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getting rid of those sexual urges
i jack off to feel like someone loves me, and get rid of the wanting of sex...temporarily.
I can't seem to get any lately and its bothering me.
it sucks.
male-17
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theres nothing wrong with masturbation. but you did say that you "jack off to feel like someone loves me" which is actually good because it means your not just looking for 'action', you actually want someone to love you. like you're looking for affection. try getting a girlfriend. it sounds like thats what you need. find a nice girl that you really like and then you can have sex with her a lot but also get the love and attention it seems like you want.
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Not getting laid does suck. That being said, your post is not a question. Add some info if you actually want advice.
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I want sex too but mabey you should just try to get the girl in the mood. you know like watch porn er somethin'
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Sex is not everything. I am around your age and I've got to tell you that it will not solve all of your problems. Don't give into lust. Even though it is normal for a 17 year old to masturbate, it will not always make you feel loved. Just concentrate on something else, like your career (school) and love will come to you once fate has chosen it.
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There is nothing wrong with masterbation and at your age it is normal to be consumed with it. However, while orgasm gives a temporary euphoric experience and relieves pent up tensions of all sorts, it is not the answer to everything. Getting sex at your age is not something that is crucial to your sexual development or your future sexual prowess. Don't feel pressured by talk you hear, which is mostly stories and exaggerations and downright lies. You will learn to have more control over your mind and body as you mature, and seek stimulation and love through non-sexual avenues as well. All normal humans have sexual tension and sometimes this leads to sexual activity and release, but sometimes this energy can be put to other uses. Try getting daily exercise and physically defining yourself in other ways. Develop some new habits that do not include constantly feeding feelings of arousal...while sex is great, there is more to life inbetween orgasms. You will not be able to ignore your needs, but they will not control you if you begin to realize and care for your other human needs.
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