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Hiya, my name is Diane I'm 13. I really like this guy, lets call him Tom. Tom and I used to hangout every Friday and I mean we've kissed and stuff during spin the bottle but it has never ment anything. In november i was at my friend Joe's party. Joe was with his girlfriend, Joe's other friend John was with his girlfriend and I was just with Tom like walking around this park we went to. Since we were alone we talked alot and he put his arm around me for a good 10 minuets...until I kindof push him off. Anyway since then we've been really close friends. We flirt all the time even when his girlfriend walks by (one girl dumped him cause of that). And he tells people he wants to hangout with me, but I want him to make a move already I mean i'm probably sending mixed signals or something but how do I get him to make a move? (link)
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i think that you should make the first move. he might not feel that you want to make a move but it seems like he likes you so he probably DOES want to do something. either that or he's waiting for the perfect time.. valentines day is coming up, ya know!
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okay well i have an ipod nano and i was putting songs on it and when i disconnected it the screen froze and now my nano is frozen whith the screen that has a big check mark and says okay to disconnect. i tryed resetting it like it says on the web site but it didnt work.. is there any way i can fix it ( i didnt drop it, and the battery is full, ive only had it for like 3 weeks) (link)
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you should bring it to the apple store and see if they know what to do. i have a video so im not too familiar with the nano ...but people seem to be having ALOT of problems with them around where i live.
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I have this really strange thing happening to me. Well I keep running into my ex bf. First walking to the grocery store, then at elections Canada on election day, and then today at Rodgers Video. I havent seen him in a long time, but then just in the last week I've run into him 3 times. The thing is that he used to be really rude to me, and either ignore me or say something sarcastic to me. I think this is because I dumped him and he never got over it. But something in his attitude towards me has changed. Now he says "Hi, How are you doing, I havent seen you in a long time"! He also smiles, and is very friendly. I am worried he has an alterier motive. When we were dating he was unemployed and so was I. Well I have a really good job now, and I heard he is still unemployed. I am worried he is trying to get me back because he told me when we were dating that he didnt want to work, but wanted a gf to support him. Should I be cautious? (link)
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i would be cautious but still take into consideration that people can change. talk to him and be nice back, get to know him again but keep your money to yourself and watch your back.
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okay well i am on a diet and ive only been drinking water and 2% milk but are there any other drinks out there that are okay for me to drink besides like diet pop (under 80 calories and 10g of sugar per 8 oz.)
and i dont like orange juice (i think that fits under my thing) (link)
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first, ditch the 2%. thats the worst milk you could be drinking. try drinking 1% or skim. lots and lots of water helps you shed pounds. its a weight watchers secret. =P if you want something with flavor get low calorie flavored water. i know it stinks, but water is your best choice if you really want to lose weight
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Ok, so i like this guy and i went out w/ him last year and broke up w/ him cuz i didn't feel n e "chemistry" or w.e and now this year he is soooo totally cute and i reely like him, but heres the catch, he has a gf and he said they prolly wont b breaking up soon...and i had my friend tell him i liked him and he said he liked me and i was talking to him online and hes sooo sweet and nice and he told me he thought i was cute, but he has a gf...and life's not fair! i really wanna go out with him...so wat do i do? hes the only guy i like!! (link)
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if i were you i would wait for a little. if he likes you and thinks your cute then you two definitely have some chemistry. if he likes another person who isnt his girlfriend then it means that he can't like her THAT much and you will probably have your chance soon.
you just have to wait it out! :P
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ok whats like really in on fasion but not REALLY expensive?.. (link)
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1. cute ribbon in your hair(not like holding up a pony tail but like a head band almost)
2. boots! ugz, fuzzy boots. they're madd cute
3. pearls. the bigger the better. and the cuter!
4. polos with sweatpants. but don't put a cami under it, nobody does it anymore. unless your polo is really low cut then wear a cute sequined cami or something
5. metalic. anything shiny is definitely in.
-belts,purses,earings,necklaces,shoes
(basically anything sparkly/shiny/eye catching)
6. those really long necklaces that you double up and have part really long and the other fairly short. ADORABLE!
7. a cute, tight fitting tee is ALWAYS cute, no matter what and you can wear it with anything.
8. okay, the last thing is those boots that i said up at the top, with a cute denim mini skirt. its a winter fashion and you can wear skin colored stockings to stay warm while looking cute.
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Love will remain a mystery
But give me your hand and you will see
Your heart is keeping time with me
i know this is from a song but what does the last line mean? (link)
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the last line means that your hearts are beating together as one. its kind of like the expression "when two become one"
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How can i remember to take my medicine every night?!
I have to take it every 12 hours and i take it around 7 am before school so i guess i'd have to take it around 7 pm nightly. What can I do to help me remember to take it at night? I have a fine time remembering to take it with my other med. in the morning. Help me!
Thanks!
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get bright colored post its and write PILL over them and stick them around the house in rooms you are usually in during the night. i always forget to take my medicine at night when im sick and stuff. any eyecatching reminders always help me.
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I wake up in the middle of the night or around like 3 am usually and get up and just drink so much. Like this morning, for instance, I remember getting up and drinking two cans of coke a cola and then a glass of chocolate milk and then just going right back to sleep. I usually do this very fastly. It seems like i cant control it, i just get up and do it without thinking. But i dont even wake up when i need to use the potty!!
Is this/Am I Normal?
What should I Do?
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try drinking more healthy drinks during the day. keep a bottle of water with you all the time. also, don't eat salty foods or drink milk before bed either. it makes you thirsty.
i usually drink alot at night too and so do my friends though so it's normal.
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Right, i have a best mate called rowan (he's a guy im a girl but im called roHan lol) im 14 he's 14 and we'v been best mates kinda on an off for about 3 years, a month ago our friend nikki had a party and we were laying down and just watching a movie when we started kinda flirting and touching each other up then it prgressed and he fingered me and i gave him a handjob nobody saw us though, Since then we'v had a thing going in secret, we'l go up an alley for a *talk* after school, and stuff will happen, iv gievn him head twice and we'v talked online about fucking and stuff iv had 1 bf during this thing and he's had 2 gfs, its stopped then, thing is i dont actually have a crush on him and he doesnt have one on me, im just a lil confused an all, should i keep it going with him? or should i end it?
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truthfully, i think you should slowly end it. save your lovin for someone who's lovin you back. even if you don't like each other, unless he does and he just isnt telling you. but i think you should slowly end your affair before people start finding out because then you'll really be in trouble.
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hm ok,im gonna change the names around for reasons.
so there this kid named... *dj for instance and he likes me. but he also has a girlfriend named *lisa. we were at the library and *dj had me sit on his lap and he put his hands down this hole near the top of my jeans cuz they were hollister ones and then me and *dj talk online and he mails me on myspace calling me sexy well his girlfrined *lisa found out and i guess she really likes him and doesnt want him to break up with her.. and i was like do you like me? and hes like ya but i dont no what do to about *lisa. and i was like well its your choice, and *dj wants me to call him tonight.. so we can "talk" should i like him and wait for him to dump brittany or move on? he always tells me he loves me, and when i call hes on the phone with *lisa but he hangs up with her and talks to me........ i need help. i rate gooddd! (link)
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if you really like him then dont try to change how you feel. it will make things even more complicated. you should call him and talk to him and see whats going on. dont be afraid to ask about things you want to know. hinting wont make him tell you. with guys you have to be straight forward. you should wait a little for him to dump *lisa but if he says he will and doesnt for a while try your best to move on. from the information you've given, i think he likes you. if he would rather talk to you than his girlfriend then he most likely likes you or feels more comfortable talking to you. which is REALLY good if you like him :)
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im the shortest kid in my class and i like the tallest boy. Everybody know i like him and are always saying stuff like "yeah _ go get your girl" but im always like "shut up" and he acts like he doesnt here. The other day i was asleep in class and when i got up to do my work i looked up to glanced at him and he was looking right at me smilling and well im very say and turnd around really quick and it looked like he got mad or somthing cause he moved his seet and like facing his back at me and now hes wird all my friends say i should talk to him about that but i dont want to look silly talking about that and asking him if hes mad at me how can i talk to him about that with out starting with what happend so i wont look silly or what can i do?????????? (link)
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don't bring up what happend, let him do the talking. just go up to him and be like "are you mad at me?" and if he asks why just tell him that it seems like he is and you dont want him mad at you. or something like that. he will tell you wether or not he's mad at you and then if he is he will probably tell you if you play dumb or just make sure he knows that you dont have a clue.
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This is probably going to sound pretty fucking wierd, but it bothers me.
Ok, Im dating this girl. Shes agnostic/athiest, Im christian, formerly catholic non denominational. Up to this point, with the exception of discussion, Ive not really had any issues with religions shit in our relationship. It doesnt bother me that shes agnostic, it hasnt bothered her that Im christian.
So, today we were talking, and I told her I was going to become a reverend in the universal life church. For those of you who dont know, its an online website where you can actually get legally ordained and become a reverend in the eyes of the law. I find this fucking hilarious, and have wanted to for a while, but never got around to it.
She reacted badly. First, she joked that she didnt want to be involved with a reverend. Then she got serious and basically made it clear that it would bother her for me to become a reverend while I was dating her (expressed so that it was clear she didnt want me to do it)
Then she tells me its "disrespectful towards my religion"
This is coming from a girl who Ive watched the jesus episodes of southpark with. Whom I have made catholic joke after catholic joke (Im entitled, I was raised in it) with and laughed with her. Whom I have had frank discussions about the real failings of certain christian sects.
And now this.
Needless to say, I reacted badly. I was, and am pissed at her, for reasons I cant really say. Given that she doesnt even have a religion (because atheism and agnosticism are no more religions than bald is a hair color) I dont see where she gets off getting on me for being "disrespecful" towards mine or having an issue with it when its not like...
Anyway. Enough impassioned speeches, my question to the masses, is what do you think. Am I out of line? Is she? Because Im going to do this, and shes not going to like it. And I dont like feeling guilty for doing things I know arent wrong. (link)
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omgg i want to do that! hahaha. thats histerical! whats the site or whatever?
i think that she'll probably get mad at you. but if its something you have your heart set on then you should do what you feel is right. if you want to be able to say that you've married people then you should tell your gf that you really want this title of reverend.
i hope i helped
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I work with an elderly lady who can't seem to mind her own business. I'm the office manager and so she blames me for all her failings, like not getting raises, not being allowed to check voicemail, etc. She won't be honest with me about the way she feels yet she has no problem running her mouth about me and everyone else to anyone willing to listen. We have a very small office, there is only 5 of us here. So of course everyone knows what she says b/c that's how gossip is. Anyway, she's making my work difficult and making up lies to the boss and I want it stopped. How can I do this without stooping to her level? (link)
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find a time when you can talk to your boss alone and tell them what you need. they won't want to lose you if you are a good worker and your boss can straighten out everything that is going on. plus, since its not you actually talking to the woman then she might be more open with her boss, plus the fact that she won't want to lose her job as well.
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ok so heres the deal.
i have been trying to set up my friends kiwi and josh for like a month...and i havnt seen my best friend houston in like 9 months... so this weekend houston asked me to go bowling with him and some friends and was like this is the only time ill be able to see you until october so i HAVE to go...so thats saturday night. and friday i promised my friend kiwi that she could spend the night with me... and that saturday during the day that me and my bf would double with her and josh. so i went to tell my bf the plans... and he told me that he wanted me to double with his mom and one of her friends thats going out of town for awhile. so now i have to choose between my best friends and my boyfriends mom! he was like no go hangout with that guy... your w/e he is... he gets so jealous and i want him to be there when i hang with him so he can see that houston is just my best friend... and i have to hang with kiwi but i really need to do that thing with his mom too. please help me! (link)
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ask your boyfriend to come hang out with houston. but tell him that you wish you could hang out with your mom but you had already made plans with houston. explain to him that you never ever get to seem him and you two are really good friends. let him know he has nothing to worry about and tell him that you would never leave him for houston.
hope i helped:)
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There is this guy (let's call him Bob) and he's really really cute. I just met Bob a few months ago but he's very sweet and whenever I'm with him I get goosebumps and butterflies in my stomach (majorly) I don't know if I should go up to him and tell Bob I really like him or not. And he also dated one of my friends but they broke up, and I don't want her to be mad at me if I date him. What should I do? (link)
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talk it over with your friend before you do anything. find out how she feels about him and somehow let her know that you like him. if shes a true friend she'll understand. then you should hang out with bob and when the time is right be like, "yeah.. i like you" or something like that but make it sweet and at the right time. its surprising but guys like that kind of stuff too!
hope i helped:)
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My best friends dad emailed the school hers, mine, and our friends websites to our school! My website only had cussing so it wasn't that bad. Their websites had threatning on it and they got taken out of school today by the Cops. But do you think he had the right to invade my privacy? Also my mom is disconnecting my internet (so she says), getting me mental help (for no reason) and she lets on like she is going to send me to a christan school!! So my teacher fowarded our websites ALL over school! To every teacher! Did she have a right to do that!? I need serious advice! (link)
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technically, it isnt private since its online. but you should quickly get rid of your site so more people dont see it. appologize, make up stories.. anything to get yourself out of it. your best friends dad had no right sending it to the school . it was none of their business. but since it is now, the best way to handle it is to explain . its hard to give good advice when im not positive of the information you had on your site. because if it was depressive stuff like "i hate my life" then you probably cant get out of the mental help thing or if its because you say stuff you've done with guys or something then its going to be hard to get out of the whole private school thing. if you could give more information i might be able to help better :)
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Dear Advicenators-
I just got a 5th generation 30gb ipod. I got it Sunday, yes Yesterday and I dropped it in my sink today! After that it worked for less than 5 minutes, then had a low battery sign, and completley shut off.. now I have a symbol that pops up wiht a sad face on it, and an ecalimation point. What does this mean and how do I get my iPod to start wokring again?!? (link)
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it means its broken. my friend accidently had hers go through the wash. she brought it to the apple store and they looked at it and it had only ruined the battery so she played it off like she had gotten a false battery. :x
its worth a try?
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You know when people write PS: on messages or notes? Well what does PS stand for and what's it for? Thank you. (link)
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it stands for post script. it means that there is additional information that the person forgot to write on the message or note. either that or they don't want you to forget because its important so they write it away from the rest of the note.
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hi i want shoes dress and casual type i guess. black or any color that have a low heel they are closed in front and are usually a leathery type of matieral they are the type of shoes you picture top womean firm owners to be wearing...
help if you can give me like websites or stores or even the brand of your if you don;t remember from where you got them .... thanxx a bunch
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payless, kohls, bon ton, boscovs.. they all have really cute ones and they aren't expensive. if your looking for something a bit more pricey try little boutiques in higher class malls. they always have those kinds of shoes
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