Okay my last thing about me thing thing made me seem like a flaming homosexual.
Let me start over. Ha.
My name's Derrek.
I'm turning 16 on June 29, 2007. :]
Yay.
I'm gay; you homophobes can go drink bleach for all I care.
E-mail: tilltonitedouspart@yahoo.com
Gender: Male
Location: California
Age: 15
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ok so thanks, lets say a girl wanted to get you back. what would she have to say to make you feel bad for treating her so badly, and breaking up with her? like what would you wnat her to say? what words would you want her to say so that you will be able to forgive her. ok thnaks! (link)
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Babe, why would you want to get back with a guy that treated you like shit and broke up with you? I understand that you still like him but you have to move on and find someone else. I'm not saying it's easy but it's something that you have to do. My ex and I like never talk, and I'm still in love with him. He broke up with me, but we were kind of on and off... He's not interested but still checks in to see how I'm doing occasionally.. :/// I can't help but to love him but if I came back begging then I'd seem so pathetic and like .. I would loose my dignity, I guess. :]
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i'm 15 and have a boyfriend of a year and 2 months. i love my boyfriend but i also love it when other guys look at me. like, i have no intention of thinking of them in romantic ways, or even knowing the person, i just like being looked at. is that wrong? (link)
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NO. Not at all! Everyone loves a little attention, and not to get you jealous or anything but he probably thinks about other girls on the side, haha. Everyone has in a relationship! But yeah, you shouldn't worry about it!
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I'm dating a guy right now. he's really smart. i'm not just saying that because i'm dating him. he really is quite intelligent. he has a sore on the inside of his lip. he says it's herpes, but that oral herpes isn't contageous. that doesn't sound right to me. i always thought it was contageous. i looked at the sore and it looked nothing like herpes, at least not like the pictures i've seen in school. i don't know much about herpes, but i know i don't want to get it. i really don't know what to do. (link)
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It might be a kanker sore... And he's just like doing it to get a rise out of you, but yeah I agree with the other answer-er ? Hahahaha... Go get it checked out WITH him. :]
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Hi,im a 15 year old girl that thought she never wanted a serious relationship but is now kind of wanting one at the same time >.< Anyway, theres this guy i met through myspace.i played it safe of course,talked to him on aim and the phone and such then i met up with him (with a few of my friends,again playing it safe)and it turns out im starting to get really interested.The only problem is that he works 5 days a week(hes 17 by the way) and can hardly ever hang out and stuff.We still talk alot on aim but id rather be able to get to know him in person.He says he likes me but doesnt really act like it and im so confused i dont know what to do or think especially since i have really low sef esteem so im constantly in doubt ... =/ (link)
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So, I'm 15 too, and this almost 18 year old like me. He was so creepy, like you have no idea. I just don't understand why an older guy would date a younger girl. I mean this guy doesn't seem like the average creepy, perverted freak... But you have to watch out because older guys are usually smooth. Just be sure to tell him you're not ready for certain things [if you aren't]. And he's almost going to college too... So... Hahaa... I mean, just don't get too attatched. Try and hang out with him more though. Get to know him a lot. Make sure he's cool.... And stuff. I might be wrong, he might be a beautiful soul.
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me 16/f
him 16/f
ok so i have a guy friend and we're not best friends but i think he likes me.these are the things he does.
-hugs me randomly
-challenges me at sports
-pulled me onto his lap in a hot tub
-compliments me
-teases me a little
and when i flirt he flirts back but when we were talking in a small group of our friends he says he's enjoying the freedom of not being in a relationship. he's been in an on again off again relationship for a year.
so does he like me or am i just a summer flirt buddy? (link)
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It seems like he has a little thing for you but don't get too excited because guys are just like that. They'll completely flirt with you and lead you and then tell you that they're not interested. But this might not be the case! Maybe he is into you, but remember you might loose that friendship you two have going on. :] I think you should make a move and see if he goes for it.
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ohkay..so im not suppose to have a myspace, so i would ussually i just delete my history after i check mine. well now it wont delete. it deletes everything but advicenators and myspace. i would get in really big trouble if my parents found out. is there any way to delete all of the history?
..i usually go to tools..then internet options and delete my cookies, files, and history? (link)
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Oh my gosh. That always happens to me. It totally sucks. Well, I mean yeah, clear history and stuff. Try re-starting the computer and seeing if it's still there because it'll still be there until you re-start your computer. Umm. I hope that works ... :]
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Okay this guy from my old school starts talking to me on msn so i invited him to my bithday party he came we had a blast he started hanging with me even though he knew like alot of people there and starting flirting with me. He was really nice and he said i was the most prettiest girl he's ever met. But thenthe next day he starts texting me all of a sudden sayin hey supp and makeing conversation. So then i got intrested so i told him he said oh well i do want to be with you but we don't see eachother if we start to see eachother more and more then their should be a chance between you and me. But it summer and in one week he's leaving for vacation so how can i show him that we can work even if we don't live near eachother in 7 days? i mean ofcourse he'll want to spend time with me but he probabaly would rather spend time with his other friends for his last week here... and when he comes back thats going to be way too long and i reaally like him...
i can invite hime once out of that 7 days but i don't wanna seem desprate :( what should i do?
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Well, I mean you can wait until he comes back or you can just hang out like 2 days while he's here. If he wants to hang out more he'll tell you... I mean, if he's an outgoing type of guy. But yeahh. Just talk to him a lot. Kbyeee.
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ok so normally im good at knowing weather a guy likes someone or not but i have this friend. we're good friends, not best friends but i've been able to cry on his shoulder a few times. ok so all year he's been in a relationship so i never really looked at him as more than a friend because im not the type to steal a boyfriend. ok so me and a few of my friends were at his house the other night and we were in his hot tub and he put his shoulder around me. and at first its like oh ok w/e because he's just a friend but then he started pulling me closer and telling the other guys in the hot tub "now this is how you be romantic" and when he'd leave he'd say "dont miss me too much" and flirt with me and stuff but then he says that he's finally free from a relationship and loves being single so i dont know if he likes me or not, i like him a little but if he liked me then i would like to start a relationship. oh by the way he liked me back in 7th grade when we were 12. im 15 now and he's 16. oh by the way he's got a smokin body. lol so i dont know what to do (link)
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New answer:
Hahhaa
Okay, well I mean, I wouldn't want to be in a relationship after a long one. [if it was long] Give him a little time, go out with him. If he's a good guy, then you should so totally go out with him. :]
Simple:
If you want to just hook up with him, then go ahead.
Note that there are TONS of strings attached..
He might just like you for the way you look... Or something, maybe it has to do with you having a vagina.
But... I mean, he might just hook up with other girls too, you two aren't dating so it IS okay, after all. You might get hurt...
He's your friend, if you two get into a relationship or a friends with benefits... your friendship will never be the same. I know people say that all the time, but it is true. Last time, I liked two of my best guy friends, and everything just got weird between us. One of them is still a close friend, but the other is just like a whatever friend..
Hmmm.
I don't think you should. Honestly. You're cool. Kbye.
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16/f
i dont kno if im ready for the next step (fingering etc.) i kno im ready for him to touch me but i dont kno about me touching him
i feel like i could do it but then i feel like im not ready
i hav no clue what to do becaus i think it would feel good and make all the other stuf we do better but i seriously dont kno (link)
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It all depends on how long you've been seeing this guy. It's funny because I'm the opposite, I'm totally okay with touching guys but I don't like it when they touch me. I don't know. Hahaa. I get kind of self conscious.
Anyyywayyys:
If you haven't been seeing this guy for too long then maybe it wouldn't be a good idea to move too fast because it's complicated... I mean, you'll just want to go further. Like once you know what's out there, and you like it, you're going to want more and more.
I know. Hahaha.
But, if you two have been going out for a while (2+months) then, I think that it's okay... Just let him have his hands wander.
If he wants you to touch him just let him know you're not ready. He'll understand, I hope. :]
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17/f
my bf and i have done phone sex several times but i want to be better
what are some great things to say
like sometimes i dont know what to say and it gets kind of wierd
thankies (link)
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Give different examples.
a. Car?
b. Wall?
c. Shower?
d. Some body of water?
e. Elevator. Yum. Elevators are usually kinky. Haha.
You and I are standing in the elevator, waiting to be pleasured... You tense up once the elevator stops moving..
Haha, continue it if you want... I'm not in a mood for writing sexy things. Hahahaa
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I afraid of my boyfriends friends and he asked me if i wanted to go to a drive through with them and him. which makes me the only girl. and i said no thanks and he told me that we could make out the whole time. i trusted him. so i went and he went to get food and his friends started rapeing me and they told me if i screamed they would sufficate me so i didnt and i regret not screaming but i was so scared. my boyfriend was gone for like a half an hour which i thought was odd. and then they saw him coming so they got off me. i started crying and they made up an excuse why i was crying and he told them lets just go home. so the next day i told him and i couldnt stop crying he told me they didnt rape me and i was exagerating they were probaly just ticking me or osmething. i was going to tell my mom or someone but now im sure as hell nhot going to because if he doesnt believe me they wont either. im really scared and depressed and i cant stop crying what should i do? thanks. (link)
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I can't believe that! What a complete jerk. The first thing you should do is dump the boyfriend, if he doesn't believe you about a thing like this then ... omfg. that's just terrible. You need to go to someone. Your mom might get mad ... I don't know but she cares for your safety a lot more. You need to tell her so she can help you. You should not see this guy or his friends again. If they did it this time, how do you know they're not going to take advantage of you again?
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can your cherry pop if you do masturbation for the first time? and are you supposed to be sore? and for me i didn't have an orgasm. how long until you r not sore? and how long until you have an orgasm? just in general. because i know it is different for all girls. just an estimated time.
tank you
15/f (link)
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Yes, you can pop your cherry. You probably didn't get an orgasm because you were sticking your finger up yourself. That is not how you get an orgasm. I don't know if I should be writing the ways of getting an orgasm but, that isn't how. It's normal to be a little sore. Relax. It'll go away in no time
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ok so me and this girl were bffs last year we had this huge fight last summer about this guy who we were both in love with!
we hated each other for a long time but recently started hanging out again and became friends just like we were before! well i started hangin out with the guy we had fought over before and started to like him ALOT again. suddenly she likes him again too. i dont know what to do im trying to just not like him anymore cus i dont want to lose her as a friend but i cant let him go!
we are starting to fight over him alot now and i need help i cant lose my bff again but i cant let go of the guy!
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Well, I think you really have to talk to her about this. You need to tell her that you don't want to loose her as friend. This guy isn't so great. I mean, if either of you got with him it wouldn't last as long as a friendship. Trust me, I would know. This type of thing always seems to happen to me... If she doesn't like the fact that you like him and is so totes selfish and wants him then she obviously isn't as good as a friend you think she is. Sorry, my grammer's off. Yay for school. Okay anyways, yeahh... I hope I helped some :]]
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i asked this before, but only got one answer and still don't know what to do. sorry if it's long, but PLEASE help, i really need some advice. okay, so first of all, my sister is dating my best guy friend n yeah. so one day, i was talking to him, and his cousin saw my myspace and said i was hot. i told him not to get his hopes up becuz i look better on myspace. so then that night, after i took a shower, him n his cousin came over. his cousin (andrew) then invited us to a party that saturday. we all went. that night we were all drunk n then i made out with andrew. the next weekend, we hung out at andrew's house again. when he was about to leave, we were just talking and kinda fast n quietly i think he said "you wanna be my girl" but im not sure. after that he said "wanna marry me" n that i hurd for sure. i started laughing. and i was like maybe. and he said yes no maybe sometimes? n i was like sometimes. n hes all okay. a week later, they all went to a kickback with me and my sister. (alan, my best friend, n other cousins n frends) so then we were talkin. (me n andrew) n he said for me to go on a walk with him. we went and ended up making out again. that night i slept over at his house, and he was telling me if theres any guys at school trying to get at me just be like na, i got a real nigga in my life. and i just laughed. and we made out again, but we didnt wanna get in trouble, so he slept on the floor. a couple of days ago, we went to another party and we all got drunk again. he hugged me a lot. n then he was like okay. im gon hook you up with some guy. n then beat him up. and he started laughing. but that whole night, he was trying to hook people up at the party. im guessing cuz he was drunk. i ono. also, at the party, when he was trying to hook people up, this one girl, his "sister" (not by blood, the just say it) was trying to hook us up. she was like so lemme tell you about my brother! and he kept cutting her off and telling her to shut up. anyways. what do you think this means? do you think he really likes me or is just messing with me? (link)
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I think he's into you, I mean if I were to say that to someone I was into and do those things, and have a pretty nice bond... I guess I'd like that person. Try and get to know him a little more before you fall for him. You don't know what this guy is all about just yet. :] I hope I was of some help :]]
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