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Okay so a year and a half ago I was raped by someone I have known since I was 9 I am now 20. Anyways when people start talking about rape or say rapist or anything sometimes the subject doesnt even have to come up, I start thinking about it and then get in this horrible depression. I am also diagnosed with bi-polar and attending college so it gets really stressful, to the point where I start feeling sucidal and thats not normal. I can't afford my medication i have talked to many counselours but this rape thing really bugs me sometimes, I thought I would be over it by now? Whats going on?
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You will never get over being raped, you will learn how to deal with it. there has to be a free clinic or health care facility in your area,try group therapy. i was also raped and i cant get over it, never will! try to let any feelings of guilt go, it is not your fault you didn't want it and thats how it should have been. you have a right to be sad because something personal was taken from you it was your rights,that little innerglow,trust and a whole lot more. your life is precious and you were put on this earth for a reason so stick around with the best of us and find some help, maybe one day you can help someone the same way. my heart goes out to you as well as my prayers.
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I was molested when I was 3 and sometimes I still have flashbacks even though I may not remember everything but whenever I start thinking why my dad did that to me I get depressed so I understand how you feel if you need somebody to talk to my email is rachel_strickland1989@yahoo.com so feel free to email me if you need somebody to talk to about your feelings.
I'll keep you in my prayeres.
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Look...it takes some people YEARS and YEARS to work through something as horrible as rape. You say you are attending college. Go to the Health Center or Counseling Center and get into therapy. Also, tell them you cannot afford your meds and see what options you may have, since you are a college student. You cannot handle this on your own or by yourself. Get help now. Good luck.
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K well rape is something that a lot of people cant seem to forget if they have been a victim of it so i totally understand but the point is you need to try to forget becsause the more you think of it the harder life will be for you try not to think about it when the topic comes up just take a deep breath and think about something good that happen in your life.Dont worry one day you will forget about it and be able to live happily :)
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My advice to you I to not expect so much from yourself. What happened to you is very hard to get over. My advice to you is every day wake up with a positiv attitude. If out think negativley you will have a self fufilling prophicy. About the medications since you can't aford them my advice to you is to try takingto a friend or someoe in your family. People close to you can always chert you up and keep you aeu form sucidal thoughts. I hope that my advice helped.
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