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need help!
ok so me and this girl were bffs last year we had this huge fight last summer about this guy who we were both in love with!
we hated each other for a long time but recently started hanging out again and became friends just like we were before! well i started hangin out with the guy we had fought over before and started to like him ALOT again. suddenly she likes him again too. i dont know what to do im trying to just not like him anymore cus i dont want to lose her as a friend but i cant let him go!
we are starting to fight over him alot now and i need help i cant lose my bff again but i cant let go of the guy!
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oh geeze, this always happens. lol.
um, yeah. talk to your friend about it. literally sit her DOWN and tell her what's going on. because i'm sure your friendship with her is more important than ANY guy. :) im sure. get eachothers feelings on the situation. & get the guys feelings on the situation too. like, does he like you? or does he like her? etc. so that one of you can back off if he likes the other or something.
a guy isn't worth ruining a friendship.
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Well, I think you really have to talk to her about this. You need to tell her that you don't want to loose her as friend. This guy isn't so great. I mean, if either of you got with him it wouldn't last as long as a friendship. Trust me, I would know. This type of thing always seems to happen to me... If she doesn't like the fact that you like him and is so totes selfish and wants him then she obviously isn't as good as a friend you think she is. Sorry, my grammer's off. Yay for school. Okay anyways, yeahh... I hope I helped some :]]
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It sounds like a situation where you need to decide what you really want to keep and what you can let go.
"Guys come and go, but friends are forever"
If you really can't let go of him then just try not to talk about him infront of her, or if she brings him up then just let her talk and stay out of it cause thats how fights start.
Eventually those feelings will fade if nothing happenes between you and him.
Good luck. Its a tough situation
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Oh highschool, what you do to young girl's hearts.
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