I'm incredibly inexperienced.
The farthest I've gone is dry humping
but it's not even to the point of sex with clothes on.
It's just grinding.
I'd like things to move along
but I don't know how to do anything.
Will someone please explain
how to touch a guy with pants on?
soo you wanna give him a handjob?
well when he has his pants off and you go into touch his dick dont just slide your hands back a forth on him, i've been told by guys that they didnt like that from their past experiances.
soo instead when you give him a handjob you wanna kinda role your hands and smoothly touch the surface it. and grab it and role it around in your hands...and basically strock it.
AngelofMercy answered Wednesday January 2 2008, 1:19 pm: This may sound lame, but boy do I miss dry humping. I'm married with two children now, because I progressed from dry humping, and it just isn't the same. I know that younger people want to be treated like an adult and enjoy the adult privileges as well. I remember it for me, I couldn't wait to grow up. Now, I can't wait for time to reverse itself. Ok, sorry now on to your problem not mine ;)!
If I were you, I would let everything work out naturally. Don't force anything to happen, when you are truly ready, you will know what to do. It's in our survival instincts.
However, if this is not the right avenue you are wanting to go down, here is the other advice. When you are with him, just softly touch his body all over, slowly making your way down there. You could even slip your hand down his pants. Let your imagination go from there. I will say, at any time, if his penis is near your vaginal area, he needs to wear a condom. Sperm can be transmitted through pre-cum and also it doesn't have to be in you either. With practice and safe practice, you can enjoy your life and still not have to take care of any children. Good Luck! [ AngelofMercy's advice column | Ask AngelofMercy A Question ]
ilovelila answered Wednesday January 2 2008, 1:16 pm: A warning to other advicenators, explaining sexual techniques gets you banned. Please search google for "how to give a handjob". [ ilovelila's advice column | Ask ilovelila A Question ]
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