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Hey I am Nicole and I love giving advice. I am great at giving advice about your love life and pretty much anything else. If you ever need a helping hand or feel like you just need to talk to someone I will always be willing to help out.
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i have really bad breath, people can smell it for like 2 metres. what is wrong with me? i eat healthy, try to floss, use mouth wash and clean my teeth but it doesnt work! What could be causing this and how do i stop it? :(
The same thing happened to my sister a few months ago. So she went to her dentist and he told her it is probably because she drinks a lot of milk so he told her to wash her mouth everyday with listerene maybe you should try that.
Ok. my bf and i have been together for over a year. and well, now that we've gotten so close he's started to let his manners and thoughtfulness slide. example: the other day i was asking him to take me out for dinner to celebrate how long we've been together, and he just blew me off and told me i wasnt that important and we could just eat sandwiches at home. and i have an inclination that he might be cheating. i was looking at his text messages the other day, and some girl ( im not going to say her name) has been texting him talking about her sexual desires with him. and when i confronted him about it he slapped me and told me i was a nosy bitch. ugh i know i should dump him and move on, but i really and truly care for him. he's the first boyfriend i've ever had that i've actually loved.
what should i do?
dump him dump him dump him!Dont ever ever let any guy hit you or treat you badly. If you stay with him it will just be like you told him hey you hit me once you can do it again.if this guy truely loved you it would have never even crossed his mind to hit you. If you continue with this relationship it will only bring you harm. You are young and have our whole life ahead of you don't waste your time with him. I am sure that you are a beatiful girl that any guy would love to date. He is certainly not going to be your only boyfriend you are going to have. There are man fish in the sea. Please please listen to what I am telling you.
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ok. i have a crush on this guy but i'm really shy i don't know what to say to him so i never talk to him. two months ago i had my friend set up an "interview" with him so i could find out what he likes. he found out the real reason behind the interview and now he just ignores me. i don't know why. why do you think he ignores me? what should i do?. i asked if he was mad at me and he said no. and it sounds weird because i'm not dating him or anything. but he's really close with one of my old friends he always sits next to her and talks to her and touches her and has her give him bak rubs. is it ok if i'm jealous about this? i probably shouldn't i don't own him or anything. but i can't help it. am i wrong to feel this way? please help me i feel so helpless
He is probably mad at you ( yes he is mad even though he says he is not) becuase you didn't talk to him in person. Most guys hate it when girls send other girls to tell them oh so and so likes you. It is ok to me jealous i'm mean you can control your feelings but try your best not to get jealous and or mad at our freind it is not her fault. Hope my advice helped.
Theres a guy at my school who likes me hes not the best looking but hes ok hes a little cute hes muscular but not to much and hes a really nice guy. The types i like are goths emos and skaters but hes neither a while ago his friends who are my friends too told me he likes me hes my friend now and now my admirer is used to talking to me i can tell he still likes me and yea he even tries to show off how strong he is and tries to be funny.....So should i give him a chance?
Yes you should g e him a chance. Even if he isn't the type of guys you like he can still be really great. I'm a sure that if you give him a chance he will treat you great and things will turn out between out guys. Trust me when I say this I once had a chance with a awesome guy but I was dumb enough to say no. Then when I say him with another girl I realized I liked him but I was to late. Don't let this happen to you.
So I went out with someone a little over a week ago...and he hasn't really talked to me ever since...in fact, I think he's ignoring me almost completely. I think maybe I did something wrong...should I confront him about it?
Yes you should confront him. Maybe something happened in his life that you don know about. What ever it is confront him and ask him why he is ignoring you. After you confront him you will know what to do dependig on what he says. Hope my advice helped.
at parties how do i get guys to want to dance with me? yuh know like when they want to get a girl to dance with them they just go behind her and start dancing .. well they dont do that to me and then there dancing with my friends and im dancing alone how do i change that
There are three simple things you can do to attract guys. One be confident in yourself ,stand up straight ,belive in yourself. Guys do not want to be with a girl that dosn't beleive in herself. Two try to flirit so then the guy or guys will know that you are into them. Three be yourself guys don't like girls that are fake. I hope my advice helped you out. :)
how do you deal with people that constantly need/want attention. Not in a desperate way but people that always like to be the center of attention and talk a lot and always need to have everyone listen to them? i am pretty but i dont talk about it or emphasize it so much but I do have this new friend who is really pretty too and she just likes all this attentions and is always getting it and talking about herself and stuff. idk how to deal with it???
I know what you are going through because the same thing happened to me last year. You can try talking to your new freind, tell her how you feel. What I did las year is I talked to my friends and since she didnt really pay much attention to what I said I tried my best to not mind it. I'm am just wondering does it bother out that she wants to get attention? If you do I am very sooryto say that there is no really much oh can do to change hersince youcant change how people act and think. I hope my advice helped you out.
ok so theres this amazing guy i like and i think he might like me 2 but im so bad at these kind of things idk what to do.everytime i see him i get anxious and melt. He looks st me at nutriion and one walked to our classes together. he talked to me the other night over facebook and said he would try to make the football game ..bascially for me. i couldnt go becuase i was grounded. now im so scared to say hi on facebook. Everytime im about to he signs off.(my luck right?) well he always looks at me when i pass by and my friends think he likes me. He asked if i had my texting bak yet. but i said no. his friend kept look at me te entire break one day and i wondering why. Im realyy freaking out because i dont know if he likes me and everybody says he does...should i maybe give him more hints or anything..pleaze hep im desperate..
my advice to you is yea to try to give him more signs.it looks like to me that he likes you. Try smiling at him and fliriting with him. So he can know you are also interested. Hope my advice helped you.
To sum it up my whole high school career I experienced love. My first love and then the one who stole it.I was with both guys for roughly a year and a half each. The 2nd guy and I ended a little over a year ago and that was still the last time I had real feelings for someone. I've never experienced such a harsh and hurtful breakup as I did with him, not even when I had to break the heart of my very first love. Now this 2nd guy still crosses my mind especially on my lonely days. He hasn't spoken to me since we broke up a year ago. Sometimes I get scared that I won't be able to find someone to fill this hole. I'm 19 and finally living the single life which I haven't really gotten to experience growing up. There has been hopefuls, people who start falling for me, but I just can't. I can't find the right person to fall for. Recently I've been more into checking girls out rather than guys and its making me so confused. I think I've just been feeling so alone this past year and getting so sick of these boys that I want to be open minded over who I fall in love with. I've been feeling more spark in me over girls then I do in boys. I don't know whats going on with me.
My adivice to you is that you have your whole life ahead of you and this guy is defintalty not going to be in your heart forever. Give your self sometime to see if what you are feeling for girls is true or just a state of confusion. I hope my advice helped you out.
Ok this year for some reason i can't talk to girls and im 14 and a guy. Ive had 1 gf and that lasted a week. We txt each other alot well sorta but tahts about it. I would talk to her sometimes at school but not more than 2 min topps and i would hug her thats it.
Any Advice what i could do or what might b wrong kuz its annoying me.
First of all you should be cofident in yourself. true me I'm a girl and some girls dmt want to shel when they like a guy ( I'm like that sometimes) just walk up to her and talk to her give her a compliment girls love a romantic guy. Also try to be fun y just dot over do it it can get annoying. I'm sure that if this girl gets to know you better she will see what a great person you are. :) I hope my advice helped.
ok so he is 18 and I am 16 his name is jake.
We have been dating for 7 and a half months and we feel like we are in love. I know its teen age love but never the less we call it love. We dudnt fight untill we were together for about 3 or 4 months and we were fighting because we never got to spend privet time together and everything was done when he wanted it. we hung out when he wanted and we talked when he wanted and he wouldnt even call me unless he felt like it. Dont get me wrong we always text but its nice to get a call. well latly the fights have gotten worse and it has almost got us to brake up I want time to myself but I want him too idk what to do I love him and wont dump him, I am afraid to lose him because all my friends like like him. I am scared that one day we will fight and it will be the end.
First of all you should not care what you friends think if you like him you should be with him and if not well then don't. Also if you guys are truely in love and are ment for each other destiny will keep you guys together. To me it semms like you guys are growing apart. Try taking to I'm in person not by my phone or text. Trust me talking to people in person is better. I truely hope my advice helped you.
What would you do if you know that this guy likes you and he is the GAYEST guy on earth and you HATE him?!?!
By the way: that guy keeps on asking about my feelings and talks to me...asks me personal questions which r none of his business.
my adobe to you is to first of all try I not me mean to him. E flattered that he likes you and if his questions get to perso al tell him you rather mo talk about that and/or change the subject. Hope my advice helped you out. Btw this has happened to me before the guy slowly to over me.
my sister went to the hospital last night becouse her back and her stomack was hurting her really badly and the doctor at the hospital said that she had cists on both of her overies and that they could be cancer and I don't know what to do iam really worried some thoughts of encourgement or advice would be helpful if you have any it would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you I greatly appreciate it.
I know what oyu are goig though my sister kept haimg really dealt bad migranes and the doctor said it could me a tumor but everything turned out fine. I'm sure it will be the same for you. The best thing you can do right now is support and mcourge your sister she needs you to be there for her. I hope my advce helped you.
okay, so this year i ride the bus with this kid, peter right? and he's always like tickling me and touching me and playing with my hair and we're friends and stuff, but i don't know him that well at all so i wouldn't know if he's just a flirty guy or whatever. he's a sophomore and i'm a junior. no, that doesn't bother me, but that's the reason i can't tell if he's just a flirty guy or not. we talk about everything on the bus. and i like having guy friends, so i always talk about my guy friends and funny stories from when people texted me that night. apparently he thought i had a boyfriend because i was doing a "group" dress up kind of thing for halloween right... and with a guy. i really like him, i flirt back, but he still doesn't text me. and if i text HIM sometimes he doesn't text back. it's so stupid!
anyways, last week he asked me this question: "okay hypothetic question. what if you really really like this girl, and she likes you. but she has a boyfriend? and she's a junior." and of course i totally thought he was talking about someone ELSE, not me. so of course, knowing my luck, and how jealous i was, i gave him this advice "if she's older than you, she probably just wants to hookup or maybe her boyfriend isn't paying attention to her or whatever?" and so that was that. he let it be. the next day he ignored me. the next day, he flirted with me again. the next day, this kid i sit next to on the bus, chris was like "so courtney... how's your boyfriend" and i was like..."i don't have one..." and then i could hear chris and peter having this conversation:
chris-"i thought she did"
peter-"she told me that" (i never did.)
later on that same day i asked chris why he thought i did, and chris said that peter told him that i said i had a boyfriend which is NOT true.
so, what do i do?
thanks in advance
I think tv best thing you can do is confront peter about it. If you ask other people about it they might just make things worse. Peter probably les like you but is to shy to ask you out or think you will say no necuase you are a junior. I hope my advice helped you put a little.
Okay so a year and a half ago I was raped by someone I have known since I was 9 I am now 20. Anyways when people start talking about rape or say rapist or anything sometimes the subject doesnt even have to come up, I start thinking about it and then get in this horrible depression. I am also diagnosed with bi-polar and attending college so it gets really stressful, to the point where I start feeling sucidal and thats not normal. I can't afford my medication i have talked to many counselours but this rape thing really bugs me sometimes, I thought I would be over it by now? Whats going on?
My advice to you I to not expect so much from yourself. What happened to you is very hard to get over. My advice to you is every day wake up with a positiv attitude. If out think negativley you will have a self fufilling prophicy. About the medications since you can't aford them my advice to you is to try takingto a friend or someoe in your family. People close to you can always chert you up and keep you aeu form sucidal thoughts. I hope that my advice helped.
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Been friends with my friend Sam since 1st grade. We have always been tight. Been friends with my friend Melanie since 5th grade. Sam, Melanie and I had always been great friends. When I decided to go to a different high school, Melanie stops talking to me, and keeps hanging out with Sam excluding me from all activites. I begin to resent Melanie, but am still friends with Sam. Not until recently I told Sam how I felt about Melanie... bad idea. After hanging out with Sam almost every weekend (Melanie being there as well but not talking to me and I not talking to her) did not invited me to go out for mischief night. Hurt my feelings alot since I've been going out with them since freshman year. When I asked Sam why she did this she said something along the lines of "I couldnt invite you since you make it known that you don't like Melanie". hmm... I told her to call me. She texted me later that night at like 12 asking to talk and I said I was tired. Havent talked to her since. Word on the street is that she's ignoring me... even though I didnt do anything. What should I do? Give up on the friendship? I understand Sam feels stretched, but she shouldnt feel she has to choose. I know I dont make her feel like she does at all. I don't want to her call her up because everytime we get in a fight I'm chasing her for an apology. I wont do it this time. Please help... thanks.
Well my adive is to not give up onyour friendshrip. From what you wrote you three seemed very close. Don't let this silly fight ruin your relationship. Try not to resent melainie remener forgiveness is a key to life. I know you said you don't want to b the omw saying you are sorry and mabye you don't. Trying getting Sam melanie and you together so you guys can talk about what happened that you guys are growing apart. An also why it happened. My friends and I are very close and we always try to not let silly glfigjts break us up. Also don't listen to everything people say it might just be a rumor. She might not be trying to ignore you. Well hope my advice was of some help