Question Posted Wednesday January 25 2006, 6:05 pm
hm ok,im gonna change the names around for reasons.
so there this kid named... *dj for instance and he likes me. but he also has a girlfriend named *lisa. we were at the library and *dj had me sit on his lap and he put his hands down this hole near the top of my jeans cuz they were hollister ones and then me and *dj talk online and he mails me on myspace calling me sexy well his girlfrined *lisa found out and i guess she really likes him and doesnt want him to break up with her.. and i was like do you like me? and hes like ya but i dont no what do to about *lisa. and i was like well its your choice, and *dj wants me to call him tonight.. so we can "talk" should i like him and wait for him to dump brittany or move on? he always tells me he loves me, and when i call hes on the phone with *lisa but he hangs up with her and talks to me........ i need help. i rate gooddd!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? TheLoveDoctor answered Wednesday January 25 2006, 7:15 pm: if you really like him then dont try to change how you feel. it will make things even more complicated. you should call him and talk to him and see whats going on. dont be afraid to ask about things you want to know. hinting wont make him tell you. with guys you have to be straight forward. you should wait a little for him to dump *lisa but if he says he will and doesnt for a while try your best to move on. from the information you've given, i think he likes you. if he would rather talk to you than his girlfriend then he most likely likes you or feels more comfortable talking to you. which is REALLY good if you like him :) [ TheLoveDoctor's advice column | Ask TheLoveDoctor A Question ]
Angie1626 answered Wednesday January 25 2006, 7:11 pm: well first of all you said brittany 1 time...whoops! i think you meant *Lisa :). but neways he could rly like you or he could be lying and do what he did to lisa to you. if he dumps her soon i think you should go out. but if he continues to say he likes you when hes still dating her then move on. [ Angie1626's advice column | Ask Angie1626 A Question ]
Krupple answered Wednesday January 25 2006, 6:39 pm: No no no no no no no no. If he cheated on Lisa and is continuing to tell you that he loves you, he'll do the same thing to you.
You've gotta trust me on this. Once a cheater, always a cheater. He'll cheat on you and it will hurt. [ Krupple's advice column | Ask Krupple A Question ]
mesachick51 answered Wednesday January 25 2006, 6:38 pm: Dear complicated,
If this guy really likes you and you really like him I say go for it. He seems like a really nice guy. It's not your fault if he likes you and is over his girlfriend people do move on. So call him and tell him you like him to. Just remember if he dumps his girlfriend for you that it's not your fault you can't help that he likes you and you can't help that you like him. I hope this helped let me know how things go. ~MESACHICK51~ [ mesachick51's advice column | Ask mesachick51 A Question ]
xomegaroni answered Wednesday January 25 2006, 6:37 pm: is brittany lisa?? er does he like two girls?? anyways, i think you should wait. it doesn't cause so much drama & you probably do want to date him but its all up to his decision. ask him if he really wants to be with you er not. if he's not sure then move on & try to meet new people. if he likes you he'll come around.
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