for school to start. and well he homes, unxeepectidly. and i was by myself and well he sat at the table i was at. it was wierd. then i was in the thearter for a welcome back to school assembly, but there was a empty seat next to me because i cant stand sitting by the wall. and so i just went into the second seat. and guess what. HE SITS NEXT TO ME! and we talked alot. like the assembly was atleast 1 hour long. and well we were talking the whole time

hes inn all of my classes and hes by my locker. if i have locker troubles he helps me.

he opens the door for me.

he sits by my lunch table like behind me and if i drop something he will pick it up.

do you think he likes me?

because i think we are really ment to be we have SO much in common i really need the answer becasue my friend is oging to ask him out for me tomorrow && he said he will sit with me in class or behind me.

what do you think? i need your opinion.

ill rate :) (link)
i think if hes all over you like that then he definatly likes you. no guy would be around you all the time if he didnt like you. i hope u to go out. good luck!!


I have such a variety of friends. I have popular girl friends, nerd friends, weird friends, popular boys, and loser boys, and some ghetto people (sorry bout the name but what else can I say). I know it's good to have a variety, but sometimes I feel weird around my nerdy/weird friends. They are the only ones in my classes so I feel as if I'm being viewed as one. I absolutely don't care what people think of me, but sometimes I want to,you know, hang out with people in my own boat. I don't know what to do! I'm never mean to people and this is why I end up with such a variety! I can't turn people down! What can I do to feel better about this??? (link)
im in your same position and i even like a boy that isnt in the popular group but dont worry about what people think about you. if they dont like you...hey its their fault they r missin out on a great friend. if the popular people havent said anything yet then you r fine but if they ask about you "nerdy friends" then just explain to them why you hang out with them. im sure they will understand.


I wana go to the fair again tonight but I don't have a boyfriend. And all of my friends are to busy kissing them. So what do I do??? (link)
you can take one of your guy friends that you like and get to know him better. if he likes u then maybe you 2 will kiss and u wont be left out when your friends are makin out with their boyfriends.


Hey its my friends 15th birthday soon and shes like my best best friend i love her and i want to get her something that she wount forget and that she'll love!!!(nothing to expensive) i want her to kno whow much she means to me!! thanx
xxx (link)
you can make your friend a photo album with pictures of you and her having fun. you can also give her a friendship braclet. you can even go as far as getting a special shirt made for her!!


I just started my Sophmore year of highschool. From the begining of Freshman year 'til now, I've lost MANY friends for stupid reasons. Mainly because I got into a fight with one girl that I was best friends with and then she got all of her friends to hate me too. Which was about 15 people. How nice right?


Anyway, I have a reputation of being a bitch. Because.. Well, I CAN be. But I'm really not when you get to know me.



I really want to try to change my reputation on being a bitch, I want to show people that I AM a good person and attempt to make new friends. But I really need help on changing my reputation. Any ideas? (link)
ok i was friends with this gurl 2 and i put her in the same situation because she really was a bitch. she got mad at me when i talked to other people instead of her but enough about me this is about you. show people the good side of you. dont let the bitch side come out. talk to the people who u think hate you. all 15 of them.lol. ask them y they hate you. dont let people hate you. i hope i helped a little bit. i know this isnt the best advice to give but im new to this. lol.


well i like this kid, but my friend is going out with him, and i would never want her to be upset if she found out. if he found out i like him, and he didnt like me, it would be really weird between us.. but i tihnk i realy like him. what should i do ? (link)
when your friend starts talkin about how hot her boyfriend is just agree and tell her shes very lucky and you r happy for her. DONT tell her you like him because when they break up she will get mad at you when you talk about who u like and how cute he is. dont tell her you like him but you can tell her that you think he is cute.


can some1 please send me a website with adam richman lyrics! ive done tons of research and already checked out songmeanings.com, azlyircs.com., plyrics.com, etc.



thx (link)
u can probably go to www.google.com and type in adam richman and it will give u places to git lyrics or u can check on www.lyricsondemand.com


Ok i've got 4 questions. If you answer all of them i'll rate you a five, unless you give me some dumbass kind of answer ;).
1.-how do you get a guy to like you
2.-how do you get a guy to notice you
3.-how can i flirt?
4.-how do i know if he's flirting back at me?
btw, i'm 15/f, skinny, natural red hair, blue eyes, (i think that i'm ok looking), i play sports, and i'm nice to everyone.
please help me!
*~*thanks*~* (link)
1. you can get a guy to talk to you by talkin about something he likes to talk about.
2. you can get a guy to notice you by playin with your hair when you talk to him or smile at him a lot.
3. you can flirt by writtin the guy notes and callin him stuff like baby and sweetie.
4. hes flirtin back if hes talkin to you. iif hes just like ok or ur gross or sumthin then hes not flirting and he might not be intrested


Me n this guy are really good frendz. he doesnt know that i like him and i cant b sure that he likes me. should i ask him to the movies?

*~Michele~* (link)
i think u should but do it in a tricky way like ask him wut hes doin one night and then if hes not doin anything you should say you arent doin anything either then casuslly say ask if he would like to do something with you. then suggest the movies.




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