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Q: ive been in a relationship for 2 years now. at first everything was great, we even got engaged! since then hes been acting like a jerk! he hates my job and threatens to leave me if i dont quit,everytime we fight the first thing he does is tell me to find another place to live! he puts me down alot and he is getting more controlling. he seems to have little respect for me and when i confront him about it he just turns it around. im emotionally drained! is this the real him?
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If your questioning yourself about leaving him then you shoud, but only if it what you really want.
think about what it would be like without him and ask yourself if its what you want.
also ask yourself if this is the kind of guy you want to marry?
if you confronted him about it and he didnt seem like he cared then you do deserve better then him and you'll be better off without him.
i wish you the best
good luck
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Q: so my friends mike and drew invited me over tonight to hang out with them and this one other guy, but i'd be the only girl there. i'm afraid it'll be really awkward. like i'm friends with these guys, but idk, should i go?
15/f
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well they are your friend it wouldnt really matter if you were the only girl there.
i think you should go...
things wont be awkward just dont bring up "girl topic's" like your period or a really cute guy.
since there your friends act like you normally would around them.
Have fun!
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Q: How do you ask a girl to have sex with you?
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well you dont really ask, it should just naturally happen. usually one thing leads to another and it happens.
hang out with this girl and make the first move. you'll probley start making-out and then lay her down...
the rest will play out itself
=]
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Q: ok so im the only girl on our schools basketball team and im the biggest tomboy in our whole school actualy im the only one anyway my friend (who is a boy all of my friends are boys except one) and i were shopping for school suplies and he asked me out i was so nervise i said that i would think about it i dont really like him for more as a friend he is cute but i wouldnt date him i just want to know what to do can you guys help thanks
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well if you dont really like him then you shouldnt go out with him. the next time you talk to him just say "your really nice and everything but i just only think of you as a friend"
there isnt really anything else you can do. just say how you feel. dont force yourself into a relationship you dont want to be in.
Good Luck :]
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Q: Those of you who answered my first question, you helped a lot.Those of you who aren't familiar with what happened, read my other question.
Only now my nerves are getting the best of me.
I talked to Samantha yesterday......
Well last night....and TJ got on the phon and she was screaming "GET OFF THE PHONE"
I thought she'd killed someone haha just kidding. But she told me he wouldn't hang up the phone.
Anyway that's not the point.
I asked her if he really liked me and wrote that poem and she said yes, TJ wrote the poem and he likes you.
I doubt she'd lie as he was around.
Wel I finally told her I liked him too and now my stomach is in knots.
I probably won't see him til Monday and have no idea why I'm so nervous now....except well I don't know.
I guess because I had planned to say, " Well if he likes me and wants to know if I like im, he can ask me himself. ' But I was so nervous I barely got the words 'Yes I do.' out.
I really do not know what to do.
Any advice would help because I have no idea what to do! THANKS!
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Dont be scared. everyone gets those feelings.
it just makes you really like him. be yourself.
to be honest there isnt really anything you can do. Just be patient whats meant to be will happen so dont stress out about it. when you talk to other people, dont make it sound like a big deal. just be like "ya i like him" thats really all you have to do.
Good luck =]
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Q: Sorry it's long!
Okay well I'm a 13 f, turning 14 on Valentine's b-day (Yeah I know huh?!?)Well anyway, as you probably know I'm in 8th grade. Well on my bus they have this guy named TJ, he's like two years older then me or something. His sister and younger brothers ride the bus ( Samantha is 17, Johnathan is 14, and Matthew is like...10) I just met everyone this year, as I moved to Rayville from New Orleans..(Big change btw...big city to country)...and TJ has been sweet to me, only now he's protective and told me if any guy messes with me, tell him and he'd "whup their ass" Now to my knowledge he's told a few people that. But he started acting like a brother to me. I knew something was up after i was dropping his sis off at her house and he had his arm around my waist in a half hug and i didn't think much of it until when i moved, he didn't let go.
As it turns out, yesterday he missed school, and today because he's sick, and he gave his sister a note, she gave it to me...it was a poem. Really cute actually.
I freaked. I was like 'OMG TJ LIKES ME?!?!?!?' Then I decided to reason. 'Maybe he just wanted me to read a poem he wrote.' Stupid I know. But today Sam told me he does like me. I don't know what to do. I like him but, and I'm not one to care what people think because it's like 'I like him, I'm happy, screw you.' if they don't like who I date. He'd be my 2nd boyfriend...but i'm erasing my old one from memory lol!
I don't know what to do. People would definatley tease us, especially my friend Mitzi because she'd get all weird even though she has a boyfriend. I just need to know what to do. With TJ and my friends. I like him and he's really sweet but my ex was a total jerk and I'm having problems letting myself give enough trust for another boyfriend. I don't want to 'go out' with him and then hurt him by not giving him the trust he deserves.
HELP!!!!!
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im going through the same thing right now.
i know what you mean. its really hard to trust anyother person but you have to love/trust like you've never been hurt before. Dont let the pain your EX put you through get in the way because then it just slows you down and you might be missing out. You have to live every second of your life like it was your last.
but if you want to make sure that he wont hurt you. you have to tell him that you need to know if you can trust him. ask him this
"if we do get together how do i know your not gonna hurt me"
if he comes up with an answer that seems good to you then give him a chance
i hope i helped
good luck
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Q: i have hair on mys tomach and on my chest and breasts and back aand it drives me crazy because its dark because i have dark hair...but i dont want to wax it due to pain. and i don;t want to shave it or use nair because then it just grows back thicker and darker. am i able to bleach it?? and around how much would it be? i need to get rid of it or make it unoticable soon because i am to self concious about it and i would like to be able to wear a bikini in the summer without wearing a tank top over it! plz help
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Its more noticable to you then it is to other people but what seems to work is tanning. go to a danning booth. if you skin is darker then the hair is less noticable. (not too dark though) also what helps is when summer comes around lay out in the sun and put lemon juice on your body. i know it sounds weird but it makes your body hair lighter.
i hope i helped :]
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Q: ok I know your not supposed to...
But there is this guy that I like, and he is a year older than me. He is a really good guy but my parents dont want me to hang out with guys who are older even if it is a year.
My question is can someone help me on how to sneak out. Im on the first floor and have a window but I dont know what to do about the screen. I can take it out but how do i get it back in?
THANKS!
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well i wouldnt sneak out the window...
been there done that.. not good...
but i think that you should have your parents drop u and a friend off at the movie's and say your friends mom is going to pick the both of you up and your going to sleepover there.
and just have the guy come get you from the movies...
i hope i helped!!!
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Q: what could we do this friday thats like really fun! ok so i dont really want to ddo the mall thing or movies or go out to dinnner becuase we do that almost every weekend and we want something new to do.. we already though of a sleep over but ehh not so awesome! ya know? so i was wondering if anyone had any ideas on what we could do thats really fun???
were 16 if that helps anything :]
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~underaged club
~arcade
~bowling
~plan a party
~roller blading rinks
~swimming
~gym
~look for "teen night" at community centers
i hope i helped
good luck
=]
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Q: Which is it??
Short hair makes you look thinner, or, long hair makes you look thinner?
i remember hearing one of these, but i dont remember which it is. i'm planning on cutting my hair very short, and i'd like to know before i do.
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long hair makes you look thinner.
short hair usually makes all your facial feature bigger and depending on your body type it might make it look bigger too.
this might change depending on your features.
but usually thats what it does
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Q: how long, on adverage, does it take for a girl to come? is it possible that some girls cant come? i've had sex and such with guys, and never came. Of course, it could be that they weren't adequate in the sex department, but I just want to know if there's possibly something wrong with me.
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There isnt anything wrong with you...
it just takes a little more too please you.
alot of girl dont cum when they have sex.
its probley just because the guy didnt reach your highest climax.
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Q: Ok so, i have a boyfriend and i still talk to my ex-boyfriend. I was in a great reltionship with my ex, but then i couldn't see him for 4 months becasue of the Navy, and now he is gone for another. But my ex and i still love each other, but i aslo love my new boyfriend. But point being is, that i want to write a Pro and Con list. Like what i like about him and what i don't. But
WHAT QUESTIONS SHOULD I PUT ON THE LIST?
becasue i can't think of anything..
thank you..the questions is in cap's, just incase you missed it.lol
A long long long list with many idea/ questions would be very helpful..tahnks
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HERE ARE SOME QUESTIONS YOU COULD ASK HIM:::
~Physical Features:
who has better hair?
who is more clean?
who has a nicer stomach?
who is stronger?
~Personality Features:
who makes you laugh more?
who has a more romantic side?
when you dont see either of them who do you miss more?
whos still nice to you when your a totally bitch to them.
~Serious deep thinking questions:
if both of them were to be hurt at the same time and ended up in different hospitals, which one would you go visit?
Good Luck :]
i wish you the best!
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Q: I'm incredibly inexperienced.
The farthest I've gone is dry humping
but it's not even to the point of sex with clothes on.
It's just grinding.
I'd like things to move along
but I don't know how to do anything.
Will someone please explain
how to touch a guy with pants on?
Then what do I do
once his pants are off?
Thanks
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Well when he has pants on the only thing you can do is rub up on him.
say hes layin down on your bed. so sit on top of him and basically have dry sex but with rubbage.
soo you wanna give him a handjob?
well when he has his pants off and you go into touch his dick dont just slide your hands back a forth on him, i've been told by guys that they didnt like that from their past experiances.
soo instead when you give him a handjob you wanna kinda role your hands and smoothly touch the surface it. and grab it and role it around in your hands...and basically strock it.
good luck!
i hope i helped
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Q: ive been bisexual for as long as i can remeber and i reciantly moved adn ive been wonderin if i should tell my friends that im bi, but i really dont want them to be like omg your bi im not talkin to you any more. so whats your opinion for chics who are bi? do ya like em or hate em, what..... thx in advance
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i think you should tell your friends that you bi...
they have the right to know and if their not going to tlak to you because of that then they were never your real friends at all but if they really are your friends then they will except that fact and you guys will move on with your friendship.
whether or not you tell your friends, if you are going to tell them slowily slip it into the conversation dont flat out tell them because it could make things awkward
i personally dont mind if somebody's bi or not its not important to me. what truely matters is their personality.
hope i helped =]
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Q: Does it feel good when someone fingers you? Because my boyfriend wants to, but I'm scared that it wont feel good or it will hurt. What about after if he's fingers are wet? What does he do? I feel like an idiot for asking, but I really wanna know..
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yes it will feel good but only if he does it right.
and if his figers get wet then he should be happy because that means he plessured you.
and then he should wash his hands
have fun :]
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Q: Theres this guy and he always texts me in the morning saying things like "Good morning, cutie" and "Sweet dreams, beautiful." And in between texts we have conversations where hes always just throwing around beautiful and cutie and things like that. So my question is, what am I supposed to say back to that exactly? By the way, he likes me, and I like him. But I just dont knwo what to say to a guy when they say that... Also, hes kinda hot, but not like sexy. So any help?
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ok so you basically want him to know you appriciate it...
sooo when he says things like beautiful or cutie
and stuff just say
"awww... and then continue talking about what you were talking about"
and if you want to be flirtatious you can be like
"aww... thanks baby. or maybe "hey sexy"
just to flirt around
hope i helped =]
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Q: 17/f
im around the varsity hockey boys ALOT cuz i am one of their managers. and we had to go to an away game that was like an hour away so me and the other manager rode the coach bus with them. on the way up there we sat in the front with the coaches and one of the boys texted me and goes, you should come back here and entertain us, we can have fun. and then they were texting me "show me your boobs" and then one called me and was like your looking pretty sexy today. so i was like okay..there being goofs. and keep in mind alot of them have girlfriends.well then we were watching a little of the JV game and some of the boys came and sat by us and one of the boys was like ahhh im tired can i lay my head on you, and he was like always close to me but he has a girlfriend. and then on the way home the whole bus stopped at a fast food place and i got out and someone touched my butt and then we sat down and they all sat by us and were talking to us and one of the boys was like oh yeah some of the guys were talking about the gift that god gave you and i was like what? i dont get it..and the other one goes ohh her boobs. and i was like oh my godd but mine arent even that big there like a B! but anyways this is the most ive talked to all these boys, and i wanna keep talking to them in school and stuff, but i dont know what to do. do you think some of them are being serious about what they are saying? and then the boy that kept sitting by me came up by me and my friend towards the end and everyone was like OHHH YOU HAVE A GIRLFRIEND! they are all soo cute but it sucks that some of them have girlfriends. it was just such a good day. but i dont know what to think or do about all this.
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if you like the way they are treating you then just go with the flow!
its not your fault they have girlfriends
they are the one's that keep flirting with you.
but if you dont appriciate how they are treating you then dont hang out with them because of their disrespectful attitudes and their degrading minds.
good luck
and just follow your gut feeling on what you want to do.
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Q: i just have a general question,
if you like someone, and they acted out of their character or hurt you in some verbal way-(nothing harsh/racially offensive), would you stop liking them or would your feelings persist?
this is stupid question but it's just i've noticed how some let go very easily once they are slightly doubtful and others strongly believe in forgiving, what's the norm?
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well it usually depends on the situation a person puts you in and if you have room in your heart to forgive that person.
some people forgive because they still want to be with that person and they are willing to work past the flaws and they have faith in their relationship.
but
some people are not forgiving. that doesnt make them a bad person. its just that they have been very hurt and they dont want to take the chance of something bad happening again or they just dont want to be hurt again and they know that in the end that they both are better of apart.
i hope i helped
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Q: why is it that all the brunette jokes are about our boobs?
just because ours arent FAKE doesnt mean we dont have them.
what do you think?
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well im a brunette and i honestly i have big boobs and they arnt fake.
jokes are put into character and stereo types
you cant really do anything about it except for ignore it.
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Q: ive read many teen series and I'm looking for more.
here's a list of the ones ive read as reference
Gossip girl
the alist
the clique
private
the it girl
pretty little liars
The insiders
inside girl
ttyl, ttfn, l8r g8r
mates, dates
summer boys
I think that's all. Any suggestions?
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another series you could read is:::
Tears of a Tigar, Forged By Fire, darkness before dawn!
those books are really great and it keeps you interested throughout the whole book!
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bio
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My name is sara
i put my opinion into things.
i love helping people with their problems.
ask me whatever you want, and i will try my best to answer it
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Gender: Female Age: 18 AIM: Member Since: December 20, 2007 Answers: 123 Last Update: December 28, 2009 Visitors: 7597
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