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Hi My name is Tara (taaaar-ahh) im 15 years old. Ill be 16 in July. Im from South Carolina. I have 2 brothers and 2 sisters.I love cheerleading,track&feild, skiing and dancing! I love my 4 best friends Tatz,Rachel,&Haley My boyfriend ALEX is amazing i love him more than anything in the world. Im full British. I love making people laugh :D Im skinny and i love it. Abercrombie&Fitch is my closet. My Cell Phone,Ipod,DDR,Lip-Gloss,and Chicken Wings are all amazing ahah. I like giving out advice and I will be HONEST about it so dont get mad about anything. Usually im nice though. No! I wont give out my screename or my myspace. Dont ask thanks. Well thats me in a nutshell :)

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hey, well right now i dress sorta like everyone else in the world. hollister, ecko, abercrombie, you know those famous brands. i would like to start dressing differently. like leggings, ballet flats, chunky necklaces, and other trendy items. im afraid of the reaction my friends will have. i know i should just be myself and not care what others think. its hard tho.

Well if thats really how YOU want to dress then go for it..your friends are not your friends because of what you wear. Ofcourse they'll have opinions but who cares? If you like it then wear it. I love wearing all those things and my friends are usually fine with it. Sometimes i get "why would you wear that" "thats not in stlye" and im like well i like it lol! Be Yourself!!

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Im getting a hair cut tomorrow and I want to look really different. This is my hair right now:


http://i10.tinypic.com/49b0t28.jpg


& I want to know any ideas you guys have for styles that would be good. I would love pictures, too if you can provide them. Celebrities or whatnot. :] Also, that picture was taken a few months ago so my hair is longer + the bangs are down to like my shoulder (I always wear them up.) I dont want my hair short, please!

You should get it cut to like a little past your shoulders. And get side bangs on one side of your face. And you could get it layered it would look really cute! Like this
http://www.weddinghairstyles.org/29.jpg
http://www.stylewigs.com/products/new/fy-4-seasons_6_0
http://z.about.com/d/beauty/1/0/C/E/Oval2.JPG
http://www.wilshirewigs.com/store/graphics/wigsjpegs/detail/wigpro/wu4.jpg
http://www.myjellybean.com/life/round3.gif
Good Luck!!

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What's a GOOD and EASY way to make a lot of money, fast? [BESIDES babysitting & chores.]

Any help is very much appreciated,
Mucho thanks in advance =)

You could..
*Get an easy job at somewhere you like
*Sell anything you dont want on ebay or in the newspaper
*Garage Sale
*Make things like crafts/baking and sell them :)
Hope i helped && good luck

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how much is it to go to a tanning bed. not the best one or the worst one, an average place.

and i heard they are very unsafe. if i do it 3 or 4 times will i die?

Usually you have to pay in sessions like it would be 15$ for a month and you could go unlimited. You wont die..the worst that can probaley happen is skin cancer. And dont watch final destination 3 or you really wont want to go in one but that will probaley never happen :) Just be safe dont do it too much.

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What is your opinion on black hair?do you think it ia boring and ugly?

No way!! But it also depends on your face :)

If you have black hair, with blue/green eyes your pretty much gorgeous with a nice tan/medium skin tone!

If you have black hair with brown eyes and a nice medium skin tone your still not boring.

But some people when they have blackish hair their REALLY white and that can make them look completely washed out. But thats what makes you unique :)

Hope i helped.

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I just recieved a giftcard from my friend from hollywoodtans. It's a giftcard for the 56HT tanning booth for 5 sessions. I already bought eye protective wear, but i'm confused about the lotion? Do i need to buy lotion when I'm going to tan there, if so, what do you suggest? Also, will they let me go 5 days straight. Like If i want to use up all my tanning sessions during christmas break? Thanks for the advice!

You dont always have to use the lotion but you can if you want. I personally do for better results. You should try South Beach Aruba Red Hot Indoor Tanning Lotion. Or you can find cheap other kidns at any drug stores. Yes you can go 5 days strait as long as their open :)

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Ok..I'm a redhead 15/F and i really like this guy. Well he seemed to be diggen me or whatever soo one night i texted to see if he wanted to do something tom. He texted me back and said he is not attracted to redheads and that if i like him more than that than its not gonna work because he doesnt like me. I was heart broken. I mean red hair is kind of rare and i mean im not ugly at all..and i dont have the pale skin like one either. I look a little different but still i have red hair. My question is..in your opinion is red hair ugly and why dont guys like red hair?

Red Heads are the most unique women in the world!! :) That guy is a jerk. Most guys will say they dont like red heads because they think of the freckled,glasses,pale-white,long gross red haried girls. But i dont think your that at all and yeah some guys only like women with red hair. I think red hair is beautiful and you should love it too because you are unique. See when your Blonde or Brunette their are far more girls that look like you which is really annoying! YOUR GORGEOUS in your own way :) MERRY CHRISTMAS!

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15/f. what is some makeup that i could apply that would make my eyes appear wider?? like what shades of eyeliner and where to apply it, or eyeshadow and mascara even. and if it helps i have blue eyes and dirty blonde hair.

thanks!

Since your all light colors (light eyes,light hair) You cant wear too dark colors...

If your eyelashes are NOT black do not wear black mascara or black eyeliner but if they are close to black then you can.
So get a dark/brown mascara and eyeliner! I like Maybeline,Sephora eyeliner.For Mascara Loreal Volumize.

For eye shadow u should get light colors like pinks,purples,yellows,neautral colors. Even reds would go great. But dont wear so much u look like a clown :)

Usually when you wear eyeliner it deffinitly brings out your eyes and it shoudl make them seem wider! You put eyeliner on the lid of your eye you have to use two hands. You could also try the top too that might help :) Hope i helped.

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Is it possible to get pregnant when giving someone a blow job. i know you can get stds, but about pregnancy?

I'm not saying that I give them to people. I'm just curious.

NO its not!! the PENIS has to go inside the VAGINA not the mouth and the penis..that doesnt do anything. You cant get pregnant!! But your right you can get STDS

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Hi, i am 14 and my boyfriend and i have een thinking about having sex for the 1st time. i really want to becasue i have done shit him, and we tink that it would be fun to have sex, should we or should we not?

You are young but your not real young. If you think you want your first time to be with him and think it will go great then go ahead. I personally would wait a while..But if you do end up doing it...do it SAFE :)

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i had sex for the first time today
it was hard for him to get it in for a while cause im pretty tight i guess
he got it in and it was okay
but we didnt do it for long

after i realised i bled all over my bed
more then i thought i would
it was horrible
but i covered it up well!


is this normal?
its like quite a few hours later and im still bleeding a little bit
is this okay?!?!?!!

Yea ofcourse it is, since it was your first time. If it gets worst just talk to someone if you think you need to :)

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I've got flu, which is really annoying cos we just broke up from school and now I'm ill. It's christmas in 4 days and before that I wanna do stuff. I wanna go out with my friends and have a good time, y'know? I've got a really bad headache, sore throat, cold, cough, tummy ache and I've got no energy.
Do you know anything I can do to get better as quickly as possible? I really don't want to be ill for christmas.

If your not puking or have a temperature you are technically not "sick". But if your tired and have a bad headache then yeah that always stinks. But Hot Chicken Soup is the best thing always when your sick, A nice hot bubble bath will help too! For your sore throat eat pretzels, and gurgle salt water it really helps! And take cough drops for your cough. Just rest for tommarow mostly and take it easy don't do anything major like go out somewhere. By saturday you should be okay unless you get more of it. Your lucky your not throwing up yet and hopefully you wont. I hope you feel better

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to stay in shape or burn fat, should you run every day or every other day?? or should you group days like 2 days, skip a day, run 2 days, etc.

thanks!!

Well i am a runner so i think this is a good question to answer :)
You should run everyday pretty much if you skip it wont feel right and you will hurt like every other day. But one day you can skip is Sunday! You'll burn the most fat running everyday at a good pace.

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okay well my friend is 12 andshe just start4ed going out with this kid whos 16 he turns 17 in junee... is there something wrong with that?? or is that allright?

Yeah it is..thats like rape haha. So your saying a 6th grader is going out with a juinor? WOW tell that juinor to stay away from your friend he could get her into alot of trouble. Shes way too young for someone that old. Sorry if your a good friend then u know whats best!

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my best friend (alexa) repeats everything i say! it gets so annoying. like one time i said to this girl (alexa was there too), "yeah they were aiming the balls at us not the goal." and then alexa says "yeah they were aiming the balls at us not the goal." the exact same thing. like last night i was like to this kid "i would date you." and then she says "I would date you." she does it al the time and the worst thing is she acts like she thought of it herself! what should i do? talk to her? what should i say?

My friend does the SAME thing its soo annoying.
Here are some things you could to
*Give her the dirtiest look ever the next time she does this
*Tell her that it annoys you but be nice
*The next time she does this walk away and ignore her
No one likes a copycat especaially these types if she doesnt understand then she is not a real friend.

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I'm a cusp child, born on January 19th, so its kind of hard to find out about my signs like.. together, since usually its just seperate. I'm born in January, but am like on the last day of Capricorn, so I could also be considered part of Aquarius too. I know that zodiac stuff shouldnt really be like taken too seriously, but its kinda fun to read about things and see if they're similar to you or not. anyways, what would my personality be like? and who would i be compatitible with?

also.. many sites show capricorns as like boring and strict and junk. but im so not like that! okay maybe i dont open up to everyone, thats just if i dont really know you, but if someone opens up to me, i'm like an open book! i like to have fun, be adventurous, and would rather play than work, though I like my work to be like.. perfect, lol. well, i guess im pretty hardworking too. this is kinda why I need the zodiac info for the cusp thingie!

-thanks

Im totally in the zodiac thing too.

Capricorns are very different people.They are probaley the bully's at school or the obnoxious ones. But ofcourse they can also be very nice.

Aquarius people are very fun! They love making jokes and having fun. But they are very sensitive, honest and independent.

You are consideres a capricorn on most sites but hey if your more like an aquarius then you are an aquarius!!

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ok so for volleyball whenever we have games each girl on the team makes a poster for antoher girl to hang on their locker on the day of games. but i really am running out of ideas and i just dont know what to do anymore.

the girl im making it for is number 1 and she is a setter. any good ideas?

Our school does the same thing!!
But you could put a HUGE #1 In the middle and like write her last or first name like weaving in,out of the big #1 And then like write sayings about her on the sides about her or that shes a setter. Then put stars all around them!! Good Luck

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I was on Abercrombie's website and I was looking at their jeans and mostly all of them had sizes "11R" "11S" "11L". What do the letters at the end of each size mean?

R - Regular
S - Short
L - Long
The pants height if your short you get S and if your tall like me you get L! and if your lucky and your average height u get R!

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15/f
so I have been shaving my "south pole" area for a while but lately when I do it, it hurts during the actual proccess. Now I dont know if I am doing it right so if anyone has any tips that would really be appreciated!

Yeah u have to be really careful with this situation. But the best thing to probaley do which really stinks is just to wax (yourself). I personally shave because i bet waxing hurts. Dont use nair/or hairremoval stuff its dangerous down there. Maybe you could use a little shaving creme and just try to do it gently! Hope i helped

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can some one help me figure out what matches with these flats? http://wetseal.com/productdetail.asp?mi=1700&size=&style=37371852&color=290&token=


there so hard to match,please no leapord print on the shirt/pants! any ideas? thankyou!!

Yes their are but their rly cute i want them too!
You should get a plain beige/light brown shirt nothing on it though. And you should wear jeans with them too. Jeans will give them a nice fashionable look. Dark jeans i think would be best. Dont wear a leopard shirt though that will look to matchy. And dont wear any bright colored shirts either it will look weird. The headband idea is cute to or earings/bracelts. Good luck

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