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After break that lasted like a year, I'm back.


Um yeah, anyways.
My name is Amanda.
I am 16.
I will try to answer your questions to the best of my ability, but be warned, I am brutally honest.
So I might come off as being mean, but sometimes the truth hurts.
I'm not saying that to be mean, because I'm really a nice person.

And if you plan on sending me a question in my inbox, please use proper English.
I probably will not respond if you type LyKe DiS or IN ALL CAPS or if y00 cnt spl if yur lyfe dpended on it.

Have a nice day! :D

advice

I want to move some movies off of iTunes to my iPod without syncing the whole thing. But my problem is that when I connect my iPod, iTunes won't let me drag the movies to my iPod icon on the list. A little X just appears on the icon when I try to drag it to the iPod movies. It won't let me convert them to the other format, either. PLEASE HELP, I'M DESPERATE!

Well, do you even have a video iPod?
Movies aren't compatible with any other iPods except for the video.

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Does anyone know if they are allowing cameras at the concert?

It all depends on the venue.
Most venues these days, unfortunately, do not allow cameras.
But there are a few that do allow cameras.
I would suggest going to the venue's website and looking at their rules.

I hope this helped! :]

X_Amanda_X

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what's the name of a song that int the video a blonde girl appears and she kinda looks like maddona the song goes like" la la la la la la la ...la lalalal" ...sevreal times it's kinda like techno or dancing idk

I believe that would be "Rich Girl" by Gwen Stefani..

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How come on YouTube when people play and sing along to acoustic versions of a song with the guitar, the word "cover" is almost always in the title? What does this mean?

When people say its a "cover" of a song, it means that they didn't actually write the song. :]

X_Amanda_X

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hey. ok, well, i'm 14/f. here latley i've been thinking about taking up the guitar. i'm a total girly-girl, but i just think it would be a lot of fun to play. but here is my question...is it like, really really hard to learn? i mean, i know it will be hard and you have to put effort into it, but i just want to know if it is super-duper hard to learn. like i said, i know it won't be just like that and you learn it, but if it is SUPER hard, then i might have second thoughts. and if anyone can give me some tips before i start playing, that would be great!! thanks!!!!!

Learning how to play guitar does take a lot of effort.
I've been playing guitar for a year or so and I've yet to even learn all the chords.
You have to be willing to sit down and have the guitar as your full attention for at least a half our every day.

And one thing before you get started, when you play guitar, it's really hard to have long nails. By holding down the frets, you'll get sore fingers and your fingernails are probably going to need to be cut.

:]
X_Amanda_X

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ok so its super rainy and thundering and we were planning on like a bon fire tonite so should i let them still come ova or no? like tomrrow!

You could either have them over and just hang out.
Or you could just plan the bonfire for another night.

Either way would work.

:]
X_Amanda_X

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on myspace how do you put pictures in your about me section?

Upload the picture that you want to a hosting site such as Tinypic[www.tinypic.com] or Photobucket.[www.photobucket.com]
Personally, I recommend Tinypic because pictures on Photobucket get their bandwith extended alot.
Anyways, after uploading the picture to a hosting website, copy the URL and put it in this HTML code


If you still need help, just let me know and I will try to explain it better.

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X_Amanda_X

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Alrighty to start out with the guy i love and been with for a month but known him for about a year does a few drugs... It doesnt upset me that he smokes mary jane because i do too. But he does Shrooms too. one day he did them and he was wigging out, it really bothered me and i almost cried and cut later on.. then not long later-in class (he sits next to me) while i was reading a section, he started copying what i was saying but alot quieter, but loud enough for it to make me mess up..i dont know if he was making fun of me or just messing around because i was depressed looking and sounding.. that day he never asked if i was okay or anything but thats probably from being on them...right? i really love him but i really dont know what to do.. i would really appreciate your help, thank you.
~Cutter girl~

~Cutter Girl~
What happened in class may have been due to the shrooms, yes. He may also be dropping hints that he's losing interest. I know that sounds mean, but some guys are jerks like that.
If he really did love you he would've asked you if you were okay. So I would sit down with him, when he's not on anything, and talk about your relationship.

Good Luck and I hope I helped =]

X_Amanda_X

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well the thing is ive told her this plenty of times.. all she says is yeah im sorry im gonna change. and i say you never do. its the same thing. i always tell her how hurt i am by this and sick of it. but she doesnt stop. i dont know what to do though! i've already tried talking to her and it doesnt make a difference.. i really have no clue what i should do though? do you have any ideas?

thank you so much for reading my question.

I can think of two options right now.
1.) You talk to her again and tell her that she has said that she says she's going to change but she doesn't. If she doesn't do anything then she obviously doesn't care about your feelings, therefore she's not a real friend. Sorry to say it but it may be true.

2.) It may be a phase. Let it run it's course. Let her have her space. Soon she will figure out that she needs a best friend and that she misses you.

Good luck =]

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omg. my best friend in the world is being a slut. i mena i love the chick to death but her ex-boyfriend who used her then broke up with her to have "fun" over the break are doing any SEXUAL THING U CAN THING OF. theyve tried haveing sex 3 times but dude. the guy doesnt even like her and isnt planning on even asking her out. and shes inlove with him. hes such a man whore and i told her that she can pick up desises and stuff like that but she acts like she didnt even do anything wrong. i dont know how to tell her to stop without coming off as a controlling freak you know. I LOVE HER TO DEATH but i dont want to yell at her and make it to where she cant tell me stuff anymore. PLEASE HELP! what do i do.
ps. SHES TWELVE.

TWELVE?!
Well since she's obviously not taking your advice I would go to her parents. You may feel like you've betrayed your best friend, But you may be saving her from fatal diseases.

I hope this helped =]

X_Amanda_X

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i would really appretiat it if you take the time to read this.. because im in tears right now..all i want is my best friend back. okay so me and this girl (we'll call her chelsea..) chelsea have been best friends for years.. closer than like anyone.. we hung out like almost every day. never got sick of each other, and had the best times. but then she got this boyfriend from a different school. and started talking to him constantly and i felt left out a lot. and then she has ditched me a lot.. like ive caught her in a million lies. so many.. she wont stop.. and i wasnt talking to her like a week ago.. but then we started slowly talking and today we were laughing and stuff together.. then i find out she went with her boyfriend to dinner with her and her dad and hung with him all night.. whenever me her and my other friends were supposed to hang out.. so tonight when i got home i found out she went with him.. and she started to lie.. but then she told the truth that she was with him.. i know she went to his house because her dad told me. so she immediatly admitted that.. i dont know what to do. im so sick of her lieing to me. i burst into tears after talking to her.. please help me.. i really need it. thank you SOO much for reading this//and helping if you do..

You should tell her exactly what you're feeling. If you just let it go by without saying anything, she'll just keep ditching you. Just tell her that you're sick of her lying and her ditching you.

Good luck and I hope I helped =]

X_Amanda_X

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Any body know any good myspace layout sites, that are FREE?
besides Createblog, and myspace.nuclearcentury.com
And dont give me the stupid google either.

I think that www.whateverlife.com is a pretty good layout website.

I hope I helped =]

X_Amanda_X

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My friend anita has been kinda of mean lately. we've never had a fight but we've known each other since we were about 7 (i'm 14 now) everytime i ring her to ask her to come out she always has something else to do like clean her room or the living room or something like that. the only time she wants to come out is when she has to go to the shop for school or her parents and i think shes just using me for that because she doesn't like walking to the shop by herself!i don't no what to do! should i try to igore her for a while? should i just ignore the whole thing and carry on with whats going on?please help!

p.s. i rate 5's

No do not ignore the whole thing. If you just let it go on then it will get worse. You have to talk to her about it. If she gets angry because of your honesty and decides that you should'nt be friends anymore, she wasn't a friend in the first place.

I hope this helped =]

X_Amanda_X

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I am a girl age 15.
Few days back in school , when we were near basketball courts , I tried to pick my key chain from the floor, I could not control myself and farted loudly. It was a sudden incident. Six boys & girls were there all noted it and laughed, I was very much embarrassed and ran away from there. I am still upset. I told this to my elder sis, her first response was also a laugh. She tried to convince me that its natural and can happen with any body, she told me that once this was happened to her female teacher also. But I am still feeling guilt. Please advice me.

Why are you feeling guilty?! It's natural! It happens to everyone!

X_Amanda_X

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i just had the worst break up ever my boyfriend of 1 month broke up with me today and i found out that he cheated on em. the worst part was he didnt have enough guts to tell me so he ha one of his friends do it. and i thought i loved him what should i do???

Just get over it. He obviously wasn't satisfyed with one girl so he had to go a cheat like a freaking jerk. Just move on and forget about him.

I hope this helped =]

X_Amanda_X

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HI AMANDA!!!!!!!!

It's Alli :]

I LOVE you, and your 'NEW' hair! :p

Heh Thanks! I love you too!!!

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Some of my friends are smoking (cigarettes). I'm really worried but I don't think they'll listen to me if I ask them to stop. Should I stop hanging out with them or what? I'm afraid of being pressured by them.

Even if you don't THINK they will listen to you, ask them to stop anyway. If they don't, the best thing would be to tell an adult, but remain anonymous. If they were really your friends, they would understand where you are coming from.

I hope this helped =]

X_Amanda_X

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me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 1/2 years now. he just recently went to college and im a high school senior. we see each other every weekend but for some reason i still can't be happy with our situation. he doesn't understand why i have to get upset. i trust him not to do anything stupid. i just dont understand why i cant be over this stage..its been about 3 months. any suggestions?

I think that you are worrying that he will meet someone in college. What I would do in your situation is just talk to him about it. There's really nothing else I can suggest.

I hope I helped at least a little bit =]

X_Amanda_X

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ok well muh ex bf juss broke up with me last night. we went out for 3 weeks but we been talkin since da first week of school. and we talked a lot PRETTY much every night n in school. after he broke up with me i cried for about 20 min or so but now i dont really care dat we're not together or do I? bcuz da nite he broke up with me he went out n he was talking to this girl but she thinks hes just cute thats all they know each other bout 5 yrs now. but im so jelous EVEN THOUGHT THEY R JUS FRIENDS. im reali upset dat me n him wont talk as much anymore. i have to see him at school and same lunch table AUGH! BUT EVEN though it seems i have a lot of feelings for him still BUT I DONT! so do u think im right for being jelous and what should i do if he stops talking to me as much?

To be honest, I think you should just get over him. If he was already hanging with another girl the night he broke up with you, he's definately not worth it. So just move on and just stop worrying about him.

Good Luck

I hope I helped =]

X_Amanda_X

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I have a question that may sound strange, but tis a genuine question. I live in the UK, and I know nobody who supports George Bush, or even has a good word to say about him. He is generally a figure of hate. But I don't want to be close-minded, I just want a reasonably intelligent answer from somebody as to why they voted for George Bush, because I cannot see any good points to the guy at all.
Thanks!

Ugh I can't stand Bush at all. He doesn't know how to run this country..he probably doesn't even know how to run a computer correctly.

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