Hey!! My name is Brandy and i am 17 years old and a junior in high school! I thought that something like this would be a swell way to spend my time lol and since i have so much drama going on in my life .. why not help everyone else out with theirs? :)
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I been having a lot of problems latley!!!! well i've been cutting because well my best friend started going out with the guy i relle relle loved, even though she loves him to i didn't want her to go out with him but she did and i'm happy for her and all but i wish i was his girlfriend instead and this boy he is our relle good friend we can depend our lives on him! i luv him and he luvs me just he only wants me as a friond so i've been cutting but the thing is my best friend found out and she didn't tell any1 but i thought that the boy relle should know because he's a big partr of this and now they kno and i feel so ashamed that i cut i want to stop causei don't want them unhapy and i don't want any1 to find out but i rele do want to keep doing it cause it helps me!!!!!
Thanx,
~lost lover~ (link)
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Lost Lover.. I use to cut to and as much as you do not want anyone to know you need to tell someone and get help, if not one day you will end up doing something that will hurt everyone and i know that your friend and ex boyfriend do not want that. Please get help or tell your school consular or something, if you and this boy did not work out then it was not meant to be .. all good things happen to people who wait and someday you will find a wonderful boyfriend that will treat you like you deserve to be treated Let me know how everything goes.. good luck!
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ok so my bf and i have been dating for a little over two years now, and i always have trouble thinking of things to get him for his birthday/x-mas. his birthday is new years eve, so i need two things to get him. he's not the typical guy, like sweaters and cologne are not the type of things that he would like. i got him a wallet for graduation, picture frame last year, so none of that would work, and he already has a really nice watch. any, ANY ideas would be GREATLY appreciated...thanks a lot...i'll rate high!! (link)
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If you have been together for two years im sure that you have pictures of the two of you so something sentimental would be to make him a scrap book of the two years that you have been together of stuff that you guys have done together like school dances movies stubs and what not. I think it would be really cute!! My friend made one for her boyfriend and he really liked it. So whenever they miss you alls they have to do is look at the scrap book and remember all the good times you have had together.
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I feel like such an idiot asking this, but how do you make out? I need help!! I'll rate you no matter what. PLEASE HELP ME!! (link)
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Just go with the flow and let the guy do all the work .. kissing comes naturally just dont use your teeth and everything will be fine. Just follow the guys lead lol :)
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1) what is the difference between making out and kissing i thought that making out is just when you do it for a long time but im not sure
2) what does bi mean (link)
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Kissing is just kissing a guy on the lips and what not. Making out is usually for a longer amount of tiem with tounge and maybe there is some other activities involved. Bi is a short word for bisexual which means you like boys and girls..
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sorry its so long.. Well friday i was wit my boyfriend.. well its the first time we did anything.. well his cousin knos bout it which dont bother me.. well my boyfriends cousin told one my friends.. well the guy his cousin told is somebody to chill wit but not somebody to tell that kinda stuff to cause he'll tell everybody.. he's done it before.. so should i let it go and forget it or is there something i can do.. before it gets to everybody.? please help cause i dont wanna be made out to be a hoe or something.. i rather our business stay between us..Thanks alot LaDessa.. (link)
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LaDessa, You need to talk to your boyfriend about this. If you do not want people to know what goes on between you two then he should respect your decision and not tell anyone. But also dont care what other people think of you, if this is the first time that you did something with him then you are not a slut and if people think you are they dont know what a slut is. Ask your boyfriend to talk to the person who is not trusted and haev him ask not to tell anyone. Im sure he will understand. :)
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i was talking with mii boyfriend tonight, and we were talking about having sex for the first time. he knows i'm afraid of the consequence, but i want to do it ! he suggested pulling out (if u kno what that means).. is that safe or not? is there chances of me getting pregnant? **ii rate high for good answers** (link)
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There is a good chance that you can get pregnate from him JUST pulling out. Every girl is scared to get pregnant but there are a lot of ways to avoid it. Def. make sure that you use a condom even if he does not want to.. if he likes you that much he will understand that you are scared of the consequence. And have him pull out anyways just to be sure. You also could always go on birth control and if you dont want your parents to know you can go to planned parenthood, they give free birth control and they are not aloud by law to tell your parents anything. Hope I helped!
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well im 13 (white) and this 15 year old (black)..likes me and a lot i guess. i dont no what to do, im not racist but i dont want to hurt his feelings..ive never been in a situation like this b4..please help (link)
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I think that if you like him you should give him a chance no matter what his race may be. If you dont like him just tell him how you feel and that you dont feel the same way as he does or that you dont want a relationship right now and you just want to be friends :)
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Alright here we go....I was with this girl for almost three years off and on though and then i ended up dumpping her for a girl i shouldn't have...After a few weeks i realized that i was stupid and wanted her back...When i tried though she had another man but started to hang out and do wut we did before(she was cheating on him with me) but then she would go see him....This went on for awhile and she was talking about dumpping him but then she would always end up with him at his house....now she tells me she is afraid i'll do it again to her and that she doesn't want to hurt him so she is letting me go...Wut should i do??? lol(I might be in love with shorty lol) (link)
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Well darling i think that you and your x will always have feeling for each other because you both i think are the 1st people you both loved. But it seems like she has moved on and that is something that you are just going to have to deal with because you screwed up. If you guys were meant to be together then it will happen dont you worry, if you want to be with her then you need to do things to prove to her that you wont screw up again.. BUT let me tell you this lol if you are in love with my gorgeous cousin and you hurt her dear little hurt i will drive all the way up there and kick your little kester.. so you make the right decision :) glad i could help you once again
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Well brandy this is your beautiful cuzion Adrienne and well there is this boy who has always been there for and talks to me all the time and he can be super cute and well the problem is he is like 18 and like we tell each other we luv each other all the time and like we always joking around bout each other and how should i feel about us should i take it more as friends or should i jump on top of him and hump his leg and hold him down and make out with him in the middle of school i really need your help withi this one (link)
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Well beautiful.. what I would do is have him to your house one afternoon and when he is least suspecting it just jump on top of him and kiss him and maybe if he is lucky you can hump his leg too.. dont go to far though cause i want to ride around with you in that car lol. BUT if you like being single and you do not want to have a boyfriend then you should just be friends with him for now im sure he will understand and wait for you. It seems though that you and him both have a crush on each other. Maybe you need to go out sometime. lol and give me all the details im so glad that i could help you out I Love you dear!
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ok im 17 f ny anyways Every winter on wednesdays i hae ski club after school ....go snowboarding and what not and anyways i called a babysitting ad in the paper because right now I work at a hotel and can onli work weekends because of school and the hours so I wanted more money and I love kids....I love babysitting so anyways the lady called and said the babysitting job is on tues wed thurs after school for a 2 yr old boy which i think woud be super fun ...shes paying about 3 dollars and hour but ifi babysit i cant go boarding on wednesday i can still go on weekends and stuff but i dont kno what to do (link)
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I would take the babysitting job.. you would be making a lot more moeny that im sure you need for alot of other things and you always can board on the weekends so you still have time for fun
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Lately I've noticed that my feet are very calloused and dry. I took a pumice stone to the callouses and it worked pretty good. However, the wrinkles on my heels are white...like they are cracking. If you feel them, they are smooth. Any idea what this is? I've soaked and scrubbed and as far as I know it's dry skin. Any ideas on how to make it go away? (link)
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The only thing that i can think of is athletes foot.. you can but a lot of powders and what not for it in drug stores and stuff. If they do no help if you go to your doctor i am sure he can help you.
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There is this guy that I have known since th beginning of the year and we have a class together. This weekend we were on a school trip thing. On the way home, this guy told me that he liked me. I had already figured that out beacuse he was sitting there stroking my hand and holding it. But the thing is, I DON'T like him. I am in love with some one else. And this guy knows it, but he keeps going on holding my hand. What should I tell him? How should I tell him that I'm not interested in him like that? Thanks in advance.
Signed,
Unsure and Torn (link)
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Dear Unsure and Torn,
You should tell him that you like somoene else and maybe if things do not work out with this other person there might be a chance for him.. Let him down easy and try not to hurt his feelings but if he does not get the picture you might have to hurt them. When your with him try to have your hands in places where he cant hold them.
-Brandy
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I'm a 14 year old girl and i have a guy problem. ok I have been liking this guy for a little over a year now, and he likes me too but we havent dated. he said he is scared he is going to hurt me again but not on purpose, and I dont deserve that, I deserve better. but he said he really likes me a lot, but idk why he cant just ask me to date him. WE'll never know unless we try, can you help?! (link)
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It sounds like he has some trouble keeping a girlfriend and he probably really does not want to hurt you. But if you are willing to take the risk of getting hurt then you need to tell him that you are prepared to get hurt and if it happens so be it that would be your fault right? Just tell him how you feel, what could go wrong? If you run into problems along they way tell him you still want to be really good friends. :) Hope I helped
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I broke up with my boyfriend Saturday. I thought I only liked him as a friend, but now that I am without him, I realise I really miss him and like him. I think since we barely hang out, I started liking him less. He cried when we broke up. I hope he doesn't hate me. I am going to talk to him tomorrow if I see him before he goes to practice. I want to go back out with him. I was PMSing, so I guess that screwed up with my emotions. What should I say to him to clear this all up and so we can get back together? I'm really bad at doing this, but I want this to work out. Help..can you give me an example on what to say? (link)
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Just tell him the truth and try to be genuine about it.. Tell him that you messed up and you want him back and how much you miss him. You need to tell him how you feel or all your emotions are goin to get screwed up more. If he liked youe enough that he cryed when you broke up then he must really like you so i dont think you will have any problem gettin him back.. let me know how things turn out Good Luck!
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Yes um do i need to be scared of the raging adalessant teenagers at ho downs? I heard theres a couple...LESBIANS there...If this is true please quack like a duck 12 times and say mo mo mo i like to eat a shoe...thank you! (link)
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quack quack quack quack quack quack quack quack quack quack quack quack mo mo mo i like to eat a shoe. There are DEFINATLEY lesbians at hoe downs that wear flannel shirts and have big foreheads.. Id just stay away from those hoe downs and go to some ***** boppin clubs.. its safer there.
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how do you get over a guy you really like and think that you love? (link)
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It is really hard to get over somone who you really like and may love but what i would suggest is to hang out with your friends and meet new people, they always make me forget about my problems. If you and this guy are meant to be together it will happen in good time
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I'm in love with your cousin but i don't think i have a chance in hell....What do you think i should do? (link)
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Well Lee lol.. my beautiful cousin is just coming out of a long term relationship so she does not want a boyfriend for a very long time. What i would suggest is to just keep talkin to her as a friend and maybe someday it will go somewhere... :) Happy to help yah!
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Can you get pregnant from pre-cum? (link)
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Yup you can.. use a condom :)
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im 16 and i havent had a period since febuary this year..i dont know why when i was three months late i took a pregnancy test but it was negative..at the same time i lost my virginaty when i got drunk could that be the reaosn why?i dont want to go to the docters cos my mum wll find out she a frend of the docter,i cant tell school cos my mum will find out.i dont want to tell my mum coz she wud be so hurt that i hadnt told her...plese reply quick.. (link)
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Try taking another pregnancy test but it doesnt sound like you are pregnant but to be sure go to a planned parenthood. they are not aloud to tell your parents anything that happens there. I think though if you were pregnant you were start to show by now Good Luck!
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my boy friend and i recently broke up .. because i was mad at him.. so he dumped me.. and i no i dhouldnt feel upset.. but i do.. how do i cheer myself up. kas it doesnt feel like anything has changed.. it feels like we r still goin out. how do i get over it? (link)
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Get together with a bunch of your girl friends and just have fun!! It always works to get your mind off of things when a guy breaks up with you and if you have fun friends then youll forget all about him in no time :)
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