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Hey yall im in need of help. I cant explain how i feel fo my friend riana. but i cant stand when people talk bad bout her.plz help and tell me whats goin on i think im in love. but i dont know if she likes me.what should i do. (link)
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Stick up for her. Drop hints. Spend more time with her. She'll get the hint.
~Nokomis~
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I got a ab lounger about a month ago and I was wondering if there is anyone that has had theres for awhile and could give me tips and things on using it. Did it work for you? (link)
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Oblinques (stretching diagonal) really helps. Also dont use your neck or arms, just your stomach. Obliques help me the most.
~Nokomis~
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ok well im a little overweight and when i wear tight shirts you can see my stomach ... so my question is, is there ANYTHING i can do to temporaraly make your stomach flatter. i thought of duck tape but that would hurt like a mother but i want to wear a cute outfit tomorrow but it is pretty tight on me. but i am going to work out every day after school and tonight so PLEASEEE answer ASAP!!!! thank you in advance and i will rate 5s to almost anyone :) but i need your help cause even my mom calls me fat
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chubby lil me
pS i asked this before and you deleted it but please dont this time i really need some answers and this is not a joke question (link)
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First off dark colors make you appear to be thinner, Second why must you wear tight shirts to be cute? You can wear something cute that is not skin tight. Avoid horizontal stripes and be happy with yourself the way you are. I'm chubby too but this always helps me.
~Nokomis~
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I give up. I dont deserve gods love. I am not worthy enough for it. He gives me a gift and i dont use it. I fail one class, i am a porn addict. I give up i dont deserve god anymore. I dont even deserve to live, i, i really dont care. i am not good enough. I am not as loyal to him as i should be. i dont deserve him at all. im done. Please give advice or a way to end it all (link)
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God is all knowing,all loving, all forgiving. Everyone deserves God's love.
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i like this guy and he likes me but today was weird cause i got something on my shirt and he wanted me to take it off. and then he put his hand almost all the way up my shirt. what does this mean?! he did that so i pulled on his boxes and i think he liked it. this is definitely flirting i know it! (link)
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I have to agree with her that it is groping. Its a free feel, don't let him do that to you.
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It seems that I am somewhat different. By this I mean that I am quite mature for my age, and am very outgoing spontaneous person. I am somehow taken granted for by the people around me who I give advice to and listen to their problems. Who am I to turn to when my whole life is falling apart? Basically, what I am trying to say is; How come no one notices I am dying on the inside? Also, why do people blow me off when I am trying to help? Just please come up with something to somehow help...
(I am 14 and Female) (link)
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Don't let them take advantage of you. Don't be bitter. Don't be sarcastic. Everyone is concerned about what they want. Speak up for yourself. People, friends in general, usually won't listen to a friends advice because they are too close to you. Thats why they blow it off.
~Nokomis~
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okay i have HORRIBLE mensrtual cramps and i got my period just last night and i ended up going to the emergancy room because of the pain, i threw up and everything. i got home and i felt better and i took a nap but i woke up in pain again ive already takin every medicine that i can...please help :( how do i get rid of the EXCRUSIATING cramps?!?!? (link)
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I think you need to go see a gynocologist. That would be the only way to find out why you have these cramps. If there is a problem with that, like your mom won't take you, Send me a private message.
~Nokomis~
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Okay! I am trying to lose weight.I am about 5'6 and between 128-130 lbs it varys.I am not fat at all, all my friends think Im skinny but I have curves.Like just a lil bit of love handles on my sides. But people tell me its good to have curves so that I am not as skinny as an ironing board.I have always had weight issues in the past but I used to be way smaller.I want to get down to atlest 115-120. How can I do it? I dont eat junk food or even drink alot of soda.I drink maybe 1 soda a week at the most. What are good diet foods. Today I ate a potato at skool, because our lunch has potato bar and I put like a half a spoon of cheese on it. Is that too fattie to eat. Please help me. It makes me sick the way I look, Sometimes I break down and cry over it.It makes me very depressed!I rate 5's.
*samantha (link)
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You don't need to lose weight, people are not made to be that thin. Guys don't like really thin girls, they think they will break. So who are you doing it for? You or unrealistic media?
~Nokomis~
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Last weekend my mom walked in on me and my boyfriend. All week, she hasn't said 2 words to me... except when she yells at me or wants to give me an attitude about a chore I didnt do or forgetting to call her to tell her I was out. I've been trying to make small talk with her about stupid stuff like dinner or the weather but she just gives me short answers. I dont want to bring up what happened at all but I do want her to talk to me! Please help me out, I'd appreciate it so much. Thank you! (link)
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You have to bring it up and talk about it. You have to get it out in the open. Things like this can't wait. She is just shocked. Talking about it will make you feel better.
~Nokomis~
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when i go to dances and grind with boys i don't really know what to do. i feel awkward doing it. what is the girl supposed to do while grinding? please help me this is so embarassing! i rate good for anything! (link)
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Just go for it, don't think about it. You have to feel it.
~Nokomis~
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I was supposed to babysit tomorrow ,but my boyfriend's basketball game got cancelled today and resceduled for tomorrow ... at the same time that I have to babysit. The woman that I babysit for doesn't think going to his games is a good excuse to cancel ( I know this from past experiences). So I need some help thinking up a good excuse to cancel on such short notice. I know this is very wrong but I really need the advice... Fast! Thank u so much... I rate high! (link)
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Tell her your mother or father would really like you to go somewhere with them, she can't refuse. Ask your mom to cover for you, wouldn't she do it? If she talks to her then your mom will know and play along.
~Nokomis~
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hey everyone--- sorry this is soo long...
well there's these two girls brit and breanna that keep bothering me.. and well i told my friend kim that breanna does drugs.. and well breanna told me.. so i thought it was true... and it wasn't so now brit and breanna keep saying all these mean things to me.. what should i do about it? (link)
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Gossip sucks, it would be best to appologize. Tell her that you honestly thought it was true.
~Nokomis~
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ok i know this one girl who ive known since last year we sat at the same lunch table, then this year we have spanish together..were not close but we do talk here and there. she went out with guy danny whos in 11th grade and they recently broke up after 6 months or so. my other friend had met him in a chat and they talk and so on, and anyways we were going to the mall on saturday and so we went. we come back and shes at my house waiting for her mom to pick her up so were talking to him on-line n seemed nice. so after she left we started talking and all, i seem a lil into him i dk, i saw him be4 like once or twice with the girl who went out with him. i just found out that he was in my lunch last sem and all so i kinda knew who he wasnt, i just never saw him only the back or something when the 2 were leavin the caf. i dont know if hes into me or something i never actually met him or anything, but im affaird to accept if he ever asks me out since i have friends who were friends with who he went out with, plus i also know her as well. then today my other friend who was over my house saturday night says she was confused and i asked why and she said bc she "bc i have a bf and i also like danny a lil" and i said "o0o the one from other night on-line?" and she said "yeah" and i just went "o0o" and she asked "y?" and i just said "j/w" and now i dk what to do, bc i dont want to hurt either of them if he ever asks me, which i know he would never do ask me but u never know.
-o n my friend moved so she doesnt go to our school anymore, though i am...i also dk about his ex who im some what friends with who does go to our school..thx
~i know its long n a lil confusing sry
(btw he is in 11th (which i meantioned) and me n the 2 girls r in 9th)
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1- should i go with him if i have a chance?
2- wut do i do with the ex whom im some what friends with?
3- what do i do with my friend who has a bf but also likes him? (link)
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Honestly, I wouldn't go out with him because you obviously care about your friends, if you didn't you wouldn't be concerned. You can still talk to his ex. If you do end up dating that guy, I wouldn't necessarily mention it around her. She shouldn't like someone other than who she is dating. Why do people date just to be attatched to someone? If she thinks she may be in love with her boyfriend she wouldn't be thinking that way about another person.
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is it right for a 15 year old to date a 19 year old? (link)
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I don't see why not, just be careful.
~Nokomis~
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I have a friend that ive known for several years. She lives a very long distance away from me and theres nothing i can do physcially for her. Her father makes her have sex with him on a nightly basis. Is there any way i can help her get help. Shes afraid of going against him, because he is paying for her college and everything. I love her to death. What can i do? (link)
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Tell her mother, Tell your guidance counselor, You have to keep trying! She can get a scholarship or something. Tell her that it is not right for her to go through that shit.
~Nokomis~
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Oh my goodness okay well i havent had my period in about 40 days and i thought that maybe i just skipped a month. I have my first boyfriend right now and we're really close and we were on a vacation thing together..we didnt do anything sexual AT ALL and my mom just asked me if i was pregnant!! and now im terrified because i dont know why im so late and i thought i just skipped a month but i guess not..im definetely not pregnant but my mother scared me and now im really worried! please..could someone please give me a reaosn why my period could be so late? (link)
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for the first 2 to 4 years of your menstrual cycle, it may be irregular. Or maybe it was a very light period you didn't even notice.
~Nokomis~
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i'm 15/f and have an amazing boyfriend. i love being around him and and doing things with him sexually, but for some reason i don't want to make out. like, he's a really good kisser but i just don't like it. he wants to make out and doesn't understand why i don't. if anyone has any thoughts or ideas as to why this is i'd really appreciate hearing what you have to say! (link)
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Not everyone likes to sit and suck face for ever! Some people think a kiss should be short and sweet. Its all in preference. Just explain it to him.
~Nokomis~
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I think I have depression. I've read about symptoms, and I have almost all of them. I've been feeling like this for about 4-5 months now. My dad has depression and I think it runs in his family. But I don't know how to tell anyone. I'm really shy, and I don't think anyone will believe me because I act happy around people even when I feel like dying, if I need to cry then I won't do it when there are people around. If I tell my mum she'll probably say I'm just feeling down or something. I don't know where I can find a counsellor and I'd probably have to tell my mum where I was going if I did. I'd find talking to someone horrible because I feel sick when I talk to people I don't know. I also think I have social anxiety but I don't know what to do about that either. What should I do about this depression problem because I don't know how to tell someone. Sorry this is so long, thanks :) (link)
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I used to be the same! I am taking zoloft now. Talk to your school giudance counsler or you have to talk to your mom or dad. Feeling like that is no good, even witht a fake smile its no good. Your parents can probably tell.
~Nokomis~
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ok i have a gf i asked her out and she said yes so we talk on the phone and i see her at school. we didnt want any one to know but now we dont know what to do i also was wondering if i should take her some where and where like the movies or dairy queen.{im 13 male shes 13 also}some people know and some dont i love her and she love me so what do i do??? and she doesnt have any one to take her any where and her arents dont know she is going out what do i do???
take her out and where?
tell every one or keep it a secrete? (link)
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Well first off, don't tell everyone, you can tell some people but if you tell the whole school, it will sound like gossip and it may upset her. As for rides to places, do you have a sister or brother? They may be able to drive you. Are you within walking distance of anywhere? Movies are always a good place to hang out, Dairy queen is good some people like malls or parks, somepeople like to go to the library to hang out. As for a date I would stick with a movie, pick something fun for both of you or go somewhere she wants to go.
~Nokomis~
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ive never had a boyfriend over valentine's day and i really want one this year. but im not sure if any one likes me. is there any thing i can do to try and get a guy to like me??? im so confused on what to do. (link)
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Why must you have one over valentines day? People miss the real meaning of a relationship. Don't date just to date, as I told someone else, people will respect you more if you wait until you find someone you really click with.
~Nokomis~
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